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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really like her and want this to work but I'm afraid I'm going to lose her over the summer!

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I met this Great Women on a Online Dating Site She is a Britsh Aupair in NYC We tlked online on facebook and on the Phone We both like each other and agreed to met and date. We been on three dates and we are dateing for the rest this month and really like each other but ... (276 words)

I'm really scared about going in to a gay/lesbian bar for the first time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ahhhhh im really scared!! ive recently come out as a lesbian to my two best friends. nobody else knows. my friends really want me to be happy and know that i really want a girlfriend so are being really supportive and taking me to a gay/lesbian club tomorrow night. the pr... (147 words)

Mind games, or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i have been away from the lady i still love for just under a year. we had 2 kids they are aged 8 and 6. she keeps saying she loves me but not in love with me. she has been seeing some guy for 4 mounths. did she love me or did she only say this to string me along?... (61 words)

My girlfriend won't chat to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my fiance's friends bf lives in belgium and everyweek travels to the uk to meet his gf. last night in bed, my fiance said to me "would you do that for me", to which i replied "nah, its not worth it", and now shes not chatting to me. i apologised and she still doesnt budge. wh... (62 words)

I can't find the words to tell him not to come visit me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was a uni, I was in a relationship with this guy for 2 years. He was my first serious boyfriend and I loved him very much. We split up when I graduated and I left to go travelling for 2 years. Over the past 4 months, I finally started dating someone else and although ... (172 words)

The man who's too perfect, or the man who's not perfect enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem. I have to choose between my boyfriend, and my ex. I love both of them and i dont know who to go with. I broke up with my ex because i thought it wasn't working, but am now realizing that im missing him terribly. But, i dont waant to hurt my boyfriend. He ... (95 words)

I'm not just a learner driver, I'm a learner in love too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im looking for some advice. I have fallen in love with my driving instructor and i need advice in how to tell him that i like him he is single as am i, (hes divorced he was married to my doctor)and i look after my doctors new partners dog. Anyway how do i go about letting... (127 words)

Does anyone know of any good romance novels???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello again! I just had a quick question. I'm 19 as is my boyfriend. He is away at work during the weeks of the summer and is only home one day of each weekend for the entire summer. Before work started we used to spend every day together so this is a bit of a change.... (149 words)

Can someone help me figure this out... does he want to break up with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always saying i need a better guy and that i dont deserve him and that he's a bad guy and doesnt want me to get in trouble but he also always says he loves me and misses me and hes so sweet and i dont want to leave him but im starting to think that this is a ... (85 words)

Is there a right way to have phone sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well im worried about tonight, my boyfriend likes me to be on the phone with him when i masturbate so he can hear. I dont mind it at all and we have done it once before. But last time we did i was really self conscious about the way i would sound and he was very patient ... (150 words)

How do I avoid getting hit on when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, it doesn't happen often, but sometimes guys come up to me when I'm in a public place like a coffee shop or park by myself. Usually I'm reading a book or something but that doesn't really stop them from trying to talk to me. No one has ever overtly hit on me, but they try to ... (626 words)

How can he just leave me in this situation and throw me to the wolves when he is supposed to love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, i cannot find work and haven't been able to in four months. my boyfriend makes 180,000.00/yr., is selling his house from his past marriage, but because his ex-wife is putting such a financial strain on him and he spent so much money dating his last girlfrie... (326 words)

What is a normal amount of sex for a relationship and why can't he stay hard?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, my boyfriend and i have been together six months and at first, he explained that he left his wife because there was no sexual attraction anymore, that she had gained a lot of weight, didn't care about herself, and as a result, when they did have sex, he would ha... (323 words)

Do you think he'll really come back to me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend's grandpa is dying so he told me he wants to be alone and said it is over. What should I do ? He said he would come back when all the family crap is done... But I miss him so much.... (45 words)

Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of educated individuals. I w... (450 words)

How do you understand mixed messages?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I need some advice. What is it about guys? Can you not just say what you want?! How do you interpret and understand all the mixed messages and tell if a guy really likes you or not. Are we just friends, do you want more? Why cant guys just SAY how they feel? Guys... (110 words)

