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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do I do when he kisses me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 ill be 15 in a few weeks and i havent had my first kiss yet . is that wierd.i have a boyfriend and hes 17 and we are about to go on a date really soon and im really nervous.any tips on wat do do wen he tries to kiss me??... (54 words)

After eight years he says we're just close friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Please advise me what to do! No matter what I do, my boyfriend seems to think we're just very close friends. But that is not how it appears to me or to other people! We've been seeing each other since 2002, and he practically lives at my apartment, sleeps in my bed, calls me... (180 words)

A fairytail in the making

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Was very much in love with my high school sweetheart, we broke up after being together 3 1/2 years. We both went on with our lives and got married. I am recently divorced after 22 years of a unhealthy marriage. Never forgot my highschool sweetheart and always dreamed of him ... (251 words)

My husband wants to go down on a man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband wants to go down on a man. He has never done this before, but admits he has fantasized about it and just wants to try it to see what the hype is about. He doesn't want to try anal with a man or anything like that. Also, he wants to watch the guy he goes down on have ... (167 words)

Wedding night tips for a frightened virgin needed, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

29 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I have a bit of a problem that's kind of pathetic but is really troubling me. I'm getting married to my fiancé, who I've been with for 4 years, and we both are virgins. I'm terrified of having sex for the first time with him, because I'm not sure what I'm supposed ... (173 words)

Is he maybe having regrets about telling me he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months now and just recently he told me he loved me. He's known for about three months that I loved him so hearing him say that, and knowing I'm the first girl he's ever said that too was a wonderful feeling. But now he's been a ... (107 words)

Very confident, but one area, not so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well im a virgin and im 17, i grew up in an enviroment where sex was around me everywhere i went and i came to know alot of things about it. Growing up all i could gather from females conversations about sex was they were only interested in one topic, how big the guys dick was ... (225 words)

Ladies, what parts of a man are most attractive?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, which body parts of a man do you find most attractive? Abs, legs, arms, eyes etc. ... (17 words)

I'm straight but I think I'm gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im straight but i think im gay. i like talking to my mates about my cock and theirs, whos seen whos and how big they are. I get a boner everytime i get naked even if im alone and i always hope for innocent gay things to happen when i'm with mates. Like one time, my best mate ... (165 words)

Should I leave him with that girl he doesn't know or stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month. He's 14 and im 13. just a day before at nught when i was sure we were meant to be together. he tells me he got another girl pregnant. and then he said that it was a few months ago. that he bearly found out that mor... (93 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to take pictures with me for facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I know this sounds sooo soo stupid and its a really stupid thing to ask. But I see some of my friends on facebook who have pics with their boyfriends really cute ones...Im just wondering how do I get pics with my boyfriend and how do I get him to take them wit... (86 words)

He's separated but wants to know about her, should it concern me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My live-in boyfriend is separated but not divorced. He speaks to his daughter daily and he sometimes asks to his daughter what his wife is doing and where she is and usually ends the conversation with, tell her I said "goodnight". Does this mean he still cares for her or just ... (64 words)

He had a bet that he could last a month without liking me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - the guy i talk about (pretend name) - S, not the nicest looking, on the chubby side. the girl who i mention - L, a mental girl who asked him for sex when he was 10 and then asked a girl for sex. okayy x soo. this all started back in january, S told me that he likes... (385 words)

My ex cut out all contact, but I want him back in my life, either as friend or boyfriend. How to get in touch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - It is my ex-boyfriend's birthday in a couple of days and part of me wants to wish him a happy birthday but I just cannot decide what to do because we aren't in contact at all. Part of me wants to get back together with him, but another part of me wants to hit him for the way ... (489 words)

Falling for a friend who is pushing me to be friends-with-benefits

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with some one. They are someone who has been a very good friend for a while. I know that he doesn't feel the same way. But the problem is I need to adjust our friendship without ruining it by letting him know how strongly I feel. I havne't always felt this way, its ... (215 words)

My husband spoiled his ex'es, and now I have to help pay the debts! Should I ask his mom for financial help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age - My husband and I are in dire financial straits. My husband has a big fault; he is too generous. It will most definitely help him get into heaven but it's not helping much here......right now. He was took to the cleaners by an ex wife and then a girlfriend. Since we've been ... (334 words)

