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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Birth control options

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help!!!! Trying to figure out what to use for my first time... Am on the pill and would like to know a little extra about spermicide and the sponge. Spermicide... Everything says not to douche/rinse for 8 hours afterwards. How does one douche? Do you NEED to rinse a... (209 words)

Possible STD - Trust Issues

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 weeks. We like each other very much and dont want to end things between us. However, recently he told me that his penis wasnt feeling so good! i was shocked but asked whats wrong, he said his symptoms might be... (204 words)

I'm hurting him but he won't let me go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend (a guy, im a girl) is on love with me and i dont feel anything back. its not just him i dont feel anything towards anybody or anything. i just dont care, im so apathetic. its horrible to see what pain i am causing him but he has said he doesnt want me to go away ... (86 words)

Ideas for party for whne my army fiance comes home

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently an army fiance my fiance gets out of training in 8months I'm planning a party or something of some sort Can someone give me some kind of idea. ... (34 words)

I can't just be her friend, I need to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am going thru a really bad breakup. I was in a relationship for 3 years and it ended about 4 months now. I have try everything to get her back, i even told her i wanted to be her friend just to have her close and work on my strategy to get her back, but the true is ... (592 words)

She wants me to get out of debt but spend money on her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi cupids, I need a little assistance regarding my gf and my money, she wants me out of debt, as do i, but im finding it hard, i think this latest monetary setback is another thing pushing her away. She tempts me with things like resteraunt meals, fast food, thi... (722 words)

Forgive and let go or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im currently a senior in high school and ive been with my boyfriend off and on since freshman year. love is a big word and although i tell him i love him, im not totally sure of it. we have had alot of problems in the past and we break up all the time but we always find our way ... (317 words)

What can I do to make this mess right again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can someone out there help me. I have a bit of an issue. I met a guy off a dating site and we talked for about 3 weeks every night before we met. I quite liked him and when we met we had an amazing time, we continued to meet over the space of a couple weeks. nothing se... (872 words)

Why does he lie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend lies to me about everything. From what time he got off of work to when he turned on his cell phone. It's driving me crazy. When I bring up an inconsistency that I noticed, he tells me that I'm blowing things out of proportion. I know he had a crappy ... (95 words)

How do I handle a guy that has affection issues????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is okay with not seeing me for a week and im not okay with that. he is okay with it because we talk on the phone everyday, but i would rather be in his presence. he also has affection issues. now me and him have been together for a year and four months and he ... (205 words)

Committed relationship, just not able to reach sexual satisfaction

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm am 17 about to turn 18 and i have a wonderful boyfriend who is turning 19 soon. we have a good relationship, we've been together for at most four years now but this past year our relationship has been rocky. we dont get to see each other much do to him being in another ... (170 words)

Should I hang on or just let go???????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and four months and we broke up about four weeks ago because our relationship had got to a point where we were arguing everyday and nothing was getting solved so we ended up breaking it off to focus on the problems that we both ... (350 words)

He doesn't call and we hardly talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with this boy for 5 months now but during these last 2 months he stopped calling me and he doesnt answer the phone when i call. when he does we talk for 10 Mins only. he wont tell me anything anymore. should I break up with him?... (51 words)

We're on a break and I need to stop feeling so attached

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend says i am getting too emotionally attached. For our first five months everything was great, and we hung out like every day. Finally he realized he's just graduated and needs to get his self in line, get a job, and start school up so we decided to be on this ... (124 words)

My boyfriend dumped me by text

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend told me he had lot of problems and that he havent call me because of that. I told him i will call him next day, to ask him a favor, he says it was ok. When i call him he cream at me iam pist off, then he hang up at me. Send me a text message dumping me, we ... (299 words)

His ex-girlfriend is still in the picture

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please forgive me if I seem to be rude I am just going to ask my question and might get a little into it. So please forgive me before hand. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We had are on and off times. Our off times where just suppose to be us still d... (633 words)

I haven't heard from him in a month. Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I got set up with this guy on a blind date by a mutual friend. I have only been out on a date with one other guy, and I'm very careful with who I date because I just find it weird to go out with strangers. So to make it not weird our mutual friend made the blind date a ... (306 words)

Did my boyfriend dump me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 6 months and we were close friends before that. Today he asked me to call him at a particular time since he was going out with his friends. We had a fight in the morning and i called him before the usual time to say sorry to him. ... (311 words)

