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writes: A friend of mine has been flirting with me a lot lately, and i don't just mean casual flirting, i mean things like talking about what we used to do in bed etc... we used to have a casual thing going on last year. He has a girlfriend, and i feel bad for her because i know it's not just me he flirts with like this as he's also done it to someone else i know. He recently asked if i wanted to have sex with him "one last time" i obviously said no, well do you think i should tell his girlfriend or just stay out of it? I don't personally know her or anything. He text me and a friend of mine on the same night asking to for sex, this friend rang me the next day and told me. I mean, what is he playing at? He has a girlfriend!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Nobody ever regretted taking the high road.
Good choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone. I think i will just stay out of it as it will probably back fire if i say anything.
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reader, spiderweb  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Yeah, stay out of it. He's a rat. Avoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe weren't discussing sex. He sent me a text asking me to sleep with him, there was no discussion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Yeah just not go therw with him. She will eventually catch on to him and find a txt message or email or something. If she was your friend too that's different. I'd say something then. But for now just tell him he needs to either commit or let his gf go.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Stay out of it. Since she doesn't know you she probably won't believe you. Then if she asks him about it he can always hit her with this Classic line...
"Don't believe her baby. She's crazy! She just wants to break us up because she wants to be with me"
He'll slip up one of these days and she'll find out. I just don't think it should be you telling her.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (20 August 2010):
 I vote for "stay out of it". Many times even though you have good intentions, YOU end up looking like the bad guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not flirting with him, i don't get involved with people's boyfriends.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 August 2010):
Yikes. Normally I'd say to stay out of it. The reason is that it's your word against his, and he likely has more credibility in her eyes than you.
However, you have a text as evidence. If you and your friend both have these, then I think you'd be doing her a huge favor showing them to her. Nobody wants to hear that their significant other is up to no good, but in the long run she'll probably at least appreciate the effort. Afterall, he's a jerk who's tapping his resources to cheat on his GF.
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reader, Georgiebbb +, writes (20 August 2010):
 You should definatly tell her... she has the right to know, and it will hurt more 4 her 2 find out herself than u telling her...:\
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): With you wanting to inform the girlfriend and you don't even know her, it could back fire and she may have rage against you thinking that you are just trying to hit on him. Alot of GF turn a blind eye to that. You won't get anything out of exposing the truth to the GF. With that being said, you should just stay out of it and if the BF keep on with his antics then she'll find out eventually because what happens in the dark will come to the light.
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