He's working again but I don't understand where his money goes

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just don't understand thing sometimes. Me and my boyfriend have been together for years. He lost his job about 7 months ago which wasn't a big deal since we are both in school and I had a job. So for 6 months I had to pay for everything which wasn't bad at first but slowly started to wear me down. We had always both paid our fair share of things. So most of the time I had no money to spent anywhere but with him and obsessionally my friends. So I scarified to be with him which wasn't a problem because I believe if we were reversed he would do the same for me. So he finally got a job which I thought was gonna change everything. Well it did. He paid for everything the first two weeks and than after that he begin to complain about paying and that he was running low on money. He gets paid weekly and so he gets a pay check every week and he works twice as many hours I do so his weekly paychecks and the size of my two week checks. It makes me wonder what is he doing with his money so fast. I was on his computer checking my email and his is saved in so it pops up fast and I log out and go to my email while when it pops up it shows the he is now paying for internet porn sites. Three different sites pop up with emails explaining how much he owes. This hurt my feelings. I just don't know how to talk to him about it with out seeming like I just search is computer and he gave me permission to check my email and he knows that I can see his emails. I didn't read them or anything I just don't know what to do or how to talk to him about it.

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