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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are my breasts too big for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and everyone says my breast a too big.. i have a small body frame.. and im 5 foot 2in... and my breast are almost 32e i dont like them at all and i've been dating guys older than me.. are they only dating me cuz my breasts?? can i make them smaller some how?? and are ... (81 words)

It seems like everyone just forgets about me, can anyone help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi can anyone help me please? I have a lot of hurt in my life the last few years and during that time i have become quite ill and it means i am in hospital a lot. I still manage to hold down a full time job but i dont have a social life due to my illness. I noticed since ... (220 words)

Cheating prior to marriage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age - Is someone who is vowing to keep the fact that he cheated on his fiancee before they got engaged a secret, actually ready for marriage? I know this guy who cheated on his fiancee less than a year before getting engaged. They've been together for nearly 5 years. She has no ... (228 words)

I don't want to be mean to her because she is an old friend but I will lose all my new friends if I keep talking to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i have this friend from a long time ago and shes well not that pretty. i love her because shes an old friend.. but everyone hates her because shes well they say ugly and fat and etc. and shes moving back to the school.. well im the cheerleader, popular girl and ... (176 words)

Would my boyfriend think differently of me if he knew I was molested as a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well me and my bf been dating sence february 4th, we love each other a lot. But would he think im gross or look at me different if he knew my brother and also my cousin (who is a girl) both molested me when i was a little kid? When ever he asks about them and why i act ... (118 words)

Should I accept my girlfriend's interest in public fetish and bondage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is very sexually experienced and I'm not. We're both almost 40. We have been together for about six months now, and we have been talking about moving in together in another five months. About a month into the relationship, she expressed interest in attending a f... (465 words)

Has too much sex with a big penis made my vagina loose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I always used to consider my vagina quite tight and pretty, I have been sexually active since i was 15 and had sex with 13 men. recently I have been noticing that it is far looser than it used to be, the majority of the guys i was with for a long period of time had penises from ... (168 words)

I don't drink alcohol much...does that bother her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl that I like and would like to get into a relationship with. I don't drink alcohol much at all. At a wedding or a special dinner I will, but not regularly. This girl is not a huge drinker but she likes to drink socially. Do you think she looks at me in a n... (112 words)

How do I get other girls to like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - girls just never like me. I am not a mean person. Some times I will never even talk to a girl and she'll HATE me. Start rumors about how i called her a slut. But I am not like that i don't take about people behind their backs. So I am stuck being friends with guys. Nothing ... (101 words)

Am I the right weight for a 15 year old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have an eating problem.. im 15 almost 16 and weigh 104 pounds. and im 5foot 3in.. i model for victoria's secret but my doctor tells me i need to weigh 110 for my age and height.. but i just cant do it.. im not used of eating some stuff. i weigh so much bcuz of my breast. ... (125 words)

How do I get over my feelings for her so we can just be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17-year-old guy, and I just started working at a place where I've been volunteering for 2 years, for the summer. I became second-in-command to a 23-year-old female friend, and I see her every day now. I've always found her cute, and I think she's an awesome person, ... (379 words)

My wife wants an open relationship and I think it is just an excuse for her to be able to leave!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. Here is the catch, she hopes I ... (601 words)

Was my cousin flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know if my cousin was flirting with me or he was just really really exhited to see me after years. Ok i went to visit my cousin and his wife and I kept on gettig this flirtatious vibe from him. He would stare at me, tell me i am really beautiful, try to tickle my ... (171 words)

Worried my boyfriend is keeping things from me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a live in relationship for almost three years. I caught my partner last year emailing women while he was unemployed. I have tried to work through this mistake that he told me it was and he is home with me every night. I want to trust him however he will not let ... (146 words)

Confused about sexuality. What am I really?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm really confused... Ok right, long story short I'm 16, used to be straight, then was gay, but as soon as i accepted that i may like girls I went off them... so I am utterly confused. So I'm keeping my options open, I was at a summer camp this year and my friend who is... (305 words)

