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I'm crazy about this boy, but my cousins keep trying to steal him from me

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29 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so there's this guy I'm crazy for and I'm not sure if he likes me back and my cousins keep trying to 'steal' I'm from me . And me and him are going to the movies to see the last exercism which should be great. But everybody is fight for him and it's bothering me. He doesn't ... (144 words

How can he know he likes me THAT quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'd love some advice, please. So I've been single for 9 months after breaking up with my bf of 8 years after he cheated on me. I have not been interested in dating anyone else in that time. Last night, my best friend (f) invited me to dinner with her and one of her male ... (229 words

We live together but spend our holidays apart, no family visits. I am angry, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been living with my bf for about a year now. We've been together for 5 years now. We are both from California, but we live in New York now 'cause he is working in NYC and I moved in with him.. The problem is that every time we come back to california to visit our ... (287 words

He wants me to be a housewife without marrying me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - My bf and I have been dating for 5 years. I moved about a year ago to where he lives to be with him. We've been living together for a year now. However, we are fighting a lot. We seem to disagree on a lot of things. He gets mad at me for not cleaning; and I am mad at him ... (189 words

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby together. He expects my ex ... (262 words

I can't stop fantasising about my wife having sex with another man!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - I can't stop fantasizing about my wife having sex with another man.I've asked Her but She's afraid it might ruin our marriage.I think about this everyday. How do I move on ,or better still how do I convince My Wife?... (40 words

I got asked to homecoming by the wrong guy and don't want to go but I said yes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I know- this may just seem like typical high school drama, but it's indeniably important to me. So please answer seriously. The background: I'm in 11th grade. A boy who is also in 11th grade(Guy A) and I are pretty good friends and I'm pretty sure he likes me, which ... (690 words

My boyfriend has pictures of naked girls on his phone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Long Story: Please Help! so on thursday that just passed me and my boyfriend were hanging out and me being a girl went through my boyfriends phone and i went to his images and i saw something very surprising i found 2 pictures of a naked girl the 1st pic the girl was ... (263 words

I ain't playing games with her. I want answers from her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hey, I'm 27 and have a 20 year old gal who it appears that only I refer to 'girlfriend', I never actually heard her saying in front of other people that I'm her boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months, and she's Danish. We really clicked, I think. So I had really ... (406 words

What would be considered to be a serious relationship for high school students?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - What do you consider to be a serious relationship ? For a teenager that is. I am not really sure if you would consider my relationship serious. Even though like my mom does, his family does. But sometimes it's iffy, like we will one day hangout and watch some movies with him ... (143 words

We fight we lie, we make agreements and break them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - is it normal for me to have an argument with my boyfreind and then tell him im cheating on him and he keeps cummin back to me . then we have an agreament that we wont go out without eachother cus i am scared hell get with other people but then i break it and go out anyway but ... (73 words

I cheated on my boyfriend with my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - So a few weeks ago, I went to visit my cousin who lives in another country. I haven't seen him in 2 years and we are really good friends even though we haven't had much facetime (we've lived in different countries our whole lives). During my visit, we held hands, made dirty ... (133 words

Pregnant and the father is cheating and unsupportive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok, I'm 22 and pregnant with twins. I also hav a 8 year old son. Right now my life is crazy,and I'm hoping not 2 lose my mind. My boyfriend at first was there 4 me. Now that I'm 4 months pregnant he jus doesn't care at all. He's cheating, doesn't call 2 c if were ok, doesn't ... (195 words

I am so insecure I beleive no matter what I do I am going to fail

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - WARNING: long post! How should I begin? I'm a very insecure person. I lack self-confidence, I'm suspicious about things (almost paranoid), I feel ugly (even if people around me tells me I'm cute or hot), I feel clumsy, I feel like no matter what I do, it will be a c... (1104 words

What's it like losing your virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - so im talking to this guy about having sex with him so i can have a first time. i really like him but i dont think he feels the same way.. he is only 2 years older than me. should i have sex with him? he is in college and im a junior. and how bad does sex hurt? when your ... (71 words

