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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there a brightside to heartbreak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Classic Hopeless Romantic Case. Unrequited Love. So about 5 years ago I met this girl, and after having many conversations with her, we clicked. We were almost the same despite being almost opposite. (She's a prep, I'm a metal head. I'm jewish, she's latin. I'm a artis... (268 words)

Suspicous of his ex but no proof!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Been with my bf for 6 months and im at the stage where my mind is constantly working and thinking about his ex. He broke up with her last year after 4 yrs together but they seem to still be close and share the same group of friends. He has never mentioned her to me but ive ... (169 words)

Why don't I feel anything during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't I feel anything during sex? This past time was only my 2nd time. And I don't feel anything, afterwards the first time I felt a little sore. When he fingers me I do feel that. It's really bothering me that there is like no real pleasure llike you are always to... (69 words)

Should I have ever changed in the first place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for over a year. I was initially swept off my feet by him as he is very outgoing and fun. I very quickly fell in love and decided that I wanted to marry him. I started learning to cook well and learning Arabic in order to be a more suitable partner for ... (222 words)

She's sitting on the idea of a break and using it as leverage - help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf wont decide what she wants to do with our relationship. we had an argument, she wants me to be more responsible and more mature with my life, and i lied about getting something. during the argument i mis-heard a question and said yes to get her off my back, turns out ... (246 words)

Closure? Or wants me to wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 2 years, but then I met a new guy. This new guy treated me right, I felt like a princess, but he wasn't ready for a new relationship, and I was still in the 2year long relationship. I became best friends with this new guy, and when things went a little sour ... (758 words)

He loves someone else now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I go to this sport called speedway well used too, and there was this guy who really likes me and we were gonna finally get together this Monday like officially cause we both really liked each other but he texted me yesterday saying he likes someone else and he knows how much he ... (88 words)

Why does my husband continue to fantasize over younger women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age - Why does my husband continue to fantisize over younger women? I guess I am just sick of it. It started with his searches on my computer and when caught, he went out and bought a Blackberry and spends all of his time on the Blackberry. He tells me I am the women of his ... (169 words)

Is this the real reason he wants to leave me or is this just an excuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need your help. I casually found this very interesting and helpful site please please please can you offer me some advice about my relationship? I am in a relationship for 5 years and I have problems these last months.He was very quiet for a long time and I couldn't... (505 words)

How to Confront a possible Cheating girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve being dating with this girl for 3-4 months now, things are going very smoothly. However, recently I found out something suspicious. A week ago I found an email address she uses, which contains Eric.(her name)@livedotcom. I became paranoid. I did not confront her about ... (281 words)

Should I come out to my family? And how do I tell them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Readers, I'm a closeted gay and I'm have a difficult situation. Let's start at the begining... Two weeks ago me and my best mate were just walking in the park and we were casually walking and I tripped but his foot was in front of mine and he ended up on top of me an... (275 words)

I don't want to be his back up plan!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a relasonship which is really good and im happy in it we are even getting married soon but iv'e got this friend whom i have known before i met my partner and this friend as a girlfriend the problem is that iv'e loved this friend since the day i met him well at least i ... (233 words)

Flirting is fun but I'm sick of it!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod note: OP's own title] I have to say im a very good flirt but now im in a relationship and me and my boyfriend have had problems about this one boy because he liked me and i kinda led him on by flirting but now i don't even no im doing it and i want to notice im flir... (71 words)

Husband's co worker is obsessed with him, is he cheating with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husbands co worker (girl) has been telling me things such as they are planning a weekend together and sexually explicit details between him and her. But he denies that he has ever touched her and we have been dealing with face book remarks and threatening / harassing emails ... (1209 words)

It's like going out with a 14 year old, not a 24 year old!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend, and because of the time difference and the fact that his work schedule changed a few weeks ago, we only get to talk for about 10 minutes a day in the week, when one of us is getting up and one going to bed. I was really looking foward to having a... (298 words)