The lad I fancy doesn't seem interested in me, what shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really fancy this lad at my school and he knows i fancy him and he looks at me but when he looks at me he like doesnt smile or anything, its just like a straight face, and my friend gave him this note saying will you go out with my mate and he just ripped it up and chucked it ... (89 words)

Married life has become a nightmare. Please, anybody with any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my husband since i was 16. we have been married for almost 3 years now our baby boy is about to turn 3. He told me the only reason he asked me to marry him was b/c "it was the right thing to do". I know he is not happy. He tells me everyday how bad of a wife i... (649 words)

My best friend wont forgive me, she's moved away, and I'm lost without her. help!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lost my best friend, who has been my closest friend for the past 6 years. We got into a huge fight and she has moved away and doesn't want anything to do with me or her past life. She is my only close friend, and I don't know how to cope with it. I don't have any other ... (72 words)

Wife Inarticulate about her Desires

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. My wife and I are trying to reconcile but there are problems. Among other problems we're having is this: I find it difficult to forgive her for not having communicated to me, for not having expressed herself. She kept many things secret from me and then... (132 words)

Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole weeks and broke down in tears on... (377 words)

Do u think my best guy friend might be falling for me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OP's own title. Do u think my best guy friend might be falling for me??? I've been in love with him for a while now and I want him to be mine forever. We have a odd relationship, like I can tell him anything. Things i have never shared with anyone. When we are together we have... (267 words)

My bf's friends are mostly ex girlfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I love him dearly. When I met him I didn't know how many friends that he has that are girls, with most of them being ex's. I am having a hard time dealing with them hanging around and calling and texting all the time. He ... (69 words)

I want her, she wants me, her best friend wants me, but I don't want her, So confused! please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Four years ago I met this girl. I was in grade 8 when I met her and she was in grade 10. She told me she thought I was cute, so like any young boy, I got excited and went crazy. I started asking her if she liked me and telling her how much I liked her. Eventually we both agreed ... (540 words)

I'm always the first one to make contact!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OP Own Title" Been with my bf for 6 months, its been going good but at a fairly slow pace which is good as I came out of a 4 year relationship before this. One thing I have noticed is that he is a very laid back chilled person and likes to enjoy life doing his things which is ... (166 words)

I experimented with another boy should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. I have had a girlfriend for a year now, and I absolutely love her. I screwed up when I was in seventh grade and I experimented with another boy. It was the stupidest thing I have ever done in my life. Its been bugging me she doesn't know. Should I tell her? ... (56 words)

How can I get my ex to talk to me and not be mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - heres a good one for you guys. to make a long story short, my ex said she loved me when we broke up, now she hates my guts and calls me an ass and all this stuff and shes ignoring me. i tried to friend her new guy on facebook, not knowing he was the new guy, and she gets pissed ... (267 words)

How do I behave when I see my ex who hurt me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OP Own Title" Hello all, My boyfriend has gone back to his ex, Im devastated, I truly believed him when he told me he loved me. We were together for 5 months. He hasn't even had to balls to tell me. Its been 6 weeks now and I haven't contacted him once, the last contact w... (198 words)

Want to have sex, but don't want to tell him I'm a virgin!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old virgin. This is not something I planned on, it just sort of happened. I am not religious at all, I simply have not found the right guy for me. I dated a guy for awhile when I was a teenager and he really took away my self-esteem. I cared so much for him, ... (335 words)

Girlfriend is mad at me for not reacting stronger to this guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupiders. I have been in a relationsh ip with my girlfriend for four years on and off, and through a lot of cheating, lies and now a pregnancy we have managed to work everything out. But lately I feel like Im doing everything wrong, I know I've lied in the past... (370 words)

I like this guy, but my friend says he likes her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Please people answer as soon as u can..... ok i have this problem i really like this guy and he told me he likes me too... i was talking to my friend today and she goes to his school and she told me that he still likes her and so does my ex bf and i feel kinda threatend by her ... (88 words)

