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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a third wheel around everyone I know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd really like to have a boyfriend but I'm so androgynous (flat chested, for some reason muscly and have never been able to grow long hair) that guys my own age are just repulsed by me. It has always been like this and no matter where I live or what school I'm in I seem to end ... (227 words)

Is what I'm doing normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i'm 15 and i'd like to know if what i'm doing is normal. I work in a dojo/school with my sensei/teacher to help pay off lesson costs. And because my school messed up my time table i'm going to work there in some of my free periods(which i shouldn't have). My sensei often ... (217 words)

Is 4.5 in length & 4.5 in girth too small to satisfy females?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys and Gals I need your opinion. I'm Bi and really attracted to females but only have had sex with males. All the male mates tell me that my size is perfect but we engage in anal sex so smaller sizes are probably better anyways. I really want to start having sex with ... (93 words)

Still in love with her... how can I let her know how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Been searching this site for a few days now, and have decided to post my situation for advice / support Basically i'm male and was with the love of my life back in 1995, in 1997 we split and she moved on, a year later she came knocking at my door and we start... (337 words)

Did I handle the situation right, and should I text him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there, So I have this on again/off again relationship/friendship with this guy. Last week I heard from him every day, and then nothing for 4 days. This week I heard from him by text. Yesterday he texed "If you want to go for tea sometime call me". Now the is... (289 words)

Are there signs here that he likes me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone.. im just back from my hols and my older sister invited her boyfriend as well.. and i think he likes me.. im not sure.. Okay so here are a few of the things he did.. When ever i sat beside him he would always smile at me..and when he asked me was i walking to the... (193 words)

I have always wondered if he (husband) was the right choice...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age - We have been married 22 years, and have three children 20, 17, and 14. I have always wondered if he was the right choice, even before we got married. I was an alcoholic in recovery when we met (I'm still struggling), and it seemed like the right thing to do at the time. We had ... (315 words)

What should I do to make her happy and help her get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years and things seem a little too confusing for me at this moment. when we met she was living with her ex-boyfriend and she claimed it was only because they had bought a house together and her name was on it but swore that they ... (845 words)

What do I do when she comes back with feelings for another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf went back home for summer. Her cousin was the only one that takes her out. He started holding her hand and hugging her and kissing her on the neck after a hug and on her checks. And she used to kiss him too on hes neck and hes checks. And because she hasn't seen me for a ... (136 words)

I've not to tell anyone about the fact we're on a break but I'm hurting too!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age - I dont understand my girlfriend at the moment, we have been in a strong loving relationship for 18 months. theres always been issues with her ex, and she is going through quite a messy divorce, and several court appearances. we are always there for each other, and support one ... (157 words)

I feel like I went too fast with everything...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Eight years ago, I married the man of my dreams (we had been together for over two years by then). We were both 22 and still in the process of getting our Associate's degrees. Seven years ago, we had our first children (fraternal twins); they were born three months before my... (177 words)

Help! He's moving out of state... what do I do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have this friend who has this brother who I just recently became interested in. he's kind and not bad to look at not to mention smart. He went away to college and moved back home recently. He comes into my work sometime and I love talking to him. We flirt. Recently I asked ... (113 words)

My life now revolves around him and the kids. I don't really have one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I have posted on here before and appreciated your replies. I moved in with my partner a year ago almost, we lived a few hours apart. we met on the internet. he was in the army. He has 2 kids from a previous marraige that ended badly. he got really hurt. We have the ... (494 words)

Could my mates be right? Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my friends reckon this guy friend of ours likes me but im unsure. I always thought of him through noticing the past that if he likes someone he will always talk to them try to be around them, although hes never actually asked them out or liked them enough to. When we g... (188 words)

Live in partner has been looking at porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day I was going into my history because I was searching for a holiday and forgot the website I found one on. My partner and I share the laptop and while I was in the history I was shocked and disgusted to see a free pornographic website that has been visited, and ... (138 words)

Should I invite my boyfriend to my graduating ceremony?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm graduating from high school and I wonder if I should invite my bf to the ceremony... We've been going out for almost six months, talk for hrs about everything, and he encourages my writing, my ideas, my goals- he helps me whenever and however he can. Think I love him a ... (130 words)

