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writes:[ModNote:OPs own title]Hi,We have been married a year ago. Earlier my hubby used to french kiss me, but for past 6 months he doesnt. When I asked him he said we have to brush properly, use mouth refreshner and have a long passionate kiss..that really hurt me. since I actually do not smell that bad. He is a nice guy,we have sex often, he cares for me and everything..but this pissed me off...Is he a jerk or I just do what he wishes ?Please help me with your advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): I must say I agree with your husband on this one; I like french kissing but only if we have nice clean fresh mouths. I imagine that you probably don't realise if your mouth doesn't taste good, but to someone else of course it's quite different. If you are keen to start french kissing again I don't see why you can't do what he suggests. Ask yourself what's more important. Plus, it's not like a good brush and mouth wash is going to do you any harm is it? It's good for your teeth as well. I don't think he's being a jerk, but I think it's a sensitive subject and it's opened your eyes. You might not think there's a problem but just respect his view here. It sounds like you have a choice: brush and mouth wash = french kiss, or don't freshen up and don't kiss. I know which one I would prefer.
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reader, redandgreensoup  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Well it sounds as if HE thinks you have bad breath. So yeah maybe you could do what he says but at the end of the day if you don't feel happy that he asked you to that stuff then just go ahead and ask why.
Hope I helped!
Good luck,
Hazel x
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