He loves me but he is marrying his fiance today!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my friend J, we've been friends for years, but in the beginning I had a serious crush on him, while I was with my boyfriend at the time. We had a moment, but no sex, and I recommitted myself to my boyfriend. He told me he loved me a few times over the years, but I ... (289 words)

Is there anything to make a cold go away faster?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there quick question, I have a busy week coming up and woke up this morning with a such a sore throat and a cold is the last thing that I need right now. So I'm just wondering if anyone has any remedies for getting a cold to go away faster??? ...or am I just be... (76 words)

Why do guys go after girls that are taken?

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20 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Why do certain guys go after girls when they are already taken? I mean, if they have a girlfriend then why would you want another girl? Sex? Excitement? To fufill their ego? It's just something i've always been curious about, especially when the guys that do it say how much ... (163 words)

I'm smoking and having to hide it from my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okkk.... so. me and my guy are close, very close.. we have been dating for 2 years now and everything is perfect! He doesn't smoke though. i can never get him to smoke and every time i mention it he gets mad.. he thinks its totally greasy and i have to pretend the same. i mean ... (145 words)

I feel her love but sometimes when she shuts down, I take it personally and it pushes me away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK this is going to be a bit of a long question as I have a few issues to discuss. Firstly, a bit of background on my relationship. I met my tour guide Chinese gf last year and we stayed in regular contact by long distance (skype, msn and email). Eventually I came back to teach ... (1249 words)

Incredibly passionate first and second date is scaring us both.. please advise!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've seen this girl now 2 times, and both dates we have made a tremendous connection. Neither of us have ever felt such passion towards another person so quickly and its really scaring both of us. We have both said that it feels like we have been together for so much longer ... (918 words)

I want a serious relationship not a long term booty call?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy off and on for the last 4yrs. We were friends only friends the first 6 months then we slept together. I wanted a serious relationship u know I'm ur man ur my woman type of relationship. But when it came to putting a title on it we started to have problems! He ... (106 words)

I have feelings for two, don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i've been with my bofriend, john, for four months now, and i really really do love him. i have had a few relationships but nothing that has been great, the only thing is, this is his first relationship and its beginning to be a fairly serious one too. This makes him quite ... (202 words)

I simply cannot come to terms with my man watching porn

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am one of those dreaded women that simply cannot come to terms with my man watching pron. I have struggled with this since the day I started dating guys. I have literally done everything I can think and everything people have suggested to make myself get over it… I have go... (698 words)

Update: "How can I truly rid myself of this married man?"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Update: I am the one who asked "How can I truly rid myself of this married man?" Well, I haven't "shaken" dude away from me yet. I keep going back and forth. He came over to my house (no, we weren't intimate). I started to cry because I wanted to be with him but know it is ... (374 words)

I'm not feeling his love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a while now, he was my best mate before. Still sort of is. He is great, he's a gentleman, we have so much in common it's strange and my parents think he is wonderful. But I don't think I can stay with him much longer. He was the one that ask... (296 words)

Am I being too uptight about this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. My husbands parents go to these bike rallies where all the women walk around completely naked and you can see ppl getting blow jobs and having sex and stuff. Anything you can think of goes on at this place. Well they keep asking him to go with. And i dont ... (118 words)

I've never told anyone that I was molested and I feel like its too late!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was molested by my step father from te ages of 9 to 15. i have mixed feelings torward this situation. i was adopted and hes basically married to my adopted mother(mom). ive never tld anyone and i feel like its to late to. im now 17. the one thing tht bothers me is i feel ... (202 words)

I'm afraid my friend my hurt himself because his dad died!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4997 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Long time, no needed help! But I'm in a stilled situation here. Maybe I just need tips, reassurance in this to keep me going strong. :: I posted on here a night with 3 guys I had, and how the on that seemed the most appropriate to me was pushing himself on me and I didn... (312 words)