Please help me validate my anxiety!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, please help me put my mind at rest, or validate my anxiety! My boyfriend and I are not having sex but we do give each other handjobs. I've heard that it is possible to get pregnant from this if he has cum on his hands etc and I am very neurotic about that kind of thing so ... (274 words)

How can we stop our arguments turning nasty and spiteful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, last time I posted a question here i got some good, helpful, nonjudgmental help so have decided to seek out some more advice. Basically, I have been with my boyfriend for the past two years now. Overall I would say our relationship is good and I am mostly happy. ... (208 words)

Emergency contraception!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day whilst having sex with my boyfriend, the condom must have slipped off and when he came it went inside me. I took emergency contraception literally about half an hour, 45 minutes later. My question, is emergency contraception effective so soon? or should i have... (57 words)

He thinks it is unhealthy that we are physically obsessed with each other??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age - I'm newly back on the dating scene and am very confused. Met a guy I really like and though it has only been a month it has got intense very quickly. He pushed it more than me and we have seen a lot of each other, spending every weekend together since we met. Seemed very gen... (169 words)

My boyfriend and best friend don't get along!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend since kindergarden doesnt like my fiance. I've tried and tried to have them get along. She always finds some reason not to like something he does or says. He is one of the most sweetest guys I have ever dated. I dont know if I should quit trying. Maybe that'd be ... (96 words)

How can I convince him to have a baby with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice with my relationship. I am trying to convince my husband into have "our" baby. But, he doesn't seem to want to have any now. He has already two kids a boy 5 yrs old and a girl 7 yrs old, but they live in a different country and he only sees them once a ... (119 words)

Is it wrong to hate your father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey is it wrong to hate your father? my parents divorced when i was about 9 or 10 and it wasn't an overly messy divorce either. i got to see him on weekends and it wasn't too bad. but when he met his wife things all changed, she started telling me and my brothers that my... (319 words)

Keeping schtum about my pregnancy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - if i asked my friend on a social networking site not to hint about my pregnancy as not everyone knows nor do i want everyone to know, only a couple of weeks before i pop, do you think i am being reasonable in this request? After all, if things don't go well and something bad ... (391 words)

Girlfriend to housekeeper!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated my boyfriend 4 three months, I'm a single parent and he knew that. I never mentioned to him about my financial situation, but now that things have become harder for me, I had to tel him everything. He offered for us to move in with him and enroll my son in a private ... (112 words)

So homesick and sad...

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help... I am really homesick! I am not sure what to do. I moved away to be with a long distance lover a few years ago. At first living here was wonderful and exciting but as time goes by I am so sad. I find myself having dreams/nightmares about my old life with my ... (267 words)

I need to avoid him and get over him... but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I like this guy up my street and felt like he didn't have any intrest in me, and my friend got tired of seeing me upset because I was sad about it and went and told him I liked him. She told me he said he had a girlfriend and that it was awkward, ive ruined my chances i ... (68 words)

Our jealousy is causing problems in our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. and i really love her but the problem is that she gets really jealous. for example she wont let me talk to several people. and one time i had this best friend who was male, and we had been best friends for about 6 months then ... (162 words)

Is he stingy... or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey friends, my story seem very strange to me but may make sense to you, i'm a 32 year old woman who's been in long distance relationship with a 38 year old man since 9 months now , the problem is i felt that he's a gentleman when we go out in terms of invitation and paying the ... (158 words)

I'm now 4 days late! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have sex regularly. But we always use protection. We use condoms and he pulls out. But one day I put the condom on him and had accidentally came in contact with sperm about 1 hour prior to that. I took a pregnancy test because I was worried to death about it, ... (75 words)

I think he has been texting or ringing other women behind my back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please could anyone help me? i could really do with some advice and peoples true views on this, i hope you can help me as im still very much in love with my ex but he treated me badly, should i go back with him? or should i move on to a guy that really does want me and will ... (684 words)