To worry or not to worry???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a situation with my boyfriend that is really bothering me. This may sound strange and/or stupid at first but read on.... We’ve been together for 1-1/2 years. He seems to have this strange habit of texting a couple of his female friends random text that are more like ... (524 words)

Does he like me that way? Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so to cut a long story short, I have been friends with a guy since year 8 (now year 12 in september) and have liked him pretty much ever since I met him. We became really close mates in year 10 when he went out with a mate of mine (didnt end well by her breaking up with ... (304 words)

I don't like him watching porn alone! Should I just watch it with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't like my boyfriend watching porn. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. Just the thought of him watching other naked girls and doing the nasty with himself makes me sick. Should I just watch it with him? Would he stop watching it by himself if I watched it ... (74 words)

I have a boyfriend but am very interested in touching another woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a very loving relationship with a wonderful man. But recently I had to travel and was away from him for a while and meanwhile I met an old girl-friend and there has been some feelings and we discussed perhaps to to explore the touch of a woman, and we are both ver... (179 words)

I am pretty sure my mom is cheating on my dad, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, hi Im 14 years old and I have a question. My mother and fathr have been together about 18yrs now. Last year, my mom been really acting weird and everytime when she has a phone call she looks at the number and sometimes won't answer it. One day, last year I had her phon... (283 words)

Why am I so attracted to dark skinned men lately?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont get a lot of attention from boys back home. I keep my body in shape, and wear nice clothes and my friends say that I am really pretty and my hairdresser asked me to model. Anyway, I went on holiday to Turkey, and got all this attention from all the guys I saw. I know t... (291 words)

How does she know you're "The One?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] How does your girlfriend decide you are the one she wants to marry?What factors does she base it on.What makes you marriage material for a woman?What makes her want to spend forever with you? Would be interesting to know from the ladies.Thanx... (45 words)

The father of my child left me for a cruise and a new conquest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Thought that he was never going to leave us. I am six months pregnant now. The father of my child left us, when i was around four months. We began dating recently and had such a chemistry that he moved in to my apt and began to make plans together. He was not working and what ... (619 words)

Thinking of asking him out. Ideas for a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im thinking of asking this man out somewhere. my friends says he will say yes and it seems that he likes me a lot. anyway, im 18 and he is 29, and i was wondering where are good places to go on a first date. one friend suggested bowling and then dinner. but is bowling a bit la... (78 words)

Want to have a second child, but unsure if it's a good idea.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm not sure that this is something that belongs here but then again I believe this is the best place to come for advices. I have asked and answered many and I really love that everyone shares with different an... (299 words)

Is she having orgasms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well here i am every day wondering if im am doing something right or wrong, its starting to happen constantly now, when me and my girlfriend are busy making love, if i would stop for a sec and take my penus out i see her go al shaking and shivering telling me she fells wierd ... (77 words)

Are these sexual situations my sister and I shared as children harmless?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having lots of problems with depression and with my current relationship and was seeing a therapist but couldn't afford to continue. Anyway, I've been writing in a diary to get out what I'm thinking and realized that a couple of memories I have that I've always thought o... (313 words)

He ended it so why is he working so hard at this friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] My ex and i were together for just 6 months. I hadnt seen him for many years before we got together and both of us had a lot of expectations we couldnt live up to. I was on edge the whole time because I felt like i couldnt live up to the fantasy he had of m... (300 words)

I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared about my friends or family find... (195 words)

I really like this guy and I want him to notice me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and I want him to notice me. We use to talk all the time when we had classes together last year and now we have another this year. The only thing he talks to me about is how to do things about the work in class. And he talks about other things when were ... (142 words)

I like watching guys, but I want to have sex with a girl. Am I gay?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dunno whether im gay or not. You know what? i like watching the handsome guys, i like their strong bodies with muscle. Thats why i reckon im a little bit gay. But when i imagine if i have sex with a male, that will be disgusting! Yuck. And i really want to have sex with the ... (85 words)

Hate myself for being a virgin at 19

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Well as the title says im a virgin at 19, never had a girlfriend and never even been kissed and i cant stand it. everywhere i go i see couples and all of my friends have had girlfriends and boyfriends a hundred times over, its almost like a hobby to pret... (252 words)

I have trust issues and she wants a break to figure things out. How do I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been in this relationship with a therapist for 6 months now and im a dependent person and she is the opposite. We use to see each other every other day for a couple months now its once a week tops. I talk to her everyday for a little bit but she always thinks im checking up ... (145 words)

