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male
age
36-40,
*lex_mar
writes:I think my good friend is in love with my fiance for a number of reasons :1. We went out as a group for her birthday and he bought her drinks and they were talking most of the night ( they both speak french) then when it came to leaving and going to a hotel for the night he said to her ' your nothing special ,' They argued ( they were both drunk ) and the next morning he called and apologized many times and she put it down to him having to much to drink . 2. He's always asking me how she is and when I say ohh she's interning at a hospital he presses me for more detail .3. When we all studied together I caught him staring at her when she looked up he quickly looked away.4, At a friends birthday meal he started 'examining' her bracelets and basically held her wrist as he moved them and she politely moved her arm away . I need help as I don't know what to do and how to go about dealing with this as me and my fiancee have the same group of friends . Thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 Well it does sound from what you have wrote that he is interested in her. But if he is a good friend well then am pretty sure he wont act on his feelings. However if it is bothering you I guess the only thing that you can do is have a chat with him and tell him what you have noticed. Don't try and accuse him of anything just have a nice little talk with him and ask him if your suspicions are true. Just ask him how he feels and see how the conversation goes. Have you spoke to your fiancée about how you feel, and if you have what was her response? She is marrying you so I really don't think that you have anything to worry about. As long as you trust her well then you should be OK.
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