Is he too "big" for me or do I just have to get used to his size?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, thanks for reading! this is my first post here. so im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together for about 3 months. we have had sex 2 times together. well in the past ive been with 2 other guys. both were boyfriends. i have had sex a total of maybe 20 times ... (210 words)

I seem to be unable to climax through vaginal intercourse. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to be unable to climax through vaginal intercourse. When my boyfriend goes down on me or when he plays with my clit I'm fine but when we have sex I cant seem to come. I've been with a few men and I've had the same problem with all of them, I've tried masturba... (119 words)

He's sooooooooo mean!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I dated for five years; to make the long story short after long bickering and fights on i want space i want to hang out with my friends blah blah.. he ends the relationship.. he tells me that he is sorry that he caused so much drama, that it has nothing to do ... (201 words)

He doesn't treat me right but I love him... should we stay together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 16, and i used to know everyone at school and love life. I met a boy last summer and liked him right off when we started getting to know each other. We started dating and now its been since 0ctober of last year. i cry every day because of how he treats me and i dont ... (138 words)

Lost my sex drive. Why and what can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I no longer have a sex drive. It's horrible. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and at first we'd have sex at least 3 times a night on a weekend (We only see each other on weekends really cos' of College and University.) but now when we see each other I ... (100 words)

Family dating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, i'm 19 and my cousin just turned 18. since the day i hit puberty and started noticing girls, i have been in love with her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't feel the same about me. to me, she's the most beautiful thing i have ever seen. it's not that i want to have sex with her ... (199 words)

My wife no longer wants to have any physical contact with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 14 years. we married close to 2 years ago. She no longer wants to have any physical contact with me. I hug her now and then, kiss her goodbye for work and at times initiate sex only to be pushed away or even kicked or slapped, nothing hard but it is ... (261 words)

What is this person after???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello this is just a bit of an update of a development of a question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-please-interpret-this-girls-behavior.html basically I left for canada and then returned to Seattle, well basically me B and S went to Olympia a couple of days b... (911 words)

Tips to show him I'm still interested???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've really liked this guy at school for ages now. He knows I like him and we've been getting to know eachother. He seems to like me too. We're not actually 'going out' but I wouldn't say there's nothing going on between us either. Lots of people know there's something going on ... (216 words)

How can I let him know his porn watching is hurtful to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, i have been living with and only dating my boyfriend for six months, so we really jumped into our relationship too fast. after about two months, he wanted to watch porn while having sex. my ex husband, unfortunately, ruined the experience with me in a way because ... (202 words)

Wife and I are back together but her heart is still with someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently had a seperation with my wife and now we're living together but she has feelings still for another guy! What can I do?... (26 words)

Help!!! Does she like me or is she just being nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is my original post from June 1 2010 Dear cupid, I am a 28 year old SWM, recently a girl that i have casually known for the past 2 years who is a good friend of one one of my close male friends was in a situation where she needed to get out of the place she was liv... (775 words)

I don't know what my destination should be when I've found it impossible to find romantic attachment to any other human being.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Howdy everyone, 6 years ago I met someone who has consistently shown herself to be the most amazing human being to walk this earth. I love her, and all I want is for her to be happy. I am not pursuing her. I'm lost now though, I don't know what my destination should be when ... (115 words)

How to get past emotional cheating by your husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So recently I had this gut feeling I had two years ago to check the phone bill cause my husband was acting out of the ordinary, picking fights, very distant even in the bedroom. SO I checked it to my surprise I find that he has been texting this number for the last four months ... (245 words)

Paranoia on my part or is he still getting over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is still in contact with his ex. I have spoken to him about it and after a long talk he's told me that they are completely over each other. He says that they understand that they'll never work out and the only thing they're taking out of the r/s is their ... (124 words)

Yesterday I kissed another boy and now feel awful about my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for three months, hes the nicest boy in the world. Yesterday i kissed someone else. I didnt mean to do it and i feel awful. I dont want to tell anyone because i feel so ashamed of myself. I really dont know what to do. If i told him it ... (99 words)

My mum is ruining my relationship because of his smelly feet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old and i have found a boy i really like, hes a couple of years older then me and lives quite far from me. we started dating but because of the distance when we visit each other we have to stay over. he has a problem with the smell of his feet, it doesnt bother me ... (249 words)

