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It felt all wrong having sex with her

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok... too cut a long story short, i have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years, were lesbians.. we have had a very rough time together, but have pulled through it... the thing is the other night we were having sex and it all felt wrong, the whole being with a ... (106 words

Is my girlfriend bi, or bicurious? She wants to have sex with a girl

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old man, my girlfriend and I are very much in love. She told me at the beginning of our relationship that she had sex with her best friend "a girl", I was fine with that. It's not uncommon for girls to experiment under the age of 20. This was about a year ago. ... (158 words

Can't pull back foreskin

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6 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - hello ,, i have searched and searched and searched for people with my problem ,, i think im thu only one with what ive searched ,, im a 14 year old male and cannot pull my forskin back even when soft ,, someone please help ,, im soo... worried i cant pull it back in soft or ... (144 words

Really messed up, broke up, got a second chance, still quite angry about it (all the while living together)

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I really need some advice. My girlfriend and I live together. We've had issues for awhile, but i never thought they were significant enough to break us up. I have a bit of a temper and get quite emotional sometimes, but i love her very deeply. She doesn't think I can chan... (348 words

I seduced the man who will soon be my stepfather

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - So, in reality I know this is wrong but it feels like so right. Well it like all started when this man moved in with my mother! Within 6 months they were engaged and he was a very considerate step dad. Then things took a weird turn, i started having feelings for him, i didnt ... (237 words

Help with forgiveness...

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6 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - My gf is 6 months pregnant but we just broke up a couple weeks ago cause she was not feeling as loved as she used to with me. I started to let my resentments towards her get the best of me. We broke up last summer on bad terms and right after she went and slept with my ex ... (264 words

Why is he still with me?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello, I am very sad and I need some help,I am 20 years old, I always had problems with my family so I feel kind of lonely most of the time that's why I was (and still) deeply in love with the first person who shows me some affection, which is my bf, I met him 4 years ago and ... (229 words

We had a year split but he wanted to try again, I put my heart on the line and now he's hesitating!!

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up a year ago. He was just not ready to commit and I found it too difficult so it ended and it broke my heart. Yet a year later (even after we had kept in touch via email/text now and again) my ex suddenly got back in contact and suggested we meet up/possibly ... (407 words

Two year relationship, 6month baby..but how do I know that we love eachother?

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - How do I know if I really love him? I thought I knew even though I've been in love before and knew it didn't feel anything like last time. Figured it was just different than before. And how do I know he loves me? He tells me he does but sometimes I wonder if he just says it ... (193 words

I want to be in love with my pregnant girlfriend again, but I can't handle her past..

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6 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - My gf is 6 months pregnant and we just broke up a couple weeks ago cause i stopped loving her the way i used to and i confessed on why. Last summer we broke up for good reasons and on bad terms, we both were wrong. But i was devastated. but right after we broke up she was ... (183 words

He says he just doesn't care for sex!

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - dear cupid my boyfriend is 24 years old we have been together for 7 months he wont touch or make love to me and i am a very passionate person and need sex so this really hurts me deeply i have brought up the subject and he told me its not me he just dose not care for sex but ... (124 words

Does she still like me a little???

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - This girl and I had feeling for each other for 5 months. It was going good until at the end I went a little too fast on her. The next day she wanted to be just friends I said okay better than nothing. So we would hang after that and she would give off obvious body languages to ... (206 words

I really liked this guy , but I made a pass at his friend and now he won't talk to me...

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok right so the thing is I am in love. I met the guy about 5 years ago, it was a proper bolt out of the blue when i first saw him (never felt before or since) I worked for him and there was always this kind of hot chemistry thing going on (for both of us, by our own admission, ... (323 words

Should I find someone less complicated?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My ex of almost 4 years and I broke up over a month ago. The thing is, it's been really hard for both of us to let go. We still love each other a lot. However, prior to breaking up, I'd been feeling drained in the relationship. It was because he didn't trust me at all and also ... (631 words

He won't text me first!

