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What is a good moment to go for a first kiss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello, Uhh, okay so me and this girl like each other, we've met up once and both really enjoyed ourselves, we only talked which was great I felt like I got to know a lot about her. we're meeting again and this time i really want to kiss her, I wanted to last time and regret ... (88 words

Tired of receiving mixed messages... How can I find out if he likes me or not, once and for all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been liking this one particular guy for a while, and I could tell he liked me back. We went to prom together and a lot of people began rumors that we might've been together. That's false. And he's done everything that literally every girl dreams of having. Being a true ... (513 words

Am I betraying my friend by being friendly towards the wife of the man she is involved with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - In November 09, my friend (who we'll call Jess) of 15 years and I went to the pub, she is married and i'm single, and we met 2 guys, i met the single one and she met the married one, (who we'll call Tom) me and single one got it on, thats over now, but her and the married one, ... (528 words

I'm falling in love, but shes married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi folks, I have known this woman online for 4 years, she is happily married with a 1yr old daughter. Over the last few months our reletionship has changed dramiticly, the normal talk of hows you and little un turned into full on flirty and very sexual discriptive messages... (378 words

Lost the confidence to smile because of a skin problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey :) I woke up this morning with a horrible kind of spot at the outer corner of my mouth. I thought it was an acne spot to begin with so I tried picking at it, but that's not what it is. It seems like more of a boil. Sounds disgusting, I know. It's white/yellow and a bit so... (160 words

My mom doesn't think my boyfriend is good for me, because he is black! How can I convince her skin color doesn't matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - My family wont respected me and my boyfriend because my boyfriend is black. We been together for awhile and my mom finally met him and she still doesn't like that im with him. Im not black and i didn't exspect to be with a black guy. But i love this guy and i want my mom to ... (97 words

Do I respect my girlfriend... Why do I think this way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OP's own title] So my girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months. WE love each other. We've introduced each other to our families and we're talking long term relationship stuff. HOwever, I don't know if I respect my girlfriend. She's h... (437 words

Involved with a married man and not sure what he wants, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1501 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have been working with a married guy since late last year but hes always made it clear and obvious that hes attracted to me. we are very close in work as most of us are but,in feb he opened up to me that his marriage has major problems. just 2 weeks ago i was sitting with... (427 words

I feel like I'd be taking advantage of this older man if we got together!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (? age 22-25 - I'm 18 and I'm in a bit of a predicament, recently the man I've been seeing has told me that he has never been in love and he thinks he loves me, he has low self confidence despite being very very sexy and part of the reason we hooked up was because we both felt a bit low and ... (186 words

Why does he feel the need to tell me everything, like he found a 15 year old girl attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1586 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My partner came home from work and he seems to find the need to tell me everything. He is turning 35 next year. He had to tell me that he saw a very, very attractive fifteen year old girl crossing the road whilst he was driving home from work. I do not know if I should leave ... (91 words

How do I get him to be romantic and not just a two-minute man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am with a new guy that has been in the drug world for awhile and been with a nasty bitch. how do I get him to be romantic and spend good lovemaking like not just jump right in and 2 min later were done?... (45 words

Back with my ex, and now he dropped the bombshell that he was seeing someone else whilst we were split up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend walked out on me abt four months ago and i was devasted ,anyway after afew wks of depression i picked myself up and started going out with my friends and started enjoying life again but i just couldnt bring my self to start dating even though i got a lot of ... (172 words

How do I tell my online love I want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Right so im 19 almost 20. I been talking to a lad online for a long time now and we've met up and everything and we're really good friends and talk to each other about everything, thing is i can't tell him how i feel about him. I have completely fallen for him. We flirt and ... (89 words

I love him and he doesn't know!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - So, I have a friend who I've recently started to have feelings for. I actually think that I love him because every time I think about him, I get all emotional....The only problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. He used to like me, but I didn't know how to take a compliment, ... (79 words

He's so distant, but we had a great weekend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Why do men pull back with no contact after a fantastic weekend. Fairly new relaionship, my guy so full on telling me how special i was and wanted to be serious with me. Then nothing, cancelled date as he wasnt feeling well and nothing..Should i make no contact?... (48 words

Should we have a baby now or continue to wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - How old is too old to father my children? I am 24 and my fiance is 38. We know this is an unusually large age difference but we have come to terms with it and dealt with it in many ways living together over the past 3 years. We have a loving and committed relationship a... (201 words

