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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hungry all the time..painful stomach? Could be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20years old I have been noticing unusual things about my body last night I layed on my stomach and it hurt really bad and I pushed on my stomach lightly and it was rock hard and I've been very hungry all the time for the past week could I possibly be pregnant?... (54 words)

Boyfriend lacks confidence and doesn't believe me! What can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 about to turn 18 soon and me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for about 3 years decided to have sex. the only problem was that i didnt bleed. i've heard that that isnt something to particullary worry about but my boyfriend is hung over about it. he thinks his ... (90 words)

Why does he hate me so much???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm finding it hard to get over a guy i had a fling with for few months. he was so disrespectful he talks to me like shit, he shit about me to his friends and his family. I saw his mum and sister standing in their house talking and when they saw me walking on the other side of ... (112 words)

Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly recoiled and said, "sorry, I ... (107 words)

Additional advice on contraceptives???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in Love and have been together almost 10 months now. He is two years older than me. We are both virgins. Although we have experimented with each other (which makes us less of virgins) neither of us have had actual vaginal sex. I know that we will probably... (353 words)

Why are women attracted to big penises?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Granted I myself am not very well equipped, being at 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth. I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Some girls have told me that smaller penises aren't attractive, another told me they're ... (194 words)

Help!!! Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone been thru really bad severe sickness during pregnancy? which put them in hospital? and even had an abortion?? would you let this stop you from trying again for another baby?... (32 words)

How do I stay sane without rushing into sex with the new guy, but also being faithful at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright as of now I have two sex partners. One that I have an emotional thing going on with, and the other we're just friends but his sex is just amazing. I've been talking to this other guy for a few days now. And, weirdly I like him a lot. I think a little too much after just ... (361 words)

How do I concentrate in school and keep my cool around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - At the end of the school year, this guy that I fancied for ages basically rejected me. We've been liking each other for a long time (2 years) and have managed to drag the romance on even though nothings ever happened. Well a couple of months ago, he had enough and just ... (187 words)

Should I put off having another baby until I finish my course?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, I'm thinking of going to uni in sept to further my education, which i think is the best for future employment, the course is 3 years long, i really want another baby with my bf, we have a really good relationship, and i want my 3 year old son to have a brother or ... (82 words)

I think I like my boyfriend's brother AGAIN. Does he feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so it's been five months since me and my boyfriend (Chad) have been together, and it's been about seven months since me and Chad's brother (Nick) were talking, you know, almost dating until he supposedly ignored my texts, and that's when I got with Chad. So around thre... (700 words)

If I always keep him in my sights will this end his affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband left me for another woman 7 years ago after 2 years I had him back and forgave him. I now find out he is having an affair for the past 2 years he denies anything is going on. I do love him but I can't trust him and I have severe jealously issues. I know he is ... (85 words)

Why did he reply to my email if he wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i have been together for a month 1/2. He's always called daily sometimes 2x a day (i didn't ask him to). We hung out daily or frequently. He's currently in the middle of a custody battle, moving, purchasing a car.. We had spent the wknd together, he got sick with a ... (628 words)

I don't know how much longer I can deal with this ache in my heart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age - hi so i am still struggling to move on from my ex boyfriend. we have been broken up for 8 months now. and i still cant seem to let go of him. i have dated other guys and i have kissed another guy since him but i just cant let him go. i loved my ex with all of my heart. but i ... (143 words)

Dating help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, first of all i'm 16 and I met this boy off a chat room he's really funny, nice and seems genuine i've seen lots of pictures and seen him on webcam. He's on holiday at the moment and i've been speaking to him for about a few weeks and when he comes back, I want to invite ... (215 words)

I'm really, really scared and I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Umm I've been talking to this guy online on off for about 2 years, no relationship or flirting or anything, well there is but it's one sided from him. Anyway, he's really "strange" in that one minute he's nice and the next if you don't give him attention he is hostile. A... (522 words)

Am I being selfish by keeping him in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and me and my friend haven't really been great recently, I guess the most important thing to mention is he's also my ex-boyfriend. He lives more than an hour away and this is one of the reasons we broke up (about a year ago) but I insisted that we stay friends. And we ... (448 words)