Who to believe my best freind or my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OP Own Title" ok ive been hurt in the past a few times and do have trust issues so when i meet my ex at christmas i did question his motives i told him of my past so he could understand why it would take me a while to open my heart to him. now everything was going well i was ... (199 words)

I feel guilty after I'm intimate, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 now..I'm almost back with my ex.Today i had physical intimacy[not sex,only oral sex and a foreplay] with him..I try to control the intimacy but we cannot..I really want to control it. Because after i'm intimate with him i start feeling guilty!I think i'm just 17 and... (90 words)

I'm really worried that I am repeatedly destroying my relationship and I can't stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OP Own Title" Hi I am 25 and this is my second serious relationship. My first lasted 6 years and this one is just over a year. I love my boyfriend but a few months into the relationship I gave him glandular fever. He’s 31 and got really sick for 6 weeks. Not a great start... (485 words)

Kissed another girl in a bar and my girl took off, how can I prove to her that I have changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I posted a question a few days ago about how to get back my girlfriend after I stupdly and self destructively kissed another girl in a bar last weekend. She took off for home two days ago to spend time with her family and get away from all of this and to "mourn me". She ... (456 words)

The man I fell for so deeply has changed. Should I stay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He was always a lovely person to be with and i always thought he was the one but lately hes changed. He will always call me hurtfull names and whenever he responds to be he uses the word slag instead of my name. Even to my face. ... (174 words)

How do you break up in a nice way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, how to dump a guy nicely? What exactly should I say? I know that texting and e-mailing is such a cowardly thing to do, but I won't be able to look him straight in the eyes if I were to tell him person to person. This will break both of our hearts, and it will affect him the ... (84 words)

Why can't she leave him for a better life with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. This girl I'm in love with, has a bf. She's with him for 5 years already. While with him she started to have feelings for me. But, she has hurt quite a few times because she'll ask me to move on a few days after confessing her feelings for me and that's because of her guy.... (158 words)

Concerned about the man she slept with while on a break

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for a little over a month now and very happy. Previously I had dated her for almost 2 years. We are great together although I am significantly older (I’m 41 shes 27) I recently found something out…and I am just trying to understand how to feel ab... (524 words)

I don't think I can handle things when he starts seeing her again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I very recently found out my husband was having an affair at work. It has only been going for a couple of months. He said it began following the death of his dad late last year, things havent been ideal as far as the physical side for us for a while before this, and he sai... (250 words)

I just can't see him as a platonic friend!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really battling with something and i need your help. I am in love with my best friend and have been for almost 2 years. We get along great and can't imagin life without each other!! But my feelings keep making me feel sad, because i just can't see him as a totally platonic ... (168 words)

How do I erase my memories and routine of my ex gf now that I'm single ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there well my ex broke up with me about a week ago. were been dating for about a year . We were very attracted and had strong feelings for each other . we would miss each other as soon well not see each other or we stop talking anyway... i used to see her 4 days o... (369 words)

I don't know if he will ever want to be boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This will be long sorry... I have been spending a lot of time with this guy from college we do the same subject and we will be flat mates from september so i will see him a lot! From the start of the year we were attracted to eachother but took a little while to admit this to ... (383 words)

How do I make him stop asking for something I'm not ready for?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 16 and my boyfriend Really wants a blowjob. and he's younger than me, he's 14. i dont really wanna do that, just thiking about it makes me gag. everytime he brings it up i tell him im not ready and im not sure ill ever be. but i can see he's sad and dissapointed. an... (85 words)

How long is it guna take he's 28 yrs old???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need sum serious help I'm only 23 wit 1 son who's 4 yrs old. I've been wit his father for 4 years ...I wana let go bcuz I found numerous txt msg frm other females about sex,dating,being in his house and other shit...I even caught him in his car wit anotha female...even ... (145 words)

I need help with the aftermath

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, Would you please tell me what I can do next time? I screwed up royally, and all I can do is to learn from my awful mistakes, however painful that may be. Please take time to read my long story. Thank you. I am a twenty year old who really dropped the ... (564 words)

I want to think about him not talk about my past sex life! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Haay, Im 16; And My Boyfriend is 14; He Recently found out that ive gone out with something like 3 chicks before him and that im Bi; He is pressuring me to hook up with a chick, btu i just want to be with him; He Knows i still have feelings for my last girlsfriend; and he ... (160 words)