My parents seem to over do it with me, any suggestions to change this??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having this problem with my parennts and my family. They just alwayss look at what im doing on facebook everywear they always findout what im doing. I aint doing nothing wrong tho, They always take it too far by taking my phone of mee and grounding me for about 2 weeks. But ... (93 words)

Need some help with a tricky situation, not sure what to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What the hell am I doing? I was cheated on by my ex for a girl he sees twice a month and i left him. To make it worse,i still see him every couple of months and we always end up in bed. But to be honest, I am still very hurt of what he did, I stopped asking about the girl if ... (401 words)

Long distance relationship is wearing thin, need advice to help??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a long distance relationship - I've been with my boyfiend for 2 and a half years, 9 months ago i moved away. We're still very much in love but i'm not happy living where i do and it's beginning to really show. When we're together - I visit every 3/4 weeks - it's a... (316 words)

Suggestions needed on how to stimulate my guy??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to try new things involving foreplay. He doesn't want to have to tell me what to do because he gets the feeling like he is training me and that is just wrong. I'm fairly inexperienced and I don't know much about what stimulates guys. We do basic foreplay ... (70 words)

Missed my last nuristerate injection. could I be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am on the nuristerate injection. I missed my last injection and had unprotected sex with my fiance. Thing is, I havent gotten my period yet, am I even ovulating? I have no pregnancy symptoms. What are the chances of being pregnant? ?Negative hpt tests as yet, its been a month ... (56 words)

Need some advice on how to be affectionate??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys i dont know what to do. im 19 and never been kissed, on a date, etc. its not like im ugly or weird. im 6'2", pretty built, i play football and basketball, i go out and everything. I think my main problem is 1. i get extremely nervous whenever i am around girls. Like to ... (184 words)

How do I get better answers from him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and knew him as a friend a couple of years before that.. We have live together for the last 5 months. He is shy and introverted and not a great communicator. At times he can be a little depressive although he has been much better ... (414 words)

Need advice on masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I am 14 years of age and would like to start masturbating, but I can help but feel that touching myself is wrong and I am scared that my mum or dad or sisters might walk in on me. I have tried it once and it was good so I want to keep doing it but have no idea how to proceed ... (105 words)

His ex is forcing him to chose between his son or me and now he isn't contacting me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunt, I met a guy off a very well known dating site and we hit it off straight away, we became very close in three weeks to the point where we even told each other we loved each other, I know silly really when we hadn't even met before but it felt so right. Well last ... (300 words)

Constantly fighting, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little under 2 years now, next week it will be 2 years and for the past 3 or 4 months we've been having major problems. I don't know what to do because i have no one else to talk to. I don't have as many close friends as he does and ... (492 words)

My new husband is not interested in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We got married after few months of dating and now it's been 5 months since we got married. We used to have sex but I was the one to provoke it. Even in the first month of our marriage he liked to have it just once in 1-2 weeks. I always thought guys love sex. Our love is ... (147 words)

Advice on pill and periods

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been taking the pill where u dont have periods, ive had this pill for 3 months now and on my last pack, When i first took the pill the first month i had a very lite period that lasted a day then nothing since then then past day or so ive been having pains like coming... (90 words)

Does this have any chance?? He's older.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I really need this question answered.. please help me! Im 14 years old but I've always acted a little older for my age and this probably explains whats going on lately. I have always been attracted to older boys but just because of them being 'fit' or whatever! But now,... (235 words)

I met his ex, and she's waay better looking than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend thinks i have a low self esteme. i do, but i am trying really hard not to let him see it. but i met his ex girlfriend the other day at a restaraunt on acident, and she is gorgeous, absolutely the most beautiful girl i have ever met. i am nowhere near as pretty as ... (146 words)

I can't even wear a tampon because it hurts so much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i cannot use a tampon? it is so painful! i even put PKY jelly on the tampon so it is well lubricated! but it hurts so badly that i sometimes cry, it feels like something is tearing or pinching and i just wanna scream! also I hav really heavy periods so I wanna use a ... (86 words)

I'm not sure how much longer I can do everything leading up to but not including sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for about a year, we have known each other for 4. Both of us have expressed to each other that we plan on this being a long term, monogamous, committed relationship. She and I are kind of sexually active. We do everything there is to ... (116 words)

Why won't he date me when we are having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I had been having one night stands with a guy from work for about 5 years . It was so painful because he would always say he didn't love me and then we would have a row and and I would try so hard to forget about him that I ended up seeing other guys inbetween. He ... (311 words)

