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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Need help satisfying my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my question is about and the fact im so bad at it and i have no idea what to do. i feel like i just lie there and try tomove to help my bf but it never seems towork and when im on top its disasterous! Everytime i move it just seems to fall out and its not like my bf is re... (118 words)

Need helping breaking up with my bofyriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We were dating for a little while then he broke up with me and he broke my heart. I could not get over him and when I finally did, he asked me out and I said yes thinking that it will be better. Instead of it getting better; he calls me 27 times in one day and it drives me ... (92 words)

Ideas for a romantic birthday picnic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's birthday is this Monday, and I thought it would be nice to have a romantic picnic with him at the beach. Well I sort of have everything we need-Towels, bathing suit, sunblock, your normal beach items but I need help with the food. I have planned out to have ... (132 words)

Do I confront my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend about 8 months ago. We started out really well and still doing great but lately some things have been bothering me. I don't know if I'm just insecure or there is something I should be concerned about. Before we became serious with each other, we've tal... (680 words)

Is my cousin a lesbian because of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old male and my cousin is 24 years old female. When we were younger, (she was 9 years old and I was 10 years old), we started playing doctor that got out of hand. We started having different types of sexual intercourse (Vaginal sexual intercourse, oral sex and ... (188 words)

We argue when we're apart!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend have been having a problem. We are great together when we aren't away from each other for too long. I mean amazing. so much passion its like a dream. but when we are apart for more than two days, its hard for us not to argue constantly. i don't know what to ... (69 words)

Am I over him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* hey every1!!! hope ur good well i'm 16 n had this huge crush on a boy who used 2 go 2 my school !!! he liked me 2 n he was gonna ask me out.at the begining we were both super shy!!! in time he talked 2 me n we were finally getting closer 2 eachoth... (209 words)

Not sure what happened. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I know this will probably freak some people out or they will think I'm a tramp, but my boyfriend sent me a really dirty text and some pictures to go with it and I can't see him until Monday and it really got me going however I don't have any sex toys or whatever so I ... (119 words)

Need help flirting!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - How do you show a guy that your into them? Would I just compliment things about them that I thought were sexy? Most guys who chat me up say things that they like about me but I'm never sure what to say back and I think I give off the vibe that I'm not interested back, but I am... (75 words)

I think my boyfriend is pulling away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well I have been going out with this boy for just over 3 months. he has wanted to go out with me for nearly 5 years but i have always said i would go out with him when i was ready to commit fully to a relationship. When he asked me a few months back I realised how much he ... (438 words)

My bf thinks I cheated with my ex, but I didn't! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is in the airforce and while he was at basic military training my ex got a tattoo. my ex and my boyfriend are enemies. i asked my ex th come over so i could see his tattoo one day and a few weeks later he came over with my brother but didnt leave with my brother. ... (188 words)

Help! I'm attracted to men!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - im 24 and last year i started to have feelings for men its been over a year now and i have done nothing about it cuz i dont know what to do plus what makes it worse i think is the fact that i have never had sex with anyone. can anyone help me... (54 words)

Good online dating sites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - just wondering. I see a bunch of posts on here with online dating. is it worth it .? are there attractive women on there? and is it worth the money .? what are good sites to go on to meet new people ect? post any of it here... (57 words)

What's a "troya"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when your Italian boyfriend calls you a "troya"?... (12 words)

He said he cares but disappears all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *op's own title* Dear friends, your advice is much needed! i met a guy around 4 months back, we started seeing each other , he used to travel for 2 to 3 weeks at least once a month so i total i saw him around 12 times. We were patient concerning sex ( we had it 3 months afte... (212 words)

Unsure how to deal with all his new found female friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I met this amazing guy almost a year ago, we both were struggling with good friends that had moved away for college. We started dating almost immediately after we met and everything was fine until he got demoted at his job. I was going through my mother's... (384 words)

Keep going back to the ex. Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a dilema and I really feel I can't turn to my family or friends as I'm scared they'll judge me. This site looks a great way to get it off my chest. I have known my ex since I was fifteen, I'm now nineteen. We dated back then for a couple of months. I really... (397 words)

Dating my friend, nervous about intimacy. How do I hold his hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I got a boyfriend a few days ago I dont know how to hold his hand and hug him. Because I dont want it to be weird because we were almost best friends before we started dating. We get along sooo Soo well, people have always said we would be cute for each other an... (116 words)

Complicated and confused, I like her but not sure what's going on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - This is probably just your average middle school story of not love, but infatuation. For your sake, I'll use mostly correct punctuation, and decent grammar. Normally, I'm just like any other teenager, not using any punctuation whatsoever, and appearing to have the IQ of a ... (1005 words)

Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a lot has happened between us. He started straying, I’d catch him staring at other girls and flirting with other girls via text and facebook…My trust in him has gone but we do love each other a whole lot and after doing numerous ... (683 words)

Alternatives to masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually? ... (14 words)

Intimacy question: do I get pregnant doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day my boyfriend was playing with my breasts and we have even been kissing each other and even touching my stomach.....and this is the first time and i was tensed a bit......do i get pregnant by doing such kind of activities...plz help me vth it.....im deeply worried ... (51 words)

Is this forever? Will I ever be able to trust him or anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I really don't feel that I was raised right, my mom being an alcoholic and my dad always at work. Being the only girl my two brothers have always turned to me for care and that stuff. I never really felt that I had someone there for me though. My mom was always drunk, ... (286 words)

My girlfriend's mother gave her an ultimatum - now she's going to abort our baby and she won't even listen to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - recently my GF and i had a falling out with one another. it wasn't because we didn't get along or anything like that. everything was fine until we found out she was pregnant. right now my GF has a 3 year old son and lives in an apartment in the city. she has no job and her m... (1287 words)

How do I get over my love for a married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age - Well, don't really know how to start. Everyone I talked to, friends and family tell me to get over him, but no one really tells me how. Here is what happened: I am 20 and I was never in a relationship. I had my crushes and a few "boyfriends", but they were not real boyfr... (498 words)

My girlfriend isn't affectionate toward me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and she never shows affection toward me. She always finds ways whereby we don't have quality time together like going shopping or meeting up with friends. The thing that upsets me is that with her exs, she has shown them... (272 words)

Boy or best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay it started with me liking this guy lets call him "bob" he was perfect for me and i realy liked him but i never talked to him, time went by and i found myself talking to him. my love for him grew even more and i became more and more obsessed with him trying to always talk ... (151 words)

How can I spark his interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so im a black girl. I go to school with a lot of snobby white kids. Most of the guys there are racist. There are 2 black guys that go there. One i never talk to and have no classes with and he only like white girls. The other is really cute but he thinks im ugly. We live in ... (89 words)

He says he won't change for me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend if he would ever change for me and he said he'd change when he wanted to; I got upset and I told him I didn't wanna be with him if he wouldnt do that for me. his reply was how do you expect me to change when you act the way you do with me. I'm nothing but ... (122 words)

I feel guilty about him being in jail for choking me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am trying to figure out why I feel guilty, Makes no since other then I have feelings. I put my X-Boyfriend in jail for choking me,come to find out he had been doing Meth and cheating on top of all the mental abuse. He would tell me that I had problems and something is wrong... (347 words)

I just found out my boyfriend lost his virginity to another girl during our break up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I broke up. He got with another girl and he lost his virginity with her. But then we got back together four months ago and I just found out he had sex with her. It hurt me really bad and I dont know how to feel about it. So do I break up with him or not? I d... (68 words)

I feel like I've been dumped without the closure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, would like people's opinion on this as I'm confused by my current situation... I've been dating this guy who's in the RAF for about 6 weeks now, we met on a dating site, and have had 3 dates. We have been getting to know each other, and things seemed to be going well, we ... (313 words)

29 years old, never had a relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - In a nutshell, this is my situation: I'm 29 years old and I've never had a relationship with a girl, never been kissed, never held hands, never been on a date, never even asked one out, and it's suddenly just hit me that I've basically wasted my youth. To elaborate, I've ... (614 words)

Sex with every other one but me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating a girl for over a year now , Im a virgin and she is not . She knows I want sex and its not just because im horny its because im a 22 year old who has waited for the right girl to come into my life and I can share that moment with . She said she just cant take ... (400 words)

I told my boyfriend I was raped and he says things "don't add up"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering was I raped. Last week, I received a call from an old friend who said that he wanted to talk to me and I told him that we can talk on the phone and he said that he wanted to talk in person. I told him to meet me over a friend house so he did I got in the vehicle ... (249 words)

Why does this guy keep standing me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a guy who is 4 years older than me. I met him through a friend and we immediatley hit it off. We started dating and then we decided to be exclusive. We've gone through the I love you's and how "perfect I am for him..." The problem is I'm leaving for college in a few ... (296 words)

She's wondering if I'm just palming her off on other guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i have always had a fairly exciting sex life. A while ago whilst talking dirty during sex we decided she should have sex with another man. Well to be honest it was my idea, as it was something i'd fantasied about! We discussed it for a while and decided to go... (301 words)

