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I'm straight but I think I'm gay!

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Question - (29 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2010)
A male Canada age 26-29, *BJBJB writes:

im straight but i think im gay. i like talking to my mates about my cock and theirs, whos seen whos and how big they are. I get a boner everytime i get naked even if im alone and i always hope for innocent gay things to happen when i'm with mates. Like one time, my best mate and i played nervous and we touched eachother's cocks and i loved it. I've wanked with mate as well and i always peek in the changing rooms. also a lot of my mates an di were mucking around playing a game and the game was to strip the target. i was the target and i enjoyed being stripped by other boys. I got a boner then and i kept flashing to them as it felt good. i watch gay porn as it turns me on but i dont feel good after. i've fingered my arse and it felt bad but i still want girlfriends and not boyfriends.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

My guess is... you're probably bi. But... at your age, there's no real telling... unless you already 'know'. I knew when I was very young (9)... that I was 'different' but it wasn't until much later that I actually accepted the fact that I was gay. Give it some time... you'll be able to figure it out one way or another. And don't be afraid or think it's WRONG to experiment. If you don't... you'll be left in this constant state of 'what if' or 'I should have'.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010):

Your hormones are all over the place. You won't be able to place your sexuality until they tone down a bit. Try not to stress about it too much.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

Your not gay, your in puberty... your hormones are raging and your sex crazed... give it time...

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (30 June 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntyou're bisexual.

I have a friend who gets turned on sexually only by males and just the genital area, but physically, not attracted to them. but he is attracted to women physically but would rather have a penis than a vagina any day. its confusing, but not everyone is the same and not everyone is black and white when it comes to sexuality, some people are in a more gray area

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (30 June 2010):

The Realist agony auntI think at this point in your life you are curious about both sexes. Personally I wouldn't call you straight or gay, I would say that you are looking for your place sexually. Do what feels most right within yourself, not what other people want of you. If you are gay then that is what was meant to be, same with if you are straight. Experiment safetly with things and see how you feel. Try a gf and see if you are sexually attracted to her, if not then try actually dating a guy. This way you'll know what a relationship with them would be like. Also try not to be in too much of a hurry to find out. It may take years before you actually figure out your sexuality, but you will figure out the answer eventually.

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