I'm having trouble urinating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi dear aunts i have a problem since 2 days, i could not urinate normally,it drips 5 drops and then 5 drops it goes on, i have pain while urinating,like someone is pricking with a pin, i consulted the doctor,he says precum has blocked my urethera,he says i dont clean the prec... (110 words

She's 14 and I am almost 20. How can I postpone sex until she's older, without hurting her feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm having a slight problem, and mainly just need some words of advice and support. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I met a girl online sometime around 9 months ago, at first it was just friendly talk and me trying to cheer her up (she's had a very hard life, lots of abuse, c... (333 words

Should I pursue this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 18-21 - I met a girl whilst on a school trip in Italy, she was Smart lovely and made my smile. I fell for her. The problem is she is two school years older than me, and she is soon departing to Uni, in October time. I asked if she would to grab a coffee, intially approaching her as a ... (200 words

How do you kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - my mate knows some boy and she realy likes him and he likes her but she doesn't know how to snog (kiss) i have tried to explain it to her but she keeps saying im wrong can anyone tell her right ?? ... (44 words

I really like my best friend but he is mean to me when his other friends are around!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 16-17 - hi i am a 13 year old girl hu is having love problems i don't kno if should be asking for advice because im really young nd i dnt kno if a 13 year old be going through this kind of stuff bu anyway i really like my best friend he is the same age as me nd about a year ago... (235 words

I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 1581 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am not sure what made me look at ... (272 words

My ex was murdered and I am struggling to move forward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey guys, Needless to say i need your help once more About 6 years ago i met the most amazing guy i think i will ever meet. I fell in love with him instantly and, we had the most amazing relationship, that you could ever describe. I do believe he was my soul mate. And i believ... (283 words

My ex thinks I am mocking him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I broke up with my a ex over a month ago. For all this time he had been really romantic and apologetic, trying to get me back but now he hates me and I feel like a horrible person! We had many issues during our relationship because he was jealous of my past. He even called m... (402 words

My husband thinks I killed his mother by standing up for myself!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 1584 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have reached the limit in associating with my in-laws. After 30 years of taking abuse from them, I have decided that I have had enough and I am no longer putting myself at their disposal to allow them to continue treating me badly. I have spoken to my husband about th... (1603 words

Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Should i tell him that i cheated? i have been with my boyfriend for 11months now and about 3 months into our relationship my ex came over to mine to give me back some old revision notes, i didn't know what was happening but next thing i knew he was on top of me. i love my boyfr... (113 words

Is sex on a second date too soon from a guys point of view?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I just started talking to a guy who I met online about 2 months ago, and things are going great! We talked through e-mails for almost a month, and then he came to visit me and took me out, and we really hit it off and had a great time together. We did a lot of ... (248 words

Do bacterial infections affect fertility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Can bacterial vaganitous effect me from getting pregnant?... (8 words

Body Confidence Issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, im a almost 18 year old girl and im to afraid to show my body to anybody, not even myself sometimes. i just wonder, how can i get more confedence? im almost with a guy but, if we get togheter what the fuck should i do? do anyone have any advice to how to get a better c... (69 words

He lied and blew me off to take another girl to a fair. Should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I found out my boyfriend lied to me. We had plans to go on a road trip together to visit a town that was having a fair. We almost broke up recently, so we're on rocky ground in our relationship. We are also currently on a break. Becasue of us being on rocky ground, he kept ... (186 words

My brother in law wont stop pursuing me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - My brother in law won't quit calling me texting me and facebooking me. We almost had sex one time and my sister walked in, no I don't want anything to do with him, but he woint leave me alone. I haven't answered anything from him, because I wouldn't want my sister to some how ... (68 words

Should friends go to a party you have not been invited to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - I used to have a male friend who i was very close to. Even though we dated for a short time we still managed to stay friends, then for a few months we didnt see each other. Then one time a group of us went camping including him and my older sister, they ended up getting ... (208 words

Girlfriend walked out, ..with pictures of our threesome. How can I get them back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - I had a 3 way with my g/f and her best friend last month. My g/f asked me if I had a good time and I said we could do that again. It seemed to happen by accident, but now I think I was set up for what happened next. A week after that 3 way, we had a big party and she invited ... (330 words