Was I unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been going out for a year, and we live together. Most of her friends live at a distance, so I asked if she wanted to invite some of them to my house for a visit. I was thinking in terms of a couple of nights maximum. Last week, it turned out she had ... (114 words)

Why did I dream of having a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well today I had a dream that I was at some restaurant with some friends and people that I didn't know. Well there was this guy across from me and he asked me to dance, then he asked me out and I said yes. I want to know what this dream means. Why did I dream of having a new ... (75 words)

Am I crazy for thinking this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age - I am in love with a twenty something female. She is beautiful! Only thing is, I am in my 40's. I think of her all day long, and when I look at her pictures, I just want to spend time with her and talk about whatever she wishes. I long to kiss her as well, she has beautiful ... (82 words)

I'm Engaged to Someone I Don't Trust

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP Title* I met my fiance about 6 yrs ago in college. We began dating for about 8 months, but eventually broke up. Nothing serious happened we were just young college grads and decided to remained friends. Over the yrs we dated other people but still hooked up every now and ... (406 words)

Uncircumcised...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I am uncircumcised and when I masturbate I can only get the skin about halfway down and it won't go any further.. will this hurt during sex,?... (28 words)

Does he just want my friendship or does he want something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story: I have known this guy Alex since I have been 6, we played together, went to each other's b-day parties, him and I were close friends when young, I moved to the US halfway thru my 4th grade so we parted. I saw him 4-5 yrs after that and how he changed, then 4 yrs ... (1024 words)

Help!!! How can I show him that I care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been fighting for any little thing lately. He seems to get mad because i dont show him enough affection and i think i really do. how do i show him that i love him and show him what he wants? im confused we are in love and i want to make him happy? Is there ... (72 words)

Help! How do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have turned 17. I keep questioning myself many a times Why! I dated my ex for about two years. We had major break ups and patch ups. I dono if i still love him. When he cheated on me we had this break up. I met this new guy through a common friend. We liked each other. Got ... (277 words)

Hair part 2.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - [OP original title] In connection with the other "Hair" question - What age should a woman get her hair cut shorter? Long hair looks great on women and girls - but not so much on older women (ie 50s, 60s) - so at what age should a woman get it cut?... (52 words)

Is this relationship too far gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, We only see each other in school because he's adopted and lives with his mom and his godmother/babysitter? and 20 other kids. His babysitter doesnt like me so I cant see him outside of school. Now I dont know why she ... (1188 words)

We were supposed to get married, but instead we drifted apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for about 5 years (we study abroad and lived together for 1 year but our parents didn't know because we are christian orthodox and his father is a priest and very strict and wouldn't approve). At the end of the summer of 2009 (we didn't spend... (897 words)

I broke his trust, but I really want him back. Is there hope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 2 weeks ago because i hurt him badly. I didnt cheat on him but he just doesnt trust me now and i've ruined everything. I regret it so much but he has accepted my apology. The thing is he told me he still loves me very much but can't ever take me ... (117 words)

Having sex on the implant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] ive been on the implant since march and i was on my period for one month in april and then it stopped completely. never in my life have i had unprotected sex before last week. and i am really scared of getting pregnant now ive done it. am i just para... (70 words)

I feel it's always me trying to sort our relationship out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently told my boyfriend about this website as i thought it would help him, and i accidentally came across his question and now i don't know what to think. As he is excusing me of not allowing him to go out with his mates which yes i admit i use to but this was about 6 ... (360 words)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it abundantly clear I am not OK w... (307 words)

He'll go to Canada to meet a girl, but not to see me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for over a month now. He is sweet and all that. He seems to be the perfect kind of boyfriend. As for our relationship, I have no clear idea about it. First he said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now and we agreed; what we have is ... (338 words)

Hair

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is for all you guys out there what do you like a womans hair long or short? Witch is more of a turn on? Me personally I like my hair long. :) what do you guys think? Thanks for reading ~Lucy... (45 words)

I broke up with him, we tried to be friends, now everything's complicated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i Broke up with my boyfriend after a relationship of 10 months 3 years ago as i said some wrongs words to him.when we were together we love each other so deeply.but most important he was in love with me more than i was.i still love him after a long time.I tried to get him when ... (679 words)