My BF's teen is a problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I live with my boyfriend and he has a teenager. The teenager is so spoiled. I talk to my boyfriend about it. He thinks I am complaining about a lot of little issues. I feel like he does not care about my concerns and is use to how the teenager is. I have a hard time letting ... (95 words)

Flirting with a guy? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys.... I am terrible at flirting so if you have any really good flirting tips please tell me, my boyfriend is a total flirt and i have no idea to flirt back???? help me please... (37 words)

I know he cares but is it in the way I want it to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im using this site because i need to get my feelings out. im 17 years old and ive been through so much crap in my life. (molested, abused physically and mentally, and left by both of my parents, adoptedd). i am the type of girl who never cries, never lets anyone i... (641 words)

Sex, red bumps and thrush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfreind have been going out for 7months and before we met i was going out with this guy for a year and we had sex a couple of times sometimes without a condom but he had never had sex with anyone else and neither had i, but now my 7 month boyfriend and i had sex ... (120 words)

Sore, itchy and freaking out!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

Does this sentence turn a man on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I chat with this guy. Once when he asked me by skype 'How are you', I told, 'Not bad. It is raining and I am all wet'. It had been raining and I had just come home. He smiled with a smile I will not forget. He really liked it and his mood got higher.After some time he told ' I ... (159 words)

I had wild sex in public in the past. Should I tell her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

- She's not comfortable with public shows of affection. I told her no PDAs is totally fine with me. She was reassured and concluded: "I'm glad we both feel the same way about it!". I chose silence over sharing the fact that I've definitely had some pretty wild sex in publ... (142 words)

Need some advice/tips on dating for someone who's 23 and has one year of uni left?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

- I dated up until I was 20 and then some personal issues occurred with my last girlfriend which resulted in low self esteem kicking in. I built up my confidence after some help from parents and mentor and I am now more confident in all forms of life (except dating) than before ... (112 words)

I kissed my BFF and liked it!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Had some friends over and we were in the pool. Me and my best friend were dared to kiss in front of everyone. Well we did. And later that night we kissed again. She spent the night that night but nothin else happened. But I kept having the urge to try stuff with her. But I ... (87 words)

Trying to make plans between two friends and don't know who to chose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about meeting up with my friends. One of my friends is having a night out for her birthday on 4th September, bu ti havent seen her for a few years, and there will be a lot of people there that i dont know, and i feel shy in situations where i dont know ... (356 words)

Becoming attracted to my ex, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been goign out with my girlfriend for 10 months now and i really love her, but lately i've been getting more attracted to my ex what should i do ?... (31 words)

He asked me to have sex, should I tell his girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - A friend of mine has been flirting with me a lot lately, and i don't just mean casual flirting, i mean things like talking about what we used to do in bed etc... we used to have a casual thing going on last year. He has a girlfriend, and i feel bad for her because i know it's ... (153 words)

Do I deserve her? How do I come to terms with myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] i have been dating this girl for 10 months. i liked her for along time and i went for it,i still think its a miracle that im with her. for he first nine months of our relationship i was really happy when i was with her, she so beautiful and talented. guys... (250 words)

I think the man I love is cheating one me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help with something but as I'm writing this I feel very confused and disappointed. Hopefully I can explain myself good. I'm currently going out with this guy and I know I am in love with him. Well, not sure if its called going out, we only have sex at work. I think... (261 words)

Should I wait, or have sex? Mom thinks I should be with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for two months now. He is my first boyfriend, and I am a virgin. Things are going well, but sexual issues and Mum's beliefs in relationship outcomes are pressuring me. With regards to sex, he has been waiting for penetrative sex for two months. We h... (348 words)

We want to try sex without a condom, but what happens to the semen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Both me and my b/friend enjoy intercourse with a condom-we've never known anything else since being 1st timers. We'd fancy a change now-if only to see if there's any difference in pleasure or sensation.I'm happy to be responsible for precautions but Im just wonderin... (75 words)

Developed feelings for my best mate!

