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writes:basically I'm feeling incredibly guilty because I gave head to a guy last night. Im quite young so that was my first time...He was one of my best friends but he also went out with my best friend for a little bit a couple of months back. I feel so shocked at myself because I got incredeibly drunk.This morning I recived some horrific texts from some guys who heard what had happened.I feel absaloutly terrible and cannot stop thinking about what an idiot I was.Any form of advice would be great.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): the honest truth as a guy myself, guys love to talk shit about this stuff no matter what, its action for them and they dont care.
if u want to get the guy back without denying it tell everyone he has a small dick and that can mess with his head. hes no friend if hes talking trash about you so you do the same thing.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 If he's regretful why did he tell all his mates? Remember guys love to brag about this stuff. Don't trust him on that, sorry.
Otherwise, I completely agree with the other aunts.
Remember: sex is really okay, but do it in a good solid relationship. It makes all the difference! It's totally ok to do what you wanted to do, we all want sex, but take the time (however long it takes) to find a great guy that loves you. Once you find that you'll be able to do all the things you want to, and be very happy about it afterwards too. Patience really pays. Really.
Sex can be the best thing in the world, and the worst. It all comes down to the strength of the relationship you have with the person you do it with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso im definatley off the alcohol.
cleary it makes you do stupid crap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thankyou so much everyone for the feedback.
I spoke to my close friends and they said it was fine- but stupid obviously.
I also spoke to the guy and hes just as regretful as I am.
thankyou! helped a lot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Have a think about whether getting drunk is a good idea. It changes people's behaviour, usually for the worse, so consider whether you wish to continue. It is also bad for your health. I have seen people dying because of alcohol.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 June 2010):
1 - Lie about what happened. Just say you don't have a clue about what happened.
2 - Do not get drunk again. You can't handle your drink and this proves it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): And if you have an older brother or a so inclined guy friend, tell them what happened so they can kick this guys @$$. He needs to Learn a lesson...
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (29 June 2010):
Hi,I think you should talk to the guy that was meant to be yr " one of yr best mates" and ask him why he did that? Friends dont do that to each other.You could try the denial route if it doesnt work you may end up looking worse. You could always "neither confirm or deny what happened"I guess you should walk away from him and maintain your dignity and thy not to get carried away when you next get drunk. And if you are goning to give a guy oral, make your you are in a realtionship with him and make sure he's clean.Good luck let us know how you get on
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 Deny it happened, laugh it off and make jokes about it. People are less likely to think ur denying something if you find the situation even slightly amusing. If the guy tries to confront you, laugh at him, "Wow dude, how drunk did YOU get?! We're friends! Ew!" but hon, please, don't drink like that anymore, it could be worse next time...much worse. If you do drink, stick to a small amount, know your limits. Best of luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 Lay off the sauce from now on.
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