How do I interpret these actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age - Please help me interpret this guys actions. Me a guy last November at a restaurant, he live five hours away. He flirted with me and we went out once. He came into town several times and asked to get together but did not follow through.. There was no sex involved. After that he ... (206 words

I want to help him out but I don't know how to.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - well theres this guy i have always been pretty close to, we have always been good mates but i never thought it was anything more... That was until one night at a mates house we slept together(he was my first), he was really nice and made me feel really comfortable at t... (292 words

I give her all I can but I am at my breaking point.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hello all not sure who im talking to! OK here goes, I am 39 my partner is 29 we have 3 children all aged under 10. I loved this woman with all my heart, i gave her everything. For the past 2 years my partner has changed, she wont come near me in any way, she gets drunk ... (542 words

Could I be pregnant? I'm crampy AFTER my period!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have question and im curious... can u really help me please? i start my period on 17 of aug and finish on 23 or 24 of aug this month and i had sex with my boyfriend 4 days after my period and i had sex on 28 of aug this month and my question is can i can get pregna... (110 words

Long distance confusion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - In short, I met an American during 3mths over there (I'm in uk) and now I've had to return home due to my visa. He was charming, a gentleman, lovely and funny but totally incapable of expressing an feeling. He cried at the airport when I left but since then all he's done is ... (204 words

I'm in love with a guy who is way out of my league

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have fallen in love with a guy whose waaaay out of my league,i love the way talks,smells and everything about him.we go to the same schl and God knows i can't control myself,my sis told his best f. and he want's to tell him about it.what do i do ,HELP!... (58 words

My selfish husband, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - [MOD NOTE: OP's OWN TITLE] Recently I moved to a new state because my Husband is the military. So he refuses to teach me how to drive. I am city girl, I never expected to have to get my license as I rode the bus/train in NYC. So when our move happened so OUT-OF-THE blue bec... (126 words

help with my "squirting"issue

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - My question is about squirting. I know there is a bit out there on this subject, but nothing I've found that really tells me what to do if I've been having g-spot orgasms for years. So to be more clear, I've been having g-spot orgasms for a while, but I've always held in the s... (189 words

Still alone and still visiting prostitutes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well here we go.. I posted on here previously about a problem i had. So lets start form the beginning and hope someone can give me a little insight or advice. Well before (and still) i felt very lonely (i was at uni a bout a year ago, never had a gf or many friends... Beca... (479 words

How do I stop him from ruining his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Please help everyone! I'm in a pretty tough situation. My best friend and me have fallen out because he admitted that he felt for me as more than just a friend, but i already had a boyfirend. I tried to handle the situation the best way i could, but he didn't take it well at ... (356 words

Why is my cum green?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - ok so like my cum came out light green why whats going on ,what is it help... (17 words

Which guy should I choose , if any?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - What do you do when you have several guys that like you? I am a 20 year old junior in college, and I'm really not sure what I should do about these guys. The first one is a guy that goes to my college with me; he's an international student and can speak English pretty w... (232 words

I am in love with a woman who is in love with a man that has passed away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - i am in love with a woman that is in love with a guy that died in a car accident. She knows that i am in love with her and o told her to move on but she says that she doesn't want to forget him. What i have to do so that i get a chance with her? Please answer because it is very ... (68 words

What is myth and what is real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm really interested to know, if a man in their 50 s are highly suspectable to become impotent. I, in my twenties, and my boyfriend is 56. I love him, he is great lover, he can do it twice a day, and he wants all sort of things from me. Like blow-jobs,and so on. He has a very ... (186 words

I think my daughters friend was sexually molested

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age - is this normal? My daughter who is nine had her ten year old friend over the other day. They were playing on the slip and slide in the backyard. I looked out in the backyard and the ten year old is sitting with her legs spread with a big smile on her face and took the hose and ... (141 words

My ex friend's man keeps hitting on me ,how can I tell her and have her believe me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - A few months ago my friend met a new fella who seems to be really nice. I'm really happy for her cuz shes had a run of bad luck with men over the years. We went out on friday night and me and my friend fell out. I walked off to go home. Her fella followed me and during an ... (123 words