Why does my husband want to gangbang me with another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so, i have been with my husband for a little over a yr and we've been married for 4 months of that year. i know...we moved way too fast...but i am also 8 months pregnant... anyways, i've always known my husband has always wanted to try the whole swinging thing with other co... (171 words)

She told me she had been seeing someone just for sex, its great that she told me, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I need some help. I've recently started seeing a girl who I really like. Things are going insanely well, to the point we are starting to consider an official relationship. Tonight she spoke to me and said she had to tell me something because she didnt believe in ... (205 words)

After becoming angry about her past that I just now found out about, she is depressed and can't get over it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girl friend are in a wonderful relationship for last 2 years. Only recently i found out through her emails that, she shared a casual relationship with a few men before she dated me. This was a long kept secret so i got angry and vented out on how i felt. however i ... (176 words)

She says she loves me but she is staying with someone else to earn money for us to be together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Our Story is: I have a girlfriend I love her so much and I know she loves me too,but it seems that we're not meant to be with each other because we're on the same sex relationship.that's our biggest problem we face. Now we have planned to go to other country so we can be marri... (287 words)

The baby's father is ignoring me

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years...he cheated on me once at the start but i forgave him...i found out he has been telling somother girl he loves her and they talk all the time....he said he was sorry and again...like an idiot...i forgave him...now hes not returning my ... (159 words)

He's working again but I don't understand where his money goes

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't understand thing sometimes. Me and my boyfriend have been together for years. He lost his job about 7 months ago which wasn't a big deal since we are both in school and I had a job. So for 6 months I had to pay for everything which wasn't bad at first but slowly ... (323 words)

Where did our sex life go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I need help!! I have been with my gf for about 4 and a half years. For the first 3 years we had a great sex life. We were ripping each others clothes off and experimenting with things ive never experienced in a relationship before. 18 months ago my gf started to put ... (287 words)

We want to have a three-some but we both have conditions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I were talking about having a 3 some. The problem is, I'm not comfortable with him being inside another woman, and he is not comfortable having a guy involved in any way.. I thought about just having a 4 some to make it even but then we would both have what we ... (124 words)

Does he cheat because I'm just ugly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i need some advice, its a quite complicated situation so bear with me. i met my fiance 2yrs ago, ever since we got 2gether things have been rocky. no matter what i find out about him he worms his way out of it, he turns it on me, making out its my fault or makes me feel... (519 words)

Not sure who the baby's father is, considering abortion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I caught myself thinking of an abortion not to long ago and im almost 5 months, i'm watching maury and all these young girls around my age are screaming they want a baby not knowing who the babys father is and ect. my biggest fear is to have this baby and the one i love isn't ... (189 words)

We are having sex more frequently in our FWB. Does that mean we are getting more serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, im a bit confused really at the moment, ive been sleeping with this guy since early march as in fb sort of thing, sometimes i see him sometimes i dont, but do txt eachother everyday Anyway recently ive kinda been seeing him a bit more then normal, and ... (319 words)

I am pregnant again.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have posted for help before about my twins i had at 14 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/struggling-to-cope-.html well me and my boyfriend have since got back together three weeks after i posted that question. I have the implant in, so i didnt expect to fall pregnant, b... (165 words)

Emotionally isolated in marriage - the husband's fate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a question for married women I suppose. How can ur husband express his emotions, lead a full emotional life, w/o u losing attraction for him? I live a life like many husbands. My wife has many girlfriends, at work, in the neighborhood, from her past. Most of her acti... (341 words)

My best friend set me up and I am scared he will blackmail me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bestfriend told me that his cousin is all over him and demanding him to sleep with her, one night he said that she's at their house and he cant resist her anymore and he's so turned on, he said he needs help. i suggested him to mast. maybe he'd be relieved and then he ... (246 words)

Did he leave because I was disrespectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long one, but please bare with me. About two months ago, I 'gave myself away' to a strange guy I barely knew (for LESS than ONE day. Can you believe that ? :-/). I met him at the park around the corner from my house. My friend and I had went there like we usually ... (1126 words)

I need advice on a relationship issue!!!! please read and comment!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help please! 5 weeks into my relationhip i went out without my girlfriend and this girl approached me to say hi, i immediatley told her to fuck off but later on in the night when i was heavily intoxicated i said some things to her, for example "wheres your boyfriend", ... (196 words)