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6 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so i like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me to but he's very shy. But the thing is he never texts me first. I always have to start the convo. Does that mean he doesnt want to talk to me or what?... (50 words

We both dreamt we cheated! Does it mean anything?

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6 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - this is the third time ive had a dream about my boyfriend cheating on me and i told him about it and he said that last night he also had a dream and it was that him and his cousins were at hotel and he called me to come and one of his cousins was a girl and in his dream he said ... (123 words

Low battery--I missed his call, called him back and now he won't respond!

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Helllo x I really ned an agony aunt right now. Im so confused... I met a guy lst night we danced and stuff he seemed really intrested in me and he haddnt drank much. he said sme nice tings . We exchanged numbers... Later I went to a prty and my phone went dead with lo b... (150 words

G/f cheated andI don't think I'll be able to love her like I once did

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6 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok, my gf and i started hanging out as friends and hooked up twice (not sex) last april of 2009. Maybe i started to show too much emotion and she was always in a relationship her whole life so she was enjoying the single life, so she ended up leaving the bar one night and slept ... (1103 words

Do you think he is seeing her?!

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend has been talking to this girl for like an hour and half at night when i am not around, i know he is because i can see the call log, which he does not know about! he calls her like 10 times a day and he only calls me once or twice!! i asked him what is going on he ... (168 words

I feel so lonely and can't anyone we broke up, no one knew about us!

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I started university in september and moved to live there. I had a boyfriend of two years (he was a great guy and did every to please me but I had always questioned whether this was 'true love' because I always expected it to feel more than what I felt with him). Anyway wh... (652 words

I feel like theres nothing I can do to improve our friendship. Whats going on in his head?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello :'( I need help. The bottom line is i should cut my friend - this guy out of my life for good. I dont need this but its all got to weird. I know he wants to be friends but i just want to know why? Because this has truely recked my life and got to other people. Im s... (826 words

Old enough for a baby, but he's unemployed and we still live at our parents...

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - ok heres the thing my partner is well broody for a child im 29 and hes 26 . weve been together for 3 years and both think we could do this have a child . hes not working at the moment but looking and im working . im worried and i know i shouldnt be as im 29 but we havent g... (97 words

Boys!! One day said he loved me, next day he's cold!

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy called gav! we were together for a month,and then he finished with me, and to be quite honest im not sure why, we was talking the othere night and he said he loved me he just wasnt sure how much and so im a bit like okay what now, then the day after he ... (121 words

Can I trust her or is she sneaking behind my back to meet her male friend?

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for two years and living with her for one. And ever sinced we moved in everything has kinda been going down hill. During the first week of the moving process she loan a friend her cell and that person came up to me and showed me naked pictures to ... (369 words

This time I ended the relationship and I'm heartbroken :(

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm so hurt right now. I feel like its a heartbreak all over again. So after 4 months my ex boyfriend comes back. He's in a relationship with someone right now. He told me he missed me and that he took everything for granted. He cherished me and that i was very good friend and ... (1075 words

Should I stay with him or go have fun?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so, I've had boyfriend for a year and 3 months now and we never have any problems just a couple small arguments, you know normal stuff... but the problem is lately I have been feeling just kind of like I wish I was single. My friends have been going to parties and stuff and ... (231 words

How do I choose between these two women??

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6 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi, My story is very long and complicated I'll resume the main point. I was dating that woman A since high school, for 10 years. At year 8 I discovered she was cheated on me for a period of time, I forgave her because she says she chooses me on a meeting with 3 of us. She con... (373 words

Nice Guys, my boyfriend is too nice, my husband is too nice

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6 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - So...I just want to open this space for discussion between men and women husbands and wives girlfriends and boyfriends about what it means when a man is being "too nice" or is a "Nice Guy" and how it makes both men and women feel...there are a lot of unspoken expectations ... (157 words

Is it strange for someone my age to have no experience and not be on the pill?

