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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Period not arrived after unprotected sex. Do I wait or take a test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I havent started my period and I was supposed to start yesturday. I have had unprotected sex im worried what should I do wait or take a pregnancy test?... (29 words)

Can pressure on a pubic bone give him similar pleasure as to what I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always wanted to know... if this is a good sensation for men as well? So if your going down on a girl and she is about to cum if you press your palm down just above her pubic bone it creates such a fantastic pressure that can create phenomenal orgasms (for me anyways, ... (95 words)

Confused as to where this is going with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. During the early months of our relationship, his father had passed away of a horrible battle with liver cancer. Since then, he has felt it necessary to be the "man of the house" and take over all of the duties of his ... (305 words)

Is doing this ridiculous or something I should do?

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11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, hazy judgement at the moment so I need help! Last June I met an amazing girl, we fell in love within a week, she broke up with her (then current) boyfriend and started dating me. It was very sudden and quick for both us, yet super amazing. But last month, she broke up... (934 words)

I'm a mess since our breakup, I just can't function

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years who I had wanted to marry, and spend the rest of my life with recently had a break up on Sunday the 6th, it was quite a brutal break up, and I'll admit, i've never been this depressed in my life. Nothing seems right, nothing tastes right, I can't ... (178 words)

Fiance expects me to be ok with her relationship with her ex, and I'm NOT ok!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance broke off a friendship with her ex last year after I came out and we realized things were serious between us. While I was in Arizona handeling legal matters She called and said that the owner had rehired him to the company we both work for the week prior and that she ... (119 words)

Damsel in distress

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my situation... I have been living with my bf for 3 months now and we have been dating for 8 months. I am unemployed and spend alot of time at home and have no motivation to go out and find a job in my field. I do have my own money so he hasn't been paying my rent, fo... (716 words)

Help! Married woman in love with another woman.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I am a married woman in love with another woman. My husband hates it and not seeing her is killing me. I love them both very much but obviously cannot make both of them happy. She was even willing to be just a side thing but he refuses. What am I suppose to do? Do ... (83 words)

How do you put your penis in your briefs?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there other people who do this too?... (61 words)

Issue regarding leakage around the non-flowered vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - please any advice? i've browsed and browsed and found nothing with this issue regarding leakage around the non-deflowered vagina.. recently had anal sex with my girlfriend but it slipped near her vagina (it's never been penetrated not even finger) i'm wondering if there i... (77 words)

Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t hurt him, but with all this ... (154 words)

He doesn't want a girlfriend so am I being stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. I’m in process of separation and divorce and about two years ago I meat this guy at work –we start sleeping together .I’m very much in love with him ,he told me that he loves me too but dosen't want a girlfriend. There is big difference in years between us ,however ... (293 words)

Am I going to fantasize and obsess over my ex forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, This is the third time I'm writing about the same relationship and I've gotten great advise in the past. i have been advised to leave the unhealthy,make up- break up relationship and i have been broken up with her now for a year. I'm trying to move on but it is ve... (152 words)

Do guys dream of marrying the girl who broke their heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age - a year ago I met agreat guy! We started out as friends, became closer but before we had our first real kiss, we had a small spontaneous awkward sexual moment. Too long to get into but basically we were interrupted. Anyway that was a few weeks ago. He has started to say he l... (275 words)

This is all wonderful but what happens next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Recently I have become very close to one of my male friends, spending all breaks, lunchtimes and whatever time we have together. This has been going on for about 6 weeks. I laugh with him (and occiainsoly at him), play with him and look after him when he's dow... (268 words)

How do you flirt with words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you flirt with someone im no good at these things bearing in mind i will be out on my driving lesson so i cant play or flick my hair or anythin like that What i mean is flirting with words what to say to him ... (47 words)

Leave it alone or tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay it started with me liking this guy , lets called him "bob" he is realy nice and funny and everything i look in a guy, i got friendly with him and we started to talk but then i found out he liked my best friend, i was realy annoyed because my best friend liked him too. so i ... (119 words)

Should I bring up the fact he may be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfiend for 3 years now and we have had our share of bad times. lately we have been doing really well adn getting along great. but last night he had too much to drink and fell asleep in the front room. i went to bed in the bedroom. around mignight his phone ... (157 words)