Is there a way to not sound insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] I'm in a long-distance "relationship" where my friend doesn't always like sharing her personal feelings with anyone, it makes her uncomfortable sometimes (which I understand, I'm kinda the same). I last saw her in early june when things weren't going so well... (176 words)

My ex-boyfriend vs. My current boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Hi everyone, I have a pretty complicated situation on my hands at the moment. I'll try to make it as quick, and to the point, as possible. I have had a boyfriend now for about 5 months. He is great. Funny, affectionate, lovable, and very trus... (489 words)

I haven't heard from my long-distance boyfriend for a week! How long is too long?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How long is a long time to wait for a guy? Dear all - I have been involved with a LDR guy who isn't the most reliable guy in the world but I do care for him and he has been making contact regularly to me. However, recently he hasn't been in touch with me for about a week (I ... (112 words)

My long distance boyfriend is coming, and I don't know how to act.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - hi my long distance boyfriend is coming to visit me next week,it would be the 2th time we meet but i feel so nervous and i dont know what to do,where to go,what to say ...maybe because we didnt see eachother for 8 months. any advice? also,i want to give him a gift but i re... (68 words)

In a relationship, but can't stop thinking about my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a happy relationship of only 2 months, the guy i'm with i can't fault. Just one problem,, i can't stop thinking about my ex. I split up with him over a year ago because of drug use but i totally fell in love with him. We were together for about 10 months. He wouldn't ... (197 words)

Can you rekindle a friendship the same way you'd rekindle a romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to rekindle a friendship in a similar fashion one might try to rekindle a romantic relationship? Or are the two inherently different enough that the same approach can't be used in both cases. ... (37 words)

I was too controlling and she left me. Now what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I can't really ask what to do without first explaining my situation. My ex-girlfriend was with me for almost 2 years. One month in our relationship she left me for my best friend. A week after THAT, he broke up with her and she begged to have me back. So I took her back.... (200 words)

He's friends with someone I barely dated, now he's acting off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ughh. Guy problem here. Right, i was with a group of mates going to the park one day when we were meeting up with another group of people that my friend new. Amongst these group of people was this really cute nice guy and we got talking and stuff, when i got home he added me... (210 words)

My boyfriend can't stay hard anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a lot of sex. Every night if we could. We were both eachothers firsts, so of course we're gonna have a ton of sex. For the past 2 or 3 months, he's been having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection, or even just finishing during sex. He's... (229 words)

How can I prove to her that I can be friendly and extroverted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, in a nut shell, my girlfriend broke up with me and went to study abroad. On her return i went to her and told her how much i loved her and how i really felt. She had it in her mind that she was going to say no but now she is unsure. She still has some feelings for me. On my ... (141 words)

Do I dream of him because he is on my mind so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I've fancied someone for a while now and I've been having lots of dreams about him because of this. I know this is normal because I think about him so much during the day. He (apparently) seems likes me too and it's become obvious to others that we like each other. Over t... (212 words)

6 years later, he is very secretive and our sex life is lacking. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my partner for 6 years we have a lovely little boy together we both work full time. lately i have notice big changes in him like been very sneaky not leaving his phone down or when i walk in the room he hides it straight away we have a none existing sex life he ... (77 words)

Adding strangers on msn - what should I say to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i added this one guy that i think is really cute on msn , he doesn't know me , i don't know him him ... YET ! what can i say to him ? if he says "do i know you ?" what can i say back ? ... (55 words)

I don't like living with my boyfriend and his worker under the same roof. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age - I've just moved in with my BF, who runs his own business out of our house. I was under the impression that when I moved in my BF would tell his worker to go live at his house. The worker lives in our house in the guest room m-f and goes home on the weekend (he has a wife and ... (208 words)