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20 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - recantly i broke up with the girl i was seeing... however i have developed feelings for her best mate, and i think she feels the same for me, what should i do? as i am going to be seeing her this weekend and was planing on making a move on her... help!... (54 words)

He says he doesn't love me, he misses me, does this mean he loves me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My x says he doesnt loves me any more but still misses me. Does it mean he still loves me?... (20 words)

My wife recently gave birth to twins but it's driving me crazy that all I can think of is this other woman!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I have a really big problem I just can't handle anymore. 5 years ago I got married to a woman, my first and only girlfriend I ever had. I really love her and always have. However about 3 years ago I met a woman I was wildly attracted to.At first I tried to i... (320 words)

Can a relationship with a younger man work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a relationship with a younger guy work I'm 33 been married (divorced now for 4 years) and have 2 kids (age 5 and 10). My boyfriend is 26 never been married and no kids. We love each other .... my kids love him. Our life together is great but sometimes I feel that... (75 words)

I need advice for an 11 year age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old girl and I am extremely attracted to a 29 year old, and he is crazy about me. We haven't gone on a date yet. I know my family will go crazy when they find out his age. My sister is 20 and is dating a 25 year old and my mom didn't like that, I can only ... (89 words)

Clueless when it comes to the physical side of relationships! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and fairly clueless when it comes to the physical side of a relationship but I cum simply by kissing my boyfriend. Is this normal? After a full on session the crotch of my pants is always damp and it always makes me paranoid because I don't know if this happens to a lot ... (75 words)

My feelings for my on-line love are overtaking me, and I'm worried I won't feel the same about my husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,I am in a very tricky situation,recently i have been in contact with a turkish guy i met online,i wasnt looking for a new man but he added me on a social network site and i accepted,normally i ignore. I am married,to an english man but i have to say i am unhappy with my ... (368 words)

He's confused and wants to take a break, but wants to be in a relationship and likes me. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months now. Before a few days ago, our time together has been amazing, every date is perfect and we have so much fun. We see eachother twice a week, he's a total gentlemen, he plans our dates, and we haven't had sex ... (184 words)

Why would a girl lie about NOT having had an orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i have this new GF and she swears shes the **** in bed and that only two guys have ever made her have an orgasm and it was because she loved them. so wen we have sex i put out all my best moves and stuff and i no im good because every girl im with says im the best the... (287 words)

Now that my bf broke up with me, I'm still interested in the guy who asked me out during our relationship. How do I approach it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [ModNote:OPs own title] Well, I met a guy through eHarmony on July 30th and, even though he asked me to enter a relationship that night, things just did not work out. We never fought or anything but he just sent me a text last night saying, "I did get your text. I don't think ... (412 words)

I keep dreaming about this guy....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This started last year in about September and I don't know why but lately I've started dreaming about this ex boyfriend of mine almost everyday and even when I don't think about him the whole day I still end up dreaming about him and they're good dreams and those dreams make me ... (188 words)

Why does my wife go out with the girls all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - [ModNote:OPs own title] My wife and I are in our mid-40's and have been married for many years. For all this time, I have always felt at the center of her world. We would have to move cities every now and then for work, start new careers, make new friends - so it really felt ... (406 words)

My wife has lost interest in sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife aged 36 has suddenly lost interest in sex . she just wants to masturbate once in a week or so while i want sex twice a day and that to a wild one and she says that the kids will come to know . what do i do ? I hate jacking off?... (55 words)

Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i keep accusing him of ... (129 words)

My boyfriend is attracted to another girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend is attracted to another girl. Ever since I found out, it's been making me extremely unhappy. He said that he won't do anything about it, and that I'm obsessing over it. I've been asking him (probably once every day) if he still has a crush on her or mention i... (203 words)

