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anonymous
writes:I am seeing my x boyfriend from 15yrs ago. He is married now with 2kids. We talk every day and he knows I'm totally in love with him. So we meet a couple of times a week and we mess around only but he refuses to kiss me or spend more than an hour with me. I'm very confused because I'm truly in love with him and he only says he cares about me. I know what to do but I can't because I love him and he's all I ever think about. I need advise because I also feel like a free prostitute. Help!,
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (18 June 2011):
 Next time he shows up tell him to put some money on the table first, that should clue him in and than throw him out.
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reader, G_S +, writes (18 June 2011):
Yes, this is very sad. You are pining for him and hoping he will one day leave his family for you. Unfortunately, he doesn't really love you. He doesn't even kiss you ever? That is a sure sign. Only spends an hour with you... I'm sorry to say that he is just taking advantage of you and using you for sex. Cut off all contact ASAP, as hard as that will be for you. He is cheating on his wife, jeopardizing his kids well-being, and most of all he is NOT worthy of you. Your heart is already breaking, so stop letting him hurt you. You've got lots of life and love to share with someone else! There are plenty of better men to share your life with, so get started down that journey!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (18 June 2011):
 He is seeing you because you meet a need of exciting sex.
He has told you all you need to know. He is MARRIED. He cares for you, and refused to kiss.
Kissing is a sign of emotional intimacy. He limits his time with you.
After sex, does he cuddle? I am guessing he probably does not.
So, why allow yourself to be used?
Love yourself more than him.
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reader, freeme +, writes (18 June 2011):
 This sounds like a very bad situation. I think you need to stop this cold turkey. It really sounds to me like he is using you, and you are going to get your heart broken. Call it off before he does so you can maintain some self dignity.
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