Is she losing interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for almost a month, not a long time. The other night we had a serious talk, namely that she hasn't really date many people, and they they have all turned into long term relationships, and second that she is worried she will get a job in another place ... (287 words)

Engaged but still have the single male mentallity, Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello people, I'm 24 year old male engaged to my beautiful finance of 21 of age. Ok the question is why is it that when I see other females I get attracted so fast and a lot of sexual thoughts run through my head? I know its wrong but its something that happends automatically. ... (70 words)

She may have cheated, but it was early in the relationship. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with this beautiful woman for 9 months, it started out as an affair and the relationship has grown into a strong love for each other. I have lived with her now for 4 months. We are strongly considering marriage, but I have only one major concern...I think she ... (856 words)

My insecurities are bringing me down. Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have found it very difficult to overcome insecurity. My partner cheated on me in the past once several years ago, and has lied a few times regarding his relationships with other women in the past too. There has also been a lot of problems with other women interfering, my ... (243 words)

How to make a long distant relationship good going?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi dearcupid!as everybody say long distance relationships are very difficult and hard to maintain and there arises many problems of misunderstanding.but what my question is that how to maintain a long distant relationship good going?give me some tips..i really love him and so ... (55 words)

Is it really possible to have no sex drive whatsoever? Or am I just depressed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've stopped caring about whether or not I ever have a girlfriend. I don't know if this is normal. But my question is...Is it possible to have no sex drive whatsoever? I am 31 and I've become so depressed and disappointed with my life, that I just want to be left alone. I don't ... (114 words)

Falling for my divorced teacher! Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.I don't know how I feel that I love my teacher.He's 32 and I'm 18. He's been married and Divorced it's not his fault though I think. He's so nice and kind and a very understanding person. I fell so sorry for him . I like him .I don't care though his older than me it's not ... (90 words)

I can't orgasm during sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - No matter what I do during sex I can't orgasm can u tell me why?... (15 words)

Does he masturbate to much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, I need some insight from the guys on a personal matter. I know that it is a private thing, but I am having a hard time dealing with how much my boyfriend masturbates. We probably have sex about twice a week on average and I would like to have more but I am having a hard ... (195 words)

How do you handle your partner spending so much time away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a question for those people who have a tour guide boy/girlfriend or husband/wife. My girlfriend is an international tour guide and I'm dealing with a situation where she is only at home for about 7 or 8 days before she heads off on her next 5 day tour. During tho... (231 words)

How do we break the silence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I can sit in the same room with each other for hours and yet it feels as if we are in seperate rooms. This is a daily thing. We have tried buying games to play, getting new movies, even writting to each other, but we always seem to go back to the silence and ... (67 words)

My parents wont support my career choice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have just turned 17 i left school a year ago i have only had 1 job in that time at that was a temporary job over the Christmas period. Every job i apply to reject me almost straight away i have improved my cv and covering letter and still nothing. i made the huge mistake... (235 words)

How come he pays more attention to the dog than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im dating this guy,i been living with him for about 2 months...im always wanting his attencion and affection. he tells me he doesnt know how to love like that..but also he has a dog who hes had for 13 years.he shows her all the love and in every way i want to be loved in...it ... (87 words)

Shouldn't he be the one making plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago, I started seeing this guy over the summer. Long story short, after about a month of seeing each other (and not being too serious) his ex came back into the picture. He ended things with me to see his ex. After about a week, his ex ended things with him. He ... (291 words)

Very Confusing Relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a very confusing situation: I am in a long term relationship and I work in a field that requires me to be away from home a few nights a week and the people i work with have been my second family. For the past 4 months one of my co-workers who is also in a relationship ... (128 words)

I love my bestfriend and now that I'm sure that she feels the same am losing her because she is afraid of something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid !! i wrote earlier about how much i loved my bestfriend and that she keeps on saying things that get me jelous , we are flirting and everythig and what i wanted to know is how to change my position from bestfriend to a bofriend cause i realy love her and she means ev... (227 words)

G/f put GPS tracking on my phone and I found out about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with the the same girl for the past 6 years and living with her for the past 3. Recently I have noticed a significant change in her, she has become very confrontational about things, acting very jealous in regards to who I talk to, and so on. It ... (123 words)