My boyfriend of 6 years breaks up with me almost every week!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf almost 6years now and he breaks up with me every week. We always get back together cos i love him. When ever he doesnt like when i do something he leaves me. I dont know what to do this time? I love him as he is my first serious relationship but is the ... (81 words)

Will an abusive ex boyfriend contact again after being warned by the police?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Will an abusive ex boyfriend call after restraint order? i broke up with him for hitting, calling me names, cheating on me when we used to off and on, pushing me and when i decided to break up he was begging, pleading and stalking till i told parents they warned him but no u... (179 words)

Is it normal to have been sleeping with my cousin since the age of 15?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well... i was 15 at the time,and was staying over at my cousin's house, me and my cousin (female) would always play fighting and that.. except this time it got out of hand and we ended up sleeping together... she was 14 at the time... since then every time we meet up we sleep ... (59 words)

We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really my type. We didn't sleep... (162 words)

Was there another girl involved or was I assuming things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy for 3 months! He spend everynight at my house but everything we did was out of town never in the city we live in! He started putting his phone on vibrate or turning it off all together at night! He started to show up at my house later and later so, I ended it ... (103 words)

Is this a one-sided relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this a one-sided relationship. Hi all. My b/f and I have been together for 6 months now, its a LDR. We are great together and I am so happy and in love with him. There is a 7 year age gap with me bieng 24 years old. Now there is one little snag in this, he works 24 seven. ... (335 words)

He ended it so he could work on his issues, should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My love and I broke up about a month ago . we have seen each other three times now in socail situtation . Plus we run into each other at work . Even though it was his idea for the break up . He still looks at me with that love sick puppy look . my co workers and frie... (340 words)

How long will it take to move on from her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was in a realtionship for 18 years, my partner left me for another man with very little explanation. It's been a few years now since she left, I just wanted to know how long it would take to move on from her and would she have had any guilt. I have been on a few dates but ... (62 words)

I want to end this affair but she is always saying how strong her feelings are for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am having a relationship with a work collegue, who is married. She keeps saying she has feelings for me but only stays in her marriage because of her children. This has been going on for about two years. Certain things dont add up and I want to end it, however she keeps ... (69 words)

Do I stay in a dead-end relationship that's going nowhere, or do I start again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

20 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi cupid, I've been in a relationship for 6 years now, but I am really not happy. My partner only wants sex once a month, which doesn't seem right to me. I've tried to speak to her about it, but the only response I get is, If you're not happy, there's the door. I've even sug... (94 words)

Is this height difference ok?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is 26cm or 10inches difference too bad between couple? What are some adventages and disadventages in this? Would you, guys, be mind to have a girlfrient who is too short( 5'1)? ... (31 words)

My mom found my vibrator!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,well just a few minutes ago I went into my parents room because I have an earache and we were looking for the special tylenol that only works for my ear and I had left the vibrator underneath my pillow the night before and had fallen asleep...so she went into my room ... (122 words)

31 and never been kissed!

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20 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. I don't want to be alone fore... (79 words)

Help! First date in two years... but is he already playing games with me?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone last weekend and he asked me out on a date via text on Monday past, i agreed and when he asked me how old i was and i responded (we are both in our 30's) also asking him when will i get to talk to him because i prefer that (especially when HE is the one wanting to ... (197 words)

What should I do? We are both taken but this love we have for each other is so strong!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. I am a 42 year old married woman with 3 teenage children. In December 2009, I came across an old friend with whom I had very deep feelings for, way back 21 years ago. We never had a relationship but the mutual feelings were ... (195 words)

The new guy or the best friend?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was married but already made up my mind I was going to leave him and move in with my best friend; witch is a Guy who lives in Texas, I'm in Kentucky. While I was saving up money to go out there I hooked up with a guy thinking it would just be sex, but I ended up falling for ... (154 words)

I didnt fight back when he had sex with me because my daughter was watching, and I had sent nude pics to him before. Was this still rape?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was raped by my boyfriend's best friend in front of my three year old daughter. And another friend in the car. Ive been to the police. Im having a hard time dealing with it he claims i wanted. And it wasnt forced, i went to the store to buy them a drink and he was threatening ... (281 words)

My boyfriend said if I love him then I will stay with him for 3 weeks at one of his friend's houses!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been having sex since last year. He is going for a vacation with family. And told me that if i love him then i have to spend the whole 3 weeks sleeping at one of his friends place with him! Plz help!!... (54 words)

Getting the girl....