My boyfriend didn't want me there because of his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend asked me to go to his convocation but then later changed his mind. i had no idea why then we had a talk and we ended up decide that i should go to share the moment with him. i realised that his ex gf is going to be there and it'd put him in a difficult position so ... (172 words)

Help me save my marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 5 1/2 years !!!! and now my hubby says that our sex life has gone way bad... and i know that its truth but the thing is I dont feel like having sex or even feel to try new things!!!! when we are having sex for me to cum.... i have to think that he's ... (135 words)

Want to have sex with my boyfriend so badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] Ive been going out with my boyfriend for over a year. i love him alot, and he's so kind to me. But theres something thats bothering me ALOT. we still havent had sex! he cant stay hard enough to go all the way. i never let it bother me before because we do a... (171 words)

My boyfriend went behind my back to meet his ex. How do I get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 8 months and go my and my boyfriend had a fall out because he went behind my back and met up with his ex [after saying he never would] and didn't tell me. Then I found out. We worked things out but I have days even now where I think about how much it hurt me. Will this ... (62 words)

Why am I so awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] so i've always been kinda shy but i guess its just the paranoia of wat ppl think of me gets to me all the time when i try to talk to someone.i can never think straight. i can't focus on the topic at hand.last night i was at a bbq and so much shit was rush... (182 words)

Would you contact/meet your first love? After a long time apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - [OP Original title] Hi there, A General Question. Given the chance, how many of you would contact/meet up with yr 1st Love....and would you do it if you were married/in a realtionship? Cheers ... (44 words)

Is it possible I'm pregnant or just paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really don't like asking this. I'm 15 yrs old, and I would talk to my mom about it, but I'm not completely sure and I don't need her getting freaked out. so on the 15th of July my boyfriend and I were messing around. I remember touching the tip of his penis, it was moist but ... (401 words)

What do you make of "co-incidents"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - [OP original title] Hi, I wondered if anyone can help here. What would you do if you had loads of strange co-incidents (more than 15) from a long time ago that are suddenly taking you back to that period in your life? I have had loads of these recently..I'm a down to ... (104 words)

How can I help him out???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married female 42 years old, settled in life with husband and grown up kids. Some time ago i met a male who is 30 years old, I was impressed by his overall personality. it is like i was waiting for that kind of a person in my life.... the way he treats freinds, ... (142 words)

Do all women squirt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - do all women squirt ??? and can all women cum from clit and from vagina??... (15 words)

Had an abortion for my health, but I can't stop being depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - just had an abortion not long ago,im so depressed an upset,i wanted to keep it but ended up having an abortion bcus i was ona drip in hospital with SEVERE sickness and nausea,couldnt keep fluids or food in my systm,i have a 3year old boy,and i was very very ill,i tryed my ... (81 words)

I have to lie to go out with friends and I'm sick of it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am having problems in my relationship ino it is mostly my fault. i wanna go out alot but my girlfriend dont like my friends so i always lie to her. i can never tell her how i feel we never do any thing together any more. we hardly have a sex life now, and i just dont no ... (96 words)

All I think when we have sex is I wish he was my ex.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i came out of a 4 year relationship with a guy i love. i am with someone else and my ex knows. this has happened very fast. when we have sex all i can think is i wish he was my ex,i know i have made a foolish mistake. if he is with someone else it will kill me. he always said ... (83 words)

He won't marry me; I feel cheated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age - I’ve been with my guy for three years now, living together for two years and we’re very, very happy (I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of rows we’ve had.) As the relationship’s working so well, and because we’re not getting any younger (both mid fifties) I think ... (363 words)

Girlfriend tells white lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] My GF told me she loved me about a month ago and I said the same. we also as of last week said we may want to move in together a bit in the future. BUT, she told her BF that she just realized she loved me but hasn't told me and said she wants to get her ... (190 words)

My boyfriend and I have practically no conversation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - [OP original title] I'm 20, my boyfriend is 23 so we are not kids and we've been together 4 months. But ever since we started dating I feel like I struggle to find things to talk to him about. I'm quite a quiet person but I do try ask him stuff or tell him about my day but he j... (159 words)