I just feel I have left it too late due to my super shyness...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 comming on 20... and I havn't really had a girl friend, let alone had sex... everybody else seems to have partners. I am too scared to even think about getting a girlfriend, mainly becuse I don't think I look like your average virgin: I ride a 800cc custom cruiser m... (166 words)

Could her defeatist attitude rub off on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, I got little issue with my girlfriend. I really like her and love spending time with her. However it seems like as our relationship is moving along (5months) she has been getting increasingly negative about herself and myself. I don't know if its just something w... (252 words)

Why does he seem to keep everything in?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend is really confusing lately. We are in a relationship now for 6 months, he has liked me for over a year now. Before we went out about a month I was dead set on not dating anymore in high school. So when I found out he liked me and he started asking me why I didn't ... (263 words)

How can I be more outgoing and feel better?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Gah.. This is weird.. Uhm.. I'm in love with this girl.. lets call her "abby". and its a long distance relationship. and Sunday she asked me out and I said yes, now we've been together before. But she broke up with me so she could have cybersex. I literally cryed for weeks, ... (166 words)

Ex wife can't stand my girlfriend around our kids! How can I make her come around?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife and i are getting a divorice. she left the house and when she did i change the locks on the door we each see our kids for half of the day i will get them in the nights from 6:00 pm untill the next morning 7:00 am the prolbem is she does not want my girl freind around ... (158 words)

Does flirting with other guys equal cheating?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Does flirting with other guys equal cheating? I've got a bf but I tend to sometimes flirt with other guys, no touching, nothing, just teasing them. Is this wrong and does this mean I'm cheating in any way? ... (38 words)

My dad is engaged to a woman while married to my mum

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my dad is engaged to another woman whilst married to my mum. my mum knows all this but she refuses to leave him and kick him out i have never got on with my dad, so when i found out that he was engaged it came as no shock. but it did to my mum. only now she is in a mess i d... (105 words)

It's the end isn't it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After a difficult childhood and being messed up in all sorts of ways I finally took a chance for this guy I met at a Veteran's Workshop. There was this instant attraction that I stopped seeing this guy I had dated just to get together with this person who seemed to be so ... (345 words)

Boyfriend talking to ex's mother... I'm scared to ask him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently found out my boyfriend is talking to his ex girlfriend's mom on face book. I think he is looking up his ex on face book also. I found he is looking up a house the ex bought. He does still have pictures of her when they were engaged. I am not sure how to feel except ... (91 words)

The guy I'm dating has slept with a prostitute! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, For the past few months i have been dating this guy, i had been seeing him for about two months before he went on a three week holiday. We never had a discussion about what level our relationship was at, i didn't expect him to not see other people while he was awa... (256 words)

How can we bring the fun times back to our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancé and I's fun time has gotten a gotten boring. We have tried new ways and it doesn't seem to work. What could we do to make it better? We've been engaged 7 months and I really want to fix it. ... (44 words)

I sometimes think divorce is the best way to deal with my husband's family's spite and rejection..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i want my husbands family to accept me but it feels like it will never happen.we are from two different countrys and his family dont like me,his grandfather always tells him to get another wife bcoz he thinks its my fault we dont have a child.i have a doughter whos 10 from a ... (107 words)

I don't know how he'd cope if we broke up, but I have this desire to be single and free!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

- Hey, Basically, I've been with my fiancee for nearly 5 years, since I was 17. It was a long distance thing at first but when I was 20 I started University near him so stayed at his every weekend and in all the holidays, so basically moved in with him:) Things were great up u... (394 words)

Wife in need!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age - One year ago I underwent a radical prostatectomy and have been unable to achieve an erection without the use of a penis pump, obviously affecting our sex life. I am taking my wife on a princess caribbean cruise this december would like to know what I can do to subtley have her ... (81 words)

Wanting to date my sister's friend, but my sister wants me back with my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently split up with my previous girlfriend since she grew to be controlling and possesive towards me, we had an arguement which ended up me leaving her. We are now friends which is'nt much an issue. BUT My sister and my previous partner was close friends (met e... (335 words)