Does he only want to help me or is he genuinely interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - There was a guy at a Christmas party. When my friends and I got there earlier than others, he immediately talked to me, asking about my hometown, my school and my year in college. I remember that he talked to me three times at the party and I don't know him in the first place. ... (341 words

So what does his girlfriend have that I don't????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1578 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy in a nightclub in 2007. I was 23 at the time, and he was 21. We texted each other a lot at the beginning, and we had a lot in common, as we liked the same music and films. We only went on one date, I thought it went well, even though we were both shy and quite ... (652 words

How do you approach a third person regarding a threesome???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey everyone, Myself and my girlfriend (both 20) are interested in having a threesome with a female. We're in a stable, long term relationship and both very sexually adventurous! Neither one of us specifically proposed the idea, however we've admitted that we would l... (112 words

Period worries...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - So I think, I am not sure, I am getting my period a week early? I am not sure if it is spotting or what. It goes from brown to red then nothing. I have cramps and the feeling of crying. My body is achy and im tired. I know im not preggo since he didnt ejaculate ... (117 words

Did we over react in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - I (we) don't really need relationship advice, but our question does have to do with male/female situations I guess. My wife got a really great job, but it's about 3 hours away from our home. My company is opening a new branch very close to where my wife works. I'll be g... (436 words

How can I erase her from my memory completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - I found out I liked this girl (she is basically my best friend, and she has a boyfriend), started off as a general attraction to her personality, I didn't feel anything more. gradually over a few weeks it got worse and more obsessive. I told her hoping that would make it ea... (351 words

If he wants to settle down with me, why is he dating other people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - About 5 months ago my high school sweetheart and I re-connected on a romantic level. We have stayed in touch over the 10 years since we graduated and were friends and other than the occasional date we had not dated in over 10 years. 5 months ago we started talking again. He ... (455 words

The married man I am having an affair with is cheating on me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - im having an affair to a married man and we are now six years, the problem is he's having a fling relationship to another woman, how can i stop him on this kind of habit i feel so hurt and jealous..what will i do for him should i leave him but i love him so much. i need a help ... (61 words

I only have two days to make my move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have lived with my flat-mate for nearly two years, since we were placed in halls together with 5 other friends. I'm afraid I was rather horrible in the first year, I teased him a lot (no in a deliberately mean way) and he took it badly. This year however has been different, ... (148 words

My friend says I am a slut, but I think she's just jealous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - ok first date i did hand job and let him finger me, but we are gonna be bf and gf (boyfriend and girlfriend). My friend said i am a slut but i think shes jealous because she doesnt have a bf. why wouldnt she be happy for me? I have never judged her b4 and now shes telling my ... (61 words

I may loose the love of my life and need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello everyone, i'm having alot of trouble throughout these past 2 years. You see i was 16 years old when i first dated this girl. Me and her we had a amazing start it feels as if we were really meant to be. Our relationship lasted about 8 months and it ended because of my ... (464 words

How does a woman know she's had an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - How do you know if you've had an orgasm? I only started having sex two years ago when I met my boyfriend so have no experience with anyone else. I'm really not sure if I have or haven't? ... (38 words

How can I deal with his father's misunderstanding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1500 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey am havin ah lil issue and i don't know how to deal with it.. ok here it goes on thurdays, fridays and saturdays i work from 5pm to 5am. well i had this mornin when my bf picked me up 5am, i went home for clothes and to tell my mom i would be at his house for the day. ... (231 words

Is this younger woman flirting with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have read post here from younger ladies some who are attracted to older men much older than themselves like decades. Now I am only interested the legal age ladies as in my state that would be 18 where I live. I am attracted to a young lady who is 19 and wonder if som... (238 words

How can I end all this fighting?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey . im sitting here feeling drain used and disrespected. feel like everytime im show someone my ture self and give them my all they disrespect me or take advantage of me . i dont treat people this way so why am i attracting this type of behavior.. im tired and feel like ... (229 words

I want my boyfriend to trust me again, not control me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - So i have a boyfriend whom i've fighting a lot with ever since we got back together. first we went out for a yr andd a half, we broke up for about 5 months and starting being together again since feb/march. i really do love him--sometimes things are amazing and i couldnt be ... (444 words

I am always sad and don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - i keep feeling upset without a reason ! i just , feel sad and sometimes start crying .. like today , i was talking to my boyfriend and i was feeling down and i just started to cry , he kept asking me what's wrong , but i didn't know what to say because i don't know what'... (176 words