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20 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so theres this girl i like. She likes me too and has told me many times. We know we like each other. We have hooked up several times and we will give each other a kiss when we see each other or are saying bye. I really really really like her but it seems like she doesnt ... (175 words)

Ex bf is back in touch! What shd I read into this?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! Am a 22 yr old girl, So recently I reconnect via online with one of my ex bf from highs school we went out for a couple of months my 1st yr of high school, purely innocent dating then somehow we decided to remain friends…and we did all through High school. He graduated ... (190 words)

In love with a virgin but he cant be with me because I am not a virgin!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i am about to be 20 years old in month, during my freshman year i met this guy who was out of the ordinary. Hes 22 years old, and hes a virgin for religious reasons. But yet hes messed around with girls, including myself. We are in a relationship, but he gets so upset ... (104 words)

My hubby wont french kiss me...

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [ModNote:OPs own title] Hi, We have been married a year ago. Earlier my hubby used to french kiss me, but for past 6 months he doesnt. When I asked him he said we have to brush properly, use mouth refreshner and have a long passionate kiss..that really hurt me. since I act... (98 words)

My sister is treating me like her maid!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im staying with my sister and her daughter(17), im nt working loking for a job,but my sister shes working, im staying in her house, she buy me everything for me, but she want me to cook every day, cline her house,gve her food,and after she finish eating she want me 2 go and ... (87 words)

Whenever we hang out he's always in his own little world! Why?!?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, ok so there is this guy, lets call him Mark. Well long story short he has a gf but we messed around during the summer because i was hoping that he would start developing feelings for me. Stupid idea i know and i do regret it. Anyways the point is, we used to hang ... (145 words)

Like a girl - think she does too, but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?

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20 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this girl I like and I'm not sure but I think she likes me to. She says that she loves her boyfriend to death but that he is really distant and she is really needy and so am I. Me and her have a lot in common, She will tell me about her problems and I will te... (242 words)

Ever since he came back, he hasn't been the same!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for almost 4 years. We were together a full year before he got sent to Iraq. When he got back he just wasn't the same person. He was always sweet and caring and buying me roses for no reason. Now he is so short tempered and it seems that he starts ... (337 words)

We had a disagreement and I haven't heard from her since, what should I do?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids, I just got back from playing Bingo at this bar with my best friend and her boyfriend. There has been some underlying issues with my best friend and me for awhile now. I walked out of the place pissed off and offended at what she said to me. I just want to kno... (778 words)

Any tips to lose some weight?

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20 August 2010 (M)

age - im a male in my early fifties my wife is in her late fifties we have been married for 32 years almost 33 im 6ft 1 shes a tiny 5ft2 she weighes about 125 pounds and all of it still in all the right places she could pass for 35 or 40 she takes care of herself and is still one of ... (213 words)

We're getting closer, but he has a girlfriend! What should I do?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, a couple of weeks ago I went to a friend of a friend's birthday kick-back. I personally didn't drink; I was sober the whole night. But to cut a long story short, I took care of this guy I met that night because he got super wasted. I know what your thinking, "WTF?!... (367 words)

How can I overcome my shyness around boys?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys : ) I'm in middle school and I have one problem. I'm totally boy shy!!! I know that everyones hormones are changing and stuff but I have no guy friends and never talked to a boy. I need help on how to stop being so shy. I have no clue what to talk about and no idea ... (79 words)

