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I really like this girl, but we've been friends for so long

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Question - (29 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *arkis writes:

There is a girl I really like. The only problem is we've been friends for two years. I think she might like me but I'm not sure. What do I do from here?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

Talk to her, trust me you don't want to wait and let this go on any longer. You're her friend so you know her pretty well and she knows you, the odds are that she likes you too or has seen signs that have made her curious what it would be like to date you. My only caution is that you have to really think about what you're willing to risk for this, if things don't work out it's unlikely that the friendship will ever be the same. You may end up losing the friendship, but sometimes the best relationships come from the best friendships.

Good Luck to you!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2010):

There's only one way, and that's to talk to her. You don't want to send any mixed messages if you're friends, because she will end up confused. You need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.

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A female reader, monbehel India +, writes (29 June 2010):

i think you should endeavour to develop the friendship to a level where you can talk to each other deeply about your liking about each other, your plans honestly and concerns. But you should be prepared for each other's opinion without feeling negative

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