He said he liked me, but now he is flirting with my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - Iv'e had a crush on this guy for awhile now, recently we started hanging out. He made it really clear that he was intrested in me, and I let him know I was intrested to. The other day we were hangning out and my best friend showed up, at first it was fine, we were all enjo... (157 words

How can I make these dreams go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and this guy we use to be great friends but he was a jerk to me and I could see he never really cared about me like a friend should. He’s not my friend anymore and I was really hurt by this at first. Anyways, I also liked him more than a friend so it was even harder for me ... (190 words

I figure after 5 years we should be on some sort of life path, and we're not...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, and lived together for 3. About 2 years ago, he moved to NC to go to school, then he quit school and came back to live with me in FL. We both decided that we would rather live in NC than FL, that was about 6 months ago. His dad ... (289 words

Is she lying about her "size" preferences?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals and here's the deal: She ... (338 words

Dating and don't know where to go to date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (? age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for like a month and we haven't been on one date and I dont know what to do cuz when I try to suggest that we should go places he dont know where. please help.... (42 words

Where are men's erotic spots???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - i really want to please my fiance because he is always giving me orgasms every time, but i feel i dont give him pleasure because once he has satisfied me, he then cums and its over so, can someone please tell me where mens spots are exept anal, its a defo no no by him, i need ... (142 words

Is this a disaster waiting to happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Two weeks ago I went out with my friend and the night before, she had met this guy. He asked her to hang out so he came later on in the night. I ended up hooking up with him, and felt really bad. But I really did like him.. which is the first problem here: Im sure he could not ... (280 words

On the verge of breaking up as he's taking his exes side!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - "I was supposed to tell you last time, that I have something of a girlfriend. She likes to throw fits and, since she's a pretty jealous and paranoid creature, demanded that I make it clear to you that, yes, I am somewhat taken." "I guess she thinks you're some kind of a threat ... (203 words

How can I get my "old" boyfriend back? He's completely changed since we first met.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone i'm just looking for your advice on what to do about my relationship. I have been going with a guy for just over 2 years now. He says he is suffering from depression and he does take anti depressants - he is 30 and lives with his mum. In the past he has been violent ... (252 words

He's not giving me any of his time and I'm starting to resent him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I feel very selfish saying this!!! I love my partner so so so much! We have a 4 year old daughter together and just recently moved away from all our family and friends due to work commitments. Trouble is he is working away ALL the time. When he phones he's tired cause its ... (383 words

We broke up because he moved away... but I miss him so much, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend of 4 years and a half moved away a few days ago to another state.. 6 hour flight away from here. We've always just spent time together so when the news was announced we figured it was just right to call it quits.. how ever, as the time approached in the past 4 m... (407 words

Jealous boyfriend won't connect with my son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and he just doesn't get me at all. I met him through my ex and it was great at 1st. I moved in with him after 5 months and left my home town and my children with their dad as there was access issues. things were good then ... (187 words

Am I pregnant because my period was shorter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - How do I know if i`m pregnant or not?If I just recently had my period last week on Monday but,ended on Thursday of last week and that was the same week that I started and for those four days it was normally.On Friday however I was bleeding some but,the only thing was that ... (71 words

How should I act? Can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My relation ended after five long years . We were studying together . Now he has changed his city n moved out . And we have broken apart cuss his parents aren't ready for us to marry as we av a different caste . So he has stopped talking to me , keeping any contact . I wan to ... (130 words

What can I do to pass the time and distract myself until she gets back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 18-21 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 3 months and i have grown really close to her. She is going on this family vacation for almost 2 months and i have no idea what to do. She has just left and i already miss her. I find most of my spare time involving me ... (138 words

How can I become closer to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - she is the first girl in my life. i proposed to her through a friend. but she refused. time goes on i failed in ssc. she passed. after 3 years she came to my classes (she was one year senior than me, because i failed). she recognised me when she came to my classes. but i never ... (179 words

Is it wrong to meet this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I feel like a bit of an idiot saying this out loud but please someone help me. I've been with my partner for 4 years. We recently migrated with his job. He works away all the time and I am struggling to get work. So i am alone, no work or friends. I turned on my facebook... (194 words