New to sex, what can happen from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So I'm really new at the sex thing right. All my friends are doing it but i never really cared before but now I met this guy that I really like and stuff happened and we almost had sex right. So like what could happen if a dude rubs his dick on u vagina without protection?? ... (77 words)

In a bind between three guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, i'm in a bind between these three guys. The first one, my boyfriend, used to be perfect for me. He was sweet, funny, and he loved me. This summer he went 4 hours away from me to go visit his grandpa, it was fine until about a month ago. He stopped calling me, stopped ... (305 words)

What do women think about a man getting hard while dancing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 828 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What do women think when they are dancing with a man and he gets an erection? I recently went dancing with my wife and a group ofnour friends. It was a really crowded, kinda dark and sweaty dance floor. We were all drinking and dancing. By virtue ofnthe crowd, everyone was ... (194 words)

His selfish attitude is splitting us up. What could be the cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend moved in together after just a couple of months. Things were fine at first but then one day I cam back from work and his mood was unbareable. I kept asking him what was wrong and then he just started screaming saying why I was attacking him when he just ... (332 words)

She's been physical with someone else and I can't love her anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hii guys...m 21 n ihave been in a relationshp for d last 2 years. Ours was a vry beauiful bond..we love each oder a lot..so much dat v had plans for marriage..!! She never told me about her past..But some days back..during a conversation my girlfrnd told me that she has bee... (167 words)

Women desire to fondle testicles?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do girls feel about men's balls? Do women find the sexually exciting? Disgusting? Or, do they not factor at all? My last girlfriend was alwYs playing with them, and once I started shaving them ( at her request) would often take them in her mouth. At first I found this ... (122 words)

What can I wear that will make her think sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies, what can a guy do physically or wear to get his wife or girl/friend sexually excited. The reverse is so easy to figure out. A girl can wear longerie, nothing at all, or my fav: sexy panties and a tight wife beater. But what can a guy wear to spark that same sort of ... (64 words)

I'm afraid she won't want me back after I broke her heart all those years ago

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was very much in love with a girl when I was in school. We dated during our last year of school together. We moved in together after graduation and went to the community college. unfortunately reality struck very hard. I got very sick. I was diagnosed with cancer and ... (421 words)

My husband believes this woman is from his past and him and her are getting too cozy for my liking!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband met a married woman at a conference in January this year. She came to our house on a recent visit and I simply assumed that there was nothing to it. I later find out that he has been seeing the woman in his dream before actually meeting her. He said it was fore... (159 words)

Why does everyone always make fun of me for my love life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does everyone always make fun of me for my love life? I had one boyfriend in the sixth grade but after him when guys asked me out it was because I just didn't like them. I am eighteen now and all my friends, girl and guy, make fun of me for having no boyfriend, not having ... (166 words)

Boyfriend opened up to me and I don't like what he told me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend just opened up to me about his past relationships some of them really made me mad because while we were dating girls were asking him out and telling him i would never found out about it since were in a long distance relationship i know he loves me with all his ... (75 words)

My wife won't let me touch her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife won't let me even touch her anymore. Several months ago I became aware of resentment stemming for isolated episodes during our 14 years of marriage when she thought I was insensitive and uncaring. The worst one was my not being present with her when her mom died (in a ... (214 words)

Is it wrong to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to fall in love? Is it wrong to love someone ,when ones parents do not approve of him or her because he /she doesn't belong to your community? and if none of the above is wrong.....What does one do if facing a choice to choose either one- Your love or Your Family(P... (59 words)

Cheating Consequences

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is being honest about the fact that you've cheated on someone, and facing the full consequences, the only way to make sure that one is never tempted to cheat again? I've heard some people say that the "guilt" is enough to make someone more loyal and faithful...but others seem ... (88 words)

Cheating with a married man but I feel jealous of his family

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have affair with a married man we love each other alot from 2 yr we are in love. he cant leave his wife wat sud i do, We are in sexual relationship I am 24 and he is 31. he is married for 7 years and have 2 childrens . I love him very much. He always says that he loves me ... (169 words)

Pregnant from blow jobs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm wondering if you can get pregnante through blow jobs exetra.Is that possible ???... (14 words)

