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Guys: What to you find physically attractive in a girl?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need male input, what makes porn women so ideal and attractive, and what can I do to achieve that? I want men to think I'm as attractive as I can be, and they seem to love porn, so I only added 1+1... Of course I want a guy to love me for my personality and brains, but I al... (108 words

My girlfriend cyber cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - my gf and i were together for 3 years . we lived together one and half and two weeks ago i found out that she texting another guy literally cyber sex there met up last week nd they slept together .she confirmed it in last txt message she never knew that i found out . i broke up ... (171 words

Erection problems at 29!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for 4 years. I have had psychological problems with erections in the past especially with new partners. I have also noticed that if I frequently masterbate to porn this also happens. With my wife I have had erection problems here and there ... (309 words

She was so horrible, why am I still in love with her?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M - Hi all, here's the info... I'm 27 this year, I split up with with my ex nearly 3 years ago, she is the mother of my child who I have a realitivley good relationship with. We got together when I was 18 and we split when I was about 25, loads of really nasty stuff happened in the ... (172 words

Too shy to have sex because I'm worried about the size of my penis...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 16yo. My penis is something like 5.7 - 6in long when erect. I'm still virgin.. I had maybe 7 chances to have a sex with girls but I didn't do it because I'm too shy and I don't want to get embarrassed when they see my small penis. I know someone says it's perfect size ... (173 words

Do I really dress like a slut?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - People think I'm a how because of the way I dress. I am a beautiful blonde with great legs and nice natural breasts. I like to show it off through what I wear. Guys are always getting pissed off at me for "leading them on." tgey know im un a relationship! what should I do? Also ... (68 words

How can I teach him to kiss better?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (? age 30-35 - Does anybody have any experience with or know how I would aproach the subject with a guy I'm seeing on how to kiss better?!?! He just kisses so big, and I mean massive, I almost feel like I need to wipe my face with a towel after. No joke, it makes me feel kind of ill and I re... (91 words

Why does he keep pictures of him with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I found pictures of my boyfriend with his ex gf in a drawer. They were romantic pictures of them at a beach. Is he not over her? Does he look back at those times and reflect on them as good times? Why would he keep those pictures though they broke up over 4 years ago... (87 words

Should I take a chance with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I meet this guy about two weeks ago . Of course sparks are in the air everything is peaches in cream . Their are somethings that I don't like about him and I hav told him. He drinks and smoke ! Which is a negative because I do no such thing and have told him . He wants a ... (147 words

Why does he spend more time with his friends than me, and how can I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I'm dating this guy. He's really amazing. We always have a good time when we hang out together and he seems like he's really into me... but there's a problem. He always spends way more time with his friends, than he does with me. I have talkes and talked and talked to him a... (161 words

Is it normal to cum really quickly for your first time of getting intimate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I've grown really close to my girlfriend over the last few weeks and we recently started experimenting with each other - taking steps. Today, we went to third base, she gave me a hand job, at which point I was very VERY turned on, and I came in less than a m... (124 words

He left his girlfriend for me, but hasn't spoken to me in weeks, whats going on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok here goes, its a long story but worth a shot! ... ive been seein this guy for about 4 months now, when we first started seein each other everything was amazing, kisses, cuddles, laying on the beach of an evening watching the stars etc, but then he announced that h... (388 words

Why do these things make me feel "dirty"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I trust my husband and love him dearly, but for some reason some things make me feel...dirty. I know from years of friendship that his type is tiny, blonde, white girls. I'm not tiny, not white, and not blonde. I know I'm attractive and I love myself and I know he loves me. But ... (141 words

How can I make sure our relationship lasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - i recently have got a new boyfriend and i really really love him me and him have kissed and made out i know he loves me too as he has told me and he told my friends that he did. i`ve had bad luck with boys in the past due to me and them argueing. i want us to last a long t... (102 words