I think I am in love with a girl I consider my sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there world, i am actually a confused soul...and i need help to figure out my problem. quite recently, i made friends with a senior of mine in college, who used to intimidate me.. we grew close and soon we called each other sisters. thats how we were, would text, call... (169 words

Is there some solution that won't rip apart lives and destroy families?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - This question requires a lot of backstory...I think I'm honestly mostly just asking it for the benefit of having written it all down somewhere, but I'm asking it none the less. I tend to be verbose when I write…I hope this isn't too long. I'm recently (less than 6 months) m... (1419 words

Love won't let me leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with the man I absolutely love and adore for 2 1/2 years. When we met he was married with 2 children. His wife he claimed he was never in love with. They married young and he said he really only married her because he felt sorry for her, and the ... (1088 words

I haven't had sex in over a year and am getting worried

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am 25 and I haven't had sex in over a year. I also have never really had a relationship (unless u count my first one of a few months with a guy who turned out to be gay or a few month long distance thing). I am overweight nd always have been but I think its gotten worse bec... (142 words

I will not make him marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - When my boyfriend and I first got together, he said he didn't think he would ever get married. A while into the relationship, we talked about it as a possible option for us. Well, we got engaged July 9th. I was the one who asked and he said yes. It was romantic, he cried a ... (240 words

What does it mean "I think I like you"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I went on an amazing date had fun and everything. The next day I asked him if he liked me and his response was "I think I like you" what does that mean?... (34 words

She claims she only lied the 3 times I found out about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - Sorry for length :( Alright, SO I was with this girl for 1 and a half years. She was my first love and I really did care for her. About 8 months into it I had found out in the previous months that she had messaged a guy"J" on facebook and given him her number. When i foun... (1113 words

We had sex and now he treats me like crap

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he started acting up. he told me ... (202 words

How can I get rid of karen's influence without being the "you can't see her" guy...?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I recently met a wonderful woman about two months ago. We clicked from the very start finishing each others quotes, love the same music and movies, sports teams etc. etc. My family has met her and my mom is head over heels for her. I also met her family and her ... (1610 words

I can't stand the sight of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, Me and my ex broke up in November last year, it was pretty nasty and involved him cheating and me walking in on it. Since then I have moved on and dated a couple of other guys etc. However this afternoon I was walking though a shopping centre and saw someone who look... (175 words

I cannot live like this any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have ben involved with a married man for 6 years. We are both married. I have 2 children in high school. I have told my husband that our marriage is over once the kids leave home - we are civil. My lover's children are college graduates but still depend on their parents ... (168 words

Classy photos just for me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I want to take boudoir style photos of my self, because i think they are really classy. I want them just for me the only problem is that I am only 16 and is it really that wrong to want to take photos just for me? That are very classy photos? ... (51 words

I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 51-59 - I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one? I think all that talk when I was a teenager back in the mid 80/s about AIDS put me off for life!!!!... (33 words

Girlfriend thinks its ok to push my buttons, treat me badly and then break up with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 yeare. the last three have been on and off. We break up and then get back together. I have done nothing less then shower her with love and affection. I treat her very well, she will tell you that. However, she has anger issues, she has ... (208 words

She wants to try oral sex but then again she doesn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend won't let me eeat her out because she says she don't know when to stop, she is afraid that she will have an orgasm and she says she will het too wet... What do I do, she also says she wants to try it out, so im really confused. I want to try it!... (58 words

Boyfriend says he has waited long enough but I don't want to lose my virginity

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - what should i do?i dont wanna lose my virginity. i am 22 years.and i am in relationship from past 5 years.me and my b.f have done oral sex many times.but now he wants me to lose my viriginty for him and i dont wanna lose it before my marriage.my b.f says that he already ... (94 words

Why do I enjoy cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've been with my boyfriend (23) for 7 months and in the past 2 weeks I've cheated on him 3 times with 2 different people. Once was just kissing, 2nd time was kissing and "touching" and the 3rd time I had sex with someone else... I don't WANT to cheat, but I end up ... (80 words

Why do guys feel the need to lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok,so i just started dating this guy. Granted I have been seeing him for almost two years, but we finally said we would try a "serious relationship". Everything was going good, up until a few days ago, when we had a date planned. So he calls in cancels, says he has to work the ... (302 words