Could he like me, even though he has a girlfriend?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm sooo confused, I don't know if this guy is interested in me or not. He has a girlfriend, but when I'm around him he says to his friends he has relationship problems. He's mentioned the words future girlfriend while talking to me. He always teases me, he just ... (77 words)

Why is my long-distance boyfriend avoiding me?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My LDR has stopped talking to me for a week...when I do get him to talk he tells me, "im fine shit chill". And he stopped 3 and replaced that with calling me bro and brah.....to top THAT off, apparently he talks to everyone BUT me! He even puts ":]" and "3" when he writes on a ... (101 words)

I have difficulty ejaculating while having sex!

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20 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm a bit embarrassed about this but I need help!!!! I cannot seem to ejaculate while having sex... I can go for hours and nothing at all... This has happened with the last few girls iv slept with... But last night while I was having sex with this new girl I hav been talking ... (159 words)

How can he be so loving towards his girlfriend, when all we do is argue?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I've been with this man for 21yrs! We have 3 beautiful kids, we were together for 8 before we married then last year I divorced him! He's never cheated on me and worked hard to be a good provider! But the last 4yrs have been heck! He got drunk,became violent and tore up ... (123 words)

Question about spotting

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18, i've been sexually active w my boyfriend for a yr. just got on the pill a week and a half ago..ive been bleeding light brown every time after he fingers me, even before i started the pill. what could this be? since im not a virgin and hes fingered me many times i dont ... (73 words)

Like the fantasy of girls kissing girls, but not in real life?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I like light porn, just stripping where I can just look at the human body in its perfection. I see a lot of straight girls like girl on girl, i mean A LOT. And so do i, or just a girl stripping is so damn sensual. It is absolutely gorgeous and a turn on but so is a man with a ... (272 words)

Sexuality : I think I'm confused?!And I need help breaking a habit!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I sometimes feel like I might be lesbian. At one point I was almost entirely sure that I was lesbian but there are days when I feel like i'm 100% staright AND then there are days when I feel like i'm just bisexual or curious. What makes me question myself....it's r... (479 words)

Is he afraid of a relationship?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been seeing this guy friend of mine for 3months and we have sex a lot but hes been a jerk lately towards me because i said i like him and he said hes not interested in a relationship right now I don't get it. Would you have sex with someone you wouldn't like. Or is he the one ... (66 words)

Ex boyfriend lying about true feelings!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He still calls me and when I see him he acts like a high school kid and has to be near me. He told me the reason was that he broke up with me is that he didn't develope the feelings he thought he should but everytime we talk he ... (117 words)

Is this love haunted?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bf that refuses to let go of a female who once was the reason we had a break up about. He cheated on me and left me for her and then left her and came back to me, he made a mistake and regrets it....now 5 years later she is still in the picture. He has cut her out and ... (294 words)

I want to be his friend how do I get over us?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy around my working area, we started knowing each other as friends, i am 21 years old and he is 28. he works at bank and i work as a waitress. we had fun time being friends, but one day i stayed over at his house because i couldn't stay the summer heat, so he ... (415 words)

Could I get emancipated and live with my boyfriend

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been dating my boyfriend for a 4 years now. im 16 years old and he is 17. i was wondering can i be emancipated and live with him when he turns 18 and i turn 17? im getting a job and my lisence and he has a good paying job. but do you think the judge would let me? my ... (94 words)

Is he into me or not and can this relationship be salvaged?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mother to a 4.5 month old baby girl - father disappeared and fled the country. After being months and months away from the dating scene, I finally met a new man recently online - we have seen each other on webcam and stuff - long distance relationship. He is a ... (1011 words)

Bought the dress, picked the venue.. now he doesn't want t get married!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - after i picked out my dress, and we found a venue, my fiance broke up wit me. it was 2 days ago when it happened. he said we can live together n have kids together but he doesnt wanna get married. when i told him im not willing to shack up wit him, he broke up wit me and said ... (100 words)