Is she just using excuses to justify her actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - about a week or two ago my GF wanted to go on a break with me because she is depressed about having to get an abortion (we both want to have the baby but certain circumstances are making it impossible for us to have it) and she said feels like she needs to fix a few things ... (679 words)

I see this relationship going somewhere but my mum hates him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 14yrs old i like my boyfriend a lot and my mom doesn't like him because when he came over she saw some marks on his neck and said that they were hickey marks but i told her the truth and that i was on the phone with him while his cousin pinched him the were at the ... (90 words)

What if everything he said was a lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 20 years old and i know that I am young and I know that there is lots of fish in the sea. Someone great told me that you'll know when you first meet someone that they are the right one for you, that you just know. I have talked and dated lots of guys before and I ... (1718 words)

I've annoyed a good friend and need ideas on what to do next!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 June 2010 (F)

age - What to do next? Here goes, I have annoyed a good friend whom I now realise means more to me than I thought. We had an arguement over repairing my car last weekend, and he called me a know it all, that I didn,t know what i was talking about, and that I always had to hav... (274 words)

How to deal with my competitive friends?

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10 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have two best friends, "Sara" and "Emily." Sara has a boyfriend, Emily is single. We’ve all known one another since high school. Sara and Emily have always been fiercely competitive with one another. In college, they would brag and try to out do one another when it came to ... (183 words)

My new husband refuses to spend time with me and swears at me when I ask him to!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my husband that he should spend more time with me. We have only been married for 5 months and he doesn't spend time with me. We are intimate like 2 or3 times a month or two max. Whenever, i bring this spending time together question he says to leave me the fuck alone. ... (66 words)

She initially told me she had a high sex drive! But since moving in together, I've been living like a monk!

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there - i'm looking for some advice please... I have been with my girlfriend for roughly a year now, and she recently moved in with me. We have a really good relationship, we're both kind people and considerate and loving to each other. Now we've never had much of a sex life... (369 words)

I wear a promise ring, and I want to know how to get over a guy who tried to have sex with me

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I get over a guy who tried to get me in bed with him? I mean yah i hate him for it but i still like him. lol i told him afterward if he wants to get laid so bad he should crawl up a chickens butt and wait. but thats not the deal. i want to know how to get over him ... (87 words)

His friends lied about me, so he broke up with me!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend broke up with me just because his friends said that i was talking to another guys "online" but i told him i wasn't and all he can say is that I'm lying and and why i gotta lie. i really do like this boy so much! He mean everything to me,this happened... (138 words)

I've been instigating no contact with my ex, but he's twittered me and it's making me so comfused

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with and started no contact with my LONG DISTANCE ex about 5 weeks ago. 3 weeks after we broke up he had a new girlfriend. The final time I spoke to him he was very cruel, and I decided no contact was best for me to heal. 1 week after out final chat, which was ... (647 words)

Can having a pap smear affect your hymen??

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - just a question, i am a 20 yr old female and am a virgin. I got a pap smear test the other day as part of an general check up. I said i didnt need one for obvious reasons but the doctor wanted to give me one anyway just to make sure everything was ok. It really hurt and my w... (120 words)

Why don't I attract the right type of females?

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I seem to have run across a few questions. I need some female opinions on these... Not to boast about myself (I am quiet humble actually) but I am always refer d to as a "nice guy". I put the feelings and well being of anyone in front of me and usually serve others bef... (313 words)

How do we split bills in this kind of situation?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do we split bills in this one of a kind situation? I am in my 40's, female, and currently own a business, pay a mortgage on my home, and support 3 kids. The business is steady in the last year but not nearly as profitable as it once was. I do not receive child support fr... (596 words)

Now that we've graduated , my days are limited to find out if anything could happen between us!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Well, I do not kow how to start.I am a smart good looking girl. The guy I like is not my type but he is smart too. We take the same program and he was in my class. I realized that I like him during my second year. He used to look at me when I am talking or looki... (279 words)

Can love conquer the closet???