I'm always the backup if things don't work out with his girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi, i've got a, i suppose, small problem. a really good friend of mine who i have always had strong feelings for, keeps going out with other women. not that i overly mind, he's entitled to go out with who he pleases. but they all keep treating him terribly then bitch... (211 words

When things are good between us, they are very good. But when they are bad , they are awful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Iv been in a relationship with this guy for the past year. He is a nice guy and i do like him...but the problem is that we end up fighting a lot, most of the time. Tiny matters escalate into ugly spats, and it gets really unbearable at times. I have a very strong personality, ... (207 words

Big tummy equals small penis?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear cupid.please give me a clarity of this: are men with bigger bellies/tummy/stomach have a small penis size?the reason im asking is i hear people gossiping about it and a boy who is 'into' me now has a biger belly.whats yo experience on this.please forgive me if this is ... (56 words

I stupidly love a married man. How do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 51-59 - I met a married man in my local pub a couple of years ago. We struck up an instant, flirty friendship and that continued for ages. Just recently things have progressed and we have had sex. I don't ring or text him and we never arrange to meet, it is just grabbed moments. ... (165 words

LDR issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 51-59 - It's been 9 mths. I'm in my first long distance relationship and that's one issue. The other is he constantly throws in my face that he need's to be number one- and that means before my 16 yr old son - in my life. He said to me bout 2 mths into it, "I know I can't be number ... (661 words

I'm afraid women won't be interested in me because I'm still a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

29 August 2010 (M - What type of women hate virgins? I'm 23 and although still fairly young I always have this fear that I'll end up still being a virgin at 30. My fears are based on the fact that if I meet a girl who i care about, she'll reject me on that basis because I inexperienced, and she'... (178 words

How can I deal with my family falling apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Uhhh hey, I'm sorry if this is the wrong site but it's kinda a relationship problem, with family? Anyway, my family is on the edge of completely falling apart. I moved away from my parents house when I just turned 16, to look after my grandparents after my gran had a mild ... (486 words

Boyfriend says that if I don't do what he wants then I should leave

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am 19 years old and m having relationship with a guy who is 26 years old. we met each other around 3 years ago on a social networking site and den after chatting for about 3 months, v met each other. earlier v used to have a stable n a calm relation but now evryday is getting ... (172 words

I'm in love with a youtube sensation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - I really need help on this issue I have. I'm a 17 year old male, and I'm gay. I've dismissed the idea of love to focus on my school work, but during early this year I fell in love with a youtube sensation. I really love him, I really do. When I first saw him I knew it was ... (169 words

Phone sex turn ons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - What's the best way to turn on a guy during phone sex? ... (12 words

We are both 14, had a miscarriage. Should we try again to have a baby?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend are both 14 and are madly in love. weve been together for about a year now and had protected sex a few months ago. she ended up having a miscarriage and that made us both completely sad. :( We love eachother alot and wanna have a baby together. people judge ... (121 words

Our baby is 6 months old and my girlfriend wants another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M - hi my GF is wanting another baby but i dont know what to do as. 1. neither of us have jobs 2. she has realy bad PND 3. finds it hard to cope with our son 4. i think she also had PTS 5. doesnt do much with our son now 6. our son is currently 6 months old she thinks havi... (158 words

I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have some underline issues one is he ... (458 words

We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or away but not looking at ... (154 words

Should I consider marriage to a woman if I'm probably gay?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi I am a 23 year old guy and most probably gay. I am predominately attracted physically to men (like 90 %) with the rest for feelings for women :s I have not come out yet, and live in an indian, religous household where being gay is forbidden! However my problem... (208 words

We had sex but she cant remember her last period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - hi i had sex with my gf,but i didnt use condom.i didnt ejaculated in her.i gave her "ipill"a emergency contraceptive pill within 30 mins. i had some secretion on my penis when i entered her is it possible that she can get pregnant. plz. tell i m tensed.she also dosnt rember her ... (71 words