How can I find a good balance while dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - in the past i went from 0-to-60 in a matter of weeks when dating, and once the infatuation wore off, there was the inevitable argument that i'd pick to get out of it. that, or i just wouldn't call to the point it just fizzled away. i met my girlfriend a few months ago and --be... (254 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with other guys behind his back ... (139 words)

Why do girls hurt so badly when it comes to relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do girls get hurt so badly when it comes to relationships? I have good morals, and good things i want in a guy, but i get the complete jerks. I had a boyfriend who i was and am completely in love with and we broke up a ccouple weeks ago.. why is he being so non caring and ... (89 words)

Shouldn't we have given up on each other by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so this guy and i have known each other for about two years. We really had this thing going on. He liked me first and he showed it. He always talked to me and asked me for help or wanted to tell me something that i honestly didnt care about but listened to anyway because i ... (294 words)

He wants to end our relationship over his band!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years.... he just recently started a band.. he is the most important thing in my life, i cant be with out him.. i just cant... he just told me today he wants to break it off because he will be traveling someday with his band,, and ... (133 words)

I'm married but curious if she's interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I need some help understand this woman at my bank. A couple of months ago, I went to my bank to apply to refinance my car loan. I met a woman, the lending assistant. Her name was "Susan". She has always been very friendly with me but I always assumed it was because sh... (238 words)

Why do I always go crawling back when we fall out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Need Your Help, Please! Okay, this might take a very very long time to type up but here goes. I have been dating my boyfriend for around a year and 6 months now, but we have always been particularly close for the past 5 years. But, he was pretty nasty to me before we dated... (305 words)

Single mom....AGAIN!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone :) I'm going to get straight to it. I am 28 years old and have 3 children, and one on the way. Their father just came "back" in the picture after about 4 years of us being on and off. The first day he came back he told me how happy he was to be back. etc, and how ... (173 words)

He said he needs time away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. I love him very much.I have been nagging at him lately and its only because of the way I'm treated.he seems to spend a lot of time latey with his best friend and I have been feeling beyond neglected. I have tried telling ... (307 words)

Can I still get my ex boyfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody I need advice please.. I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years and he broke up with me because he said he needed space and time to him self.. I was sooo sad and depress I was really sad.. He said he wanted to live life and enjoy being 21 and we lived togethei... (495 words)

One way or the other I'm going to hurt someone, and I'll be hurt too!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help, i come from a very religious family. we are christians and my family follow the faith to the letter. recently they found out that my best friend is a lesbian through the gossips in our village. they were disgusted. they told me that she is going to burn in hell... (367 words)

What do I do about my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been in love with my ex for some time, but i broke up with him because what he says and what he does are 2 seperate things. he says he loves me, but he tells my friends he wants nothing to do with me whenever he gets mad. i really want to be with him, but im not sure if he ... (196 words)

Love this guy, but my ex hates him! Confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, bascially i really really really like this guy. I no he will go out with me, BUT ,my ex boyfriend is like worst enimies with him. now i dont want people to think im only going out with him to get back at my ex. also i dont want him 2 try and break up us. what should i... (68 words)

Should I be worried my partner watches porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I need to get advice and other women's point of view on my current situation.... my partner watches porn and downloads videos on both the PC and his mobile, which he thinks he keeps secret from me, when i find it and confront him he lies to my face about even doing it!And tri... (460 words)

I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed without him around. we started ... (883 words)

How do I start a conversation with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid There's this boy in my computing class and we sit at the same table , he is a very quiet boy but when around this friend he's a bit of a trouble maker. I really want to start a conversation with this boy please tell me what to do, how to start a conversa... (95 words)

He put the wedding on hold because of money. Will he ever be ready?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online, but recently we have argued alot more than usually... considering we never argured. He asked me to marry him, which I want to with all my heart, but now for some reason, it want to be put on hold. But not by my choice, by his.. He has reasons, (which a... (145 words)

Refreshing the sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age - How to Refresh our Sex Life I've been married to my husband for more than 20 years and we have a very active sex life. However, I guess he would somehow get bored because I know for sure he has got so used to our style for all these years. What can I do to refresh our ... (76 words)

Help! I like my friend who is already in a serious relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i've got this family friend who i'm really good friends with and recently i've started to like him. I only see him twice a year when our families go camping but when i do we get on really well. The only problem is he lives an hour away and has a serious girlfriend :( - ... (74 words)