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an issue, my first issue actually. I'm an openly gay male (try and dress cute, carry bags, wear makeup on the occasion, very hard to miss that I'm not straight.) and I met this man who is bisexual. He's only dated women, which irronicaly is the same case for me (no boy ... (235 words)

I chose her over my boyfriend and now I'm open to getting hurt, what should I do?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have been close since sixth grade. In eighth grade I found out I was bi. She figured out she was too. I fell for her hard and she told me she liked me too, but I have a boyfriend who loves me. I had to choose between the two, and when I finally chose (I chose ... (156 words)

First boyfriend is saying he loves me, but is he trying to get back at his ex?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have never had luck in relationships. What I mean is that before today I had never been asked out. All my friends brag about their boyfriends, and what was I supposed to say? Anyways, a guy I have had a crush on asked me out and I said yes. He keeps on saying he loves me and ... (153 words)

I broke up with b/f and now I miss him!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my boyfriend i wanted to break up. But now i hardly see him maybe once a month he'll come by i miss him alot things are not the same. i wonder if i shouldnt see him at all? ... (52 words)

I want to hate and forget someone who I've begun to fall for

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend, she's gay, and we've known each other for a couple years but really got close since the middle of last year. Usually I hate being close with people and I hate telling them my personal problems. I'm more of the person who's the listener of other people's problems. But ... (361 words)

How do I go about contacting my absent boyfriend, I think I'm pregnant again

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I havent seen each other in a little over a month, maybe more. I don't know why he just disappeared the way he did. Before all of this I had lost his baby and he began to act weird after, a few weeks after I lost the baby we were intimate again and I have ... (160 words)

Should we try an "open relationship"?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We're each other's first everything and we're quite a great couple, if I do say so myself :). We're incredibly honest with each other and discuss EVERYTHING. Like who we find attractive, possible crushes on other people, any ... (399 words)

Infatuated with my female gym instructor

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a married woman and I have recently become completely infatuated with my female gym instructor. I have never felt an ounce of attraction for a woman before. She is all I think about. I am very shocked with these feelings! She is also married, and though she always ... (161 words)

Growing back my eyesbrows??

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I over plucked my eyebrows and I didn't like how it looked so I figured I'd let them grow back in so I could have them how they were.. Well it's been almost 2 weeks and they're not growing in fully like they should, there's bald spots and they're really thin.. I have a family ... (98 words)

What should I do now that I lack a destination?

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Howdy all, I'm writing because I've reached the conclusion of one particular chapter in my life and...I'm utterly lost as to where to go next. I'd go into detail as to how I arrived at this crossroads but I'd rather not bore anyone to death. The cliffnotes version is this: Boy ... (400 words)

Delicate situation

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10 June 2010 (M) age 30-35 - If i want to eat a girl out but her vagina smells, what should i do?... (16 words)

I want this married woman to fall in love with me!

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I want this woman that i have been good friends with for over two years now, I want her to fall in love with me and have sex with me on a regular basis, but the problem is that she is married and has a daughter and has been married to the same guy for 15 years now. We have had ... (267 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant and it seems she doesn't want sex or even to be touched lately.

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a concern that I would like some advice with. I have been with my Girlfriend who is 28 for just a little over two years now. We planned to have a baby and have succeeded. She is now about 9 weeks pregnant and we have also found out that we are going to be having twins. ... (178 words)

Why did he lead me on?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just got out of a relationship for a yr and a half, we have been having problems for a while. I started talking to somebody else about a week before i broke it off with my bf and i ended up cheating on him with this person. We talked for about two weeks and he told me he like ... (208 words)

Husband wants to attend ex-father-in-law's funeral!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age - My husband wants to attend the funeral of his ex-father in law. I feel very strongly that he should not. He wasn't particularly close to him but says he should do it out of respect. I would feel very uncomfortable going with him as I have met most of his ex wife's family a... (216 words)

Do you think a person is being too picky and missing out, or should they embrace singlehood?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, when do you realize you're just picky and when do you realize you're better off alone? I've never been able to stay in a long term relationship because I'll bail for reasons I think are completely legitimate. However, my friends are now telling me that I'm being to... (300 words)

Is there anything wrong with my blowjobs?

