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Do I have to tell the new guy about the other guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I guess you could say that I'm talking to this new guy I met a couple weeks ago. He's really sweet and fun but he also lives 6 hours away (driving). He's really into me but we've talked about taking it slow and deciding if we actually do want to be a relationship. The thing... (193 words

Help! Who does my crush like?!? Me or my Bff?!?

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I like this guy... And so does my best friend. He gives us mix signals . She came up to him and ask if he could say happy birthday to me. He said that he was just about to do that and after the day he came up to me a said happy birthday. My friend was behid me and said that he ... (262 words

My question is how do I tell my dad that I used to do this without him overreacting?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - How do i tell my dad that i used to cut myself? Ok i know that its bad and that i shouldnt etc, and i havent for about 4months now. Its been extremely hard as it was at the stage where i was pretty much addicted to cutting myself. I still struggle not to cut myself it is very ... (120 words

Stuck between two guys! Which one should I choose?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, Basically I'm kinda stuck between two people. So theres this guy who I'm attracted to, and he is gorgeous but I don't know him that well, only had a few conversations but he seems really nice and we get on. and theres this other guy Ive known for a while now, (we ... (148 words

Is it the right time to propose to him? Last time he said it was too early.

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with him just over a year and one month. So far the main problem has been that his first ex (whom he loved like mad) wants him back. But he says he never go back to her and loves me alot. I want to propose to him but not sure how? Cause first time he put me down ... (110 words

How can I get him to stop looking at adult websites?

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, sisters..We married last year after six month dating. He is a wonderful man who is hard worker and caring his family. But one thing is bothering me very much is he's sexual behavior. He having pantyhose addiction and want sex all the time. Many times I found him played ... (124 words

Staying-out-of-trouble advice when meeting teens

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23 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - There seems to be a lot of information around about how to avoid predators and stuff on the Internet, but not much on how to avoided being called one. There's this teen I've been chatting on-line with for a while, who is talking about coming to see me. For a start, I don't ... (158 words

Should I keep my baby or abort it?im only 21 and already a mother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - im 21 years old and currently a freshman in college and the mother of a 6 year old daughter. i just fount out that im 10 weeks pregnant by my boyfriend of 8 months. were very much in love and planned on moving in together in 7 months. i told him i was pregnant and he wants me ... (250 words

Sex cyber girlfriend

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23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello i'm just wondering is it wrong to have cyber sex with an older woman while i got a girlfriend. i've been cyber sexting her for a while now i masturbate to her this it feels good but am i doing a bad thing here and should i tell my girlfriend thanks... (52 words

What is a creative way to ask her out to a july 4th celebration?

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23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - So there is this one girl that I like and I don't really know if she likes me, it seem like it though and this other person is telling me that she does.. This person is also being like "ASK HER OUT ASK HER OUT!" I kinda want to but I really don't know how to go about doing th... (130 words

If he loves me then why aren't we together?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My exboyfriend and i had a break up but we never really got closure. We still hang out and hook up every once in a while. He is "talking" to another girl and one day when we were arguing he said his feelings are stronger for her than they are for me. But he still always tries ... (181 words

Married but lonely

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23 June 2010 (F age - I have been married for 28 years and have definitely grown apart from my husband. He has been an OK husband and OK father of our two grown kids. Our kids have left for college in the past two years. I had a great relationship with both kids and I am terribly lonely without them ... (302 words

A girl has a crush on my husband. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Well I soooo need help in this issue I have. My husband and I were having a great morning he walked into the living room to play with the kids and hid phone was right next to me in the bed then a text rolled in I looked at the phone becaues are friends text us on each others p... (277 words

My husband says he isn't in love with me and it's tearing me apart!

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I don't know where to turn. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and we have 3 kids(one is my teenage daughter from a previous relationship). We have a comfortable lifestyle and a nice home. We both have good jobs we enjoy, and I am so in love with my husband. Th... (499 words

My two best friends are fighting and it's tearing me apart!

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23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Im in what most people would call one of the biggest problems of their lives. The story may be a little hard to follow. I am just telling it how it unfolded to me. I have my best friend (male who will be known as M), who ive been friends with for the longest time and th... (597 words

Disappearing men dilemma! Can someone explain this to me?

