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Will he always love me and want to be with me even if he might meet other girls while clubbing?

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beginning of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he lives in Stamford and i live ... (499 words

He got upset that I told his to seek help!!!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a bf and we have been dating for nearly 3 years now. I think that he's the perfect guy for me except he has a problem..he has an anger management issue and he's been trying to get better(he's even taking boxing classes to take away the stress and stuff) but I still feel ... (117 words

My older BF said "I could be your dad...". What's going on??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18, my bf is 34. We've been seeing each other for six months. I'm happy with him and he seems happy too. Lately though, we never seem to go out anymore. We cook at his place, read, watch movies and go to sleep and he clings to me like crazy and when he lets me go a little, ... (203 words

Please advise me on how to get over him.

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need help getting over the one i love. Ive been in love with him for nearly 3 years, i guess its my own fault its gone this far but i thought he felt the same and everyone i spoke to about it thought he did too. We're still friends, hes said he wants us to be good friends ... (488 words

How can I masterbate???

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - What is the best way that a virgin (female) can masturbate....i am SO totally embarrassed...but i have been getting these urges... So...please help :(... (27 words

How can I motivate my GF to lose wight??

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend now for 15 months. She's always been overweight and it did bother me, and I spoke to her about it and she said she would do something about it. She became very motivated in working out and eating right, but as time passed she started losing h... (214 words

Help! My boyfriend just threw and broke my chair! what should I do?

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27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - My bf and I don’t live together but he comes to visit. We have been together over a year. He just came by and we were talking and my daughter called him stupid joking around and tapped his shoulder. He freaked out and was like do something about this now..I sent her in time ... (375 words

Can't figure him out, should I just leave him alone, or what?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Now maybe my first problem is that I'm talking to this guy online. But how many messages do I have to send to him? He never sends me messages (and says he didn't read or get my messages) or starts a conversation with me first. I told him that I was mad at him on his profile ... (389 words

Will she be able to break up with him?

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. She has went through a lot of emotional hurt and once she told me her bf slapped her in past, a few years back. She broke up but patched back with her bf many times. She realises her relationship is unhealthy and has a ... (137 words

Should I go with the flow?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Help.. I'm really confused... I have my someone special right now... I know he loves me too... we kiss, hold hands, hug (but not sex- we're still virgins and are still young to do that) but we're not "IN A RELATIONSHIP"... we've been like this for almost 4 months already and ... (149 words

Separated from my wife -- and enjoying it

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27 August 2010 (M age - My wife and I are separated. I wanted the separation. We both were at fault, but among other things, she was unfaithful. We are going to a marriage counselor. I thought I wouldn't enjoy this time apart from my wife whom I love, but I do. This has shaken up my wife quite a lot... (157 words

I think I'm in love with my therapist

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 51-59 - I googled this topic recently when I started to have strong feelings for my therapist recently. I read all about transference and many other cases where patients have felt these strong feelings toward their therapist so I know it's not uncommon. I am also very familiar with the ... (742 words

Bizarre stories on how you met your significent other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

27 August 2010 (? age 26-29 - I hate the way that most couples meet today. I mean some people go to bars, others meet in the store, some grow up together best friends,introduced by friends,fall in love with their co-workers, ect. But it always seems to be the same way. They ask what each others name are and ... (252 words

He wants to keep me a secret from his friends at work!!

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27 August 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year now. We both tell each other we love each other. In public he is very affectionate and treats me very well. We've both met each other's families, etc. All of his military friends and car-club friends love me. The ... (214 words

He keeps reminding me about things from the past

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have been in a LDR for 3 years now.My guy and I love each other a lot.The problem is that my guy loves dwelling in the past.In the past i was friendly with the guys in school but it was purely friendship and nothing else.it so happened that the guys whom i thought to be ... (177 words

I don't think I'm being treated well in this relationship

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, and things were perfect for a very long time. He was sweet, caring, considerate. Everything that anyone would want in a man. He changed a lot after the first year, though, and ended up turning against me a little. It seemed like ... (307 words

I don't want to ruin it by being paranoid!!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'am seeing this guy and i really like him, problem is i'am really scared of getting into another relationship as all of my past relationships have all ended badly. I'am scared that if i become his girlfriend he will use and abuse me like all of my ex's did. He's a bit of a ... (106 words

Angry at how I've been treated at work

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27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all. I have been misled at work with regards to my job role. I have been with the company for 4 years and i work hard and am told by my manager that I'm an asset to the company. I expressed my interest nearly 1.5 years ago that I wanted a more senior role and I was ... (218 words

Haven't heard from LDR guy in 3 days

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27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Once again I need some help from My Agony Aunts. I'm in a LDR for 6 months now. It has its trials but I love my b/f enough to make us work. Now I have not heard from hi in three days now. No message, phonecall, emails nothing. What in the world is going on with him. I know he ... (93 words

Guy is so distant towards me since we had sex. Did we have it too soon?