Does age matter in a fwb relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Last Summer, I pulled a 25 year old chick at a music festival. It was my first sex for about a year and apparently, she enjoyed it too. I'm only 19 and I think the age difference made it even hotter. Since then, I've been a sorta 'booty call' for her. She'll text me or ring ... (184 words)

I think my attitude frightened her off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - a few weeks ago a woman i like was going out and i just wanted to talk to her and ask her out. She was going out with friends and some guy i don't know, she seemed in a hurry. i felt jealous and angry. i think she definetely noticed, the next time i met her she just didn't see ... (102 words)

Ex girlfriend treats me like an atm, but wont let me see my daughter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I got together with my last girlfriend when she was in need of help and in dire straits. I helped her out of several bad problems she had created for herself it was her that came to me and told me she loved me. I fed and clothed her children for 12 months and treated them ... (280 words)

Why do I have to involve my friends in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in a relationship with a lad 2 years older than me, and its a long distance relatioship. We see eachother every 4-5 months and we both feel the same and want the same in the relationship, i cant see my future without him. But theres one problem, my mum and my mates arnt ... (196 words)

Funny games, planned trips..is she interested in something with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello this is just a bit of an update of a development of a question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-please-interpret-this-girls-behavior.html basically I left for canada and then returned to Seattle, well basically me B and S went to Olympia a couple of days... (912 words)

He treats me like his girlfriend yet says he's not after a girlfriend at this time..? What's happening here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently started seeing this guy and he is absolutely amazing. he isn't like any other guy i've dated before. he doesn't expect me to pay all the time-the first time i offered to pay he wouldn't let me, and he opens doors for me. he says that hes not looking for a ... (134 words)

Struggling to give my boyfriend oral..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I blowjob my boyfriend with out hurting him with my teeth and I can't get it all inside my mouth how can I get it all inside cause I feel I'm gonna vomit because its long ??... (39 words)

Is taking a paternity test of my brother's child crossing the line? I have evidence to suggest his girlfriend has been lying for 7yrs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is a weird story and question but here it goes. When my brother was 16 he got this girl pregnant and she was 22 at the time (which i find very gross). No one in my family knew the child or even the girl for that matter existed until the baby was 3 weeks old. I was ... (456 words)

He has a foot fetish but I cannot stand anyone touching my feet! How can I get him to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has a foot fetish and i hate feet or people touching my feet, it makes me feel sick and he keeps trying to tickle my feet and i have tried to tell him that i dont like it but i dont just want to say it really direct but it aint getting the hint, he told me before ... (108 words)

I love him too much to leave but I am worried I will resent him for not wanting kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner now for two years. he has 2 kids from a previous marraige, i have 2 but they are grown up and at uni.i had them young and my marriage didnt work out, i brought them up on my own. I have moved in with him into his house and spend all my time with... (222 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to trust me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now but i am having trouble with my him. i love him a lot but he does not trust me the way i would like to or the way a boyfriend should trust his girlfriend. Recently we had an argument because he checked my phone and there was two ... (270 words)

My voice sounds like a female's voice! Is there a solution for this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 24 years male, when i am talking on the phone every one understands my voice like female on phone and my friends also told that my voice sounds like female voice.is there a solution for this problem to change my voice into male voice... (46 words)

Why do men never buy me presents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know why men do not feel that I deserve presents. I am in a relationship now with someone who (admittedly is in a lot of debt) and he just doesn't get me any gifts. For my birthday he got me a couple of books he picked out whilst in a coffee shop that sells books. IT ... (161 words)

I love him but cannot deal with his heroin addiction anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i am new to this site and i need help. I have been with my partner for 5 years now and we have 2 children together, aged 3 and a half and 9 months. shortly after having my second child i found out that he was smoking heroin!! He said he hac only been doing it for about a ... (328 words)

Is it just my pregnancy hormones or could he really be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have been with my partner for a year and a half, im also 4 months pregnant so we are both expecting our first child. im 18, he is 24. Ever since i have fallen pregnant i have turnt really clingy with him, i never use to be this way. he works so he is always on the road as he ... (317 words)