He says just friends, yet acts like my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] My best male friend and i have been close for 3 years now, hes pretty much always had feelings for me, for the first 2 years of friendship i didnt really feel the same, so we remained friends. Then he expressed his feelings for me recently multiple times with... (418 words)

Pregnant for the 4th time with my cousin. My family doesn't want me to keep it though!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well ; i am currently preqnant for my mother's brother son - myfirst cousin. it was all a mistake. we were drunk and had sex. i want to keep the baby but my entire family is against it due to the fact they said it is cross dna and would come out abnormal. can someone give me ... (87 words)

ED with wife, but not with affair.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

8 August 2010 (M) age 51-59 - Did it ever happened to anybody,that you thought for years,you were impotent,when you tried to have sex,with your wife,but than you fall for another woman,and it came back? I have a feeling ,it might be the case with me,but I feel very bad for my wife ,who thought,I was just ... (69 words)

Feeling alone after a break-up. How can I bounce back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After a 6yr relationship my boyfriend broke up with me by text. That was 4 months ago now, the first 2 months were hard. I got run down and was ill for a few weeks. Ive been really upset, its been a rough time for me. Over the last few months i have found out more about whats ... (469 words)

Should you forgive your fiance if they made a one time mistake, and it hurts them that they did it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] My fiance is deployed and we were having problems. I kept having doubts on if I still wanted to marry him or not and he said that it hurt him a lot. There was a girl that likes him over there, and while we were going through our problems she kept coming onto... (159 words)

If women can only orgasm from G-spot and clitoral, then what about women who orgasm from kissing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If its true that women get orgasms from clitoral and g-spot stimulation only,then how can you explain those who get orgasms just by kissing their breasts,or massaging them,or whatever?... (29 words)

Secrecy and Commitment

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] Can a person say that they are truly commited and are in love with their partner when they are capable of harboring deep secrets about themselves...which they KNOW will affect their partner's will and desire to continue in the relationship? Doesn't it go a... (84 words)

A little Facebook situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, im having a little problem. Well, just yesterday, my gf's family had a bbq and she had to help set up, i was fine with it and we said our goodbyes. That was around around 1 in the afternoon. Long story short, i havent heard from her since, but that doesnt mean she ... (205 words)

Two much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] Two months ago my friend had me meet this guy,who is currently my boyfriend.We've liked eachother since the day we met but only started being boyfriend/girlfriend about two weeks ago.Me and him are really good together(i think)and i love being around him but ... (269 words)

We've been dating for a month, but he already has a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at college and weve been dating for the past month theres only one problem he already has a girlfriend he says he loves her but wants to be with me and i really dont know what to believe ive known him for a few years now but i really really like him i dont think it ... (75 words)

Unsure about dating a younger man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Iam a single woman 31 years old recently i have been asked for a date by a 29 year old man. I dont know what to say i have never dated a younger man before so please tell me what do you think!... (47 words)

What are we doing wrong in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] Hi, I really need help here as I'm in a confused state right now. My guy is 5 years younger to me. We started seeing each other 5 years ago. At the beginning of our relationship, he really showed his love and concern for me. But as time passed by, I started... (842 words)

Will she be OK with me being less experienced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I've got a partner at the minute who I am and have decided that I'm going to have sex with. She has the coil, and I will wear a condom so I know it will be safe sex from STI's and pregnancy. But she's had a sexual relationship with her previous boyfriend of two years from ... (91 words)

My fiancee's ex-gf is interfering in our relationship! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been engaged for four months now. We are happily tra la la in love. Things are going smooth and I have NEVER been this happy with a man in my life. Here is the sitch. Before he and I met, he had dated a female for a month and they broke up because of a ... (630 words)

Did having sex wth my good guy friend...mess up our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am kind of confused about this whole situation. I went out on Friday night and met up with my friend, we was out drinking and when we get together we always end up kissing. But on Friday we ended up having sex, everything was cool and he told me to call him the nex... (139 words)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best male friend and i have abit of a past, on and off throughout our entire 'friendship' we've battled back and forth between friends and more. Multiple times we have expressed we have feelings for one another, but in the almost 3 years we've been friends, we have... (534 words)

Questions about the pullout method and pregnancy. All advice is welcome!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wanted to hear your own experiences and opinions regarding the following questions, feel free to say anything, i would really like to hear your answers. 1. Have you ever used the pullout method? (esp, how often?) 2. Have you or your partner gotten pregnant from it?... (114 words)