Retroactive jealousy regarding my wife! How do I deal with it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I need to ask you all about my wife. She has a very sexually chequered past that haunts me, but to be honest, at other times turns me on too. What I need to know is how to deal with it and get over it. She is a beautiful woman, 30yrs old now, slim, blonde, sexy etc.... (330 words

Is she just taking needed space or is she going to really break up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now, living together. I love her very much and in the beginning she had nothing but pure joy and love with me. I brought her out of a bad situation and past, one she couldnt ask for anything better. Anyway i would have to say ... (1078 words

How do I dump my violent boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend is a farm boy. He is stuborn very traditional with diffent backgrounds. He knows that a man is a man no one can stand before him. He is aggressive with high temper, when ever we have an argument he will start beating me up. When ever i dump him he will beat me ... (57 words

Are her excuses lame and is she just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been interested in this woman for about two months, she finally got my number and we have been texting for about a month. I told my ex who i had been sleeping with since about a month ago that i was interested in another woman annd now she is hurt because she is in love ... (366 words

Should I break up with my clingy girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - So, I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and I'm starting to wonder if i want to be with her anymore. When we first started dating we would spend every single day together and I eventually started staying at her house every night. I was okay with this because I ... (225 words

The sex with my g/f is very one sided...hers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

29 August 2010 (M age - my girlfriend is not efectionate she does not like sex she does not like to make out and if she has sex and comes first sex is over ... (30 words

Getting married and just found out boyfriend doesn't believe in any kind of birth control!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 August 2010 (? age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I feel like my problem is a bit weird and I don't want to go to my friends or family with this, so I'm coming to you guys. Anyway, I'll be getting married this December. My fiance and I made the decision to wait until our wedding night to have sex for the first ... (273 words

He said to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of one and a half are not together anymore but he told me that he can't say this is really the end but for now it is that he needs a couple of days for only him and if I wanted I could wait and of course I said I will. what should I do? Should I text him or ... (64 words

Should I make a move on my best friend?

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - i love my guy-friend like a brother, hes always been the ONLY guy i have that i can depend on. i've had a little crush on him since we met, and he liked me too but i never acted on it b/c my on/off bf of 3years.(i've known my b-g-f just as long). a friend of ours committed s... (203 words

Ways to make my dog's life happier?

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29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm an aunt here, and it's a great opportunity to help someone else out. I came to this site with a problem of my own and I got some really good advice and I really appreciated the answers-very helpful. Lately, I've had something on my mind, and it's n... (486 words

Stay 'friends with benefits' or ditch him...?

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy about 4 months ago - he fell in love with me, and I had never felt so comfortable with anyone before. Only problem - he's 34, I'm 19. We had what would qualify as a whirlwind romance, however I can never rush into relationships and I refused to be called his ... (195 words

How do I forget?

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29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Is there a way, i can block the memories of my dead lover? It hurts too bad to think of him. I remember his beautiful face and sweet, funny personality. And I miss him painfully. My heart aches so much for him. It's only been 2 months now. It's the hardest thing ever. And I try ... (86 words

Getting my friend some fresh air

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29 August 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I was wondering on how to help a friend find a special someone, or just be more social around girls in general. He's being consumed with schoolwork and classes, but he has a great personality and humor. He's pretty shy around girls, a little nerdy, video game ... (116 words

Married and 2 years later still wondering if I've done the right thing!

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - i've been married to a man for two yrs now n still i'm wondering if i've done the right thing! U c i think i still love my ex to whom i was engaged but he called it off when i was about 3/4 mths pregs with my daughter, he had realised he wasn't ready to b a father! My husband ... (138 words

I am in love with my deceased Uncle's wife! Is this wrong?

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29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi everyone. i have previously posted my question but i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it. thank you very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single since. it happen one night when... (238 words

How do I tell my 3 year old..that my husband isn't her biological father?

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi! I'm 22 years old and married to an amazing man! We have two children together but one is only biologically his! What i want to know is how do i tell my 3 yr old daughter that she has another father, while still making it clear that my husband who has been raising her from ... (96 words

Guys do not like me. Is there something wrong with me?