Second date flake or genuine reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - So I met this guy online, we went out for a date, I was totally into him and I reckon he was into me. We went back to his had a bit of fun (nothing too serious). I was smitten. I texted him the following day telling him it was great to meet him, he said it had been fun and I'd ... (262 words

Unable to orgasm, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1592 days ago

16 June 2010 (M age - hi im 57 male and havnt had sex in the last 4 weeks.i and my female partner have been on holiday in u/k for last 2 weeks and 3 times we have had sex and my partner came and i havnt.i am always up for it but it seems once my partner cums i seem to loose my stiffness.(i have also ... (127 words

What should I do about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone, I've been battling with this for a while now and after reading a lot of replies to similar questions here, I decided that this is the best place for me to get advice. My boyfriend and I are both young (we're both 20) and we met online when we were 15. Not a da... (542 words

Could this be bad for our marriage?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1304 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age - I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling me to have sex with other ... (455 words

Does this normally happen while on birth control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay so I know im not pregnant. I did have unprotected sex 7 weeks ago BUT I got my period 2 days after that and then on the 28th. Both were normal. I also took a test the day after I was suppose to have m period and it was negative. He also didnt ejaculate in or ... (131 words

Is he just playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1592 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I already posted something similar to this already, but it's gotten a bit worse. So I have an ex, and lately he's been contacting me. In my other question I just asked what it means that he's contacting me. Again, to recap, the breakup was amicable and we agreed... (579 words

Is my girlfriend pregnant?

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16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - me and my girlfriends had sex about two weeks ago and ever since she hasnt being feeling good and she has been stressing out. i worn a condom and i did cum in the condom but as soon as i did i pulled out nad check it. there werent any hole or tears and we didnt do anything ... (73 words

Taken for granted?

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16 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey everybody. The title says it all. I’m in a relationship with an amazing woman whom I love dearly with all my heart. And may be that’s why it hurts so much to realize that she is taking me for granted. It’s not anything major, but rather little things that add up and make me ... (596 words

He wants to keep his female 'friend' in case we break up

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - bf cheated on me with some online friends by cybering we are 18 and know each other in RL. At the time we were going through some fights and i have been mean to him in alot of ways the past months(i wasn't always like this)and pushed him over the edge he said he wanted t... (423 words

Why has she stopped contacting me?

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16 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey folks, I would like some opinions on this, as I am not really sure what to do at the moment... I met this girl about a month ago. She was with her best friend, and I was with a male friend. I found out she liked me so we exchanged numbers and the four of us started doubl... (425 words

I don't want to ruin our friendship!

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I'm 14 years old, and live out in the country. So i've gone to the same skool as my most favotie guy friend. This guy friend of mine is SUPER amazing. He's everything a girl would dream of. I talk 2 him like 24-7. We tell each other things, that normal friends wouldn't... (116 words

My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with a girl!

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok so my bf asked me if i would do sexual things with another girl while hes watching.. idk whats that called but i have been intrested in that (we are both 18) so he said if i wanted he could try and find someone for me to do stuff with. but then i got concerned because i was ... (184 words

If I was meant to be with my fiance then why did my ex come back into my life?

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - A few months ago my ex boyfriend came back into my life. When we ended it, it was on the phone and not much of a conversation. I tried to push him out of my mind and eventually he was gone. That was a little over a year ago. We have been talking for about 6 months or so, but ... (240 words

I suddenly feel paranoid even though I'm in a great relationship

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - So, here's the deal. For quite while now, I've been dating this really amazing guy. Our relationship is by far the best one I've been in. We have a blast whenever we're together, and we never fight...not saying we agree on eeeverrryything but we handle disagreements very well ... (789 words

How to get her to love me again?

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16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - I've heard of a clean break. Its not possible in this case. What do u do when you've already agreed to be someones friend and you know that they care for you? And if she says she doesn't know where her feelings for me went, how do I get them back?... (53 words

Should I break up with him for flirting with other women?

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16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - me and my bf have been together for 1 year and some months and he has a flirting problem. I broke up with him because of this whole flirting problem. am i being stupid or did i have legit reason for breaking up with him?... (45 words

Does this make me less attractive to him?

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16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think I'm fairly good looking I work out take good care of my self always make sure hair make-up is awesome cute sexy clothes but my husband has this thing for anal sex and I would rather be horse wiped I HATE it for one he is blessed down there so it's like hell no it don't ... (145 words

He named his rifle after his ex!