Why am I still not his top priority?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age - I have been dating a man for several years. At times he can be very sweet and attentive, taking me to dinner, bringing me little presents, but the relationship doesn't seem to be progressing past the dating phase. He tells me he loves me often, but makes it very obvious that ... (178 words

I feel like my relationship is at breaking point, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for just over two years, during the last few months our relationship has become - to my mind - quite strained. Our sex life is actually non existent, we had sex about a week before our second aniversery, prior to that there had been a ... (331 words

An ex has started to give me a kiss!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

26 June 2010 (? - My ex has started to kiss me on the lips when saying bye after not doing anything so personal since our divorce 2 years ago when i've really stayed very much out of his way. Recently we bumped into each other several times and he made a deliberate thing of kissing me goodbye! ... (151 words

Boyfriends/Girlfriends/Husbands/Wives of international tour guides?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - How do you deal with your partner being away from home so often? My gf has just launched her career as an international guide and already her schedule is so full that she is lucky to spend 1 day at home every week. Understandably I'm quite upset with this new arrangement. I h... (261 words

Is it normal for men to think about sex with exes whilst masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal for men to think about sex with ex girlfriends whilst wanking? I know this sounds like a silly question, and Godknows how we got into the conversation, but my boyfriend told me that when he wanks he thinks about ex girlfriends sometimes, and the sex he's had with ... (224 words

Did he message me only because he thought I had gone away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi there.Im feeling really confused. I was on and off with my boyfriend for 2 years. We had some amazing times but also some bad ones. We split up for good in February this year and ended quite badly. It has been nearly 6 months now and I still think about him a lot, and h... (328 words

How does nipple color determine how she is in her sexual life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - hiiii all once aging i want to know sm thing ... may be its can be funny question...but i want ans... different-different women have different-different color of nipple of Brest… So my question is if sm women has light Pink color of nipple then how she is in her se... (206 words

He's okay with casual sex, I'm not. Should I stop dating him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I saw this guy that I know. He asked for my number,so since he wasn't dating anyone and I wasn't I did. When he called we talked and he said he wanted to take me on a nice trip. He has been trying to have sex with me, but I'm not ready to be in a sex relationship right now. He ... (261 words

Are we just friends? What are the signals he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and because i have never been in a relationship before i am unsure whether he is just being friendly or if he really likes me. Can anyone give me advice on what the signals would be if he really liked me?... (53 words

Ladies, if your best male friend suddenly kissed you, what would you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - How would you react if your best male friend (who you knew liked you) suddenly leaned over and kissed you on the lips? How would you react based on if you did or did not like them? Would you ever go along with it if you had no feelings for them in that way?... (55 words

How can I just ignore my friends when they want to be left alone without having the urge to always talk to them?

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this problem. When i don't talk to my friends for a couple of days i get needy for attention then i bug the crap out of them so i have someone to talk to. How can I just ignore my friends when they want to be left alone without having the urge to always talk to them? I ... (180 words

Our past choices are causing big problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 months and I work to have a relationship based on honesty.. we are both 25 yet we've had very different pasts. He was a virgin when we met, and I've been with several people. He has never tried drugs, while I have experimented in the past. I am not ... (217 words

I'm still in love with him, I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I broke-up with my x for cheating on me. The girl he cheated with was a 'one' time thing. We were still dating for 8 months after that ended. I just couldn't deal with the emotions and needed to break-up. This happened 1yr ago.. We wanted to have a break first..then get ... (1038 words

I want to stop having sex with everyone I meet!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what kind of girl I am anymore. its like every guy I meet wants to sleep with me, and I dnt know how to say No. I feel like such a hoe because I'm 19 with 8 sex partners and only been sexually active for 3 years. I want to stop having sex with everybody I meet, and ... (125 words

Should I write a letter to end things with him? Or just forget about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi I had dated this guy and because of some things on both our parts , we kind of broke up. I tried very hard to work things out but he would always be mean to me, so I decided to accept that he didn't want the relationship back, but everytime I let go he would call. This... (425 words