I invaded my boyfriend's privacy and now I feel paranoid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is so confusing. I've been with my boyfriend now for 7 months, and he is wonderful. I'm 23, he's 31 but that bares no relevance to us as a couple, apart from when the past gets brought up. My last boyfriend I was with for 4 years, and it was a nightmare, it was full ... (738 words)

Why isn't he hard the whole time we fool around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner is 42 and I am 22. We do not have full, penetrative sex but we do fool around, have oral sex and I give him hand jobs. However, I have noticed that when I give him hand jobs or oral he will be hard, but when we take some time to kiss or when he goes down on me he ... (189 words)

I 'm a bi woman who has met the man of my dreams, but am worried about my feelings for other women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I have a question to ask as a bi woman. I am a mostly straight woman with bi tendencies, and has had flings with other women in the past, and a relastionship with one that has been on and off for the past 9 years. I am now in a serious relastionship with a lov... (384 words)

We fight every single day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyf and i has been together for 1year and 4 months now.. We've been quarrelling everyday since then.. I don't know what had happen to him.. He's staying at my house now bcus he has some family problems.. As he has some bad habits which is watching porn and also calling ... (136 words)

Married but very attracted to a female!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

6 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 26 yrs old and am a doctor. In fact, am doing my residency. I married my childhood sweetheart three years ago and we're going on just fine. I've had crushes on female celebs before in my teens but I've never looked at a real woman in a sexual way. Well that is..till ... (296 words)

He wants to know how to get my trust back

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and he lives like 1 and a half hours from me. i have met him a couple of times since we started going out but we cant now because neither of us has any money so we have wait till one of us gets some. when we first started going out i trusted him ... (166 words)

This is getting weird, how do I get her to talk to me again?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I'm really new to this I've been struggling a lot lately and i felt like i needed outside source besides from my friends. People who don't really see me as a friend and just a person who needs real advice. I am sorry if this might be long too, But i need to explai... (1575 words)

This other boy makes me happier than my boyfriend does

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I have a boyfriend. He is 17 I am 15. I went to my friends grandma's house with her and some of my other friends. I met a boy there. He is pretty good friend with the three girls I went there with. He is 19 turning twenty next week. Well, I guess he thought I was cute. So ... (341 words)

Will I ever get to know what sex is like?

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6 August 2010 (M)

age - dear cupid. i will never know what sex is like because i've no chance of ever getting a girlfriend there is something about me that puts them off i can't tell you what it is because i don't know not one woman will tell me when i ask them. anyway alot of women ignore me. and ... (66 words)

What are the chances that my ex will realize he made a mistake of giving up on us so soon?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me three days ago. This was my first break up and my first relationship. And while it lasted only two months, he was my first kiss and I did lose my virginity to him. Everything happened to fast and it was too rushed. This is his first relationship ... (820 words)

Baby resents nanny when passed on to her

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all , I need some advice about my nanny. I have a one year old baby girl and i work everyday from 8-2 .. so she is left at home with the nanny who cleans at the same time .. She has a day off at friday .. To be honest I have never seen anything suspicious about her trea... (195 words)

My boyfriend doesn't introduce me to his family ..

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is German who lives in another Asian country. I am Asian also lives in another country few hours by air, not his.We met while he was travelling in my country.He told me he fell in love with me at the first sight. Long distance relationship is such a hard but ... (984 words)

Does he think I'm dirty or something?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I realized this a while ago, but now I'd like someone's input on it. So fast forward, my sex buddy does oral sex or atleast did. When I met him he did and he even offered but it never happened. It was actually my first and I was a little shy. After my first time we had sex alot ... (342 words)

My ex husbands wife is causing alot of problems

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask this. About 3 years ago my husband of 16 years started an online affair with an internet whore she was actually a whore she advertised on Myspace all she did and what she was into after about a year of this he decided he was ... (270 words)

Acne, scars and what can I do?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im thirteen and I had ok skin untill a few months ago when I just broke out all over my forehead. I know it's puberty but in the mean time what can I do to keep it manageable? I've tried "clean and clear" the pimples ar a LOT smaller but there's still a lot of them. And my skin ... (91 words)