He doesn't understand why I was upset .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday was our one year anniversary. We had a busy night running his kids around. Even though it was late, he still wanted to take me to a nice dinner. Instead of it being ourselves, it was us, his teenage daughter and teenage son ... and one of his sons friends, whom he ... (207 words)

She is immature and controlling and I don't know if I want to be with her anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I started dating this girl about 6 months ago, not long after we started dating I found out she had a boyfriend. She said it was nothing serious and she was just waiting on the right time before she dumped him. I thought that was okay. But then she showed up at one of my ... (587 words)

Poll: Best sex - was it with an ex or current partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So ladies...taking a poll here cuz I'm curious. When it comes to the best sex you've had, was it with your current (final) partner or with a previous partner? By "best", I mean the most sexually satisfying or intense (most mind blowing, most orgasms, etc). If previous, how ... (61 words)

I feel guilty and terrible because I gave oral to a guy while drunk. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - basically I'm feeling incredibly guilty because I gave head to a guy last night. Im quite young so that was my first time... He was one of my best friends but he also went out with my best friend for a little bit a couple of months back. I feel so shocked at myself because ... (101 words)

What is a good quote for a tattoo - to show I have overcome depression?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

- I suffered from severe depression in the past and want to get a tattoo to show that I have overcome it. I want to get a quote. does anyone have any suggestions... (40 words)

My man doesn't want to watch porn WITH me, only behind my back. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My man watches porn online while im sleeping or not home. I have asked him nicely to only watch it with me as a couple, but he still does it behind my back. Should i be concerned? Is he loosing interest in me?... (43 words)

Torn between three men but I only want one, but which one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hie here I have a problem caught in three guys.Something I brought on meself.I left my boyfriend in my home country nw its been two years without seeing each other.there was a break of communication for a period of 7 months bt now we are okay.I was raped in the year I turned ... (345 words)

Do you think I should try to regain the friendship with my ex without telling my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you consider cheating? I'm sure this is a common question but I have a particular situation in mind, and I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend in the slightest. We've been together for 14 months, and are completely in love. Recently, I've started talking to my ex... (138 words)

I don't know what to say or do but I don't want to lose her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a girl over 2 years ago and fell madly n deeply in love with her and was pretty sure she felt the same upuntil last week. She recently moved house and was havin a few beers at home with one of her male house mates and they ended up kissing. She told me a ... (204 words)

What makes a man become violent in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What makes a man become violent in a relationship? my partner became that way towards me when our daughter was 2. It started with pushing and then one day we argued and he pushed me to the floor put his foot on my head leaving his boot inprint and spitting in my face. I forgave ... (139 words)

She is on my mind every minute of the day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well guys n girls, I have a problem like most on here. About 2 years ago, I gained a crush on a girl in my class. Well I have retained this crush for the 2 years since I first fell for her and I have never asked her out. This year, I have got to know her alot and we chat alm... (235 words)

Need tips for sex with my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 36 yrs old and married. i want when i do sex with my husband before him my ejaculation gets over how can i make it longer and tell me some new tips for sex but it should not be oral. and my husband is very sexy but i dont get that much energy so how can i co operate him? ... (63 words)

I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 17 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now. I love him,and I feel very comfertable with him and I know he dies too! I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet? This feeling when we are having sex sometimes is my vagina throbbing and tickles... It feels like I ... (70 words)

I'm very worried about our sex life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 21 involved with a 29 year old guy, and im very woried about our sex life, Sometimes when we make love i became so dry that it hurts and he will take long to cum and when i tell him that he is hurting me he wont stop he just continue and it will pain the whole night. and ... (90 words)

How do I lovingly get my introverted husband to come with me to this wedding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - My husband never wants to come out with my friends. I have never forced him anytime. He takes me out and all that. No issues with that. We are totally different people. One of my friends wedding is coming up. I am friends with the entire family. He says I will take care of ... (142 words)

I like my best friend's first love and she likes me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have a best friend. That i have known for some time now maybe a year or two we met and just really hit it off and got really close and know we live together for College and reasons that we are poor :(. He recently got this girl and we where all sooo happy for him because ... (364 words)

I want to do it with the right guy, and I'm not sure he is! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. we've been together 6 months on and off he wants to go further but i'm not sure i kind of want to do it with the right guy and am not sure if he is. Help !!!... (46 words)