Will anger management help my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - Can anger management help a husband who has been abusive when frustrated, angry, or hurt? It has gotten worse over the months and I think it will just get worse without some kind of help. Is it a long process?... (42 words

Is he just using me while he looks for someone more local to be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm in a very long distance relationship and I'm starting to panic ! We talk for hours during the week. Its always "I love you so much, you're so perfect, I want to marry you" 24/7 were in contact. When the weekend comes however, he vanishes. He doesn't respond to my ... (109 words

How do I tell him to get lost good and proper?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago fine fine can handle it not! worst still he rings me every three days now i got him tickets to a concert he and i wanted to go to for his birthday and he said he would bring a mate i eas hoping he would bring me he brought a girl he ... (167 words

Can't get over the fling I had

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - i dont know why im finding it so hard to move on from this guy i had a fling with for 2months, i cant seem to stop thinking about him appoaching the girl and taking her number in front of me and he saw me there sitting at the bus stop. this guy knows how i feel about him i told ... (206 words

Why is she angry with me for trying to protect her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Heres the story.. My girlfriend and I were at a bar/dance spot in town with friends yesterday. By the end of the night things got out of control because a few guys started fighting the bouncers. Naturally everyone started rushing to watch the fight until the bouncers started ... (1028 words

Why does he swing from being really close to backing off completely??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - My guy friend really confusses me! At times I think we are getting close to starting something then he seems to back way off. It goes from him texting me often, calling me before work just to chat, buying me gifts, going out of his way to do favors for me and giving me long ... (92 words

I want to move on and be happy with someone new, but I don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - How do i move on from my ex? It seems like everytime i do he shows up again. About a month ago after him and i hadn't talked in about 6 months we started texting and talking on the phone everyday and he said his feelings for me and that he would always compare everyone... (428 words

Is he gay and flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi all. I need some help regarding a guy from my class. We've in the same class for almost 2 years, and we never really talk much. We are not that close, cause maybe we are like in the diffrent bunch of geng. My problem is that recently he get closer to me, sometimes he e... (97 words

Does masturbation affect virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - when i do the secret happit, does that may affect my virginity cause iam getting maried after few months and i must be virgin ? and how can i knew or be sure... (37 words

She won't accept that her weight is the reason men are not interested in her.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girfriend and I have a very close friend. She is a wonderful girl. It's always the same scene with her. She meets a guy, they are really into each other for a few days / weeks, then the guy realizes how heavy she is and distances himself. (I'm speaking for the guy here). ... (304 words

My wife has been having an affair, I want his name and details

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 51-59 - My wife was caught having an affair by his wife, a couple of days later I caught her out, she admitted it and said she didn't love me anymore, she has since changed her mind but refuses to give any details about the affair, I have said as a minimum I need ti know his name and ... (68 words

We are worried my girlfriend might be pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello I am 21 years of age and my girl is 20. About 10days ago we had sex for the 2nd time in our 3 years relation. It was a protected sex, the condom was on and everything went smooth (However I am not sure of some dried up precum on my fingers that might have been gone inside ... (166 words

I saw my boyfriend put his hand on my roommates breast

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - HI, I have been dating a guy for four and half years. He is very simple and shy guy. He treat my roommate as a sister. Last night we three were drunk but I was that drunk. I don't know how high he was, I saw him putting his hand in my room mate breast and hugged him, I couldn't... (90 words

It seems he doesn't want to help financially, am I expecting too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - So, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, we're extremely close, and I love him a lot. I just have one minor issue that keeps coming up. I had major surgery a few months before I met him and then upon returning to work, I was laid off due to the company losing a state ... (351 words

A question about the pill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Taking the pill, please help? Last month i started using Loette (the pill). Today is the start of my second round of pills as yesterday was the last day of my period (if this make sense?) I took 7 sugar tablets and now today i took an active tablet. If i didnt take my active t... (118 words