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10 June 2010 (?) age - How to arouse my husband when giving fellatio My husband loves me giving him bj before we actually have intercourse. He likes to have a dim light on and looks at the mirrior while I'm giving. He says he enjoys my bj but he doesn't like to cum so except when he's inside me. ... (74 words)

How do I ease this user and player out of my life?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive got a guy friend who at times i suspected of being a player. He is a nice guy, big time flirt, real charmer. when we first met, I fell totally in love with him, and told him. he never said he didn't feel the same way, but after I spilled my guts he treated me kindly and ... (514 words)

This guy tried to provoke a fight! Should I have let him get away with it?

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone , well i have decided to give up drinking once and for all mainly because i am tired of the hangovers and the shit that seems to happen when im out drinking ie,getting into fights and things like that , its funny though because in general im a very quiet calm ... (107 words)

How do I fight for love?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so I was seeing this man for about 9 months. We never planned on having feelings for each other or dating...we were just looking for sex. We had amazing sex, the best i've ever had. I was going through a divorce and he had a girlfriend that he felt he was missing something ... (129 words)

I don't want this relationship to end due to distance!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very much in love with my boyfriend, and he is in love with me. We've been together for over a year and in a few months I will be leaving for college. I'll be attending a university in New York City, only a few hours away from where we live. He loves the city, has access ... (154 words)

Girlfriend isn't ready for sex!

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10 June 2010 (M) age 30-35 - We've been together for 6 months now, but my girlfriend still isn't ready for sex. I've been patient, and respected her opinion, but my patience is running thin. The problem is that she wants me to pleasure her, I do it, but she never reciprocates so I end up with blue balls ... (86 words)

Why would my guy friend make out with me while I was trying to hook him up with a another friend?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently made friends with this incredibly nice guy who is one of my clients at my work. He explains to me that he's had no luck in the L.A. dating scene and so being the nice girl that I am, I suggested that he should date one of my other clients. We invited him over to ... (320 words)

Trapped in a big mess!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together on and off for four years. She has cheated on me, many times, and slept with people while we werent together. I have slept with one other person when she had moved to get away from me, and I really thought we were over. After a while ... (340 words)

Exboyfriend interested in the physical, current boyfriend doesn't seem to mind!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an ex- boyfriend who is still interested in me for the physical stuff. We fell asleep together and he told me that it felt right. Im confused, plus i have a new boyfriend right now. I told my new boyfriend that i fell asleep with my old boyfriend and we made out. My new ... (86 words)

Having problems with his daughter who is two years younger than I am.

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner and i have a massive age difference - 32 years to be precise. we've been together over a year now. he has a 17 year old daughter who he sees sundays - she's always hated me for the obvious reasons but is really close to his ex who is only a little older than me. i ... (309 words)

How to start a conversation with this lovely lost boy?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid There is this boy in my computing class and we sit and the same table and i try everything to start a conversion with him sometimes hes up for a converstion but other times he totallys blanks me ! when we are on the computers i sit next to him . im also in his art ... (152 words)

Best friend's boyfriend likes me and I want to break up with my boyfriend but not end the sex part.

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friends boyfriend told me that he likes me and that he wished he had met me before her. I have no idea what to do. I kind of have feelings for him but I don't know what to do about them. I don't want to mess up my friendship with her but I also don't want to hurt him by ... (128 words)

Too much body hair, how much will he care?

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10 June 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello, I am a 16 year old girl with too much body hair... My back and stomach. I have a boyfriend, he's amazing. He thinks I am so hot and I have the perfect body. When he goes to rub my tummy or my back, I pull my shirt down. He always asks why he can't touch my tummy or back.... (153 words)

Pregnant and feeling unloved!

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old. I have been married for 5 years and am currently pregnant with my second child. My husband has refuse to have sex while am pregnant. My husband is one of those husbands that does'nt share his feelings or say much. He comes home plays with his psp or goes on ... (188 words)

Should I keep waiting?

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10 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a pacific ocean between us. I dont have enough confidence to go on waiting for him cuz he has not call me lasts two days. He explained his mother is at home any how, i dont recieve his email neither. What can i do .The cross-area relationship is much hard that any ... (124 words)

How do I tell my cousin that I care for her?

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10 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help i cant stop thinking about my cousin as a girlfriend not as family i think she feels the same way because she says she loves me on the phone and in person but the thing is im three years older than her and we don't see each other that much. when i do were never ... (134 words)