How do I convince him to have a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner since Christmas 2009 - we both have children from previous marriages - my son is 5 and his son is 18 but his son suffers with Dyspraxia. I always said that I wanted two children but obviously with my marriage breakdown this never happened. I lov... (203 words)

How do I get this mama's boy to grow up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 turning 21 in October this year and involved with a 29 year old guy and he's turning 30 next year march, i love him so much but there is one thing that i just cant get. he still lives with his mother in the same house and when his father passed away his mother asked ... (166 words)

How can I be less clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was wondering if anyone can give me some ideas and tips that has helped them stop being less clingy. I am a clingy person and I want to change that. I was very clingy with my exboyfriend and it pushed him away. Not to mention that he was the complete opposite, he ... (83 words)

Do men act differently in a relationship to women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When it comes to love and dating, how does a man act and think differently as compared to a woman? Does it really take longer for a guy to connect emotionally? Does the guy want to have reigns over where the relationship is going, as in only progress as he wants and at ... (146 words)

Friendship turned into a controlling relationship! Help!

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend just started dating and we already wanna break up. You see we been friends and we started to grow love for each other. When he asked me to be his girlfriend, I thought it was the best thing to happen to me...WRONG!! We seem to argue all the time. He even ... (150 words)

Guy sending me emotional messages but sleeping with someone else.

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in touch with a person younger to me who sends me emotional messages. He has been honest to tell me that he is sleeping with another girl. at times he has expected more commitment from me than i feel i should be owing to him. i do not know if i should take strict steps to ... (93 words)

Does he have feelings for me or am I over reacting?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - guys pls tell me if u can notice any sign of him being interested in me?he is a family friend,he is single,lonely and he owns a house.his house is not far 4rom my home.he gave me his spare keys,so that i can clean his house and do the washing even under wears and he told me to ... (139 words)

What should I do about my feelings for my best friend?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a girl and my best friend in the entire world is a guy. He's been there for me through everything. Well recently I realized that I have romantic feelings for him, but I know for a fact he doesn't feel that way. And I feel like im only hurting myself for falling for him ... (89 words)

Why do I miss my ex yet still I don't have any feelings for him sexually?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - its been 4 years with him i love him but but i dont have sexual feelings for him so i broke up with him,now i missed him a lot but not sexually.what do you think my problem is?i need help!!!!!!!!!... (40 words)

My best friend cant seem to get past the first date, and I have run out of things to say to him to make him feel better!

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, this is a question, not regarding me but my male best friend. Isn't it odd, how you cannot be an agony aunt to yourself, but everyone comes to you with their problems and you can solve them. Well now i have failed. My friend, him mentioned above, is a great guy. He is... (314 words)

What does the pain of first time sex compare to so I know what to expect?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, it would be my first time, i ready the only thing i worry about it the pain... what does the pain compare to so i know what to espect?... (41 words)

I am only 15 but what do I have to lose if I have a baby?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help!! My boyfriend and I have been wanting a baby were emotionaly prepared for one i dont go out cuz i dont get along with people especially girls i dont drink and smoke anymore cause i hate it and i no pretty much everything on how to raise a baby b/c i raised my cousin the ... (96 words)

Is it wrong for me to date a guy who is 3 years younger than me?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong for a 16yr old girl to date a 13yr old male... (14 words)

I cant bring myself to have sex with my boyfriend anymore because he looks at other women

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just read this quote on this website as a reply to one of the questions about porn: "Men are a thousand times more visual than we are. We just have to grin and bear it, and move on to bigger problems like they often say." My issue...is that it IS a big issue. I know my guy ... (142 words)

Is it wrong for me to date a guy who is younger than me? And why wont he leave his girlfriend for me?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, im 16 yrs old and the guy i really like just turned 15. Im gonna be a junior and he's gonna be a sophmore. Do you think that's wrong on my part if we got together ?? We flirt sometimes, we touch a lot (not sexually), and we've kissed but the thing is he has a gf !!! ... (110 words)

Why did my ex decide to help us move in together? I don't understand why he wanted to insert himself into my life like that!

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My last ex boyfriend (I ended things, if it matters) and my current boyfriend work together, and although they know each other quite well, they are not anywhere near friends. This past weekend, I moved in with my current boyfriend, and he asked some friends from work to help ... (235 words)

14 and possibly pregnant, I'm not ready for this!