Should I cut off all contact with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OP Own Title" I have had this bf for almost 2 years and we recently broke up because he has a very bad temper and likes to verbally abuse me when we argue. I am sweet and tend to be too forgiving but I tried giving him another chance and he came over to watch movies at my ... (195 words)

No longer in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - "OP Own Title" I thought I loved him but I don't. I enjoy his friendship and company...even the sex but how do I go from saying "I love you" to not saying it at all without crushing him. He's very sensitive?... (43 words)

My boyfriend works a lot and doesn't have time for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is twenty. I'm still in school and he's working. I don't have a problem with him working it's just I never get to see him because he works all day and then comes home late. I know he needs the money to survive and stuff but a quick call 2 or 3 minutes ... (170 words)

20 And never had a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend. By this i mean i've never gone on a date,no guys have ever asked me out, and i've never even held hands with a guy before. Personally i think i'm not too bad looking. I'm tall and skinny and i have a bubbly personality and try to ... (178 words)

I'm in love with my ex's best friend but still have feelings for my ex too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I'll give you the low down... The guy i'm dating is my ex's best friend. At first it started out as myself using him to make the best friend jealous, and I succeeded. Then I screwed up and fell for both of them.. 3 years into this relationship and I can't let either ... (70 words)

He came too quickly and now seems embarassed, but I don't want this to ruin our chances at a relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone I seriously need help. I met this guy through a friend and we've each had our eyes on one another for quite some time and I really like him, well last night we had sex it was great but he ejaculated quick and he kept saying he normally last for a long time I was ... (147 words)

Does sex for the first time hurt for a male?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age - dear cupid as i am a male virgin does sex hurt for the first time. and what is like as i would like to know... (25 words)

My boyfriend doesn't have his own mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years with my partner. However we lack so much trust and paranoia for each other. This is down to cheating, and texting flirts. However, we both find it hard to get over what we have done to each other. But apart from that i am struggling ... (161 words)

I want to ask him out when he gets back from travelling but I don't know if he still fancies me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a nightclub in 2008. He fancied me, but he took my number but didnt contact me. I bumped into him while we were round town a few times after that but we just spoke to each other a bit but didnt keep in contact. Last year, he got my new number when we bumped ... (222 words)

Are my breasts too big?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone! I'm a 15 year old girl and I have a small problem with my breasts A LOT of guys my age think they are too big, while other guys that are a bit older think they are fine... why's that? I don't want to go out with an old perv just cause he likes my boobs :p I... (93 words)

I thought my ex was making an effort with me but all of a sudden she has stopped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Carrying on from: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-she-still-think-of-me.html She texted me randomly last week and asked if we can talk on the phone, I agreed and we had a nice little chat, I then had to go but she text me later on saying that there was something that... (201 words)

How do I get him to stop sitting next to me, without saying it directly to his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - C and I became friends late last year. Soon, I developed feelings for him. Around March this year, I heard from a friend that apparently he suspected that I had a crush on him, though he never talked to me about it. We remained friends. A few months later, I pretty much took... (285 words)

Did my best friend betray me over a guy? Should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my best friends and I met 2 guys last year at a party and we started to go on group dates toghether. However her guy -X was always flirting with me and disrespecting me. I noticed she would grow quiet and look mad. I confessed to her That I Noticed her anger towards me ... (358 words)

Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married soon.. in1more year about. my ... (101 words)

I was the most popular girl in school but everything seems to be going wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay you need to know my story.. this is how it starts kay. well im voted as the most popular at my school,and other stuff and everyones loves me.. but something went wrong.. i told my best friend ever im maybe moving so shes comes over and my step dad tells her we are not ... (198 words)

Lies about her past........