Should I fix my gap even it he doesn't want me to?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a big gap in my front teeth and everyone always tells me it's cute and such, but I've always wanted it fixed. I finally got the courage and made an appointment, but my boyfriend said he likes my gap. He said he thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the world, and he ... (103 words)

Texting is distracting my boyfriend and I've tryed talking to him about it!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I hope someone can give some good advice or make me think a different way. My boyfriend and I have been together about a 1- 1/2. When we met he seemed to be everything I was looking for. He was very caring, attentive, always wanted me there, interested in everything I was ... (614 words)

After all the hurt he has caused my family, should I confess my infidelity now?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with the same man for 9 years, married 5yrs. I had fallen in love with the man of my dreams. Very supportive, great father and all around good husband (that's just what I thought). 3 months ago, out of the blue, he confessed he had been having an affair with his... (451 words)

I need boy help please!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, ok where to start well last year i was in 9th and so this guy his name is Chris, and well on the first day of school i walked into my 1st period, and i sat next to him, and i didnt know him, i just sat there cuz thats the first seat i saw when i walked in , and so i like ... (709 words)

Boyfriend admits to crush on his best friend

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend admitted to me he likes his best friend.... he admits to me he always has.. they hang out all the time, and he promises he won't do anything with her... and that he LOVES me and only likes her... i've had alot of relationships where i've been cheated on... but.... ... (62 words)

I'm so confused. I would really use some advice

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this guy for almost a year now. Of course we had sex a few time but it was nothing serious at first. Until we hung out a week ago. He told me that he wanted to be in a relationship with me. But now when I text or call him he doesn't respond or pick up ... (121 words)

I'm straight, I've been straight, except when it comes to this one girl?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so the situation here is that I've always liked guys since elementary school and I didn't even know what the term "gay/lesbian/bisexual" meant until I was in 7th grade. (Yes, I lived a sheltered life, but that's not the point here) And even until today (I'm a senior in ... (387 words)

How do I make my relationship become more serious?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i have a question, i have been friends with benifts with this guy for about 10 months, and he is 19 and im 16. he is a very very attractive and sweet guy, i have very strong feelings for him and he claims he likes me too. but there are 2 problems. 1) he doesn't want to get ... (176 words)

I'm engaged but I fell in love with my doctor!

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone! i need advice i am engaged i was working in dental clinic as a assistant,my doctor is married and i was assisting both of them alternate his wife is my friend and my doctor and she was so nice to me,my doctor felt inlove with me becouse of my nice personality,i ... (273 words)

Advice please on how to feel more open in my relationship

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm really not sure what to think about my relationship with my boyfriend of 5 months. I don't know him well and its difficult to get him to open up. We enjoy our time together and in touch most days, but things always seem to crop up and I dont see him for a few weeks. I guess ... (232 words)

Is he with me just to boost his ego?

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20 August 2010 (F)

- I'm 20 in November and my partner is 31 in January...Is this relationship weird at all. It doesn't bother me...but I'm thinking maybe it should? I don't know. I do genuinely like him a lot and it's early days yet so I haven't told many people about our relationship but I know ... (139 words)

Teachers can just dismiss a confession email, right?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I sent an email to a teacher at my old school, just quickly saying that I have a crush on him. Here is what I put: "I'm pretty sure you don't know who I am, so you must be wondering what in the world this is. I've got a crush on you. Obviously, I don't expect anything to come ... (200 words)

Can a cheater grow up?

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20 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a quick question regarding cheating. Is the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" true? I was with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and was very much in love. He cheated on me (slept with) 4 months into the relationship, with a girl he used to go to school wit... (317 words)

How can I relax when I masterbate?

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20 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I have recently started trying to masturbate. One of the reasons why I want to masturbate is to break my hymen so it will be easier to wear tampons. I have tried to masturbate with the end of a toothbrush and it goes in a little bit. I am too scared to look down there [I dont ... (228 words)