My bf's mistrusts me and his paranoia is getting to me! Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... So I'm to the point now where I could really use some advice, I just don't kno what more I can do to make my fella see sense and for once in our whole bloody relationship trust me! He's so paranoid about everything... Thinks I'm not good enough for him, thinks I'll find ... (487 words)

I still love her but I'm not sure she love's me! Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - im 41yr's old my girfriend is 35 yr's old. she broke up with me yesterday. im unemployed right now. she's not. i am very stressed out and are sex life has really dropped. i told her my mind is else where and i haven't been in the mood. very stressed over the economy right ... (264 words)

I'm stuck in a rut! What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 38 yr old woman, myself and my husband have been married for six years and together for 14 years. I am in a horrible personal crisis about my life as it is today. I was a fat child and have been overweight all my life (approx. 4 stone overweight). I never got any ... (689 words)

Why do single mums seek boyfriends or husbands?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do single mums/moms seek boyfriends/husbands when they know they can't ever devote enough attention to them? 95% of the people here that response to questions re:step kids say that the children always come first, then why do they even try to start relations? Ho... (69 words)

I feel let down by the woman I left my family for

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear all, Its a painful story.I have a girlfriend and for last two years we were dating. I left everything for my GF- my family, children. Now they are far away from me and never can be reunited. I did all this by trusting her love, I was a puppet in her hands. what ever... (387 words)

Is there a way I can make myself taller?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm Emily. My height is 153cm or 5'1 and I weigh 40 kilograms. In a few months I'll be 18. I have always worried about my height. I have heard that we stop growing taller at 18. Is it so? If no, then what should I do to get taller? ... (51 words)

What is going on in her head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres this one girl... We have been talking for about 10 months now. Shes was in a relationship when we first started talking... I didnt care, although it came to bite me in the ass later. 4 months into that "friendship" we had.. we spent alot of time together... ... (171 words)

Is it normal to flirt on the net while in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age - Hi My question is should I beleive him?? My partner of 18 months who has moved in with me 7 months ago tells me he is being set up. I found his profile up live on Red Hot Pie dating site today. He denies that he put it up. He was on there when I first met him and a few months ... (145 words)

Help! Do we have a future together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have split up again, I don't know why we do it, you would not put us together but we get on so well have some sort of connection. It is love between us, we have been seeing each other sixteen months and split twice for 2 months each time, but when we say we ... (136 words)

Unworthy of love...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I know it might be common here, but even despite the similar situation I feel lost. Well it appears I am almost 21 and I have never been in a relationship, even worse I've never been kissed. I've come into terms that I am gay and all. I've even tried a couple online dating ... (193 words)

I'm worried that he'll find someone who "needs" him more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this great guy now for nearly 7 months. I'm in love with him and I know he definitely is in love with me. We spend all our time together, but also see friends every now and again. A year ago he was in an 8 year relationship with the mother of his children ... (395 words)

How do I avoid conflict and enjoy the trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - when I started middle school I was bullied by my "friends" because I didn't want to follow people and wanted to be myself. Since starting high school I haven't been in any of their classes and it's been better as we haven't had much contact so aren't really friends anymore.... (212 words)

I resent my boyfriend for not being ready to start a family with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years living together for 2, he has a child from a previous relationship. I had an unplanned pregnancy 2 years ago which resulted in an early miscarriage, since then I have been desperate to have a baby, and have attempted to discuss this ... (160 words)

My fiance doesn't know if he loves me anymore. help please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, i really need some advice. I have been with my fiance for about two and a half years, engaged for one year. but we were best friends for about three years before that. Recently we started having problems. He has OCD and that has started playing up on him really badly ... (272 words)

I'm super interested in trying anal, but is it normal/okay that I mandate he wear a condom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - As I've always said since becoming sexually active, I'll try anything once. When I was younger I tried anal (first with a small toy) and that did not go well at all...oww... Nevertheless, it's something I've always been interested in and I'm hoping that, like vaginal sex, my ... (168 words)

Should I be concerned about these texts and phone calls on my wife's phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Need help on this one. I have been married for 13 years our marriage has been one of ups and downs but mostly for the positive. We have one child, He is graduating this year.we got real comfortable in our marriage and forgot what was important. About 3 weeks ago I found a text ... (504 words)

