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It seems she is looser, could she be cheating?

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Question - (28 June 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i have this curious question about a vagina fart,I know that its caused by air being pushed from the penis,but is it mostly cause by a bigger penis,for example-I've been with the mother of my kids for 18yrs. And I don't know if because she gave birth to 3 of my kids it seems looser than other times,I feel that she's having sex behind my back with a bigger penis cus like i said its looser n the vagina farts r louder,is that a possibility.....

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (29 June 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt I say you must be a lucky guy. If you have time to worry about something like this, obviously you don't have any more pressing or serious concerns in your life.

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A male reader, serenity80 United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2011):

I wanted to add to all the female answers that I agree with them. I hope you haven't been giving her a bad time over this.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (28 June 2011):

chigirl agony auntThe things you mention are not at all related to infidelity. Her body has changed, and these things happen.

If this is what you're building your suspicion on I say you are overly suspicious and paranoid. Try to see things from a realistic point of view instead and see how delusional this theory of yours is.

Vaginal farts is caused by air in the vagina, and this air can get there if she as much as moves in a certain way, with no penis involved.

As for the vagina of a woman who has given birth 3 times, I hardly think there'd be any difference in feel if she had sex with a guy with a big penis or small penis.

If she's cheating, she might as well be doing with a guy with a smaller penis... your evidence is no evidence at all either way.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (28 June 2011):

YouWish agony auntOkay, a looser vagina does not mean that she's cheating. She gave birth to 3 kids. Those things rip perineums, and you have entire 6-8 pound babies being birthed over and over.

Not to mention that if she was 16 when you two met, she's grown some. I bet your nose is bigger than it was when you were 16.

She's not cheating on you. You are shoving air into her vagina when you have sex with her. If something like cheating really could cause a looser vagina, she's have a massive vagina due to the births. However, she doesn't.

If it's an issue, she could see a doctor and have some things done to tighten her up. But she is NOT cheating if that's your only sign of it. Not in the slightest. Think of her looseness as a sign of your virility and masculinity. I assume that you're a well-endowed guy? ;)

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2011):

i don.t think you would be able to tell if she was cheating by this maybe she seems looser and the noises are louder because of diffrent positions maybe?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 June 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou can't deduce infidelity by the symptoms you gave. And aren't you a little old to be asking a question like this? I mean come on man

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