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone, Me and my current bf have been going out for about 2 months now, and within the first week we had sex (we had been great friends before that) but ever since that he has been so distant towards me and I don't know what to do!!! I have tried talking to him but ... (77 words

In a pile of debt because of the ex. Are all women like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - I dated a younger woman, I am in my early 30s and she is in her early 20s. When I first saw her I was completely blown away by her and came to love her and her daughter. We were together for 5 years. Recently I found out she was cheating and I had to leave her. However, wh... (150 words

My girlfriend didn't seem too thrilled to hear from me after her vacation--WHY?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just really confused right now. And I really miss my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I are both 20 years old, and we were doing very well before she left for a week long vacation. We've been spending nights together, sharing a lot of intimacy, talking and all that -- it ... (236 words

Having trouble staying interested in straight sex with my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 August 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have been faithful to my wife for the better part of two decades. I love her very much. Physically, however, I find myself having grown very bored with "regular" sex over the last few years. When we have sex, I have to fantacise to get into it. This little charade is ... (308 words

Boyfriend never lets me know where is when late and I'm always afraid of something bad happening!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - My fiance and myself have been together for more than 3 years, lived together for more than 2 and have a toddler and an infant together. He has a full time job, half day on fridays and I am a stay at home mom. he is a good person but really inconsiderate. when i was 5 I w... (271 words

I'd do anything for my child but no one seems to appreciate that or understand!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really am not sure if this is the right place for this. So I am sorry if not. I have been having problems lately holding down a job. I am scared that sooner or later things will start to get pretty bad. I have been lucky in missing bullets for a while. I just don't like... (281 words

Would you tell your current partner about your ex from another race?

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27 August 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi, Just wanted to throw this out there to you guys/gals. If one of yr ex's was from a different race/relgion/country/culture..and your current partner asked you about him/her...would you tell them?..Would you tell them if you were now married?..if not why not. Wou... (72 words

My ex has really messed me up, and used me for sex, how can I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am feeling really distraught at the moment. I broke up with my ex a year ago now, and I still can't get over him. I even went to see a psychiatrist for 4 months after the break up because I was a complete mess. I feel like I still get upset about him every single day. How can ... (405 words

My parents control me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - My I am a 19yr old girl and my parents control me the funny thing is they act as though they are not doin it.My dad alwats says that i could have a boyfriend but not right now and that i dont need a bf right now.My mom is racial and does not like indian ppl.She say nothing ... (336 words

We had an affair, left our marriages, but now she is considering going back to her husband!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

27 August 2010 (M age 51-59 - A bit of a long story but the background is important. I was a happily married man (so I thought) until I met somebody else last year. She was also happily married (her words). Anyway, we had an affair and tried to end it by walking away but we couldn't and ended up ... (401 words

We like each other in a non cousin way

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and I have recently made contact and have been communicating with my male cousin on face book after not seeing him for 23 years. He is 34 now. As kids we were very close and shared a close bond. I have vaque memories of us kissing and remember him toucning me ... (159 words

My girlfriend seems like shes being distant with me (help)

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months now we just got back from vacation had a good time had little fights here and their no biggie but what bothered me is their was barely and sex... she was just about to get her period and she seemed as if she doesnt want to do ... (347 words

I have no self confidence because I am small in height

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi every one i am a guy 19yo and my height is 5`3.4` . i am very depressed from my self , my all friend more then 6` and when i am sitting with them i look like a small kid but i am a student of first year and good in studies , i don't know what to do i am so nervous due to m... (85 words

Cheap places to stay in London?