I'm 21, he's single and 29. Could he be interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We had a mutual attraction at first sight, like, we just stood there and looked at each other for 5 seconds before i realised i had to open the door. Whenever we passed each other in the corridor, he’d hold eye contact with me but I’d look away, when he passed my table (i sit ... (245 words)

How do I show my brother's friend that I want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, a lot. He's cute, funny and nice to everyone.. I am a bit nervous talking to him since he's my brother's friend. And I like him a lot..how do I show that I like him and want to be in a relationship?... (48 words)

Thinking about dating my step sister.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - OK I'm 15 and my stepsister is 14. We are really close. We've known each other for like three years. She is the type of girl i like to date. I think I am starting to develop feelings for her. I don't mean have sex with her because I don't like to have sex all the time for no ... (102 words)

Is his ego and pride getting in the way of something really great?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age - I am in my mid-forties and have a question. I asked a man out for coffee. We hit it off right away and ended up dating for six months. He would tell me how glad he was that I asked hm out, that I meant the world to him, that everything with us seemed just so right and even ... (773 words)

Mother in law problems....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I feel like my mother in-law is constantly judging me, accusing me, and questioning everything about me-- and it hurts. One minute I feel that her and I are fine, but then she will get in these moods where me and my husband can tell something is bothering her.... (343 words)

I am seriously considering responding to one of these ads on Craigslist if my wife does not show me some love soon!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So here is the scenario. My wife and I have been together for more then 8 yrs.When we got together she already had 2 children from artificial insemination, so when I came into the picture there was no dad to have to compete with. It started hot and heavy as she was 39 and I was ... (218 words)

I am stuggling to cope with my wife's close friendship with another man, what is going on between them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Help, For the last 3 years, my wife has had a male friend, and I just don't trust his intentions are just friends with my spouse. I have discussed this with my wife repeated times, to no resolution. She promises me that there relationship is just friendship. But when you spend ... (583 words)

Is it possible to get back with my ex? Or am I too late?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I dated this guy for about a month. Two weeks ago today, we broke up. The reason for this is that I got mad over something really stupid. A rumor that was accidently spread by his friend. I wanted him to go tell his friend to stop it and recant what he said. In stead of ... (300 words)

Will he get mad if I try to give him head whilst he is playing video games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to give my boyfriend a bj while he's playing video games.. Will he like this or will he just get mad for distracting him? How do I initiate this, slowly or just take off his pants?... (38 words)

How do I deal with all these unanswered questions after the break-up?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been 6 months since I split up with my ex-boyfriend who I was with for 2 1/2 years, but, whilst I am more or less over him, I still occasionally have feelings of anger towards him because he never explained what was going on with him. I was having a really rough time at ... (416 words)

Bar help! He says , she says..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend both like to drink/the bar scene, but when we go together we fight. He says I carve attention from other guys and I say he ignores me and doesnt include me. Its causing us to fight! What do we do?... (44 words)

I want to convert all these dates into a relationship! Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dating for me is a way to get to know more a guy. It is an enjoyable way to build a relationship but when a guy and I are on a date, for example, the problem is that I am talking too much that I think a guy gets intimated. I had a lot of guys that I dated but this summer as I ... (121 words)

She's having a baby with her husband, should I continue the affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age - I have a very confusing situation at the moment. Long story so here goes. I had an affair with someone for just over a year. We were both married and had young children. We both fell desperately in love. I couldn't carry on with my wife so I left. Not to be with the other w... (419 words)

I think I'm pregnant...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i think im pregnant as the last time i got my period was 4weeks ago, i have been feeling very emotional and tiered. i have just left school and i really dont no what to do please help me ... (40 words)

I'm scared to have sex, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but im still a virgin and scared. wht should I do?... (19 words)

He acts like I'm a different class but I don't care about money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm having a few problems with my boyfriend at the minute. we're going to florida on holiday this year for a week and we're going to london for his birthday (which i've paid for).. we are both students and both work part time. the only difference is that i have my mum a... (284 words)

Is my boyfriend uninterested or unexperienced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 9 months now. We live in the same city, but we both have busy schedules (we're both working), so we don't see each other too often, so our main way to communicate remains the internet (instant messages) and the phone. I'm not the ... (517 words)

Is there any chance I can get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 6 years ask for a break of three week and got it he came back sayiong we are over and that he knows it will be hard on me for the next three months but he said he text me then and we be friend. is this the end or is there any way i can get him back is there a ... (83 words)

Is my boyfriend bi or gay? Or do I just not know how to take a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and i noticed his behavior changing. He has asked me to toss his salad, when we r intimate in the 69 position, he pushes my face in his rear area, he owns a dildo that was part of a halloween costume and he never got ... (197 words)

Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i would "sink so low, to actually... (260 words)

Back with my ex, but I wish he was affectionate like he used to be..

