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Wifey or Home wrecker?

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Question - (29 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been with my girl for 2 and a half years,but for 2 of those years she's been my side chick. To make a long story short, I caught feelings for her, left my girlfriend, and now we're official, but come to find she`s been a side chick before. Does that say something about her character or does she just fall for taken men?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010):

whether she prefers to be sloppy seconds for men should not be an issue here. as long as she is your sloppy seconds that should be good enough. i just thought of something: you will ALWAYS be wondering whther she is cheating on you. but takes a cheater to know a cheater so i am gussing you are in good hands.

your ex gf whom you cheated on must be laughing her head off. she who laughs lasts ,laughs the best......

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2010):

I think so. There are some women who feed off 'taken' men because it makes them feel better about themselves. More to the point, why did you cheat in the first place with someone like her. I'm pointing fingers at both of you here.

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A female reader, ctds001 United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2010):

Look at the kettle calling the pot black!

Your as bad as each other but if she was single when she was your side chick, you were the one not being honest in your relationship.

Are things not so exciting now with just one woman, is that why you are questioning her character?

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