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I feel like there is something wrong with me, I am really embarrassed by sex and get shy talking about it so much so that I have always ignored the fact. I have been tryng to face my shyness and have started fooling around with guy eg kissing, hand-jobs and I am starting... (206 words

My new guy kissed me and then said he doesn't want the drama. What gives?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - i just recently started talking to a guy that i knew from a few years back. we were hanging out in front of his house just talking when he kissed me. funny thing was that at that moment, the father of my son was passing by and he stopped, stared at us and left. the guy already ... (217 words

Will taking this job kill our relationship?

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I'm in a bit of a tight spot here, I'll quickly explain my situation first. Currently, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl that lives the next state over. We started dating last year until I ended it in February, but now we've recently decided to give it anoth... (562 words

Teenage daughter having an affair with a married man

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6 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Please help, my 19 yr old daughter is having an affair with a married man. My daughter has been babysitting for a local family for the last 2 summers. Recently I was looking at pictures on her computer and I noticed pictures of the family she babysits for, they family have been ... (307 words

How many is too many? She's had 10 sexual partners in 3 years

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi all, I am 21 yrs old and I'm seeing a new girl right now. We've been dating for quite a while now, but she said something that concerned me. She is 21 also and lost her virginity at age 18 and has since gone off and had 10 sexual partners since then, one was a relationship. ... (74 words

Husband cheating says he gets sucked in by the internet

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6 June 2010 (F age - We have been married 33 years-happily I thought. Last week I discoverded my husband had been chatting online and on a webcam to women. Mostly ordinary stuff but also talk of kissing and brushing hair, etc but not sex. He said it was for friendship. He then admitted to a 4 year ... (305 words

I'm jealous of the way he talks to other girls, does he really find me beautiful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - (moderators note: two questions in one) My blackheads just won't go away. Everybody tells me I'm pretty, but I'm sensitive about the blackheads. Lately it seems like I'll just have to live with them, because they aren't going anywhere. Do guys care if an otherwise attracti... (250 words

How do I fix these problems and spice up the bedroom activity?

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6 June 2010 (? age 30-35 - ok i have several questions.... my boyfriend broke up with me in october but still calls me and texts me and we sometimes hook up. I asked him why he keeps comming around. he says he loves me/ What should i Do??? also we have awsome sex but i can't ever make him cum with oral? ... (94 words

NO BC pills..should I just use condom and take morning after pill too?

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice my boyfriend is going to Afghanistan at the end of this month, we have been going out for while but haven't had sex yet, we have decided to have sex before he leaves. The advice I need is that I am currently not on the pill strange I know due to my a... (186 words

Any advice on going from lovers to friends?

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Any advice on going from lovers to friends? We never managed to get together when we were younger so there was a lot of expectation when we did. Neither of us could live up to all those years of expectations and we have finally admitted it hasnt worked out. I do however ... (92 words

Ex girlfriend found a new "friend", but tells me we will get back together soon. Is she for real?

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6 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - Recently i split up with my girlfriend. the exact nature of the break was we argued alot and various other issues we had. i lost my cell phone and didnt speak to her for a week. after that week i had hoped she would have moved on. she did and was friendly with a guy and is out ... (163 words

She wants us to just be friends, should I accept this?

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6 June 2010 (M - hi everyone. i need some help. Me and my ex have been split up for about 4 months. we have had ups and downs within these 4 months, going from anger and not talking, too going clubbing, cinema and even sleeping together. She has said she wants us to concentrate on being fr... (172 words

My wife cheated and I want a threesome

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6 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married for five years, she cheated on me in the beginning, and said that she cheated so should I, But I told her I would love a threesome with another female and her. She said ok we haven't had one because when it gets close she says no. But the other ... (128 words

Feeling stuck in long term relationship

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi Cupid I’ve been struggling with my situation for quite some time and have recently taken some time apart from my partner. We have been together for 3 years and live together – he is 30 and a chef, I am 28 and a professional social worker. I have never felt so truly stuck i... (538 words