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend were talking about her past early in our relationship and she said she had anly slept with 2 other people only 7 times and only had oral once... i read her diary and it said she had slept with 3 guys and one guy was 7 times and another guy she did ... (158 words)

Do I scare my boyfriends away or do I just pick the wrong type of man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently just split up with my boyfriend and ever since ive been really upset not just because he left me but also because i get the feeling i scare my boyfriends away. My parents are very strict so im limited to certain things, a few of my ex's have left me in the past due ... (94 words)

I really don't understand what he is thinking or feeling!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I posted this the other day but didn't get any replies and more has happened since then so I thought I'd try again. So I posted a question on here a while ago, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-in-love-with-my-best-fr... (844 words)

Does he fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I wanna know if this guy fancies me. We were mates before i moved and have talked on facebook. Now I've moved back were talking till late hours. The night before last he said I was good looking and asked if I liked anyone. Also at the end of the converstion he called me ... (149 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend, so why am I falling for another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and really love him to pieces. We've often talked about marriage and I know that he is proposing really soon :-). Over the past few months though, I've been kinda falling for this other guy. He's great, funny, sexy, and I can't stop ... (153 words)

Will it be strange to continue to see my old teacher now he has moved positions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have liked this tteacher for about 2 years now. It gets me really depressed sometimes but then again i think its good because i focous on my studies more and stuff.He has now moved to a different position within school so i dont get to see him as much anymore as he was my ... (159 words)

Am I just worrying over nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I keep worrying about the following, - Never had a long term relationship - Not great dating experience and bad luck in general with dating - Not many chance to meet women when I start working in male dominated industry. Some things I know I can change like meeting women, ... (273 words)

I am ugly and need a boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hi im 15 and live in nz i have never been popular a1l . at school people avoid me and call me names and i really want a bf but no one wants me because im ugly and quiet, at home its not much better my dad is dead and my mum is single and love... (75 words)

Was I right to lie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologize for the length of this. Please bear with me if you can. I was close friends with this guy in high school and he developed feelings for me. At the time, I wasn't able to feel "that way" about him, but screwed up by basically telling him I cared for him deeply, bu... (511 words)

I just don't want to feel this jealousy anymore because it drives me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hello there, I'm a very jealous person, unfortunately. I am not proud about it. My partner is speaking to this particualar person and I know that they like my partner more than just friends. My partner won't stop talking to them and it makes me very jealous. I have seen conv... (125 words)

My ex is pregnant with my baby but in a relationship with another man, how do I get her back?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex i was going to get married to is pregnant with my baby and with another man now, and we both still are in love but she will not come back to me because she is afraid of hurting me again. how do i get her back and keep her so we can have our family?... (57 words)

My boyfriend cannot handle my dirty past, how do I save this relationship?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iam 21 yrs old and have a very nice and loving boyfriend for the last two years. We both are very serious about each other. Everything was very good between us,but then something happened.. he got to know something that i have been hiding from him. When i was younger,... (396 words)

The guy I liked got excited when he found out I was a virgin, is that a good or bad thing?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey..well there was a guy I liked and he went to school with my sister's bf soo he would ask questions about me soo one day he ask my sister's bf am I a virgin and my sister bf said yes and then the boy got excited and said he was goin to jack me off...so is that a good or ... (66 words)

How long will the pain of a break-up last for?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - The man I have been with dumped me this morning after three years of dating . He stated he is depressed and blamed me. Said he needs to find himself . What want to know is how long does it take to mend a broken heart . I was /am. In love with this man heart body and soul . ... (76 words)

He is married with a child yet his texts are flirty and he seems to take an unusual interest in my Facebook page...

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Not sure if I'm reading to much in to this but here goes. There was a guy at work who I barely knew and we ended up going on a course together with a couple of other people from work. Since the course he emailed me frequently at work asking personal things like if I'm marr... (273 words)

Do I ever have a chance of finding a girlfriend?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age - dear cupid do you think i've any chance of finding a girlfriend in my life? i'm 51 year old, i'm 5ft 6inh tall and weight 11st 9lbs i'm going bald in your opinion do i have any chance of ever finding one.... (42 words)

Pregnant and no confidence, and I'm lonely in another state with no friends or family.....