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - (OP's suggested title) well i am 21 and never had a real relationship i have had boyfriends but they all were abusers and only wanted me for one reason. guys don't look at me though i always have to go up to them. i know im not an ugly person but guys don't talk to me never ma... (187 words

Is he cheating? Is she trying to wait for her chance to be his girlfriend?

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29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - (OP's suggested title) Hi Everyone,I could really use some help, thanks in advance. One of my boyfriends best friends is a girl who he used to be mad about and once slept with. He told me when we got together (2yrs ago) that it was kind of important that I dont have a problem ... (452 words

He takes forever to ejaculate!! What's wrong..is it me?

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - help! me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and everytime we have sex, he takes forever to ejaculate. Is it me ? Am i doing something wrong! He always says he loves it when were done but still it takes awhile... Help?!... (46 words

Knowing that he won't let go of this female friend, hurts me a lot. What should I do?

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29 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - I started dating my boyfriend when I was 19. At the time, still a virgin, and not wanting to deal again with losing a man or constantly fighting over having sex... I agreed to a stupid arrangement. He was able to have sex with other women, so long as I dont know them, dont know ... (497 words

I am 13 and no boys are interested in dating me. Is this normal?

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29 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm a 13-year-old girl and I've never had a boyfriend. Not even a little meaningless one when I was little, and I've never heard of a guy liking me or thinking I was pretty. I'm starting to feel really uncomfortable about it because all of my friends have had boyfriends, and ... (88 words

How do I deal wth my friend..on the phone!?

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29 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey i have a question and i hope you all can help. i have a real good friend who ive been friends with for about 3 years. i have a bf and we have been dating 4 a year so every time me and her are on the phone some one calls on my other line. I tell her to hold on and for some ... (117 words

I'm in love with a boy, who's taken. Help?

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Basically, I've known this boy for a while. I like him, he likes me, but the only problem is he has a girlfriend. We only started out as friends, but then I dunno, I started liking him more than a friend. I never told him this, because I was scared of what his reply would be. ... (182 words

She doesn't understand my problems with the club scene

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29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend likes to go to clubs to dance with her girlfriends and i know she wont dance with any guys. Heres what bothers me though, I dont like her getting all scantily clad and going into a predatory environment. Guys at clubs want to grind there bodies all over girls and ... (137 words

Confused ex-Virgin

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29 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have several questions. I recently had sex for the first time (as in lost my virginity) with my girlfriend, but had difficulty getting the condom off. The first night that we did it, the condom ripped on our second go at it and on the second night they kept drying out. Also, ... (82 words

I don't want to be just an experiment -- is he gay?

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29 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid  I need help. I have a boyfriend who lives with me. He and I met almost a year ago. We met on the job. He transferred from another store. When he first arrived at my store he was not very sociable and everyone thought he was gay. Perhaps it was because of the way ... (414 words

How much space do I give her while she leaves her marriage?

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29 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am in love with a married woman for the last 2 years. I love her and we had talked about a future together. She had almost left once but couldn’t decide to leave…she was too scared. She always said stuff like, I don’t know if I can keep you happy, and I am too scared to ... (447 words

What happened to our sex life?

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29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Look..im very upset.. My girlfriend (I think) is losing sex drive with me...when we first started dating she swallowed and like a little bit of anal. Now 4 years later she will not do any of it...and we haven't had sex in amonth...what is going on?... (46 words

What are some "sexy" tops that aren't a bra.

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okkkkk. So when me and my boyfriend first started going out he told me for his birthday he didn't want anything just me in a thong, and sexy top. well 7 months later here we are and it's his birthday sooo, I have never really tried many tongs so since he's never seen me in on... (123 words

Surely its up to me if I watch porn! Isn't it?

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29 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Men are visual when it comes to sex! Its a fact..so if your girlfriend will not do sertin things in bed then is it really that rong to watch porn? Insted of tryin to make her do sertin things that she don't wanna do I think she should be fine with it. Its not like i do it right ... (95 words

Living without the love of your life...

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29 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. A year ago i moved overseas to the united kingdom. About 4 months after arriving i met my current boyfriend, whom i have been in a serious relationship with for the past 5 months. I love him more than anything, and even just spending one night away from... (258 words

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