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so me and this boy had sex twice about a month apart.. and i think I'm pregnant but i don't know he didn't wear a condom he thinks they are stupid and he use the pullout method the first time he discharge on the backseat..(we did it a car)and the second time on the floor and ... (90 words)

Girlfriend needing some space?

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm at the end of my wits. I love my gf a lot but my patience is really running out :( Everything seemed fine about a week ago. She was getting close to me. We would hug close in bed and it all seemed to be going well. But things fell apart the night before she had to get u... (756 words)

I really like this girl, but we've been friends for so long

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl I really like. The only problem is we've been friends for two years. I think she might like me but I'm not sure. What do I do from here?... (33 words)

How can I love my small breasts?

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29 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I've only had one boyfriend and he told me he liked big breasts better, that most guys do because of fertility and I don't what crap. I can't get over this, not even after having broken up (other reasons). I notice how most men drool over large breasts. How can I get over t... (137 words)

We got on so well last summer, but now my friends are ignoring me!

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im on summer break at the moment and Every summer i visit my grandparents and friends from the third grade, recently i messaged 3 of the main friends i would hang out with to give them a heads up that im comming up soon and maybe we should kick it sometime. They read my ... (149 words)

Should we sow our seeds first, then get back together?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over six years now. We love each other very much and work so well together. We have lived together for five years and have only ever had small fights that we worked through. I want to grow old together and have his kids and I can't imagine a ... (197 words)

How do I come out?

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 17 years old and im gay. i really want to tell my parents but im absolutely terrified, i really dont know what to do, i cant feel my self around them and im allways watching what i say and do. what makes it worse is that my parents dont have the slightest clue. is there ... (76 words)

Why hasn't he kissed me yet?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is the thing, I have known this guy for a long time now, I would say 4 years maybe. We never knew I existed until now but I have always had a crush on him, but I guess that was because I was too young at the time, I am going to turn 19 soon and he is 23. He is really ... (455 words)

Tortured with the thought of my wife's sexual past

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29 June 2010 (M)

age - I am dealing with the common problem of having married a woman who had a sordid (my opinion) past. By age 24 she had over 35 sexual partners varying from a 2 year relationship to blow jobs in a club parking lot with strangers. I am conservative by nature and raised in the ... (254 words)

Should I be worrying over this?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a question my bf and i had sex last night and i began ovulation yesterday is there a good chance im pregnant?... (25 words)

Am I making a mistake by trying so hard to love her?

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Ive been with this amazing girl for just over 11 months, and ive been in another counry for about 2 weeks now, and get back the day before our 1 year anniversary. I have been missing her terribly and have been in contact with her every other day. Although its al... (835 words)

Wifey or Home wrecker?

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girl for 2 and a half years,but for 2 of those years she's been my side chick. To make a long story short, I caught feelings for her, left my girlfriend, and now we're official, but come to find she`s been a side chick before. Does that say something about ... (65 words)

Who has gone too far. Me or Him???

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - what the?? OK so I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 44. he has many girlfriends and is very social, and i love this about him. we've worked in the same salon together for 8 yrs, been living together 1 of the 2 yrs we've been dating. generally very happy. so, there is this 1 girl who ... (310 words)

Spending time with 2 men, and I can see my future with both of them! What should I do?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been thinking a lot lately...this man I'll call Edward really likes me and has mentioned marriage and kids both jokingly and seriously. I like him but, I made sure not to get too close...he's turning forty this year and I'm nineteen. He lives six hours away, and since he ... (179 words)

My boyfriend toys with my emotions

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. well next week it will be two years. Well it's summer and most of his friends have come back home for summer from college. Well last year during summer I realized that we were always together and this summer all he wants to... (553 words)

My wife lets on that mine's not big enough

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29 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My wife had sex sometime before we were married to a guy with a very large penis and has let it slip a few times that mine does not measure up. How do I keep from letting this affect our sex life?... (42 words)

I can't seem to please my mom

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my mom is always yelling at me for no reason i cant do anything right.She acts like i was the worst thing to happen in her life but i try to be like my brother mr. perfect !! what should i do:)?... (42 words)

18 is it good? too... you know ... :)

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 18 a virgin think got a date round mine this wed and some reason i think im ready.. if i do.. to have sex with him.. but... lol.. 18 a good age isnt it?.. cause i nver wanted to do it earlier cause i had pals who lost it at like 13 and im like oh my goodness you kno... (142 words)

Should I settle for less than my expectations in who I date?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Should i be more open about who i date. every time i go for the ones im attracted too it always blows up in my face. Should i allow more aoption into my life or should i keep searching?... (40 words)

Can I make up for being desperate by playing it cool?