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 26 yr old single mother. I left my daughter's father because he was abusive. We only knew each other for a couple months when I became pregnant, lived together for less than a yr and now separated (never married). Before him, I was in a long term relationship. Everyone ... (395 words)

Why do boyfriends, get jealous of guyfriends?

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12 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is jealous of one my best guy friends and I. I mean, I can understand to an extent but he just kinda mad me angry/sad/idefk. We were all in a group talking and I was giving him shit for not texting me the past few days, only jokingly of course, and I'm like,"Yea, I ... (133 words)

Am I at risk of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me! Very worried and panicked! I have been on the combined contraceptive pill for 2 weeks, and have been spot on taking them on time, except for one time on the 4th where I was 3 hours late because of being at a friends. However I took it as soon as I remembered.... (139 words)

He's using dating sites 'for fun' and claims I'm insecure..is he looking to replace me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for five years. He asked me to move two hours away and come live with him after one year. I have two children that were in high school at the time who I left with my ex to finish school.(I also had a stalker problem that swayed my decision to move too). ... (232 words)

He isn't speaking to me over something that is completely out of my control. Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm in a really tough situation right now and could use some fresh eyes. I know its really long but please be patient, I'm desperate. A little background: I dated my first love for two years and a year and a half ago he broke my heart. I still to this day don't know why. He ... (850 words)

I feel I just need a push, to help end this troubled 13yr marriage..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - should i leave my husband after 23 years? i have been married for 13 years but been with my husband for 23 years in total meeting him aged 15 and he was 24, we have four daughters whos ages run from 20 to 3, the relationship was built on distrust in the beginning with my ... (320 words)

Summer vacation with an 11month old baby..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I was wondering how hard or easy it is to travel for a summer vacation with a 11-month old baby? Her father is suggesting that we leave her home and we go on a four-day break somewhere? I just want to know what are the pros and cons for travelling with a young on... (68 words)

So she was with another guy...now I am starting to WANT her to cheat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - *OP's Original Title* I told the story in my last post...I am 42, she is 27, recently married...together about 2 years. We had separated for about 2 weeks last fall and i recently found out she had sex with a 22 year old guy during that period. At first it hurt...by now i... (260 words)

Any advice for my first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - First date - what do most pplz do on first date - did you makeout or kiss at the end of it?... (22 words)

I want time apart, but don't want him to abandon our daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for six yrs. and now have a 9 month old daughter. After a few months into our relationship i ended it because i didn't like the fact that he smoked. He promised to quit and he did for about a year. I then began to notice that he often smelled like ... (277 words)

Please help - am confused my ex bf rang after 4 months!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's Original Title* Hello all, I need to some help with understanding whether my ex-bf has any feelings left for me. I dearly still love him. He dumped me 4 months back when he decided suddenly that we aren't compatible since I have 'a degree, a job and a house' and h... (773 words)

Why is porn bad?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for the food when she cooks or... (424 words)

Help! Why did he break up with me and continue to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 and my boyfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I love him and want him back. He is having financial problems and that is part of the reason he ended it. He is basically broke and he said he didn't have time to put in a relationship right now, that he needed to ... (203 words)

Help! I don't want to have sex with my husband anymore!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First and foremost, my husband when we got married was in great shape. Now, he is almost 400 pounds ( not the point) but anyways, ive caught him on hook up sites creating ads on craigslist for sex even with men and im so disgusted! His actions and his looks repulse me! when ... (199 words)

Are all my friends lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

12 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I've been with this group of people that I thought were my friends, we use to go out every now and then, have beer and do some dumb stuff, like all friends do. My problem at that time was that I didn't have a car, so I was asking any of them to pick me up so we could ... (725 words)

I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a loving relationship and we have a great sex life. I don't know if I'm asking for too much out of sex but I'm young and I have no idea if I've ever really had an orgasm? It's difficult to explain and I know its a mental thing but isn't there a way to ... (104 words)

How can I get back together with my ex-girlfriend?

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12 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and myself broke up over small issue, that really has to do with other people more so than us. I would really like to get back together with her. It's been about 3 weeks, and I was wondering how long should I wait to contact her? Also, I was wondering what would ... (63 words)

My ex says he still loves me, but won't date me.