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - My question is about dissapearing men. In my experience they dissapear without absolutely no logic in it. There are moments in my life when i stop liking a guy who i am seeing. I tell him that, despite the fact that it's very much not my favorite thing to do. I do it because ... (352 words

Does anyone have wise words regarding shattered confidence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I feel so rubbish and hope someone can cheer me up.. I have had an on-off relationship with a guy for about 5 years now. Our relationship has been very intense, but he always runs away and comes back again. We recently got back in touch again after a three month-no contact ... (265 words

Retroactive jealousy: how can I erase these mental images?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were good friends prior to dating each other. During that time, she divulged some information to me about her sexual past that I REALLY wish she had never told me. She didn't think anything of it at the time because we were just friends, but now that we ... (165 words

Will it give me closure to meet up with my ex?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - About two months ago i broke up with my long distance boyfriend of two years, i have been fine up until the last few weeks ive just been in so much emotional pain, i cant stop crying and i feel sick all the time. I cant remember why i ended it and keep doubting my decision. ... (182 words

Going to a party and need ideas on how to get a guy to notice me!

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am going to a party this weekend and i need ideas on how to make a guy notice you. I like a boy in my grade and he says he will ask me out but he hasn't yet! I need to make him ask soon... Any ideas?... (49 words

It's all or nothing for this army guy. Is he just being selfish?

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - A guy I was talking to from the army doesn't want to have anything to do with him because he can't deal with me not being sure if I would be with him and move with him to georgia...we have been talking for a month now I really do like him but he can't expect me to just say yes ... (263 words

Would it be cruel of me to break up with my boyfriend so soon?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm having a hard time choosing what I ought to do. My situation isn't complicated, but it is long-winded, so I'll try and shorten it down. - I saw a guy at prom who I decided that I liked, but I didn't talk to him. - I added him on Facebook and told him that I'd like to tal... (282 words

Is it normal to not have that "crush" feeling anymore?

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, Im 16 and am feeling a bit disappointed because I dont feel like I have a crush on my boyfriend of about a year anymore. By crush I mean that excited feeling you get when someone you like texts you., when he asks you to hangout, obsessing over everything he does etc. I... (120 words

I'm stuck forever to my husband so how can make things better?

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23 June 2010 (F age - What can you do,if you did everything to change things in your marriage,but ,it is not getting better? I feel Im stuck in here forever,with a man ,who might not love me at all,and we are just wasting each others time. I just can't figure him out. I can't trust him, or enjoy to ... (263 words

Plastic Surgery: are women turning into artificial robots?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Does anyone else think it's terrible that womens plastic surgery is advertised on bus posters, magazines, shop posters... Does anyone else think this is very sad? I was driving home the other day, and I was behind a bus, the poster on it said "when a push up bra's not enough, ... (210 words

I lied about previous job but my new boss is my old boss's wife. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am not sure what to do. i got a job yesterday and i lied to the woman who hired me that i have not been employed anywhere else. i was afraid she would not hire me to see i quit my last job. the problem is i found out the lady who hired me is married to my old boss for the ... (170 words

He loved the handjob so does that mean he's interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Last night i was having a sleepover with 3 of my best friends, two of which are guys. were all 16. we decided to watch some movies and hangout but before all the movies were done two of my friends were out, leaving only me and my guy friend the only two awake. I am VERY ... (214 words

Did I shave myself incorrectly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I think I've done it wrong, it's ... (92 words

How do I get back that sexual attraction I first felt for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 June 2010 (M age - My partner and I have been together for 10 years. I seem to have lost my sexual attraction for him. I just cant seem to get it back. I dont know what to do. How do I get that feeling back?... (41 words

Knowing he got another girl pregnant is ruining my feelings for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I started dating about two years ago. Early on in our relationship, he casually mentioned that his ex-girlfriend of nearly 5 years had aborted his baby. He didn't say it like "My child...I was so devastated," but more like "it was an accident, and I felt ... (192 words

Radical Right-Wing Romeo Drives Juliet Crazy! Help!

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a Christian. We've been together 1 and 1/2 years. I consider myself a lapsed-catholic. He feels very strongly about his beliefs, namely he's totally against abortion and homosexuality. My sister is transgendered and in the process of becoming a male, and he's ... (495 words

HPV in and out and sex life

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have a relationship 6 years now. There was a time period, when we were separated, and I had a very short one night stand and since then it is 3 years. Then after a few months time (3 years ago), I had pap test and it was normal. After two years, I had gone to a new g... (521 words

My sister in law insulted me and accused me of things I never did! What do I do?

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23 June 2010 (F age - My husband's sister Rudee called me last night. She unceasingly insulted me in every possible way and blaming me for saying something, which in fact I had never thought of. I was dumbfounded by her cruel and rude words. When I asked her to let me explain, she hung up on me. ... (185 words

Does he like me or my friend?