He's asked me to move in with him even though he doesn't know if he loves me

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - MY boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 months. Things are going great now but about a month in a half into the relationship he had broken up with me because he felt like there was nothing there. He said, "I know that you really like me, but I don't feel it. I ... (845 words

Might he read too much into a friendly hug?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey cupid, its time to work your magic! so today (or yesterday whenever you are reading this) i went to hang out with a long-time male friend of mine. we've been friends for about two years now and i really enjoy hanging out with him and feel comfortable talking to him. ... (267 words

We agreed to take a break, but now my girlfriend doesn't want to get back together

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - So about 10 days ago my girlfriend and I, of over 2 years, broke it off. It started with a fight where we both agreed that we need some space to cool off... then, for her, it turned into space for our relationship. She is questioning our relationship altogether. In the past... (302 words

I'm gutted after learning my wife has been cheating for years

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6 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - just found out my wife has been cheating for years i feel everything i held to be true is false too many feelings she blames me could that be true... (31 words

I've been left devasted after our break up while my ex is madly in love with his new girlfriend

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I don't know what I'm supposed to think or feel. My ex has a new girlfriend and he is declaring undying love for her on social networking sites (so I'm told) when throughout our relationship he told me he never loved me, even though he introduced me to his son and we all went... (307 words

How do learn to trust him after he's cheated?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am considering getting back with my ex, and giving things another shot. We got along well, but earlier on there were some major trust issues due to his behaviour that made it difficult for me to trust him out alone, partying, using the internet, etc. He is 24, and slept wi... (290 words

My boyfriend's friendship with his ex-wife is hard for me to endure.

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I started dating again someone that I had a brief relationship (for 2 months 2 yeas ago). This time things are more serious, we got back together 3 months ago, we already talked about the idea of moving together, if things go well having a baby etc. (He is 38 I am 33) and he t... (242 words

I'm nervous about meeting my long distance boyfriend for the first time

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I met this 20 years old boy online a little bit more than one year ago. I have really strong feelings for him, in fact I think I'm in love with him and I know he loves me too. We are supposed to meet in one month in Paris ( how romantic? 3) and I really can't wa... (174 words

I'm attracted to a colleague's brother

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm really attracted to my colleague's brother. She is on a trustee board with me, and introduced us at a social event. Since then she has invited me and him to other events, and we always end up talking and dancing together. A couple of innocent kisses, but that is as far as ... (114 words

My boyfriend admitted to me that while on holiday he visited a brothel

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now, and he was going away on a family holiday for 2 days. When he came back i didnt see him because he had to go straight to work when he got home, but that night he texted me saying he had went to a brothel and had sex with a ... (310 words

My husband of 30 years is a good man, but I want to live on my own

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6 June 2010 (F age - I've been married for 30 yrs or more. My husband is a good man i wouldn't want to hurt him. I just want to be alone right now. I want to leave freely for awhile. Any suggestions?... (39 words

My boyfriend's phone has been broken for two weeks and he's made no other effort to contact me

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all...I need your opinion guys,since my boyfriend phone was broken i don't hear news from him again almost two weeks even just a text messages i wonder why what's happening to him if he don't miss me or not coz why he don't even bother to see me,I love this guy and i missed ... (87 words

I'm tired all the time! What's going on?

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6 June 2010 (F - i don't sleep well at night..i take sleeping pills at times and still don't get a good night sleep. I don't ever sleep a 5-6 hours straight without waking up. After work i am just happy to come home and take a nap. Naps are where i get my best sleep. I will be in a dead sleep ... (375 words

If my boyfriend is over his ex why did he respond to her?

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend on the internet. At first given the distance between us, we both felt it was a good idea to just stay friends. He told me about his ex, who he refers to as psycho. Recently we've been getting in a lot of fights, mostly due to my insecurities. One side... (230 words

Boyfriend can't keep it up. Is it me?