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm fourteen and am going to high school next year, my most recent ex boyfriend is turning sixteen in December and is going to be a junior next year. A week ago, he broke up with me after i said that i loved him, and that he thought he loved me too but thought that the ... (159 words)

What do you do when you never let them know how you felt?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - He liked me for a year and I started to like him back (this was last year). He showed it by staring at me in class often and trying to talk to me, but I was just so shy and never showed much interest back. Time passed and my feelings grew; I'd never felt this strongly be... (277 words)

How can I help my depressed homesick boyfriend?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my live in bf seems to be depressed and upset about work and homesick from Ga. We have been having problems in our relationship.. financial, and his unwillingness to propose though he let me know he bought a ring over 4 months ago. He's moody and really sad all the time.. H... (159 words)

My husband of 32 years cheated on me after my cancer treatments

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12 June 2010 (F)

age - My husband cheated on me a few months after my cancer surgeries and radiation. I found out he not only had an affair but moved in with her. See he had a job with the state and our move was delayed because of my cancer and a bunch of things. So he said he left her, and we ... (250 words)

Help with working top during sex

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Okay well I have been with my boyfirend for awhile....Love him alot..We have sex on the regular...Its jus that I know he likes when I get on top...But I don't really like to bcuz I dont really know how to work top....I only get on top for a little bit then... (96 words)

Can someone else trigger anxiety in us?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for another person to cause anxiety? I have been in a very verbally, physically, and emotionally draining relationship for two years. I constantly feel like I am walking on eggshells, I could cry at the drop of a hat, and there really does not seem to be a... (200 words)

How are our metabolisms so different when we are twins?

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12 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a twin brother. Although we are not identical, people have a lot of trouble tellng the difference between us. We were both same height, look the smae, have the same build and weight the same. We went to different universities. During my freshman year I gained a lot mor... (211 words)

Will I ever recover from the affair?

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12 June 2010 (F) age 51-59 - I am 42 I have had a very deep affair and caught. i so regret it and I am paying deeply. I am so sorry for hurting my husband and also going against the person I am. Will I ever recover? ... (41 words)

What do I do about my friend's husband who crosses boundaries?

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12 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My old roommate and I still talk and have fun when we hang out together. She's married and right now her hubby is away on business, so I get to see her a little more. When her husband comes back in September she wants to have a "welcome back" party for him. The problem is, at ... (181 words)

How do we overcome our problems and build a lasting relationship?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There were a few incidents in the beginning of our relationship where he flirted with others in my presence. On fb are pics(4) of him and others.some recent others from his vacation while we were together (these pics i saw in his cam when he got bk and was upset). he says i ... (530 words)

In love with celebrities - why does it hurt so much?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I would really appreciate if you all could help me out! I've been having these issues regarding boys that I feel attracted to. Many of them are out of my reach; for instance, celebrities, or guys in other states. I always get this strong feeling of desire when I see them, ... (95 words)

She said she wasn't interested in me, but I get mixed messages. Should I stick around?

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12 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i love a girl since i was 17. i told her what i felt. she was not attracted to me (what she said), but since then, she has been behaving strange. its a real real long story, but ill try to cut it short. sometimes, she replies to my texts, sometimes starts texting herself,... (161 words)

Is it okay to be attracted to single dads?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to be married to a guy who has a child but not married? I want to know the views of women around the world with this kind of situation. I am 25 and I am kinda attractive to guys who have kids but they are not married. These guys have experienced a worst relationship ... (76 words)

Does sex really matter in a relationship?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a boyfriend when I was college. We lasted for almost two years but nothing sexual happened to us. In short, I am still a virgin. Then, I had a boyfriend again but I didn't allow him to have sex with me. Then, the third boyfriend, same story. These relationships I had ... (90 words)

How do I talk to my supermarket crush?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering if anyone can help me. i seen this guy at a super market 4 times. and during those times hes been staring at me a lot. and he even asked me once if he was in my way while i was trying to look for something while he was beside me. so i replyed no and we both lau... (129 words)

He won't stand up to his mom for me!

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partners mum will not allow me to go to any family functions for birthdays etc. It was his birthday last month so he went to his mums house which is across the road for a birthday dinner. He asked if I could attend and she said no. Last night I said to him why cant you ... (164 words)

He took me to a bar with a topless waitress!

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night my partner and I went to his mates house to visit. His mates said can I drop them off at the pub so I did not realising that my partner wanted to go in for drinks too so I went into the pub. My partner knew there would be a topless waitress there and did not let me ... (134 words)

Just moved in but we fight. Should I call it off?

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12 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance just moved in together. Every other month we get into these fights and its over little things I want to call it off but hes the best thing thats ever happened to me. Its like the love is still there but just by a little bit. What should i do?... (61 words)