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm Elizabeth. I am totally in love with this guy. The problem is that my best friend loves him too. He gives us mixed signals... for instance One day I went up to him and asked him to wish my best friend a happy birthday. He told me "Actually I was just about to go do that!... (146 words

How do I accept that I am just not "girlfriend material"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - After my last "almost-relationship" (see the question "He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!"), a big heartache and working through it and analysing my life and relationships with guys I do realise that I am "just not girlfriend material". People... (838 words

How do you nicely get rid of someone?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone! i need some advice how to nicely get rid of someone. i'm a very nice person and tend to please others more than myself. he was just a friend i met at my university and i only see him as a FRIEND!......he's not the best looking guy but he's funny i guess.... (265 words

Moving on after an emotional affair

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I had an affair with a man for 9 months. The affair ended 3 months ago. I found out he was married with children after it ended. The way the affair ended was very abrupt and involved a terminated pregnancy. There was never an opportunity to say goodbye. His wife found out about ... (242 words

A "break" after 3 years... what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3 years... I am 22 and he is 24. Before you say anything about it being "young love," let me assure you, we've both been through a lot together... it hasn't been a juvenile relationship. He always talked about marrying m... (903 words

Wondering if my friend is mature enough to date?

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23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - My very good friend, just turned an adult 18yrs. There is a girl with whom he has been going out with for some time now, but has finally decided that he wants to date her, and the two of them are in the same university. I'm concerned because i'm not sure, that he is mature e... (70 words

Addicted to a vibrator or sex toy?

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23 June 2010 (? age 30-35 - Is it possible to get addicted to a vibrator or sex toy?! I want to get one but I heard you can get obsessed with them and they consume all of your alone time... (34 words

After 4 years, no chemisty and no spark left?

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - It feels as though as me and my bf of 4 years have become just really good friends as opposed to boyfreind and girlfriend. He seems to be fine with the way things are but im not at all. We still have sex (so i guess you could say i feel like were really good friends with ... (249 words

Is my disinterest in sex normal?

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old women that have a total hysterectomy at age 28. My husband is 44. He wants to have sex everyday. If I don't want to he masterbaits. Is this normal or am I just being a bad wife? Should we see a doctor together? ... (49 words

The romantic connection is lost and I'm distracted by my crush for his friend!

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have always been crazy in love with him. The past while he has become sort of complacent in the relationship and sort of like he is not as into me anymore and i have always tried talking to him about it to try and get it ... (245 words

I want to be at my best for a wedding, but this birth control pill is making me nauseous!

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi :) I recently started taking the pill, and by recently I mean i've taken it twice! And right now i'm feeling very nauseous. I knew this was a side effect, and I knew i'd be likely to get it as I usually get nauseous from antibiotics and strong painkillers, however I want to ... (221 words

Is he looking for a 'booty call'?

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I haven't seen my ex in a year and half.he owes me some money so we have had limited contact through text messages. I haven't seen him since and he probably wouldn't recognise me as i look different He recently phoned me and wanted to know how i was, what ive been up to e... (202 words

We are happy, but I don't feel that "in love" feeling.

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23 June 2010 (? age 41-50 - hey guys First of all thank you so much for taking your time to read my post. Me and my bf are in a complicated situation. We have been going out for just over a year now. I think that he's one of the sweetest guys I know, the thing is that I like being with him and all bu... (230 words

We had sex. It was a mistake, but he wants to be a couple!

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am in a majorrr crisis here. See, I had drunk sex with my best friend and now he wants to be a couple saying he's been waiting for this for forever! Also, I'm not really sure if we used protection that night! I dont't know how to get a pregnancy test and i'm embarrased ... (72 words

People say I am rude, but I never meant to be.

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23 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - ok so i have this problem that i don't really think is a problem but everyone around me thinks it is. i am mostly a cold and sometimes unfriendly fellow; well, at least that's what a lot of people think. i don't do this from want of heart, but out of difference in my way of ... (308 words

I'm gay and love a straight friend. I'm in turmoil and need guidance!

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23 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 14 (15 in like 2 days) year old boy from England. I know what everyone thinks... 14, way too young to be thinking about love, but read on. I'm gay. Not many people know, i've only told my older sister but i don't think my parents would mind that much, they're qu... (189 words

How close should one be to their best friend's spouse?