Is it bad that I vented our relationship isssues to other people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently found out my girlfriend had been lying to me, which hurt a lot at first. I wrote her an email telling her I found out and she didn't get back for a few days, so I thought it was over. I am an extrovert I need people around me to talk with during tough time, for my ... (195 words)

I need advice guys, I don't know what to do. Am I wasting my time on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are both 23. We met each other about 5 years ago. After a year of friendship (maybe not really friendship, we had a lot of common friends so we met often at parties) we started a relationship. He was my first boyfriend and I was his first. So that was cute I ... (623 words)

How do I get my give stubborn boyfriend to heat things up more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP! My boyfriend is making me sexually frustrated!!! I feel as though I am way more into it then him and it causes me to feel as though he is not attracted to me anymore. Were still in university and both living at hime so it makes things harder and its harder for alone time ... (245 words)

Do I move with my family, or stay for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so Im not sure this is the type of question that normally goes on here but hopefully I can get help. I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him alot and care about him. A couple days ago my dad told me he got an offer to transfer ... (236 words)

Help! My relationship is at breaking point!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It will be 5 years later this month that my boyfriend and I have been dealing with each other. During this time there has been many break ups. Ive been very loyal to him over the years never having sex with anyone else, just making friends for the most part. I no that when you ... (397 words)

Does this virgin have the equipment to satisfy her?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, i've been going out with her for a month now. she has invited me to stay the night with her. but i'm nervous that my penis will not be big engouh for her. i'm 6inches when i'm erected and the girth is 1.5 and i have still got my forskin. will it put her off when she ... (85 words)

How to know if he's the "one"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an important question.. How do you know when you've found the right guy? How do you know that you've found the person you can spend the rest of your life living happily with? I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now. We've never progressed even as... (513 words)

Help! Why is it so hard to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (deep breath) this guy been my world, my best friend, my everything for 2 years and 3 months. Our break up was not formal' i text him "i need space " and then he just say "yeah if thats what you want so i will give it to you" its not my intention to hurt him' i dont understand ... (125 words)

We're splitting up because I"m going away to college but I feel so upset about it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Im going to university next month and my boyfriend and I are splitting up. trouble is I don't want to. We're basically splitting up because he feels as though i'll regret having a boyfriend at uni and he's a lot older than me so he's already been through it. M... (225 words)

Sick from finding out ex cheated on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I hope someone can offer some advice. After a very difficult off and on summer, my girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me completely, telling me she had no feelings for me. She moved on to another guy almost immediately, and that was hard enough to picture. However, ... (232 words)

Both guys have good and bad points. Do I pick one of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up just over a month ago because we continually argued, he always flirted with other girls and to the point where I had enough and ended it. I think the saying 'You never know what you've got until its gone' hit him. I asked for a break from ... (500 words)

I cant just put my life on hold, do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey my girlfriend and i have been together for 1yr and 4 months and about a month ago now she asked for space it killed me that she wanted it i thought everything was good. within the one month she only spoke to me a couple of times but now she dosent even text or call i know ... (152 words)

Did I just complicated my life ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm not so happy with what's happening between me and my gf (girlfriend), and kinda stuck, and don't know who's fault it is, or is it normal between us. But i guess i just lay it out here so someone might be able to help me with a suitable solution. Here goes, ... (606 words)

Should I tell my b/f I watch porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I watch porn and i just want to know is it okay?? My boyfriend dosnt know. should i tell him. I have been masterbating for ages and is it wrong still my bf dosnt know about this. Should i wait a bit longer to tell him any of this stuff let him grow on it Help!... (57 words)

Does a girl's voice tone change when she talks to a guy she has a crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I like who I think likes me back. Among the things she does that makes me suspect this is that her voice tone changes when she talks to me in comparison to other people. She seems to speak with a much softer tone and her words seem to drag out and be ... (129 words)

Gay? Or just a teen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm worried. i like to watch gay porn, i get arroused by men's penis's. i've joined gay chats and talk, jacked off to the dirty talk, watched tehm on web cam, wanted to do things, but i dont real slightly attracted to them at all, in the way like kissing them, or dated t... (64 words)

