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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for coming up 18 months next sunday, now last weekend he got incredibly intoxicated and told me he tried to kiss one of his best friends, now the girl in question i do not like atall she makes me feel very uncomfortable and i was right to feel like that. I know technically he hasnt cheated on me however he has kept it hidden from me for the past six months i feel really betrayed and stupid and angry especially since he gave me such a hard time over this guy i was friends with. He also promised me that he would stop drinking till at least the end of this month and now its not even been a week and hes gone out drinking with his friends i cant trust him anymore with anything i feel like he doesnt respect or take me seriously enough he thinks that he can keep doing this to me and thinks i will just take him back.Im beginning to think that with without trust whats the point in this relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011): You are right. It is better to see the truth now and get out before it gets any worse. I believe that although alcohol reduces inhibitions, it also is a truth serum. In my opinion this shows that he is attracted to her. Also if he can't stop drinking even for a week that is a sign of alcoholism. If you already are not wanting to deal with this relationships big issues, that is a huge issue on top of it all. It is better for him to decide to get well and take care of himself, and you can move on and find a better situation for yourself.
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