My boyfriend is a jealous cheater

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - No matter what i do he still cheat on me.my boyfriend of 1year and some months wont stop cheating on me i dnt know why and the funniest thing is that the girls according to him cant be rated with me yet he cheat. am a beautiful girl,sexy,attractive,tall,every man s dream bu... (183 words

Is it okay to just wait for a woman to make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have problems with meeting women (I don't ask them out anymore) and I'm wondering if it is okay to just wait for a woman to ask me out. Most people I speak to say it should be the man's job to ask the woman out. But I think it should be 50/50. Am I right or wrong? Is it oka... (90 words

My wife had sex with her cousin and wants a divorce

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - My wife a couple months ago found out her cousin on the other side of the country had cancer and wanted to go see him. Well they were never close but I didnt understand why but I let her go, she came back a week later and started fighting afterwards. We decided to do some ... (355 words

My partner has lost interest in physical contact

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have been dating for six years and have two kids but since i fell pregnant with the second born my partner has lost interest in making love, kissing,hugging even just to hold my hand but he says he love me,but does this mean that may be i am selfish or what? will i be wrong ... (79 words

I am starved of romance in my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've dated my hubby for a really long time and got married last year.he,s perfect. Does everything a husband should do. Provides for me, helps me out as best as he can with everything and anything, he genuinely loves me I know, The problem is he is not physical with me...we ... (190 words

She lied about so many things, would I be stupid to take her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - so i've been dating this great girl for the better part of a year now, but recently, i find out (partially because she started to admit and partially because i prodded a bit) that she lied about 1) the number of people she's slept with (probably shouldn't have come up, bu... (267 words

I've lost my faith in men because of him, how can I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, I just broke up with my four years bf, I was in love with this man but it took me a lot of time to really know that he can't give me what I need from this relationship, he only cared about himself...ok, it's gone now and I really need some help getting over this image I ... (109 words

Are teacher crushes of the same gender normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have this science teacher (female, age 50+ ?) that I really like. Like a lot! I can't wait until science class every day, and on the holidays I miss seeing her and feel pretty sad. When we have science I get really excited and when I get to talk to her one on one (about ... (137 words

He acts like he wants me but makes no moves, is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I've finally gotten closer to my guy friend and flirting was so casual that I never noticed he was hinting at me, but he tells me he likes me and thats it. I don't understand him. He calls me babe, we can act like a couple, we constantly flirt, and we've been friends for a ... (529 words

Anyone have any good anniversary ideas? We're both broke.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey there It's me and my boyfriends one year anniversary this week and we are going through a really rocky patch at the moment with us and I want to do something special together. I wanted it to be special anyway obviously but since we are going through a rough patch I wa... (130 words

He promised to stop taking drugs, but I caught him getting high, how can I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, I'm new to this and ive never asked for help on a website before but I'm desperate for advice. its a bit long, so please bear with me. tonight I was out with my best friend, while we were driving we passed my boyfriend's apartment. I decide to stop because I feel bad for ... (293 words

In love and hurt. Do I move on? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I am 16 years old. And I have already fallen really hard for a guy. We knew each other since we were 13 and 14. Best friends and all. We just told each other last January that we liked each other. That June we started going out. I fell in love with him. We went two months ... (131 words

What do I do, he wants to break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years. Things were going really great until I left the country for 3 months because of school. I came back thinking everything was the same.... and is not. He suggested to break up with me.I panicked and he didn't end up breaking up with ... (198 words

Raging hormones and fantasies about my teacher, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - So, I'm 13 and I know its a young age and all but I feel very horny so often. Is that normal? My parents dont know but often at night I like to masturbate. I just feel great but is that right? I have no other way to get rid of it, it's too good. Also, ive fantasized about my ... (112 words

I'm more interested in foreplay than penetration is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - ok so it seems like i am more intrested in foreplay than sex and more intrested in doing things to give my gf pleasure instead of having her do something to me. is that strange? is there anything abnormol or wrong about that?... (43 words