I want my wife to perform anal sex on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, I'm a married man and I would love to receive anal sex from my wife. I have secretly tried while masturbating by using my hands and dildos. I want my wife to use a strap on dildo and do me. How do I approach het about this with her not being into kinky sex. Does this make ... (60 words)

How do I know what I am?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I know if I'm gay, bi, or straight?... (10 words)

I caught him cheating for the 3rd time! He says he won't do it again?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i had a relationship for 3years with a guy.i love him very much and had changed myself so i would get along with him.but he never seem to be pleased no matter wat i do for him. he says he loves me too but the problem is that he keeps on cheating. i caught him cheating for the ... (123 words)

I want to break up and he said that "You can't get by without me"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age - Some advice please from you aunts,I have been in a relationship for many yrs with someone. but i feel it's going nowhere and i want to end it. so i told this other person today and his response to me was I don't believe you can get by without me.has this guy got a big ego or ... (97 words)

He can't leave my mind, love is blind maybe??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It is kinda long, but I need help. I am going insane!! I was w a guy for 4 yrs, i broke up with him about 5 times while feeling like there was someone better out there and that I wasn't happy. How he treated me: Gave me everything my heart desired, tried to tell me how to ... (361 words)

I keep having this dream! What does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, once again I must come to this site for help with a problem that may or may not be related to a relationship. I've come here to find out. I could use all of the help I can get. This may be long, so just warning you. Okay here goes... I'm 17. I've taken four years of cl... (1103 words)

I've had sex but never had a real boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Now its been over a week since me and this other guy have been talking. And I have a quite embarrassing comfession to make. Although I have had sex and have had many boyfriends..I haven't had a REAL boyfriend. You know the ones who take you out on date, and the type you can ... (250 words)

Both men have hurt me and I just want to kick them both out of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age - I feel in love with this guy when I was 13, we went to church together and was boy friend and girl friends until we were 16 and he got married to another girl and he broke my heart. I meet another guy in feb and he ask me to marrie him in may and we got married in july we had ... (376 words)

Confused about which one to date!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok um 21 n I lasted with my ex which now is 26 let's call him "joe" almost 3 yrs n we broke up like a month ago.. Couple of days later I meet this guy he's 22 let's call him "danny" ok so now were dating n I felt kinda guilty 4 moving on so fast but its not like I did it 2 b ... (160 words)

Is he just that busy? Or just blowing me off?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've known of the guy in question for several years. He is pretty close friends with some acquantinences of mine. (they are just acquantices, i dont feel comfortable making them privy to this, so asking for their help is OUT OF THE QUESTION) All i've ever heard are nice ... (582 words)

Cheated on my wife or not?!

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am married and despite the fact that I love my wife very much, I seem to be attracted to other girls as well. Not to the extent of getting to know them or get physical with them though, just simply having a good look at them. I am not a pervert or hyper sexual person and ... (301 words)

My wife is out drinking with the girls AGAIN, while I watch the kids...

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So my wife is out with her girlfriends once again, while I watch the kids. She will come home late, drunk, saying how much she loves mje, passing out midsentence. She's doing this more and more. I would say at least once a month now. Some of the other girls leave earl... (242 words)

Every time I snoop I find things that I wish I wouldn't find

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a long story. I've been married for 4 yrs. I love my husband dearly but about every 2 months or so I get a gut feeling that something isn't right and start snooping. Every time i snoop i always either find text messages to other women or pics of women on his phone. I ... (173 words)

How can I tell if my wife has sexual experiences before me?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - how cani know that my wife had no any sexual relation in past,that he had not done sex before marriage,from her argument i think that she is telling lie.... (29 words)

Question about a friendship proposal

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please decode the following... "While one can never have to many friends, I am afraid it would be pushing boundaries that I just cannot". Very confused and can't quite figure it out. Any ideas?... (34 words)

I want real answers on whether I was adopted or not?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I believe I am adopted. Everytime I start to probe, I don't get any real answers. It is aggrevating me. I was told once when I was younger, and I have lied to my self that it was not true. Now I don't know. I feel like I am being left out in the cold, and I want some real ... (61 words)

We are together after being separated but my wife is very distant now

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12 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - iam a 41 yr married male and have been married for 10 1/2 yrs we seperated for 8 mo and she called me to see if she could come live with me and try to work thimgs out after she had lost her job in arkansasi had moved to indiana and been doing well to get on with my life but ... (331 words)

I don't like sex at all!