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Well, my boyfriend is in the Army and is currently training out of state (AIT). Things have been a bit dull between us because of how busy he is, but we managed to keep the love alive. Anyway, I just recently got over an obsession after his ex. It took quite the work but I m... (309 words

How do I start a conversation with my boyfriend?

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I need some advice, im back in a relationship w my boyfriend after a two month break up, we were in a relationship for 9 mths prior to the break-up, and i want to rekindle our relationship but we really dont talk because theres nothing to talk about. So can anyone give me tips ... (62 words

My boyfriend has jealousy issues!

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating this guy for 8 months now, and I love him to death. There is just this one thing that drives me nuts about him... his jealousy issues. I really don't know what to do. He gets jealous at every little thing I do. He accuses me of flirting with his brother so now ... (282 words

Should I believe him, or is he just using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been seeing this guy for 4yrs now, we met when i was 16 and he was 36. He told me he was going through a divorce period with his wife and i decided to wait it out. he moved out his family home after two years for a quicker divorce process and rented an apartment for ... (206 words

I think I'm bi!

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - Ok...so here is my story. Im not so sure if I am bi or not. I have had feelings for the opposite sex..and well ?fooled around~ with them too, but I didnt completely feel right to me. I know I am attracted to the opposite sex(im attracted to older guys)but when it comes to sex I ... (135 words

Will she become interested in me again if I back off for a while?

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16 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - So I have been dating this girl for about 3 months. About 4 weeks ago (i felt out of nowhere, never saw it coming) she says she is confused/just wants to be friends/were 2 different people/I was trying to change her and she doesnt want to be changed! I was totaly blind sid... (167 words

Can he be trusted?

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16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have been meeting this guy from ny but i live in nj,,,i met this guy at a place where you take bus transportation to massachusetts... he calls me alot we went out , ate , he bougth flowers and washed my car then we when to eat,,, he gave me food in the mouth at the ... (101 words

Should I open up to my new boyfriend about my ex?

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16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy intensely for 2 1/2 months now and I'm wondering if I should tell him more about my abusive ex. He knows my last boyfriend was an idiot, insecure and controlling, but I've mostly made light of it by not saying anything about the extent of it all and ... (206 words

How do I convince him to leave?

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16 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi i have been with my bf 11 years. 2 kids 4 and 5. i have put up with more than i should have from him but i now feel like he has been cheating with an old friend who i was very close to. i know its time to move on for not just me but my kids. i dont have anywhere to go. its ... (84 words

What should I tell my friend?

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Well my friend wants me to hook up with this guy that she wants me to date, I met him after 2 or 3 days of texting each other. Around in the middle of the second day I was getting a bad and strange feeling about him, but I really do have a bad feeling about this guy, yes we ... (101 words

My ex is abusive! Should I do what I think is best for not only my child, but myself?

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16 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I feel so helpless and hopeless right now. I am currently separated from my ex for two years now. We've been together 13 years and married for 6 years. We have one 6 year old lil girl. My dilemma is I feel my ex has been verbally abusing me to the point I feel so weak and feel... (423 words

My friend is pregnant and only 17!

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16 June 2010 (M age 22-25 - A friend of mine just found out she's pregnant (17), and doesn't know what to do.... Suggestions anyone? I told her that there is no right or wrong answer. =S... (38 words

Wow! Where did that come from???

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello everyone! So, I am 19 years old and so is my boyfriend. Now that its summer time he is away at work while I am home. He comes home once a week so I look forward to it...very much so. This time he will be coming home this Friday. Now for the info, we are ... (263 words

Help!!! She's sending me mixed signals!

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16 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay this girl keeps not texting but when she does she sends mixed signals like she wants to get to know me and we text mwuah to each other and she thinks I'm sweet which in turn I think she is too. Could it be she is just tided up in doing things and doesn't have the time for ... (83 words

Why can't I let this go?

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16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He was in a three year long relationship with his ex girlfriend that ended just a couple months before we met. He was still getting over their relationship, and I was aware of this but we decided to continue dating because we really ... (427 words

Wasting time?

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16 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been engaged for almost 3 years. I'm always the one keeping the conversation, affection, etc. going. When I stop and sit back and just watch and pay attention to what he does, nothing happens. He never has anything to talk about. It's now a boring relationship and he does ... (157 words

4 days on... should I worry?