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27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I was wondering if anyone here knows of any cheap places to stay in London ?. I'm going to see a concert in the Kensington area, it's at the Royal Albert Hall to be more exact, so anywhere that's as close to there as possible would be best. I realize that Kensington is an ... (68 words

How can I stop my husband playing pc games

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27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - i just want to know how can i stop my gusband from playing pc games ... (17 words

I go through the motions and wait till its over, sex is not enjoyable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half. To get straight to the point, our sex life has gone way down hill on my part. In the start of the relationship(yes, I know the "newness" may be gone...)we had sex nearly every day. I WANTED to nearly every ... (1021 words

Role playing for sex, I don't know what to say!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and have been together for nearly 2 years now and although we have a wonderful sex life we have decided that we want to try a little bit of role play. The scenario that we have decided on is boss/secretary (he's the boss and I'm the naughty secretary) and a... (144 words

Too tight, should I get it checked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for awhile now and we have discussed having sex. He's a virgin and I am not, but I'm scared cause when I lost my virginity, it was difficult and very painful. I bled heavily, and continued to bleed for at least 3 days. Every guy I have been with has ... (126 words

Never had sex, hymen broken am I still a virgin?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a girl of 20 i have not had sex since i was given birth to but the last time i visited a gynacologist he told me that my hymen has been broken and each time am trying to go into a sex free relatioship with a guy they always aske if i am stil a virgin i am confus i dont ... (94 words

How do you make up after a fight when you still think the other person is wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm stuck in a horrible horrible place. I am on the verge of tears -- again, just having to right this out. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months TODAY! Should be exciting.. but it's not, because we've been in a not so good place for a couple months now. It's the ulima... (382 words

I feel horrible about my body!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 120 pounds and 5 4. I feel horrible about my body :( yes I talk to a counsler bit I'm too embarressed to talk about it. I hate talking to my boyfriend about it because he doesn't understand. I don't want comments saying thy I'm the right size please because that doesn't ... (67 words

I feel used by boyfriend, don't think he even cares

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27 August 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating D for about one yr and 4 months to date. the first 5 months everything was ok. although he had lost his job within two months of our dating. I had to foot all our dating bills after that . within the first 5 months he disrespected me at a party witha young ... (457 words

Will a cheater change for the right girl?

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27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Will a 30 yr old habitual cheater change when he meets the right girl for him?... (16 words

How can I stop going into a panic over every little thiing?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have lots of panic attacks about the littlest things. I really am not pleased with how I look and sometimes my boyfriend is kinda stuid and makes comments about my body or other girls body. I panic and shut down . Also, my boyfriend watches porn and it makes me feel horrible! ... (89 words

Were we meant to be?

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27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - a friend and i have reunited via facebook and by phone after 14 years apart we both discoveried that we had been searching for each other since 2000 but no luck until recently. I wanted to ask him what our relationship was to him being that we were frinds but we had sex more ... (150 words

Are we rushing things?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I startd seening my boyfrnd early january this year what happend ystday we took a step by trying 2 have sex but i didnt happend a we rushing things or what!we both love each other and the guy spoils me and sametimes i turn 2 feel unhappy!plz help ... (48 words

Horny girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - At what age are girls the horniest? And how can u make a shy guy horny?... (16 words

How to flirt?

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - How do u flirt with guys? I need tips please. Advice, lines, anything. Pleasseeeee! xD... (15 words

Our parents don't want us to be together!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years now and he's my high school sweetheart. We have been thru some really rough times but we always manage to solve our problems. The problem is that now we want to get serious but our parents don't let us because we broke up 2 yrs ago ... (75 words

Flirting friends but does he like me?

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - sorry about the long story but i really need some advice.here goes: i have this friend lets call him f.f and i have been friends for about 3 or 4 years.in the beginning of our friendship i had the hugest! crush on f.he found out but we were both so shy nothing ever... (275 words

I don't know if I like my boyfriend

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure if I like my boyfriend I have been with him for almost 3 months and we still haven't gone out on a date.He doesn't tell me that I'm pretty or anything.He doesn't act like a boyfriend should. I'm not going to lie I have hung out with other guys and yes I have kissed ... (111 words

HELP PLEASE? Can you love someone too much?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - HELP PLEASE? Ive been with my boyfriend for 2and a bit years we life together and space all our time together i love this and really depened on him for happieness if hes not with me im sad and fell very depressed and lonely he says im controlling and he needs space but it hurts ... (122 words

Should I try to forget our little "fling"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - I work at the front desk of a hotel and about a year ago a guest asked me out to dinner. Even though I found him incredibly attractive I had to say no as I was in a relationship. I have thought about him quite often since then and I always check to see if his name is on the ... (321 words

Confused about my sexuality and highly attracted to very feminine boys

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27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey there! I'm a 15 year old girl and I highly question my sexuality.. I really am attracted to guys with feminine looks and I really enjoy reading gay stories (I know it's just weird but it's hot too LOL).. I have never gone with a guy on a date, and I'm a virgin in all ... (118 words