How can I get her to match up with me in the sex department?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, and we really really care for each other. She is my first real girlfriend and means a hell of a lot to me. We've got to second base, although it is pretty much one way, i.e., I give her a great deal more than she gi... (152 words)

Why hasn't he made a move yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like a little insight and advice on a situation I'm in. I have a coworker that I have been interested since he started in December. We had alot of innocent flirting at work for awhile. About a month ago, I suggested we should hang out and gave him my number shortly ... (205 words)

I just want a friend,,,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i feel like i should have friends. I have no friends i mean not one and i don't know why. i don't know whats wrong with me or if people think some of me. I sometimes believe i don't fit in because i kno im different from other boys but i still fill like i should have ... (338 words)

I've fallen off the rails after discovering my ex sleeping with my mum..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - after my breakup,i am left alone. actually i found my ex boyfriend having sex with my mom. i am really broken. After that incident i moved to a new place and not in contact with anyone. i am into lots of drinking and sex with strangers. i want to overcome it but i c... (75 words)

Who to choose? Complacent boyfriend or understanding co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very confused. I have an amazing boyfriend of 4+ years that treats me like a princess, loves me and whom I love dearly. However, I have been working for a fellow for about 2 years and have become very close friends with. Over the past year or so I have run into some very ... (158 words)

My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age - My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners over the years and likes to ... (292 words)

Is there a chance we will get back??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I spilt with my boyf of 6 years about 3 months ago due to the fact that he was not willing to make an effort with finding a job or do anything constructive with his time. In the time we were together I got a BSc degree while he did nothing. Also around 3 months ago i st... (457 words)

I've told him what I want sexually but he won't do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 22 years old female I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he has never made me orgasm. I can make myself come in seconds when I do it myself without anything. But I can't with him, he do it in a wrong way and I don't know how to tell him and he don't make me ... (117 words)

Why can't I find a suitable match.. I'm soon going to be 26!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This one is interesting. I can't believe that there is this site who can remove the feeling of distress that I feel. I just woke up actually from a long nap and the first thought that came to my mind that damn, I am turning 26 on October and still I am single. But, I am not ... (155 words)

After our first kiss..everything has become awkward between us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I'm a young teenager and just got my first kiss. My boyfriend and I are both really shy so it sort of shocked me. It's been a little awkward since, but we still talk some. It has got me kind of worried because even when we were shy before things weren't this awkward. So ... (94 words)

Demanded my boyfriend gets a paternity test on a potential child..am I in the wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I wrong for tell my boyfriend that we won't live together or take any big steps in our relationship until he gets a dna test on a child he doesn't know is his or not? We've been together for almost a year.... (43 words)

Shattered Heart in Texas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - First, please do not bash me. I am a 38 yo male, I have a huge loving heart, I am giving, compassionate, loving, romantic, etc. After my 11 year relationship ended, I met a 27 yo italian international student and fell head over heals. Within the last year, he has been on ... (313 words)

I'm depressed about my looks and my life, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and nearly a grown man and i having problems with myself. I put myself down all the time and its taken over my life making me sad. One reason is because i feel like i don't look good in the face, i feel like i look old and ugly and black and because me and my dad look ... (201 words)

After years of friendship we slept together and now its all weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a monumental mistake. I had sex with my best guy friend I mean we are talking years of a friendship! Immediately after it happened I broke down and cried I realized I wasn't crying because I regereted the act but the fact that our friendship would be forever changed. ... (244 words)

I so confused of who I am, I'm sure I'm not gay but people say I might be bi!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres the thing i have a gay friend pritty much tried for years to convince me im "bi" or maybe even "gay" i mean my n my friend goofed around and went skinny dipping but i couldint even stand the thought of looking and thier ass hell in highschool i didnt take a s hower ... (373 words)

First love, broken hearts, cheating...how do I deal with all this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im only 13 years old.and i met a 14 year old (bradley) last year in september.oddly enough the way i met him was really weird. almost by fate, but i dont wanna drag in another story. but the first time i saw bradley.... i knew that there would be a future somehow with us. long ... (589 words)

His low self-esteem is ruining our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with the same boyfriend for over a year. Over the past few months, our sex drive has steeply decline to where we barely kiss or even hug anymore. Tonight in talking about it he admitted that one of the reasons for this is because he doesn't have a desire to be sex... (168 words)

Am I still protected if I changed my contraceptive pill brand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Tonight my boyfriend and I just had sex-and he came inside of me, but he had a condom on, however when he pulled out the condom was still inside of me, and all the fluid came out of it and went everywhere. I've been taking birth control for a year now, but then last week m... (166 words)

I have tried to explain to him my needs but he just doesn't catch on.