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - hello, so I had sex with my bf and it was at the time of my ovulation , he had the condom on but when he pulled off his penis I saw that he was surprised, he got up and turned his back on me ?! when I asked him what's wrong he didn't say anything then when I asked again he said ... (103 words

I have lost myself.......

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16 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have lost myself. I have been married for nearly 14 years. When I met my wife I was confident, full of vision and energy. I was positive, upbeat, hilariously funny. I had faith, I had a zeal for life I had friends. Flash forward to today and I am the complete opposite. ... (157 words

Why do parents get so crazy about sexual stuff with us teens?

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - Why do parents get so crazy about sexual stuff with us teens? If we are protected then let us learn and realize the real world of a relationship. I think if the parent lets the kids do stuff it gives the kid responsibilty and helps them realize what they want and don't want!... (53 words

Advice for first time sex?

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - So I'm going to have sex probably this week. It will be my first time. I really really really don't want to get pregnant. He and I are going to use a condom of course and I'll still have him pull out when he's using the condom, but besides not having sex and birth control ... (79 words

My fiance wants a threesome!

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16 June 2010 (? age 22-25 - My fiance wants a threesome, with another female. I'm a little uneasy about it, but I said I'd agree as long as I also got a threesome with another male. This way it would be fair. Now, I am bisexual. My fiance, we'll call him Bob for the sake of simplicity, said that it wasn'... (231 words

I want to be treated like an adult!

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay I'm about 15 and if there's any adults out there that can help me out that'd be great. Me and my boyfriend had a really rough start because my parents didn't let me see him cause hey didn't like him nd it was really hard seeing eachother cause he lives like 45 minutes away ... (203 words

His ex is obsessed and won't leave him alone!

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - i`ve been dating this guy for 6 months and 16 days now, and im 8 weeks and 2 days pregnant with his kid. and he broke up with his ex girlfriend last june, and yet she is obsessed with his family still, and it is now june 15 2010. and today actually she started an argument over ... (240 words

He's cheating with his ex...

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16 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey ... i broke with my boyfriend due to me finding information from is ex stating that hes cheating with her .. i love him and me and him are always together but he is very funny with his phone and very quite and secretive ,, he left out of the country and while he was ... (176 words

Are we meant to be?

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16 June 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have had something for one of my former high school teachers for a long time. I had a crush on him in high school and kept in touch throughout a couple years after I graduated. He gave hints that he would date me too and actually said something about it a year after I ... (501 words

Can this make my breasts bigger?

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - When my boyfriend sucks my nipples does it make boobs grow bigger?... (12 words

My boyfriend gets jealous when I make plans with my friends!

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 and me and my bf have been dating 8 months. Wehave a strong relationship but he gets alllll mad and jealous if I talk to other boys as friends? Also he gets mad when I have plans with my friends like a girls night out. He always says well I guess they're more Important ... (117 words

Do I stay with my wife and child or do I stay with her???

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16 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm 23 year old and i managed to get my self married and its been 4 years. i have a little two year old girl, my wife was divorced when i met her and has 4 children of her own. she is also mania-co depressive so its very hard emotionally. i know i love her but i don't feel in ... (185 words

Mom wants to know what I did with my boyfriend... help!

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16 June 2010 (F age 18-21 - My mom wants me to be honest about what I did with my boyfriend and I'm 15 and I'm way to scared to tell her but I know I disappoint her when I lie. It's just so hard to say I do stuff wit him idk what to do. Also my mom says she doesn't want me held back by a boyfriend cause ... (98 words

He didn't come to bed... what's going on???

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16 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend has always come to bed with me every night and of course in my past relationhips, i have been accustomed to this. last night (after we have been having a lot of problems/fights), he didn't want to come to bed at all. he had to work this morning at 7 a.m. and he ... (140 words

Okay I like her... how do I ask her out???

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16 June 2010 (M age 18-21 - hey i have been hanging out with this girl for some time and I think she likes me. the problem is that I am an extremly shy person with a bad history on asking people out. should i just come out and ask her or could i do it with a note in the bottom of a necklece that i can ... (63 words

Should I just forget about her and try to move on?

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16 June 2010 (M age 18-21 - hi, I'm a 16 year old boy and I fell in love with a girl two years ago who unfortunately didn't feel the same way. ever since then I've gotten over her several times but the feelings are always there waiting to come back. over the two years the two of us have become amazing ... (402 words

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