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - *OP's Original Title* My best friend and I have much more of a family than friend relationship. We talk almost daily for hours, go on trips together, etc. I have been married 20 years and all but a few of those have been miserable. My best friend is always there to try to c... (455 words

My nagging pushed him away and now he wants me back!

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Me and the long distance boyfriend have been up and down for the past few months. His ex gf has been contacting him trying to get back together with him. Each time he stated no but did not tell her about me, reasons unknown. I felt maybe there was something going on, so I nag... (246 words

What do I do? Girlfriend broke up with me and we get on so well together.

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23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Hi, My girlfriend split up with me two weeks ago to this day. I am 21 and she is just turned 20. The week before she broke it of with me we met all my college friends in Dublin and went out and had a good night. The Sunday night before things got a bit... (526 words

Are there ways to tell he wants to be more than friends?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - How can you tell if a guy you're talking to online wants to be more than friends? I think it's difficult to tell because you haven't got any body-language cues... Any hints?... (32 words

Is it unfair of me to be upset?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend just moved in with each other a couple of months ago. Its mostly going great, just one small problem. About 1 - 2 nights during the week my boyfriend goes out alone and drinks with his friends. And this really upsets me for some reason. He usually sees them ... (190 words

My sister is jealous of my pregnancy!

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I Have a bit of a problem. im 18 years old and i have an older sister who is 20 years old, i have been with my partner for 2 years and we are expecting our first child which we are very excited about, however my sister is becoming really jelouse and snappy with me, this is ... (394 words

Could this have a negative effect? What should I do?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey dear cupid! So this is a bit of a random question, and I guess I just want some opinions on it. I've been searching for a job for quite sometime now and it's all been quite unsuccessful and depressing. It's not that I'm a bad worker, the job market is just not that gr... (240 words

I don't want his partner and her son to move in because I want him for myself!

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I was having an affair with a man. I'm married. He was married for twenty something years (almost divorced) and has a non live in partner, they have been together for a few years. We were caught out by my husband. My husband and I have agreed to stay together for our... (903 words

He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello there, I am 29 years old and I am a sensual woman, I like everything that has to do with sex and I am quite open about that fact. I have slept with a lot of guys in my past and I have very little constraint. I like to try a lot of things and I am the woman that will ... (1342 words

How do I know my sister in law is interested in me?

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23 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - Wanted to have an affair with my sister in law but she don't respond at me. Some time I fill she is interested but some time not. So how should I know if she is really interested with me or not? and also how to convince her to have affair with... ?... (52 words

How can I earn her trust back?

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23 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - First, I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world. With that said, I made a foolish mistake of talking to my ex-girlfriend, and another girl while in a relationship with my girlfriend. I talked to the other two girls for a couple months, but I swear we never saw ... (151 words

Should I stay with her in spite of her past?

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23 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have a relationship with a girl whom i love sincerely, before our relation she had an affair+ physical relationship which she informed to me while i proposed her but i continued with our relation, since i am out of India from past 2 yrs she had other relaion {affair+physical ... (125 words

Sex hurts my girlfriend because she says I'm too big!

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23 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. We're both really happy with each other. I'm 23 and she's 19. Everything is great between us, except that it always hurts her when we have sex. She's had sexual partners before and has enjoyed vaginal sex with them, b... (183 words

How can I move on and get over a man that treats me like I'm nothing?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - im in love with a guy who was my fling i wanted more but he didnt, when he sees me he pretend he doesnt know me then sometimes he will say hello, when i do talk to him he always cuts me off then starts tellin to fuck off he raise his voice when people are close by, making me ... (91 words

Troubled by a previous termination, and my boyfriend not confident to say "I love you"..

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for fifteen months now. I accidentally fell pregnant the first time we had sex from a failed morning after pill and had an early termination as my mother had just died and I didn't think I would cope (I have four teenage children already). Not a ... (297 words

Great relationship, but now that he is thinking to move in..I'm beginning to freak out and question everything..

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - I feel like I shouldn't be needing to post for suggestions to my problem at my age (37) but here goes! Sorry if its a little long. I have been divorced for 3 years now, have 3 teenage kids, who I love to bits. For a couple of years I had been skipping between 'bad guys' an... (302 words

My girl's sexual tally is less than mine but I am still bothered by it

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23 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - I recently discovered that at my girfriend at the age of 23 has had 22 sexual partners including me. Let's forgo the truth part as I believe her but what's bothering me is the number. I didn't think I'd be bothered but when she counted up and told me I was shocked! Am I being ... (84 words

He won't give me anything! Does he really love me?