This is a train that has gone round and round for far too long

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Really In need of help. I have been with my girlfriend for four years, through this she has cheated multiple times, and ive still stayed. Now shes pregnant and about five months in, ive been there for the entire pregnancy and Im always sad. I really love her and I want to be... (282 words

My Ex-Fiance left me but I want her back!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 August 2010 (M age 41-50 - we were engaged for about 2 years and we were together for 6 years and one day my fiance just told me that she could not be with me anymore because of trust issues. i was devastated i couldn't eat i couldn't sleep i was so depressed i had moved all the way from chicago to los ... (458 words

Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy?

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid.! Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy? i personally think not but alot of people disagree with me so i want your opinion please. Remember she's single but she messes around with ALOT of guys. Thanks :)... (49 words

Is this a little odd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - This isn't really a love question as such, but it involves a girl so I thought this was as good a place to ask it as any. So sometimes I play a particular online game. Not a lot but maybe once or twice a week I will play for a little bit and chat to some people. Earlier ... (271 words

Please help!!! Depression hurting me physically and mentally!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] I'm 13 years old and going into 8th grade. And I want to know why I don't feel pretty??? I get compliments from my friends and they say that I'm beautiful, but I don't get why they think that. They are pretty that I am. Especially my best friend. She ... (191 words

Want to become a new, improved version of myself

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - I want to be the kind of girl that guys chase after but they cant have. Supposedly im pretty enough for it but when a cute guy likes me i chase them then they lose the attraction. How do/can i not do that? I also want my boobsand butt to be bigger. How do i do that? My boobs ... (106 words

Boyfriend's best friend passed away in an accident. How do I help him deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three years literally just lost his best friend to a drunk driving accident (it happened last night). He's not a complete mess over it (not crying or anything) but he's frustrated. Yes, they've been best friends for nearly a decade and a half but they haven't ... (146 words

Have distanced myself from some close friends but don't seem to regret it. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - During this summer I lost a couple of close friends it all seemed to happen so fast. Although I think about them sometimes and good memories we had. I'm not that phased that we're not cool anymore... I sort of feel like... I don't really know how to explain it... just kinda ... (126 words

Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?

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27 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been good. Or at least so I thought..... (800 words

Should I go with my heart or my mind?

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27 August 2010 (F age 36-40 - im so lonely this day i dont know what to do im so undecided i know i love my bf but my mind tells its over he always treat me in a wrong way i dont know what to do i love him so much im scared of lossing him but as the days go by our relationship bacame more disaster im always ... (123 words

Why won't the guy I like look at me?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I thought he took interest in me because he would talk and look at me constantly the first couple of days but he doesn't look at me in the eyes, only when we are alone. But when we are around other girls he looks at their feet or their shirts but not at me, he dosen't even face ... (126 words

Am I an idiot?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both me and the person involved... I... (645 words

Am I going insane? I feel like I'm losing myself

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27 August 2010 (M age 36-40 - Need advice for LDR? Im in my first LDR ever and I have a had a handful of other relationship before this one. Its been successfully moving along for 6-7 months now. I really really like this woman. First of all I don't want anyone bashing LDR on this thread and I just want ... (297 words

I feel I need revenge on him!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys i just got heart broken and im happy that im moving on but i still cant understand y he would leave me FOR HIS FEMALE FRIEND when i was there for him , I PUT UP WITH LOT HIS CRAP AND LIES ! SOMETIMES I FEEL K NEXT MIN IM HURT! I need advice?i feel i need revenge on ... (62 words

How can I win her affection?

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was best friends with this girl 2 years ago.But I wanted to be more than friends with her. Then right before i asked her out some other guy did and she said yes and from what i was told it was cause she didnt think i liked her then. We drifted apart since then but she still ... (110 words

Boys I need your input! what does this mean?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay so me and my bf have been together for 3 years. when we first got together i was 160 lbs. im 5 9 so for my hight thats a little bigger but not fat. now i am 190. i try so hard to be cute for him but i dont feel like its working he doesnt hold my hand anymore and idk thin... (142 words

Was I just a back up if his LDR didn't work out?