Is it just me or am I just not accepting this?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ugh..I hate this. I can't tell whether it's her, or is it me just not accepting this. Okay, so I'll be honest overall people tend to say I'm quiet. To me I say, if I don't have/want to interact with you why should I? Which is alot of people you can say I guess. Only my close ... (313 words)

He's living with another woman already but wants me?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with a man for 17 years i have a child with him we lived together for 11 years. thing where not going good so i moved out thinking we needed some time apart well a week and half later he is seeing someone and had her meet my child a month later he had the girl move in ... (106 words)

She has always been a double-edged sword kind of friend

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6 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am really angry with my friend “X” and I have no idea what I should do about it. We have known each other for 10 years. Over the last few years X has changed a lot- she was a late bloomer and didn't really start actively dating until her mid twenties. I don't know if she ... (279 words)

What do we do after kissing?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My (girl) friend and I kissed the other day. Like, really kissed. We are both 14. We know we care for each other, but we just don't know where to go from here. We've never been in a relationship anything close to this before. What do we do now? What is the next step?... (55 words)

How do I change things back to the way they were?

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6 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have been seeing my girlfriend for about 4 months now and everything was. Recently she went on this holiday for 8 weeks and when she came back it just felt weird between us. Before she left we were getting really close but now i just feel she is distant from me. I think ... (98 words)

We are always arguing about stupid things!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend of 11 months argue all the time! it's always mostly about stupid things! like stepping on toes or almost falling down steps. this all probably sounds so immature but it didn't used to be like this. we used to go months without fussing now it feels like we do ... (89 words)

Pelvic injury and erection problems

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6 August 2010 (M)

age - I was hit by an 18 wheeler at full speed. I was on foot. I'm still in the hospital and almost died. One of many injuries was a very severe fracture of my pelvis. I cannot get an erection. I also wore a catheter for several months. When catheter was removed, it still feels likes ... (149 words)

Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just friend requested me on facebook... (214 words)

To Friend or Not to Friend?

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6 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my wife in 1997 through her then current busband; he and I worked together. He ended up cheating on her with about 30 women and then he went sorta crazy. She ended up divorcing him. Four years later, she and I married after dating for a year. He remarried and recently ... (157 words)

I'm living with a rude total stranger!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone. I'm totally at my witts end and confused about what to do. I feel like my head is going to explode. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years odd now, we moved in together after a perfect 6-7 weeks together...Now I know everyone will probably say well more f... (411 words)

I feel sad that I don't have a dad

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy i have a problem i cant express my feeling as clear as i want to. my stepfather left my mom for a lady anoter race than i am im only 14 and i use to ball up my feeling inside till they jus com out at skool and i would get in trouble. i dnt noe how to explain it but i try ... (103 words)

How do I get her phone number without being creepy?

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6 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I need some advice. there's this cute chick in my building named Ana that I see from time to time. I think she's hot and need some advice on getting her phone number without it being creepy or anything. first time I saw her I was leaving the building going to lunch. ... (130 words)

My dad is messing with my stuff and my life

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my dad snoops around behind my back. whenever I'm away he goes through my stuff and hacks my facebook and deletes some of my friends... he checks my email and my computer... he does the same thing to my mom! I think its terrible! my mom knows about it and clearly doesnt like ... (77 words)

Sexual Past, Lies, Sexual lies

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6 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, here goes my question. My wife and I have been struggling over the past year or so because of a long series of lies I have discovered regarding her romantic and sexual past. To save you the drawn out details, there are at least four people she was had an intimate ... (1124 words)

Trying to get along with the family!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't think my step-siblings and step-father like my twin brother and I much. The funny thing is they don't have a problem with my mom. My step-father has two daughters who are 14 and 15. Last year they moved in right before my mom and their father got married. My ... (203 words)

I am really struggling abd about to give up... please need someones help!!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a few issues with my partner, he is not very affectionate, he doesn’t just come up and cuddle me, he doesn’t just come up and give me a kiss.. I am always the one that needs to go up to him, he has told me he is shy and he has said this has how he has been brought ... (189 words)