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6 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I are very much in love. But of late he has problem staying erect. This has never happened before. Once he was so hard and started to penetrate me but he wasn't able to penetrate fast enough and it just went soft. He does have a stressful working... (85 words

My friend is texting a guy I used to text and it bothers me

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - my friend has been texting a boy that i once was. she thinks i didnt know bout it but last nite i came out and told her how i feel. she hasnt taking any notice of my feelings, i dont think we are talking now but should i try and make "friends" again as a boy shouldnt come ... (87 words

Mistreated by husband but haven't the strength to leave

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6 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Can anyone help? I've been with my husband for 12 years, but for the last 5 years, I've been unhappy at home! He constantly critisises and belittles me, both at home and in front of friends, family and strangers! 3 years ago, during an extremely rare night out with my only... (190 words

Can you feel someone up, even you don't find them attractive?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - (moderators note: please write proper English and not slang, avoid "n" and "coz" etc. Details are also edited out) Me and my ex mess about a bit. I tell him my dreams and fantasies about him, we dirty talk and feel each other up. We're both virgins, I understand its a joke and... (261 words

How does a large penis feel? Can a smaller guy satisfy a woman?

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6 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have a question for you women out there who have had a large penis (like 9"). What do you feel when it is all the way in? Is the sensation of being "filled completely" so overwhelmingly erotic to you that you long for it, or is it no big deal? I've heard you don't feel ... (109 words

He is unemployed and steals my money. Do I stay?

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - should i still stay with him hi all heres the thing I've given my bf chances, well I think too many chances but i have given him chances to prove to me that he wants to be with me . see hes not working and hasnt been for the 2 and half years been together . now in those ... (161 words

I'm falling in love, but he wants an open relationship. Do I wait and see if he will return my feelings, or cut and run?

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Should I wait and see if our feelings develop or cut and run? Hi, I met a guy two weeks ago online. He said from the beginning that he did not want anything serious because he ended his marriage of 6 years to his childhood sweetheart only 8 months ago. I'm only interested ... (692 words

I have to wait for him for 5 years, is it worth the wait? And should I tell my family about him?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend.We made acquaintance in my country. We are the same nation, but his identity is another country. Now,he is going to leave for his country. He asked me to keep waiting for him one year, he will back to my country next year. He is very honesty, which is why he ... (198 words

Because he chatted to girls excessively at the beginning of the relationship, I feel our relationship has been based on a lie....?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I am having real problems trusting my boyfriend... At the beginning of our relationship for 8 months my boyfriend was messaging a lot of other girls on a well known networking site. the messages were flirty and provocative...he stopped when we said we loved each other... (181 words

Partner and I have different opinions about money and we're about to buy a house..!

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6 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi - I am 38 and my boyfriend is 33. We don't have joint bank accounts but, after 5 years we are now ready to make a commitment to getting a house together. My concern is something that has niggled me all along but is now a real issue. My boyfriend seems very happy to ... (339 words

I need advice that a guy I interested, Help ?!

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi all! I've got question that bugging me quite sometimes. How should i start?! You see, there is one guy that i interested with but how could i tell if he's into me. The reason that he manage to grab my attention is because i onces notice that he stare at me several time and... (608 words

Attracted to taller women, where do I find them!??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - My problem is I am only sexually attracted to to women taller than myself. I have had this fetish since pre-puberty when the 'all boys' school I attended, merged with the nearby girls school. I was about 13 years old and one of the smallest and youngest boys in the year at t... (198 words

I'm looking for a gay partner, but I am told that people can't tell that I'm gay.. how do I change this to attract the right people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - So after coming into terms that I'm gay, actually this was at age 18. Its been two years and now I am twenty. I am not as shy as I used to be but it appears I can't get any guy to really like me. From my part I try to do what I can I groom myself but not like too much, I stay... (277 words

I want this girls trust, but she won't let me close..

