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I need boy help please!

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Question - (20 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *lexia_marie writes:

hey, ok where to start well last year i was in 9th and so this guy his name is Chris, and well on the first day of school i walked into my 1st period, and i sat next to him, and i didnt know him, i just sat there cuz thats the first seat i saw when i walked in , and so i like looked over and he was just starin at me,and i just smiled,but he looked away, but like the next day i sat somewhere else because the guy behind me was puttin his feet on my chair, and i just moved, and chris said aw you made her move, and i was mad at myslef for awhile that i didnt just like move his feet,

but then like me and him were playin that starin game, and then a week later he was switched in one of my classes, and like i looked over at him and he saw me and we both smiled, and like we never really talked we would just always stare, and it would suck cuz i wish i coulda talked to him, or he would talk to me,

sometimes he did, and i would talk back to him to, but it wouldnt go very far,

chris is very popular, and everyone likes him, so i didnt really wanna start anything with him, becuase i knew it maybe wouldnt last long, cuz ive seen some of his exgirlfriends, and there so pretty, and they do things, and alot of people say im pretty, but not as pretty as his exs,

the farthest ive gone is making out, and i do think that i should wait to start doing things with someone im completly comfortatble with, and i should be with the guy for awhile. and his exs give it up quick, so i didnt wanna get my hopes up, and then it drop becuase i didnt wanna like suck his dick or anything like that. So i kinda kept my distance after awhile, but i do wish we could of got closer.

anyywayy, and well one day we were playing kickball in rotc, and the whole game we were starin at eachother, but from a distance, so im not really sure if he was starin at me, but i think he was. so hekicked the ball, and he got out, and he walked behind me and pulled my hair, and i looked at him, but he didnt turn back. and im pretty sure that he pulled my hair to flirt with me. and the whole day i was freakin out, i didnt kno what to do, i was going insane, and i was so happy to, but i wish i did something,

i need flirtin skillls . then a few days later we just like stared, and then like im not sure, but im pretty postive that me and my friend steph, were walking and him and his friends were walking to, and we past and i think he slid his hand on my cheek, but idk,

so like a few months go by we kinda stare, and stuff. so in rotc we were in the same platoon, and i bet your like idk what that is, but its just like a group, so me and him had to march and we had to holds together, i was happy but at the same time nervous, but like we did it and he was smilin at me, and i was smililing a little cuz i wanted to keep it cool, but i hope he saw the smile. but after awhile, i think he gave up on me,and i would to cuz i didnt really do anything back really, and i wish i did, and i think it would be wierd between us though.

so the questions i have is, what should i do if i have a class with him this schoolyear, i really need hellp with this, lol, and also i need somee flirting tipss, like badly if im gonna be in contact with him or anyother guys so please help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010):

If you see this guy again, just walk up to him and start a conversation...build up your confidence first though.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010):

I know the feeling lol. Next time he's flirting with you like pulls your hair for example just be like hey!! in a playful way or say something. I'm ridiculous when guys flirt with me I giggle way too much haha. So yeah just start up conversation when it's just you and him and see how it goes.. :) Best of luck!! :)

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