All the guys I like are either gay or taken!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've often thought to myself "I don't think I'll ever have sex unless I'm raped--and then, I'd feel bad for the rapist for having to see me naked." Okay, I'm 20--a few months from being 21--5'4", 220 lbs, horrible self-confidence issues (I think I look like a guy :\), and hav... (313 words)

How do I tell him what I like?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - .... I would like some advise on how to tell my boyfriend what I like, I do like fingering but sometimes he moves to fast I want to try and show him that if he goes slower for me is can be a lots better, and I know for him to it can be. I... like am kind of scared of saying ... (129 words)

His family dislikes me!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i beeen togetehr for 6 months and his family dislike the fact that he's with me. they make him do more things for them just so he wont have time to see me. they even use me to blackmail him. they tell him if he dont do this and that then i wont be able to go to his ... (120 words)

Has my ex moved on? How can I tell?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my bf about 5 months ago and I have no contact with him since. He had tried to contact me the first couple months, but I ignored him cause I just want to give him clear signal that our relationship is over. It appears that he had stop trying to contact me since ... (277 words)

I want sex more often!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age - how do i get across to my boyfriend i want more sex often and longer,he is a couple years older than me i have told him i want it 2 or 3 times a week he is only good for one round a week. I am in my prime and he want more sex, he is a great guy and spoils me in everyway but ... (69 words)

I want to forgive and forget and move on, I cannot

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6 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for close to 4 years now (last 2 years have been long distance). Couple of months ago, she told me she wanted to break up with me - to cut a long tale short, it turned out that this was because she had had sex with another guy. ... (435 words)

How can I be successful with girls in clubs?

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6 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I just want to say before I go on with this story, I am not a pig. I just got out of a long term relationship and just want to have fun as a teenager (19). I just moved to a different state and living with my cousin. He is really good with women and has almost ... (207 words)

Mood swings and what to do about them?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have these huge mood swings, i been taking birth control pills for about 5 months and well i keep skipping them, and well now im quitting them, im not sexaul or anything yet, but i used them for my mood swings and i get so mad so easily and then happy, is this bi polar or ... (96 words)

My ex's friend says "be careful and patient" What does he mean?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I haven't been together since 2007, and we stopped speaking early 2008 because we found it difficult, for many reasons. We have recently started talking again, and have been spending time together. We went on a night out with some friends about a month ag... (313 words)

Dilemma about prom dresses!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - omg!! im going to be going to prom really soon!! yay i've been waiting like all my life for this!! :)) and me and my besties have most of it plained out since were 13 or whtever.. we are getting ready together.. geting are makeup and hair done together.. getting a li... (170 words)

How can I kiss her with out getting nervous?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well i'm a girl and i like my best girl friend. Also, she likes me too and for my birthday she kissed me. sadly she's dating this idiot guy (we're both bisexual) but she told me she might break up with him. i really want to go out with her but i'm really nervous to kiss her. ... (97 words)

What do I do? My partner keeps lying to me!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!. Well i have been with this guy for about 2 and a half years..we live together and he is five years older than me.. he is like a kid..although he is the older one I always seem to be the one who is more mature and more serious about our life/goals/problems. Throughout our... (678 words)

My friend wants me to cheat with him. Go for it?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a long conversation with my boyfriend and suprisingly for once in 11 years he was understanding (or maybe he was pretending lol ). He is doing lots of efforts .Im affraid that it's too little too late.That is how I feel , I love my kids , I still have some feelings... (152 words)

EWW!! Brownish goo??

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so this is going to sound really weird and gross but im not sure about this so.. im on birth control so when i get my periods theyre light. but this month ive missed my period but there is like brownish goo? and its just on/in my "girl part" so is it bad and i really dont ... (82 words)

Boyfriend does not know how to give me space!

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Depressed over the loss of my father, and my jealous boyfriend won't give me space! I have never been with someone who loved me so much and respected me so little. We have been together since December of last year, and my father passed away in January of this year. My m... (329 words)

Break up sex, do you tell your significant other?

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6 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If your boyfriend (8 months) breaks up with you, and within a week sleeps with someone and then he asks to get back together and you do... Should he be obligated to tell you that he slept with someone on the "break"? Especially if the condom broke? I'm too emotional at the... (116 words)