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - there is a girl for whom i have fallen for but the problem is she is an introvert.....we have been good friends since 3 months but still i cant reach her....she never talks about her secrets or her life...its just me making her talk.....when i told her about my feelings she ... (85 words

I'm a 28yr old male and sex is painful for me..

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6 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - hi guys, i am a 28 year old male who was married for several years (seperated last year) and so i've only had a few sexual partners. I am NOT circumsized and basically, sex for me can be very painful because as soon as my foreskin rolls back, exposing the head of my penis, i ... (254 words

Lesbian or bisexual?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I recently came out to my family and friends as a lesbian. I love the idea of having a sexual and emotional relationship with a woman. But something has been bugging me lately. When I see good looking guys I think, "oh, they're really sexy." I don't like the idea of ... (150 words

Women only Has this happened to you when you were on your period

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6 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - im 15 and I came while i was on my period why did that increase my flow i get the blood comes from the vagina and so does the cum but why does it just make it worse like it made my like hard for the pad to absorb and i just like to know if this has happen to any other ... (63 words

Is he cheating on me with his crazy ex?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and we are pretty serious. Now before me and him started dating we talked for a year (as friends) and for a few weeks out of that year he was dating someone else but he left her cause she was "crazy and stalkerish" ... (219 words

Is she not interested anymore?

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6 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, new here.. ok, so quick summary- met girl at bar(she hit on me actually), went out wk later kissed, went out 2 wks later, hooked up at her place after bar, following weekend went to her families vaca home and stayed there(with family! and yes, i know that was... (150 words

Is there realy sexual stimulation in the anal cavity for men?

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6 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - is there realy sexual stimulation in the anal cavity for men? And how many want or have had the experience that are not gay or bisexual. Can a man realy be interested in that and not have some gay interests? I mean if he isnt some what, then how did he get the idea in the first ... (58 words

To let go completely? Or hold on somewhat?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My highschool sweetheart/first love/best friend told me that he thinks it will be best if we never talk again. We have known each other for almost 7 years. We have a lot of history. Obstacles have been thrown right and left. First, my parents hated him. Then, I broke ... (1013 words

I told him to leave me alone, so why is he doing this?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - here it goes.. about a month ago i told the guy i really like to leave me alone and that i'm done with him. Why? because he was all over his ex and still trying to hang out and kiss me.. all that good stuff. his friend put him on the phone and as soon as he said my name i hung ... (173 words

Hung up on a long distance girl

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6 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - How do I get over this girl? Alright sorry if this is a little lengthy but here it goes? I am an 18 year old guy and live in MN. Every time I travel down to Texas to see relatives I see one of my cousin's friends Jamie. The first time I met her was about five years ago where ... (408 words

Why is he doing this when it's over?

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a few months ago. He pretty much broke up with me, though both of us were feeling like something was lacking in the relationship at that point. We agreed to be friends but to give each other some time before going ahead with the friendship. ... (290 words

I want the relationship to work despite my jealousy

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6 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I am a 26 year old girl and my boyfriend is 31 years old. We have been in a relationship for 1 year. I had a difficult period at about 5 months and again at 7 months, each time I became uncontrollably jealous of other girls. The first time it was a text from an ex that ... (478 words

I feel like I'm not good enough

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6 June 2010 (? age 26-29 - Okay, well... I have some problems. Me and this guy really, really like each other. He thinks I'm amazing... He loves my body he thinks I'm absolutely beautiful... But truthfully, I have soo many flaws covered up by clothes. I feel like I can't get in a relationship because ... (245 words

Help with getting rid of blackheads?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have an issue with blackheads. Blackheads are the only type of acne I have, but they're horrible. I have them on my nose, cheeks, forehead, everywhere. They're not really noticeable except up close, but I'm sensitive about them. I've tried doing a baking soda ... (195 words

Not planning on cheating, but does this guy like me?