He keeps cheating on me and lying about it, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. It is very clear that he and I have a lot of passion for one another. We have everything in common and spend a lot of time together. To make a long story short ... I started noticing signs here and there that he may be ... (326 words

Long distance, age and cultural distances but I love him, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all.. I really need ur opinion bout my problem. I met a French man last year. He was in holiday in my country (in asia). He was a nice man. In the rest 17days in my country, we went evrywhere together, n of course we also made love. In 7days before he came back to France, ... (295 words

I'm starved of physical affection in my marriage, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've dated my hubby for a really long time and got married last year.he,s perfect. Does everything a husband should do. Provides for me, helps me out as best as he can with everything and anything, he genuinely loves me I know, The problem is he is not physical with me...we ... (190 words

I've never followed 'the rules' of 'womanly' behaviour is this wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - The rules book stated that a girl should be reserved, not too chatty, not trying at all to entertain actually but thats a personality trait of mine, i LOVE TO ENTERTAIN, i make ppl laugh, im extremely bubbly and sometimes too hyper. I enjoy being this way and its the real me, ... (337 words

My girlfriend's behaviour is outrageous

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - This is the third time me and my girlfriend have been together. Each time the relationship started i approached her and we talked things out and everything always starts off great. The first time I broke up with her she didn't like my friends and didn't want me to see them... (1053 words

Turban wearing man seeks honest opinions

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - So I moved into the states when I was 10 and now that I am getting older (in my 20s) I am finding that finding love is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. My question is for all women. I am a turban wearing man with a trimmed beard. I am told by my friends that I a... (204 words

Ideas for an atypical date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit, we're both in college and I want to do something that isn't a typical date. I want us to sneak out of our houses at night (trust me not to do anything bad and whatnot) but to watch the stars or go for a moonlit walk.. have ... (62 words

How to start fresh with the same person...and a baby due any day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im still having the same problem,,, im really trying to rekindle my relationship. I know many of you may tell me to give up because his feelings for me have changed etc etc, but thats not what i want to hear. I want optimistic advice, both my ex and I are really trying to ... (144 words

My boyfriend often makes cruel 'jokes' about me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. We occassionally have problems because he pokes fun at me and 'jokes' in very cruel ways. Two days ago he was making fun of me because of how 'ugly I look when having an orgasm.' This was the fourth time he 'jokes' like that and... (130 words

How do I make a choice between two men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I am currently in love with two different men. I live with my boyfriend of a year and a half. But i'm seeing another man behind his back. I've been seeing the other man for about 9 months. Prior to this he and i were together for a few months and split because he went back ... (164 words

My boyfriend wants to live a life of instant gratification since he learned his mum was gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 21. I dated my boyfriend for 7 years and it was never an on/off type of thing. We talked all the time about marriage, kids, and the life we would have when we were older, but we didnt want to rush anything because what we had was good and we wanted to be financially stable ... (184 words

Is this an obvious signal he's not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello there...! there was this eye candy in my class and we didnt speak at all for the entire semester...however we managed to talk at a party which was held to commemorate the end of the semester. so during the party, both of us were pretty tipsy from the drinks and... (359 words

Did my family prefer me when I was mentally ill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - am i right or am i crazy. Certain events took place where i did not live at my home. At my home lives my father my brother my wife and very young son. I was living at my mothers. During this time i started seeing a shrink to help me with my bipolar a.d.d. and depression. A... (401 words

Should I go out with him even though he used me?

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - This Wisconsin guy who i had sex with for 2 nights, use me, left me with lots of questions in my mind and made me feel soo confuse will go back here in Philippines' my friend K who was his close friend too told me that he is still asking about me through chatting. I dont get ... (152 words

Can lack of sexual connection cause me to lose my attraction towards her?

