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writes:hi im 14 ill be 15 in a few weeks and i havent had my first kiss yet . is that wierd.i have a boyfriend and hes 17 and we are about to go on a date really soon and im really nervous.any tips on wat do do wen he tries to kiss me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso its been a while since i posted this question and i just wanted to tell everyone what happened.it turns out my bf at the time is a total douche(excuse my language).the nite before we were supposed to have our date he went out with his friends got into a fight and got shot.at the time i was pretty freaked out to have my bf's friend calling me to tell me hes in a hospital and my boyfriend is in the or (or watevs its called).while he was in the hospital he asked me to check his facebook for him.so he gives me his password and im totally happy,but then something tells me to go through his messages and i see he sent three girls the same message he sent me that convinced me to be his gf anyway!.to say i was pissed and hurt ect ect would be an understatement.so there ya have it ppl.instead of having my first kiss and date,i got my first broken heart. just peachy aint it! and for the interesting part!:months after i turned 15 i started going out with another guy(old crush actually) but...that didnt work out,after that i went out with another guy,he was really nice,and......i had my first kiss!! but it wasnt as extravagant as i heard,no sparks,no hormone levels rising,it was just a kiss.that guy didnt work out either,he wanted more than kisses if u catch my drift.and finally(sorry about the long story) the guy im with now is older than me yes but he is in a younger grade and he has never had a first kiss and im his first girlfriend.hes so much different to everyone i've ever been with,but in a very good way.the problem though,is that im shy and he is 10 time more shy than me.how do i get him to do things like hold hands and stuff,and kissing.basically coming out of his shell a little more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advide everyone i feel much better and certainly less nervous now.thanksss
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): For my first kiss, I tripped and fell on him. Oops. My friend accidentally let her car jump the curb because of her first kiss. Scared? Nooo way, do you see how amazing these mistakes are? They made our perfect memories. Just let your mouth do what it wants. Trust us when we tell you it's just natural.
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reader, lovelyone3  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 I agree with what everyone said. Just open your mouth a little and copy what he does when he kisses you. That's pretty much what I did the first time - but I also held my breath accidentally (nervous!) and this weird noise came out of my throat when our lips touched! ARGH!!!!! I would make sure I had gum or mints or something before the kiss, if you are able to or maybe that's not even necessary, but.... go slow, copy him, and then it normally just comes naturally. You'll be great you lucky girl!!!!
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reader, xnickx +, writes (30 June 2010):
 No its not wierd that you havent had your first kiss yet :) i didnt have mine until i was 15. I happen to think thats a pretty good age to get your first kiss :)
If he tries to kiss you and you want to kiss him back, then go for it!He's a few years older than you, so more than likely he'll take take the lead. Just follow his lead and you'll be fine.
Everyone has to have their first kiss sometime, and theres nothing you can really do to mess it up. So just enjoy! it will be a memorable moment for you
Nick.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (30 June 2010):
Aw that was a sweet question! i remember mine too. and it's normal to be nervous you say hes 17 hes kissed before so just follow him and the first time is always a little a tense but the 2nd and the 3rd gets a little easier! please just keep it at the kissing sweetie and don't feel you need to do anything else. you'll be fine!!
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reader, SallyR87  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 Aawww! This question is so cute! OK, when the time comes, you'll notice your faces are close together then next thing you know, you're kissing. Open your mouth just a little bit and the rest will take care of itself (honestly!) Save the tongue kissing for later but if he tries it and you like it, try a little back.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): well, i'm 18 and i remember how nervous i was when i was 14, but you just gotta' go for it, and kiss him back. after that he'll probably want make-out. the guy usually leads and the girl follows. good luck (:
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