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. When I first started dating him I was dealing with a lot of issues from a sexual assault and being really self conscience about anything sexual. I didn't enjoy anything he did to me no matter how much he tried to please me. ... (190 words)

Married twice by 26...afraid that will scare away my chances of ever dating again.

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got married when i was 20 to a guy I was head over heels for. By the time I was 22 I was divorced after he turned into an abusive drunk. I got married again when I was 24 and had a beautiful little girl and now I am separated and on my way to divorce again at 26. My ex is ... (223 words)

Am I just scared of commitment?

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my mid 20s and have been with the same guy for 6 years. We've been living together for the last 2 years and have begun plans for getting married. I love this boy very much - he was always my best friend and we have a great relationship. Recently, I have begun to ... (458 words)

Mentally abusive, financially abusive, intimidating, threatening, hitting

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11 June 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 24 years, and have 4 children 27 years, 23 years, my 17 year old and my 11 year old daughter's live at home. My husband has become so abusive that I do not know him any longer, nor do I trust him. I found out he has a mail box at the post office, ... (1589 words)

Should I stay or should I go? 2 colleges, a large number of problems.

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11 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Currently I'm a college student in New Orleans (sophomore to be precise), and I'm strongly considering transferring back to a school near my home in Kansas. The reasons I want to transfer is that my current doesn't quite have the major I want, and I feel like i fit in... (298 words)

Why is the porn argument so one-sided?

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it NEVER about why the guy ... (119 words)

Help! Is there any hope for us to get back together and if so what do I do?

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - help!Is there any hope for us to get back together and if so what do I do? Please read on for the whole story...oh yeah forgive the length just figured more details will help you give me the advice I need! :) and thanks in advance for reading and your answers! we were in our... (569 words)

Help! I hurt the guys I date!

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i have a problem i usually hurt guys when i date them.But i have to admit some guys in my past have hurt me to and i have never fully recover from some heartbreaks.At times i look for the guy`s flaws and not good things about them.I think highly of myself and at times i ... (151 words)

His porn makes me insecure!

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, and we just started having sex a couple of months ago. We were both virgins, and he made it clear to me that he masturbated a lot before me, which I have no problem with, all guys do. I've never asked him about ... (251 words)

I need to learn about oral sex!

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went down on me for the second time last week. The first time he'd done it he and I had been drinking so I didn't really get much out of it. So I'd kind of thought he just wasn't too good at it. It was also my first time, so I was too nervous to pay attention to ... (227 words)

I'm sick of women and the games they play!

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11 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, Im 26 and ive never had a relationship, every possible relationship seems to hit a wall because, for example a female will give me her number and never answer my call or call me back, she will tell me she likes me and would like to hang out some time but always has an ... (525 words)

I want to be more lady-like!

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Ok so I'm a 17 year old girl and I want to be more lady like now. Meaning I really need to clean up by shaving all the unwanted hair! Now my problem is neccessary to shave, how to do it and how often should I! also I'm scared to do my eye brows cuz the last ... (99 words)

Help! He ignores me sexually!

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i`ve been with my boyfriend for over 15 years,we have 2 kids,10 and 7...umm, i really dont know where to start...well,here goes,when we met,i was a normal sized gal,loved to party,worked hard and played hard. we bought our first house when i was 19,i loved it,we didnt always l... (207 words)

I have a crush on my boss and I'm resigning. What should I do?

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11 June 2010 (F)

age - My boss is helping me with issues at work. I have actually resigned. Even before this I have had a crush on him. I have noticed the way he looks at me. One meeting in his office, he stared at my breasts. I felt a little uncomfortable. This afternoon I spoke to his PA ... (294 words)

How do you know when it's right?

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when your in love? And how would you when its the right time to have sex?... (20 words)

How can I control sweating?

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11 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a teenager and i have a sweating problem idk how to sweat less. its so hard cuz i cnt wear the clothes that i want does anyone no how i can sweat less?... (35 words)