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I wrote in yesterday with my first question here and I appreciated the answers. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/yeah-i-screwed-up-i-gave-her-a.html So I'm back on talking terms again with this girl that I really like only she has told me she doesn't like me in that way.... (178 words)

Still have feelings for my ex after the break

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello my name is Vincent and I need some advice on something 2 years ago me and this girl alexis had a strong relationship we used to go out we kissed laugh did everything with eachother but her mom didnt want me and her to be together so alexis started doind bad things because ... (231 words)

Lonely since my friend got married

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i need some advice. I'm really lonely and down on myself lately, and this past week has been especially hard. see, one of my best friend's just got married, and while i'm so happy for her, i'm also insanely jealous. this may not be that weird, but what is is that ive ... (108 words)

Does she really love me and is maybe expected way too much consideration and understanding from my end?

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - {Moderator note: edited for grammar, paragraphs, etc.} Ok, this is going to be very long but I want to put it all out there so I can get as much feedback as possible. Basically back in April I met a girl in a chatroom. We talked and then on yahoo and exchanged numbers ... (920 words)

I care about her, but I don't know what to do

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so my situation is very, very complicated. I met this girl at a party back in February. She came on to me, thought I was cute, asked me to go with her to buy some beer and then when we got back, we just danced and had easily one of the greatest nights of my lif... (1444 words)

Lonely and losing confidence since I left high school

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, I just graduated high school and I go to college for network administrating. I've been having a tough time since i graduated... I lost many friends and family over the last year and i have been getting lonely. I never had this problem before In school i had lots of ... (124 words)

The lack of intimacy is driving me up the wall.

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I've got an issue that I suspect a lot of people have gone through before. I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 30. We've been living together going on 3 years now and everything is great. Almost... she doesn't seem to want to have sex at all. She says that she does ... (1033 words)

What if I never find someone who wants to be with me?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to go your entire life and never be in a relationship. I'm 23 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I really do feel that establishing a relationship with someone who you can confide in and trust is essential in life. Seeing ALL my friends whether it was ... (275 words)

Should I forgive him? And if I do how can we get over this?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out that my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me for two months. Sorry this is extremely long but we have an unusual background to our relationship. Let me start by saying that we don't have a typical young relationship, we met in a program for homeless teens an... (417 words)

Will he ever grow up?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2years July frist he is a great guy but he won't get a job he won't get a drivers lisence . We moved in together and I pay all the and I'm 20 and he's 22. Will he ever grow up?... (49 words)

Can we move past being close friends?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am friends with this guys and we are incredibly close. At one point we started calling each other bro and sis. At first I thought it was a joking kinda thing like that's how close we are, but now i like him so much but i'm afraid that if I try to make anything more out of our ... (165 words)

How to break up?

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The break up between me and my boyfriend is inevitble. We are on a break, and at the end of the break i'm fully convinced he will break up with me. Should I wait til then and just let it happen, or should i call him before the break is over and just break up with him? which is ... (60 words)

He cheated and gave me a STD

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me a couple months ago. We've been working on our relationship and trust but i recently found out I contracted a std that resulted in a early miscarriage. Since I have been faithful all 5 years, my boyfriend must of caught the std when he ... (92 words)

How can I help the love of my life see his mother is abusive

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with the most perfect man for 2 years, until just over 5 wks ago when he ended out relationship. We were both madly in love and we got on perfectly, I have four children from a past relationship and he doesnt have any but he was cool with my children in fact he was ... (502 words)

He was repeatedly checking out my friend's pics

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29 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together. I was going through my internet history yesterday to find a website I went to a few days ago and made a different discovery. He has been looking through ALL of my friend's pictures on facebook. I already knew ... (215 words)

Caught between my parents, with my little sister. Need to find a way to improve my situation.

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29 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this isn't your typical relationship question, has more to do with family, but i've always relied on you guys for help in the past so i can't think of a place i'd feel better asking this. So i absolutely hate my mom. Long story short, she's done things to me and... (1054 words)