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26 June 2010 (M age 30-35 - Mod note: OP's own title I've been dating a girl for about five months now and about a month ago we decided to stop having sex until we are married, she couldn't handle lying to her parents about it and this made us both feel guilty so we've been going without sex.I'd just like... (78 words

Bearing the pain and married him very young.

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am only 19 years old. I got married 2 years ago at young age.to love him a lot. I've known him for 6 years and my family dislikes him. After living with him for 1 year I left him and went back to my parents because I felt that I was supporting him only and he just did ... (272 words

He loves us both and does not want to choose! He says he is confuse yet she gets more respect & attention.

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Mod note: OP's own title He cheated on me for the past two years out our 4yrs and fallen in love with her. We both believe we were his only one and we found out about each other the same week. He begs me not to leave him and beg her the same thing. I love him dearly, and he tell... (390 words

She's no good for him and I want him for myself.

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26 June 2010 (? age 26-29 - Hi, okay so I I'm not very good with introductions so I am just going to cut to the chase. I have this friend that I've known for a year, and over the course of tht year I've fallen totally in totally and completely love with him. Well just when I got the courage up to te... (729 words

Could I be pregnant when the cum ran down my body?

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I was with my boyfriend and he "cummed" on my stomach and after a minute i went into the shower and washed it off.. but then i became paranoid because when i washed it off it ran down my body...it's not possible to become preagnant that way is it?... (50 words

My ex is back, but now I like Nick too

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26 June 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok now hears a hard one. My xboy friend is back and I might be in love wit him but I still like nick so wat do I do? I have strong feels for samuel by I like nick and don't know wat to do? Helppl plz. ... (49 words

He stopped calling out of the blue

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26 June 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy four years ago at work( he was a client). we started talking but didn't get together until last year. the realtionship started off great for the first 5 months and out the blue he just stopped coming over and he stopped calling. He claims he love me but how can ... (100 words

Don't want to push the friend zone, but don't want to be out of mind either

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26 June 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hey there... So I known this girl for couple of weeks now and we had a great time in the beginning but then she pull a "I just got out of a relationship and not ready to get into another one right now. I can only be a friend right now." I understand where she's coming from bec... (141 words

How can I forget about this "forbidden fruit"?

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* I have had previous posts about this problem. I just graduated from high school and I have been in love with one of my teachers there. My story is really long and I am not going to post it all here because I don't want to bore you guys. But I just want you... (258 words

Help! She's slept with more people than me!

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26 June 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and have been dating a 29 year old girl for about 2 months. We get on really well and have become quite serious and have discussed marriage etc. I formed the impression she has had quite a few sexual partners (we also slept together on the first night). Af... (247 words

I think the kiss ruined our friendship!

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26 June 2010 (F age - i was leaving for the day, when my guy friend says "hey, where's my g'bye kiss?" i smile, i kiss his cheek, then he offers the other cheek, then we kinda grin, and before i know it, i kiss his lips, really hard, because i don't know why!!! i just did.then i had to go really ... (185 words

How do I know if he's actually single?

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - heyy. right, i just started a new relationship today, literally 2 hours ago. :/ he's a great person and we got on great. he seems totally genuine etc. I'm 17 and he's 18. the thing is, i was looking at his msn updates when i was bored a minute ago and some girl commente... (254 words

How do guys treat their close female friends over a romantic interest?

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26 June 2010 (F age 51-59 - Dilema!!! I have a great guy friend and as of late I've been thinking we may be more.....He's bought me gifts, we text A LOT and even until recently he never hugged me when we said goodbye, but the last few times I left he either made the first move for the hug or made sure to ... (275 words

I was asked when my baby is due and I'm not pregnant! I'm so upset!

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26 June 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i,ve started this course in hairdressing and I,m Fat and I dont know about any of you but everytime i seen a hair dresser she wasn't fat. I spoke to my friends about this and they said I Looked fine and i should'nt be so panicy. So I listened to them. But yesterday when I ... (168 words

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