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved at the beginning of the year away from my friends and family to a different state for my partners work and it has been hard because he works really long hours and i feel so alone because i have no one here for me i haven’t made any friends here and i have no family to ... (436 words)

Why have my feelings for my girlfriend suddenly changed?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I love my girlfriend but now my feelings for her have changed, i am no more enjoying our relationship what is the problem.... (23 words)

What can I do when my best friend is in severe heartbreak mode?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I were the oldest virgins we knew. Her at age 23 and me at age 24. We prized our innocence and were trying to wait for marriage, or at the very least a long-term committed and loving relationship. But, we recently lost our virginity within a week of each ... (448 words)

How can I be with my boyfriend and control my anxiety if he's the one causing it?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - sooooo im 16. ever since 6th grade iv been in love with this boy, we started dating in 8th grade and it didnt go so well. we went out again in 9th grade and it finally got serious, weve been together ever since. its been a year and 5 months but including 8th grade its ... (400 words)

Do I say this friendship is over, or do I let something like this pass?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend bailed from a kayaking trip the night before we were supposed to leave. I called the company and they said the 150$ had to be paid anyway and no refunds could be made. I told my friend this and she said "no it's your fault you didn't call me and confirm that ... (250 words)

Are my feelings justified or am I just overly paranoid?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years now (October is our anniversary). Okay, the first thing that had angered me was that he pictures of two girls on his phone. He said I was overreacting and I should calm down so I took his w... (755 words)

Am I wanting to move the date of our wedding forward purely because of my emotions after losing my virginity?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a serious relationship for about 7 months and my boyfriend and I are deeply in love. He actually moved to another state and got a different job to be closer to me. We work well together and have great communication. We're both confident in who we are as individuals ... (414 words)

Am I too attached to my boyfriend?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. There's something, I don't know if that's a problem but I'm extremely attached to my boyfriend but in a very exaggerated way. We are together like 12 hr a day everyday, he wants to be with me all the time and I want to be with him too, we text eachother everytime we'r... (238 words)

Should we share a college apartment?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me(16) and my boyfriend(almost 17) have talked about getting an apartment close to the collage we both will be going to after we graduate. it'll be a few years for me cause I'm a year behind but since he only has one year I figured he should start saving money for one. W... (68 words)

I feel like my 3 year relationship has been a mistake and a lie, am I wrong?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex and I broke up a year ago after dating for 2 years. We are still talking and we are still intimate, neither of us has been with someone else. Today I found out that he had kinda proposed to his ex saying "we will get married in the future and there's no one e... (112 words)

Questions about my first pregnancy!

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - As some of you may know I'm pregnant with my cousins baby and were about to get married. This is my first baby so i got some questions. 1~ Is it normal to have weird and unusual cravings? 2~ Why does my baby constantly kick me? 3~ What causes me to be so moody? 4~ I've barle... (109 words)

My boyfriend says I'm fat

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So, the other night me and my boyfriend were chatting on msn like usually and he suddenly said I'm fat! I firstly didn't know how to react but then I got really upset and like sad. He said it was a mistake, something he misspelled but I know it wasn't because it was t... (203 words)

I feel like I have been treated like a doormat!

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seeing this guy who works a lot and travels very frequently. He's told me that he could not have a committed relationship at this point with his crazy work and travel schedule and I want to know if that is an excuse. We have had sexual relations before and at one time I ... (419 words)

Should I still be friends with him when he made me feel "dumped"?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy friend from work. We know each other for three years. From last July we started hanging out often and became really close friends. We had lunch together almost every day; we ran together couple of times a week; he asked me to go see movies with him; we played poker ... (261 words)

I cant get over the fact that my wife loved someone else before she married me!

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, i am 36-yr old male but look like 27yr, i.e, everyone says as well as i know my appearance and I got married in my 29 and now I came to know after 7-yrs, my wife used to love somebody before marriage, who was muslim smart and handsome person but not got married for some ... (222 words)

How do I get over my crush on one of my husband's friends?

