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Poll: Best sex - was it with an ex or current partner?

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Question - (29 June 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

So ladies...taking a poll here cuz I'm curious. When it comes to the best sex you've had, was it with your current (final) partner or with a previous partner? By "best", I mean the most sexually satisfying or intense (most mind blowing, most orgasms, etc).

If previous, how do you deal with having less intense, satisfying sex?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010):

Current hands down.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

It's my current husband, he lasts for a really long time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

It's my current husband

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

My current will do it anywhere and can be really dirty. We have the same fantasies.

We have had some times which have been off the rictor scales.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntCurrent partner, because we are actually in love, and we feel more desired when we make love. I've only has sex with two people though, and my current partner is quite experienced, my ex was a virgin before we had sex. But I do think emotions are the biggest factor in how good the sex is.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010):

current. He loves getting me off and i love getting him too. Makes for fantastic sex. Plus the emotional connection makes it more intense. I get to spend my life with him so i count myself very lucky :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010):

Yeah, I'm not really looking for hottest. I'm asking about best sex. Whether it was cuz he's got technique, gives great oral, gives you the most orgasms, had a huge johnson, whatev made your bones rattle and made you lust for more.

And guys comments are welcome, but I already know how guys think. I'm a bit of a pig too.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010):

I'm a dude, and I'm going to chime in here. Current is neck to neck with the past....but the past fling was so dirty, I loved it, and she had everything. Fake boobs, hot hot hot. My current GF is hot too, but I'll never forget that fling....deeeeelightful :) Yes, I know ladies...I'm a pig...

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A female reader, Sincerely Yours United States +, writes (29 June 2010):

Sincerely Yours agony auntMy current.

But here's why:

I am more in love with him and therefore more intersted in our relationship, including sex.

I sort of doubt that there are too many people out there who, after getting the confidence and the pratice, would just not be sexually satisfying. After a while of getting to know your partner's preferences, needs, etc., (and her getting to know yours) then you could both be just as satisfying as every other ex partner. Some poeple are faster learners than others, some people are more outgoing in bed, some people are just naturally better, but whatever the case, just give it time, pratice and hard work. I really don't think you'll have anything to worry about. Once you get to that final partner, and Eyes and I have, you'll have all the time in the world to make improvements.

~SY

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 June 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntnoe I know this is a "ladys only type question but I'm a voyour and curious so I read the question and am interested in the answers so pardon me for butting in but I know the answer my wife would give and it would be her previous partner(if she was totally honest) I knew when we married I was "second best" but that's the way it goes. No big deal!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (29 June 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntMy "current (final) partner" hands down...so far

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