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?... (50 words)

Does my bf want another gf???!!?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is looking for a new job so, most probably he'll be moving to another city. He was really upset (since he just lost his job and also his ex who works with him isn't really friends with him anymore) and asked me if I would remain friends with him even if we ... (225 words)

I lied to her about many things and if she ever finds out the truth she'll be very hurt

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 21 years old. 9 months ago i started a relationship with a 18 year old girl, at the beginning i tought i wouldn't fall in love for her and that neither she would, therefor i lie to her and prettended to be another person since the beginning, i lie to her in so many ways, ... (192 words)

I fell in love with my best friend's girlfriend.

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About two years ago, I went away to university with a three other friends who are all girls (for the sake of the story, lets call them Jane, Mary and Ann). Maybe two years before that, I thought i was falling for Jane even though i was in a relationship already with someone who ... (839 words)

Caught between a friendship and something else

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12 August 2010 (F)

- Please bear with me- this is pretty long. Basically I met a guy online by chance on fb and we hit it off really quickly and we have really similar interests too. (I'm 18, hes 24) But pretty much from the start we knew he would soon be moving out of the country for his job... We ... (742 words)

LDR worries that he is cheating on me

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been in a LDR for a while now. I love the guy to pieces, really, I do. But, he and I talk on the phone almost everyday, and he always says, "I would never cheat on you." I'm starting to not believe that. He told me that his ex girlfriend is obsessed with him, and is ... (303 words)

Do guys remember the little things like girls do?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I as a girl have noticed that when a girl likes a guy she'll remember all the little parts. I remember everything. Almost every line he's ever said to me. And it's not like I obsess over them or write them down but I remember all the little things about him too. Buy guys never ... (70 words)

Urinary tract infections

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so I gotta question about Urinary Track Infections... well I'm going on like my 3rd one!!! does anybody know how to not get them?? I was told to drink ALOT of water and not alot of dark soda, well that hasn't worked. Could I get some help?... (53 words)

Life ruined because of my ex

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at a total breaking point. I have lost over three years of my life to a man who has NEVER been faithfull, honest, or remorseful. He was only ever sorry he got caught. The begining of our relationship when I was 20 (I am almost 24) I knew he had a long term gf of 4 years ... (1154 words)

Is it possible for a female to have an orgasm the 1st time she has sex?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so this is kind of an embarrassing question, but here goes. I've heard that for a female, the first few times she has sex, she won't necessarily orgasm. But what I was wondering, was if you were to have your first time with someone you were truly in love with (married... (106 words)

My boyfriend's overprotective family!

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have have a boyfriend, and we're both in love. The only thing that is making out relationship hard his his over protective mom and grandparents. A few days ago I was hanging out with him and his friend in my boyfriends sun room, and we were on the couch together cuddlin... (123 words)

Should I do what's best for me, or what's right?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To get right down to it, I am in love with a guy and I am 100 percent sure I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. We dated, broke up, dated again, and broke up because he could never make up his mind whether or not he wanted to be with me. My feelings for him... (343 words)

Where should I draw the line with this needy, female friend of my husband?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 year old woman and my husband has recently ran into an old classmate at our girls softball game. He has been exchanging emails and calling each other everyday. My question is where do I draw the line. He insists they are. Only friends and 15 years ago they had a one ... (148 words)

He doesn't have a job and asks me for money, it is because I'm his girlfriend?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I meant this guy, who is 30 years old. He recently lost his job. We have been dating for 5 months. I am confused because of the simple fact that he asks me for money. I am not sure if he is trying to use me, or because I’m his girl he feel as though I should help him out. . ... (93 words)

Wanting to have sex, but want it to be with someone I'll always be with

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first have sex with someone I want it to be with someone who I'm going to spend the rest of my life with, I want to have sex with my boyfriend what should I do?... (37 words)