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5 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - For you women and men who have been cheated on and gave your significant other a second chance; I was cheated on by my husband a year ago, I was pregnant with twin boys and he couldn't have done it with a more disgusting person. I'm not just saying that because I'm mad, I love ... (133 words)

What would make him stop talking to me so suddenly?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I met this guy at a party, he seemed like a relatively nice guy. After that, we met a few more times at a few different parties, alas I developed a crush. We then started getting close to each other, we'd see each other on a weekly basis, sometimes twice a week (we... (400 words)

Never had sex, now have the opportunity with a hot girl who I don't love. Should I go for it or save myself?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm very uncertain about this one particular circumstance coming up for me. Let me explain... I'm 17. I've lived abroad my entire life. I've never had sex, I've never kissed a girl. The supposed reason is this; where I live, the women have a particularly conniving stereo... (509 words)

I'm not even sure if we have broken up properly, what should I do?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So...8 months into our engagement I guess we are broken up. My fiance threw a fit my last week of college since the week before graduation is a big party week. He felt I didn't spend enough time talking to him on the phone, so he just didn't show up when he was supposed to ... (465 words)

I don't know how to act around my boyfriend any more!

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! First let me give you a little background. I am 26 years old. My boyfriend of 2 years got a really good job in another state, and because we were already living together and everything was perfect, there was not a question in either of our minds about me moving with him. We ... (583 words)

Should I just accept the fact that I am the one who has to do all the driving in our realtionship? Or should I be more assertive?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, we see eachother 3-4 times a week, if not more. He lives right near where I study, so it's pretty convenient for me to stay the night and go to class the next day. However, I'm the only one with a car, which means th... (166 words)

Did I scare him away by asking him out to soon?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this guy that i have worked with for about 3 months. we flirt when we work with eachother well at least im pretty sure we do. he is single and 25 years old and i am 18. so i recently called him up and asked him if he would like to see a movie with me this ... (291 words)

My Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex, did I make the right descion by taking him back?

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5 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - My man cheated on me once with his ex-girlfriend,,the next week he told me,, but he was feeling guilty and didnt know how to tell me at first,,he cried in front of a lot people didnt care who was watching i was suprise that he would do such a thing,,i wonder was it me he said ... (150 words)

Do I give my cheating fiancee another chance or move on?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have being in a 6 months relationship with a lady banker i met at an online youth forum,shes 25 and am 30. It all stated well with about 3 weeks telephone conversation and on our first date we kissed and the following week we had sex. Months later i had a feeling my gir... (166 words)

Should I end my long distance relationship with my boyfriend?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've been with my boyfriend/bestfriend for four years. The first year, I was with him and the rest, its an on and off long distance relationship. I only see him everytime the family goes on holiday to my home country. Most people told me not to get serious in a relat... (426 words)

How to stop feeling jealous and threatened by my boyfriends girl mate.

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend isn't particularly social, but he does have a few close boy mates. He especially isn't one for particularly talking to girls. We met in an unexpected situation and have now been together for 2 years and 2 months despite our 2 hour distance. However, the dilemma ... (353 words)

Trouble having an orgasm. Please help.

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I never seen to climax when my boyfriend is on top, and feel like i can't tell him about the problem. I've never came from the g-spot, and when i do come during sex its only because of the friction caused to my clit. I dont know if there is something wrong with me as i can't sa... (79 words)

How should I react to news of my brother's cancer?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my brother has cancer, how do i react, he hates tears and hates bipolar, which i am, so i need as much help as possible any help and advice highly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (36 words)

What is better, to be lonely or to be miserable in a relationship?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just dont know what to do, my boyfriend does not find me attractive anymore i dont know if its because i gained weight after having our son i just dont know but its mainly me with the sex initiating and everything i get no pleasure from him what so ever i am lucky to get a ... (132 words)