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27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi I posted a Q on here a while bk about me and my ex, he walked out in feb and started seeing another woman abroad, but still seeing me, i knew about her but she didnt no he was seeing me but knew i was his partner of 12years (with 4 kids) Well a few weeks ago he told me he wa... (312 words

Why is he choosing to apologize after so long?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, this is going to be kind of a long one...Sorry. Basically I go to college and i was at our student bar one night where i noticed this guy. We started chatting and walked home the same way a few times and really got on and i really liked him. This all went on for a few wee... (402 words

Should I talk to my daughter about her masturbating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - I discoverd my 12 year old daughter is masturbating. I do know its perfectly normal but she is doing it alot I am worried. I dont even know how to bring it up but would it be wrong to say doing it too much can be bad for you? Through advice of a friend she is using objects as ... (131 words

How can I Improve my posture? does it show a bad impact on my personality?

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27 August 2010 (? age 41-50 - how can i improve my posture?walk with bent shoulder just like olders...it shows a bad impect for my personality ?... (20 words

I wonder if my disability is stopping girls from approaching me?

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - I feel like I have a great life, but there's something that is missing min my l I have been struggling to find a girlfriend for the past 4 years and it feels like I'm being hunted down. I know for a fact that I am not such an unattractive guy or anything, but I just have a ... (360 words

I think my boyfriend hates me..so why wont he let me leave?

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. we have gone through some really really hard things together. i have forgivin him for cheating on me...and lying about it and he forgave me for hitting him. which i feel bad for but in the moment i couldnt help it. i have hea... (293 words

Husband cheated on me and now I feel like retaliating with a friend to show him how it feels!

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27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - I recently found out my husband of 5yrs was having an affair with another married woman for a little over a year. To make things worse, let me mention that I was pregnant with our 2nd child and not only did he have the nerve to screw her in MY car, but he took her to our home ... (420 words

Why do all the men in my life turn to porn?

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27 August 2010 (? age 51-59 - LONG story short: My boyfriend is great and I love him dearly. But (there's always a but, right?) I found porn on my computer and now I'm having trust issues. I confronted him and he has stopped (for 8 months now). I just can't quit thinking about how my heart felt when ... (170 words

We're taking a break because we're fighting a lot. But it hurts!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so my boyfriend of 6 months and i just decided to take a little break and see how things go. Since the relashionship got serious we've been fighting a lot. So we both agreed that waiting it out and setting ourselves straight may help make the relashionship stronger. ... (104 words

1st date sex does it ever lead to anything besides sex?

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He's with his friends more than with me. I don't know how to let him know I want to see him more!

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - lately i haven't been seeing my boyfriend much Hes not out with some girl i no for a fact that hes with his friends. Now the one thing i want him to have is a life outside of us. But hes with his friends more than hes with me. I'm not trying to be pushy but I'd really like to ... (213 words

I feel like I've ruined my life for good!

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - I feel like ive ruined my life at such a young age :/ ive done soo many stupid things and its only hit me now how messed up i am.... this year alone, ive had drug issues, stds, abortion and got myself into loads of debt, and ive just realised how much of an idiot ive been, ... (223 words

What does "I'l Try" Mean

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - Today i was talking to this guy called 'james' who i had a thing with about a year ago. We only went as far as kissing as i had stronger feelings for someone else called 'tom' and soon went into a relationship with him. Our relationship wasn't ruined between james and i, and ... (199 words

Tips on how to ask her out

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27 August 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've known this girl for about 4-5 months, we met at college and from the moment she joined our group we got on. The thing is not long after i had a crush on her, nothing to big and i just ignored it as ive had many crushes on girls from my previous class and i knew it would ... (311 words

Why jerk off when you have me?

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27 August 2010 (F age 41-50 - my man and i are very sexually active, but last night when i came home i noticed that he had been jerking off. i walked into our room and he got out of bed an went to the restroom as if he did not want me to know that he was jerking off why is that?... (56 words

I think I'm playing with fire.....

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 5 years and i broke up in March and we are spending the rest of the year apart he, moved out of town so he can get his life together. Before he moved he was "dating" a girl, pretty much staying with her until he left. I know and understand his reasons and the ... (335 words

Father was jailed and now back to his old ways

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27 August 2010 (F age 30-35 - my father was in jail for 16 years and just got out a few months ago and is back to his old ways again. I'm scared to lose him again. we just started reconnecting after i stopped talking to him. He does not realize why I'm so upset with him. i told him how i feel about the ... (90 words

Does he want to leave me for clubbing or does he still want me, but just to go out with his mates sometimes too?

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27 August 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beginning of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he lives in Stamford and i live ... (501 words

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