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6 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - Sorry if this is too long!! I have a boyfriend and I'm perfectly happy, but me and my friend were walking around the mall and we saw this REALLY hot guy sitting at a table alone who looked bored. So I walked up to him and sat down with him and we all trhee got to talking. He ... (253 words

Do you think he's lying about being over his ex?

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6 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Is this the behavior of someone who is over their ex? *her photo and cell phone number in his phone *both of them have each other listed as friends on facebook (however, i have no idea if they have contacted each other this way or keep tabs on each other) he swears they... (96 words

He wants meaningless sex with other women but to keep our relationship

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to have sex with other women. we have been together over 2 years, and i know he loves me. We have a great relationship. We are both open and honest and loving towards each other. Yet he honestly spoke with me about how he wants sex with other women. He says ... (236 words

How can I know if she still likes me without asking?

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6 June 2010 (M age 26-29 - i just moved states and when i was here for about 1month me and this guy became friends and later on his sister started hanging out with us and later i found out she liked me and i liked her too. so then me and her started dating and then she broke up with me because she said ... (104 words

I was the one fighting for "us". After the break up she keeps me hanging with mixed messages. What to do?

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6 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hey everyone, Feeling a little out of sorts and looking for some guidence. I met my ex on a blind date some two years ago and we clicked. Due to bad living conditions with her room mate and a safty concern she moved into my house after 2-3 months. Not the ideal time frame... (1268 words

Do you think he's actually interested? Is 17 and 21 too big an age gap?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Is 17 and 21 too much of an age gap? Im turning 18 in November and he's turning 22 in August. I wouldn't normally consider this, i don't go above the age of 19, but there's this guy.. I haven't met him in person yet, he added me accidentally on facebook thinkin... (562 words

How do I stop wanting him to kiss me?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this problem with my boyfriend/fiance that has existed for a long time. Our relationship lacks any kind of intimacy (No sex, saving that for marriage...if that even happens). We are both in our very early 20's. We have been together for about 2 years and living together ... (148 words

My boyfriend is not paying attention to me

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys! :) Alright.. My boyfriend is NOT paying any attention to me and it pisses me off! On facebook he NEVER replies to my posts and never posts anything to me but he has the time to comment on his friends' He never initiates a call.. Its always me! He never ever texts... (321 words

She never initiates contact but says she likes me alot. I'm confused, what do you think?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this girl for little under a month now. We met online and met up for the first time about a week ago. The date went great, we held hands shortly, and shared a small, innocent kiss before she had to leave. We talk almost everyday, usually txting, but I ... (295 words

Any suggestions about this??

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Its been about four days since my last post. And my husband has currently convinced me to move back in... We still sleep in the same bed. But I do not allow him to touch me. A kiss or too I'd fine. As for sexually UHUN!. The day I posted that post is the day I gave into him.. ... (185 words

Do some women have their menstruation while pregnant?!

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi all! :) I would just like to know.. According to teachings about the menstrual cycle.. It was clearly stated why women can not have their periods while they are pregnant and now on the internet when its asked.. People say its possible to have your period while pregnant... (99 words

Why do guys always cheat on me?

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6 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im 18 and i have a baby girl....guys tell my im sexy all the time im always faithful in my relationships but its like no matter what i always get cheated on why is that?... (35 words

We were going to see a burlesque show together. Now he wants to go with a girl from his past!!

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6 June 2010 (F age - i found this great burlesque show to go to, it was mid week and couldnt do it ,found out there were other shows on so thought we could do it on a sat night -better,we did talk about it.i get a call from my boyfriend,he tells me he has asked a friend to come with us as she has ... (179 words

Am I wrong for not being honest about sleeping with a guy, when we had broken up?

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6 June 2010 (F - Dear Cupids. I have a complicated problem. I met a wonderful guy four years ago, when I started university. We proceeded to have a great relationship, if somewhat immature.(considering that we were 17 and 20 when we met. ) Last year, absolute chaos hit my life, my father ... (706 words

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