We've been dating a year but he still won't introduce me to his family

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys i need your advice..we've been together for a year..i loved him and he loved me.we are both happy and satisfied in our relationship.but sometimes i was so confused,that he dont wanted me to introduce to his family.he felt like ashamed with me.i dont know whats in his ... (59 words)

Should I continue to wait and hope?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - alright well as people who have read my other questions know I messed up with this girl I care about more than anything. well as everyone has said I have stopped talking to her and it took the help of some good friends to do it. recently I read a post by someone saying that I ... (531 words)

Can I become pregnant by day old sperm?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just had a baby like 15 days ago and i did my boyfriend with my hand he finish and didn't clean himself the next day we where about to have sex it went in but we stooped because it hurt ... can i get pregnant even if we didn't do it all the way but if he had finish one day ... (70 words)

Can I get past the fact that I'm dating a man that has a feminine voice?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] About a month ago I started to talk to a guy that I met online. When we talked on the phone, we really hit it off. When we finally met, our conversation flowed really well and we really have a lot in common. I have never clicked so well with a guy be... (245 words)

What might be the reason for his sudden change in behaviour?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What can be reasons for a change in a guys behaviour....for example day to day/week to week change. Like one minute they will talk to you as if everything is fine and the next he will sit there talk to everyone else about anything but for some reason wont make a conversat... (164 words)

Any advice on how to help my father accept and deal with his health and drinking problem?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have several problems, but the main one right now is that my dad (who has a heart problem) has an alcohol problem and he's in denial. This makes my entire family very vunerable. I apologise beforehand because this is long, but I really need some advice here! It's 3 ... (821 words)

Best friend's crush isn't interested in her. Should I let her know?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has a crush and she is crazy about him. He is a very good friend and I asked him if he liked her and he said 'omfg no!' And my friend knows I asked him. Should I tell her?... (45 words)

Seperated from husband but still love him and want him back. Suggestions?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. My husband doesn't love me anymore, or just can't say it. We have been married for 7 years, but have been separated for about 9 months. We spend time together, as we have 2 children. We are still sleeping together, and we don't live together. My question is, well ... (262 words)

Can you have sex on the first date without looking like a slut?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 25 year old female who recently met a 38 yr old guy while drunk at a party....we ended up talking for about 20 minutes then making out and I wound up performing oral sex on him...Not something that would usually happen, but I was drunk AND my ex boyfriend had been ... (235 words)

Should I make peace with it being over and move on?

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi world. My question involves the one thing we all battle with...forgiveness. Well, it has been a moral struggle with me for over a year now, but technically 8 mos now. My ex-boyfriend and I dated almost 3 years and within in those 3 years we lived together, a home full of ... (303 words)

School heartbreak

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok last school year I was in a class with a guy I really liked. We would flirt and laugh and play around most of the year. Well after a a friend (of the boy and myself) told me that he told her he liked me I got Enough courage to get a best friend to ask him out for me. It was ... (101 words)

Boy have I been through quite a wringer of a relationship

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I decided recently to end my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 22 years old and he is 29. I felt that he had a bad habit of inconsideration and selfishness in my eyes. On the occasions over the years when I came to him and expressed when my feelings were hu... (930 words)

Can't get pregnant

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5 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it to just happening, no drugs... (142 words)

I was a player in the past, I've cheated on my girl twice and just don't know if we should be together

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi please refer to me as N3m0. I need help in a couple of areas in my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I need help figuring out wether i love her as much as when i first started going out with her. I had a girlfriend when i met her and i dumped ... (244 words)

Curiosity about men's sexual organs

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5 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello! I have a few questions about men [physically]. I know men have erections when they see a pretty woman. But I have a few questions that I want clarified and confirmed. 1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented? 2.] Men usually talk about the lenght of their ... (269 words)

How do I let go and move on?

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5 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This will probably get long, and I apologize, but I appreciate anyone who reads and tries giving advice, as I really just don't know what to do at this point. I was in a relationship with someone whom I loved very deeply, for just over 3 years. It was far from perfect, bu... (1580 words)