Aggressive boyfriend when angry. Should I try to help him? Or leave him?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my bf get in little petty arguments he tends to get a little aggressive..he starts to push me and get in my face..recently he actually put his arm on my throat wanting to choke me..i love him and i know that he has a problen with his anger but i dont know if it ... (74 words)

I'm 21, He's 58 and been divorced 3 times! Could we be happy together?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship with a 58-year old man. I just turned 21. We've been together for 7 months, and most of the time I think our relationship is very good. We are very comfortable with each other and have a great sex life. This is the happiest I've ever been in a ... (134 words)

Is it weird I'm in love with someone four times my age?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid I was wondering if this is weird or not. Well I just started a new job at my local convienence store. My boss is really nice and I started to like him about 3 weeks ago. But now I have fallen in love with him. The weird part is that he is 51 and I am 13. Is it weird... (70 words)

Is she no longer interested or does she want me to do something special?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need help with handling a relationship situation. I recently met an american, latina girl in Pennsylvania. She just came back from visiting the University I attend in South Africa. I am an african from South Africa. We are both working in geology and g... (517 words)

How can I get over the obsession with his past?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with the same guy for over a year, and we now live together. I am extremely sad and jealous over his previous relationship. He had wanted to marry this girl whom he lived with for over two years, but she rejected him and crushed him. He gave her everything he had. I ... (300 words)

I want my boyfriend to know the real reason why I shut down, but I'm scared..

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, i have been with my boyfriend for a long time and i love him with all my heart, just he doesnt know what happend to me when i was younger (14) and what happend with my ex before i met my boyfriend now. well basically when i was 14 i was raped by a boy in my class, and i ... (308 words)

Should I be honest and just tell him I'm really struggling with BJ's now?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all! so ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and i love him very much.. sex is great. but there is one thing that recently that i havent been so big on.. and that's him coming in my mouth. i used to not mind at all.. but it makes me gag now because of the taste. ... (139 words)

My wife is helping her sister cheat!

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is helping her sister to have an affair. What does that say for my wife and our relationship? I'm very upset about this, should I be?... (28 words)

Conflicting stories made me not trust him so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thank you for reading this question. I met a chappy online. We connected on a level over the internet and the phone. We met. Physically he is similar to my ex, both 'not-my-type' as in tubby and my height. He looked like a larger version of his photo, but otherwise ... (400 words)

Should I be nice? Or let her have it and cause trouble?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a girl for a while. she became my best friend also very close relationship . she gave me the friend talk for those that have been following . I bought her a tiffany co bracelet with alot of charms for other things and special occasions. the bracelet is about 1500 ... (362 words)

Her text message said "no more two timing" Did she cheat?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people... So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 3 years. Some people think that's amazing for teenagers lol. Anywayz, I almost don't want to ask this cause I love her so much. But I think she's double-dated/ cheated on me at least once in our relationship... (268 words)

3 out of 4 weeks every month I'm a pain in the ass!

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Thanks in advance. I really hope to get a response to this because I'm totally lost with whats going on here. Well, I'm completely screwing up my relationship because of my extremely unstable, uncontrollable emotions. I started to notice a pattern in my behavior last year. I ... (378 words)

Why do women say they like a nice guy, but let their actions show they like to be treated badly?

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12 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have spent many hours just sitting and listening to women talk. Sometimes because I'm stuck in a situation where I'm the only guy in the room with a bunch of women, sometimes just trying to get an insight into the female mind. One thing I have heard over and over in the ... (216 words)

When do girls stop developing?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m 18 and never had good sex Ed so i was wondering for a girl...when do you stop developing? x... (20 words)

I fantastize about ugly old dirty fat men! What is wrong with me?

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12 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I feel as if I am abnormal...I am a 23 year old girl and in a good relationship yet the only thing that really turns me on is if i fantasize about much older, ugly, fat dirty men. I dont know why this is and it makes me feel like a freak. I would never be attracted to ... (175 words)

Married with 2 kids but interested in men

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12 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am a married man with two kids, but I think I'm atleast bi curious. I have strong urges to find out what it's like to be with another man.... (30 words)