Are nipples always this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Soo I have a odd question, is it the case, dark haired girls will have darker nipples (and a darker areola - bit around the nipple) and lighter hair, lighter nipples, I'm curious is that the way?... is it strange that this is the only thing that turns me on!... (50 words)

He promises me that he won't talk to other girls but then he turns around and does it again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been dating this guy for 5years.l know he loves me but he finds it hard to adapt to my style of living m not this out going sort of person while is.i get so pissed at him when i find out he is talking to other girls.than he promises me he wont do that and you know he ... (80 words)

My teacher made strange comments to me. What do they mean?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this teacher like me? Well i have a teacher and she's a girl it started of when my friend ask for her phone number and i did as well.(im a girl) on that day we started texting, then stopped. then three weeks later she texted me and greeted me good afternoon. and i re... (184 words)

How do we talk to our friend and tell them to stop doing bad things?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend has a not friend who does really badthings and she doesn't like it. we always tell him he should stop doing these things but he doesn't listen! we always tell her she should talk to him about it but she doesn't knoe how to bring it up or how to discuss it. by the way ... (93 words)

How can I do this without going behind my parents' backs?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I'm a 14 year old girl and just like every other teen we all fall in love eventually right? well me and my boy friend started dating close to 6 months ago, but the thing is that I'm not allowed to have a bf till I'm 15. when we first started dating I didn't know a single ... (381 words)

I want so much to have sex with b/f but there now a mental block and its just too painful!

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I want to ask you about a very sensitive topic for me. I've been with my boyfriend for many years now and we've never really had a sexlife. For the first two years we were together, we constantly tried to have sex, but it was always too painful and uncomfor... (701 words)

I like this guy alot but he went after my friend who is now moving. Should I try again with him?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my first year of college (i am starting my fourth year now)i had a little fling with a guy, let's call him adam. we got along so well, he's nice, smart, attractive, amazing, etc. i liked him so much. but i'm sure i came on a little too strong for him at that point and ... (476 words)

I think my relationship to my boyfriends mother is ruined?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. His mother is really strict (she's indian...I'm white..soo..) but she finally accepted that we were together. She actually would talk to me and liked me. Then today, we were in the guest room on the couch watching a ... (188 words)

How can I get my broyfriends brother to think differently of me

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok. I met this boy who is best friends with my best friend. He lives in algeria while i live in philadelphia. we have been working on this long distance relationship and it seems to be going great. we are in love. butttt his big brother is in philadelphia and he says "You guys ... (116 words)

I'm not sure that my female anatomy is correct!

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so im a virgin but ive been seeing this guy for a while and hes obviously going to eventually want to have sex sometime soon, im almost 16 and he is almost 18 now...but i am self-cautious that i might have an abnormal vagina, i know that you have your urethra but i feel ... (90 words)

I do everything for my friend and want the world for her but it doesn't seem like she cares

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I do everything for my friend and want the world for her but it doesn't seem like she cares. she got mad at me tonight for not calling her back after her missed calls when my day was really busy, granted this happened before and she has told me it bothers her. I really tr... (331 words)

This is driving me crazy, how do I score a Mrs. Robinson??

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8 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm 14 almost 15. And this has been driving me pretty crazy. As you could imagine I'm really horny at this age and I would like some tips on how to get a Mrs. Robinson. For those of you that don't know it's basically getting it on with an older woman while you yourse... (143 words)

Would my lady friend be upset if she found out I went to female massage therapist?

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8 August 2010 (M)

age - I am talking to a nice lady who is a few years younger than me, and we are just casual friends. I have gone to a female massage therapist, for my back. While this massage therapist is very pretty and sexy to, it is strictly on a professional basis. I like going to her because ... (89 words)

He's gay and doesn't like it when girls like him but I still want him to know my feelings

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a girl. i know this guy and hes gay. ive know him for 2 years and in those 2 years ive developed really strong feelings for him. but he hates it when a girls tells him that they like him. i still really want him to know how i feel. how should i tell him?... (65 words)

I want this gay guy to know how I feel about him..

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8 August 2010 (F)

Because of abuse in the past I"m afraid of strong guys!

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! :) , my dad has abused me for the past 5-6 years, and that has made me scared of guys cuz there strong, well my boyfriend was over here 2 days ago, and we were sitting on the floor facing eachother and he put both of his hands like slightly up like towards me, and i got ... (143 words)

I'm paranoid about everything!