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone l have bn in love with my bf for over a year now l love him so much l don't care wheather he givess me money or not cz l don't think love it's about money.but my sisters their alway say he doesn' love me cz he never done anything for me he doesn't give me any mone... (157 words

My cousin and I are both separately married but are thinking of running away together!

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay well my cousin [20yrs] and i[23yrs] have been having sex for 5 yrs. it started off as a fling sorta thing and at one point we didn't see or date anyone else but each other. now he is settle with a an older woman with kids and i am married with 1 child. he has asked me to ... (150 words

We're going on a double date, but she wants to bring along a guy she thinks is hot!

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23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for a while recently . and we have been on and off dating. right now we are in one of those off parts of the relationship. But we are so close to eachother that we still go out like we are still dating . its hard to explain. we are going to an ... (248 words

My best friend doesn't ever want to talk to me again! Help!

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - over the last three years i have had the same bestfriend. he was there for me through everything, even helped me out of depression, helped me through all my family problems. I have never been that close to anyone in my entire life, he was my only friend. we always talked about ... (139 words

Falsely accused of stalking my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so this is going to be long i apologize in advance. So recently i messaged my ex boyfriend who i hadnt seen in 10 mos. I basically told him i was upset about the way things ended and i wanted to see him and talk a little bit to kind clear up why everything happened the way ... (690 words

How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nearly a year now and I quite ... (579 words

I wonder if she is really busy or just doesn't want to go out with me

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23 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - MODERATOR"S NOTE: Two questions combined from same asker. first off all this girl is pretty and beautiful but when i ask her out on dates she is always busy. I understand that she is in sports and a lot of more things but im starting to get the feeling that she doesnt want to ... (109 words

Unrequited love, how do I read her actions?

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23 June 2010 (? age 41-50 - I've been in love with a girl who has a boyfriend for two years now. I kept my feelings inside waiting for my chance. I was forced to tell her while she was still in the relationship and she told me she didn't know what to say because of it. I eventually tried to move on and ... (112 words

He had his ex girlfriends picture as his profile on facebook ...

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - im a 14 yr old girl and my boyfriend of like a month had his profile picture on facebook as his ex girlfriend who just happens to be one of my friends.when he saw that i was online he changed it to my picture.is he cheating?????... (46 words

I'm in a difficult situation with my wife...and I'm thinking about leaving her..

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23 June 2010 (M age - For the last 12 weeks I have been considering leaving my wife of 2, emotionally up and down years. I'm an immigrant and don't have many 'close' friends to discuss my/our problems. I'm seeking advice. Situation: I immigrated to the US over two years ago to marry my then lo... (625 words

My bf and I have been together for three years but we're different religions...which my parents don't like

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone..! I need help.Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years. But the thing is we're different religion. I don't eat pork he dose. I don't go to church he dose. and stuff like that. Now we try to live together. I don't know I have to throw him away or my believes? I ... (205 words

We have a sex swing...why can't I have I have a vibrator?

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - ok well here is the deal................. I want a him and her vibrator for example ( cock ring and the jack rabit) but my husband is digusted by the fact of me wanting sum. I have oferd to buy him sum sex toys as well, but he refuses he says he has no need for one are sex ... (176 words

Having sex with him may have ruined everything. Please help!

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* So, recently I've been having alot of dramma and streaa with my bestfriend. My friend is a guy and we have been bestfriends for about three years. Once we met it we had this weird instant connection but he had a gf so we didn't pursue anything. It was fine... (578 words

He threw out his ring so I threw out mine! What does it mean?

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - My b/f and I were having an argument the other day on the highway coming home, at one point during the fight, he pulled off his ring and put it on the dash of the car. A few minutes later he pulled over, rolled down the window and threw the ring out. I was so pissed off, I took ... (273 words

Is this just friendship or can it be more?

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - There is this guy i think he is kinda cute but, im not sure if he likes me like that. I mean when we are together I get butterflies. When we are in class and we get to choose our seats we always sit next to each other and a couple of times we have held hands but, it was quick ... (161 words

Help! I'm not attracted to my boyfriend at all!

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - please help. i am not attracted to my partner at all. i love him and care for him but dont think im in love. i dont get excited about him . but he is the nicest boyfriend and would do anything to make me happy. we have a 7 month old son and i do not know what to do? help!... (65 words

Do women worry about their parts the way men worry about theirs?