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ... im like paranoid about everything!!! i cant go out in public with out thinking that everybody is stairing at me!!! i wont eat in public also cuz i think everybody is stairing at me!, im scared of the dark, zombies, the shower drain, mirrors "at times", ghosts, and i have a ... (66 words)

He fingered me after he had cum, could I get pregnant?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 months now, and yesterday i let him finger me for the first time, and this was after i gave him a hand job, and it got all over his pants and boxers and hands and stuff, so he might have had cum on his fingers before he ... (65 words)

I need suggestion on how to ask out this girl I met at camp?

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8 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This summer I went to a camp and met this girl. When I first saw her, I thought she was pretty, but that was just about it. But as time passed by, I got to know her personality and I started to like her regardless of her apperance. I admit there were times when I thought "I ... (121 words)

Is she keeping me around as Plan B?

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8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend informed me that she wants a break. We have been dating for 5 years now. I decided to let her have her space, she said thats what she needs, she wants to go out and meet new people with her friend. We still talk every day, she says she doesnt want to lose me, but ... (193 words)

How do I let go of this guy?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been interested in a guy for many months. He's expressed an interest/attraction for me too. He's really busy traveling a lot and was open about it being difficult for him to have relationships. We don't talk much anymore. I've been trying to get him out of my mind and ... (120 words)

Everything was perfect but she broke it off yet still loves me madly, what do I do?

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8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So i started dating my best friend of 5 years. I tell her EVERYTHING, theres no one in the world that I care about or love or trust as much as i do her. But she ended our relationship after 5 months,when everything was perfect, there was nothing wrong with us. She admits that ... (332 words)

What do I do? Forgive and forget or just forget??

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago,a guy I was dating but "unofficial" went to China on vacation with a group of kids our age.I told him not to have intercourse with anyone and we both knew I wasn't kidding. So as its obvious,he goes and was drunk but he knew what he was doing,had sex with thi... (107 words)

I'm afraid of what may happen when I'm not around!

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my guy for over two years. He is the first boyfriend I have lived with. We have gone through so much together and have gelled together as a team. I know without a doubt that he loves me very much. He is a flirty ladies man type of guy with a magnetic... (857 words)

Mental illness, rageful ex

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My divorce was final yesterday...I am getting stronger and will come thru this a better and more healthy person. My question is this: What is my best plan of action to manage my now ex, given his mental illness and rage? we have 2 kids, forcing interaction. my now ex is ... (198 words)

Sex painful after an abortion?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for sex to be so painful after having an abortion??... (13 words)

How do I help him? No matter what we tried he couldn't stay hard

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of 5 months. The first time we had sex, he had trouble getting it up at first but was eventually able to get up and stay up multiple times after. I figured maybe he was nervous because it was our first time or something. We finally saw each other ... (211 words)

After drinking, friend confessed that he was rather friendly with one of my friends

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, iv just moved thousands of miles with my family from at the time my best friend. we had discussed that we had feelings for each other before i left which made my move awful. but we came to a conclusion that we both loved each other and that we would see each other long ... (109 words)

Was I just a complete idiot thinking she ever loved me?

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8 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 37 year old single guy, a supposedly talented creative/producer who after earning my degree in Art and Design, went on to a career starting as an east end ladies underwear seller on a market, to butcher, to retail display, to head bartender, to film art dept assistant, ... (338 words)

G/f has no respect for me at all!

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8 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello i have a question and hopefully you guys can help me out and point me in the right direction. I have been with my girlfriend for a year now, and my head is just going nuts, Im very jealous and always thinking about what shes doing etc, I dont like her talking to other ... (359 words)

I need to sow my wild oats

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationship with a man who already sewed his wild oats while he was younger. i havent done any of that, but i was in a couple of troubled relationship before where the sex was not so great. my bf could not be a better man and very proper but i cant help the feeling ... (148 words)

Do boys like big girls?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i know that this has nothing to do with relationships but i need advice. i am 14 and i have 38dd breasts, is that normal? i really want 2 lose weight what exercise helps? and i have 42 inch hips and i am 5 feet tall. do boys like big bummed, big hipped and t... (76 words)

Can a guy tell somehow if a girl is single or lonely?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello people imma 16 and i want to know if it is tru that guy's can tell if a grl is single or lonely. like is written across a females forhead for all the guy's to read. and if it is then im embarresed.... (44 words)

I'm concerned about what he's telling others about me

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a little freaked out at the moment, im possibly over reacting but its something thats really stuck in my head. I was out with afew friends, eventually we all gradually went home. I was walking home with a friend of mine who i dont talk to that often, that may sound weird ... (415 words)

My boyfriend's friends laughed at me and my boyfriend doesn't care

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone i have 15 years old and i am dating a boy who has 19 years old. i'm still in middle school but he is going to the university. i have some problems with him. he say that he loves me and all that stuff but i don't really believe him because he doesn't call so ... (112 words)

Lots of pregnancy questions!