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23 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - I love the female form. There are so many variations of the female genitalia. What is the reason some women's labia majoria is hidden and others are larger and seem to hang out. Secondly, do women get hung up on there vaginas like men do with their penis'? ... (51 words

Why do I get emotional when we fool around?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is a bit strange but whenever I fool around with my boyfriend I get really emotional and I don't know why. I cry for some reason!! . embarassing but true...it just seems like i'm crying of sadness after we just lay there but i'm not sad. I don't know of it's just my ... (74 words

My b/f's been exchanging dirty texts with other guys

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey, i really need advice. a couple of months ago i looked through my boyfriends phone and i found that he was sending credit to his old number. so the next time i was in his house, i had a snoop and found the second phone with his old sim in it. i was shocked to find out when ... (143 words

How do I stop period cramps?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Wot can one do to stop period cramps.... (8 words

How do I prove my innocence?

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - How can i prove that i am 100% innocent and am telling the truth to my boyfriend? I stupidly lied to my boyfriend of almost 3 years in a panic because i thought that he would think there was something going on between someone else when there wasn't. He gets mad easily and ... (272 words

How do I get through to him?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm having big issues with my boyfriend. We've been rocky for about a month now. We've been dating for over two years and a half. We've never had problems before and now everything is just falling apart. The problem is that he has changed a lot. I accept that people change over ... (196 words

Are these signs my shy boyfriend reciprocates my cravings?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I can't hold in my feelings for my boyfriend any longer. These dreams I'm having are obviously uncontrolable...and these dreams are also causing my feelings for him to grow stronger! I'm having, like, sudden "cravings" to kiss him and cuddle with him...but I know that hes too ... (153 words

Does his texting mean he likes me?

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - he's txting and he tells (good nite sweet dreams) every night. Does this mean he likes mii more than a friend?... (21 words

Why do guys not show feelings?

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I was wondering why is it that guys do not show feelings. They act cold and like they could care less. Me and my boyfriend recently broke up 2 months ago. We spent a lot of time together and got close. We had a lot of good times together. I know I miss him and don't forget ... (152 words

How do I go about breaking up with him when he doesn't want a relationship?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing this man for almost four months and I really, really like him. But, I'm not his girlfriend-he claims not to want one. He does the sweetest things for me, always ready to help and/or soothe me. He always misses me and I miss him too at times. But, I want a ... (143 words

Why do I still care about what he thinks?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - its been almost a year since me and one of my ex's talked i ended it because i found out he had been lying to me about a lot of stuff and i thought i could trust him it ended like one month before school started, and we didnt talk till the first day of school he started ta... (212 words

Am I a bad girlfriend for not wanting him to have long hair?

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23 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I really, really don't want my boyfriend to grow his hair long. I don't think I can explain how awful it looks. lol Even his old facebook photos have comments by his friends that his hair looked terrible. I didn't say much when he told me he had plans to grow out his hair but... (85 words

Ex and I are fighting over his family home. What should I do?

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23 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - My exhusband and I have been seperated for 3 years now. I filed for divorce because he is an alcholic. We are still not divorced, and it all has to do with a house we own. This house was his grandparents and then we purchased it for 50k. It is now totally paid off and he lives ... (193 words

Would a destination wedding solve our family problems?

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are planning our wedding, however our relatives and friends live interstate. We have problems with his parents (his mums doesnt approve of a mixed relign marriage) and my Father wont step foot in a church . We have only been planning for a couple of weeks ... (131 words

Girlfriend expresses sudden disinterest with me.

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23 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 24 yr old male with a beautiful 25 year old girlfriend. I have been living with my girlfriend for 2 months now and we've been dating a total of 5 months. When we were dating and didnt have the title of girlfriend yet, she told me several times that she didnt want a ... (411 words

Cant understand why my bf broke up with me

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23 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ive been broken up with my boyfriend for 2 months but im still so confused and not understanding it. We dated for 8 months. I wasn't just some random girl, we had a relationship. Spent quality time with each other, met some of his friends and family. Had me in his house, left ... (226 words

Will he change once the baby is here?

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23 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and in the first few months of being together i got pregnant we love each other and are really happy most of the time, but he does like a drink alot and he says he is drinking now before the babys here so he basicaly saying ... (85 words

I'm scared he may be using me!

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23 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 14. 15 in 2 weeks. I have a boyfriend. I've been seeing him for 2 weeks. We have already done a LOT. I just found out he's had sex before and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared he's just using me. Help me. Please. ... (46 words

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