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it okay to tan in a tanning bed while pregnant? Is it normal if you get sick in the heat even if your only in the heat for like 5mins while pregnant? Is it normal to eat a lot while pregnant? Is it normal to get sharp pains in your stomach while pregnant? Is it normal ... (97 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend he's gonna be a dad?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm pregnant and my mom just kicked me out. .. How do I tell the father in a way that he wont freak out ? I'm seeing him tomorrow to tell him .. advice please ?!?!?... (36 words)

Chinese girl dating a Korean guy...how strict are Korean about dating different cultures?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if my bf is making all this up so that I'm a secret to his family, I told him I'm upset because my family knows we're dating and they are accepting him so I wanted his family or at least parents to know that I exist even if he told me I will meet them around thanks ... (239 words)

He said he loved me but then he ended the relationship

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8 August 2010 (F)

age - I have had this man on my mind for 15 years we met briefly back then and i was obsessed with him. he had just met someone else who he went to have a daughter with and he adores her. I wrote him a letter asking him to phone me when my marriage broke up. He got in touch saying h... (269 words)

Blood and itchiness after masturbation

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, just two days ago i did masturbate and i went in with two finger after the mastubation i had blood on my finger which i know i might had broke my hymen , after that i felt sore and till now i feel itchy and alittle sore , i dont know if its normal , please help as u see ia... (99 words)

He says he's always loved me but days later he'll date someone else

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that we've dated on and off, and a couple times he always says he still loves me and he's never stopped and then that same day or a few days later he'll date someone else...why?... (40 words)

After four years my boyfriend still doesn't want to move in together

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years and I really want to move in together. I have been living on my own for 7 years and he is still living with his mom at 27???!! I am 25. He says he is not ready and I am afraid he will never be ready!! I really love him... (83 words)

I saw an old picture of my boyfriend with his ex

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a beautiful guy in my life, I really do trust him and know he's not going to cheat or look at another girl. But i recently saw pictures (2 or 3) of him 1 year ago with his ex sitting on his lap with his hand on her butt. I was on the phone with him when i saw and ... (119 words)

How do I cope with one calamity after another?

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8 August 2010 (F) age 51-59 - My life is more like hell, it is one tragedy after the other. I used to be a very logical ,positive ,calm person. But in the last 5 years, I dont get a brake,and I started to feel cursed or jinxed.. It is just one thing after the other. Like in poltergeist. Just when you thin... (109 words)

After two years he still didn't want to meet my family so I broke up with him

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8 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am having a problem. I have broken up over 2 months now. The first month I was a wreck as I was the one to keep calling him and try to make him see I am actually worth keeping. As I realize that I no longer mean anything much to him, I stopped cold. The thi... (322 words)

My fiance and I fight constantly over silly things

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am currently in a realtionship of 8 months going on 9 with my fiance . we are engaged to get married in december of this year. we are always fighting over little stupid things that dont make any sense.i wasw wondering if this fighting all the time affect our marriage in the f... (55 words)

Why is it so hard to find a man with Catholic values?

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it so hard to find someone with Catholic values? i.e. a guy who is waiting til marriage to lose his virginity. i know many guys want to marry a virgin but if they are not virgin themselves, no deal. Are there any virgin male out there who would date a virgin female w... (65 words)

I'm afraid I may intimidate men by how I dress

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8 August 2010 (F)

age - Guys, please help me out! I am going out on dates and I like to dress very stylish and take very good care of myself. My question is, do guys like it when a girl wears a trendy dress and high heels out or is it intimidating? I have a great job, so I can afford nice clothes ... (103 words)

I want to cheat but I'm not the type

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8 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend. we have been going out for just over 6 months and i like him lots and i love him too. But there is this other boy i used to hate him but then we became friends and now we have gone up a year. hes in most of my classes and we get on really well! One of my fr... (264 words)