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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell him I'd like to spend some quality time together WITHOUT his mates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! ,, I love my boyfriend to bits! but he's really close with his guy mates and its hard to get him alone sometimes! i get along with his friends its just sometimes id like it to be just me and him? what should i do? Thanks , x... (64 words)

I feel I will always be second best in his life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heys guys, i was wondering if you can give me an outside opinion... i have been with my partner for around 2 years now and to be honest we didnt start on the best grounds. in the first month of our relationship he has cheated on me with his ex girlfriend but since then he ha... (331 words)

He doesn't seem to miss me at all since he moved away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay well my boyfriend of almost 7 years got a very good job offer sprung on him last week which gave him 2 days to get his stuff packed and move 1200 miles away. before he went we talked about it and decided that i would go down a month after so he would have a chance to set ... (380 words)

Girl I met while travelling... or my girlfriend. Who to choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just come back from travelling for 10 days. Before setting off i had a girlfriend of two months, Whilst travelling i spent an awful lot of time with another girl on the same trip. I feel very strong about her and now im not with her i miss her we both admitted to liking ... (114 words)

Should I help my ex with career at the risk of losing my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, be great to get ur advice on this. Im in a very loving and caring relationship with my boyfriend a year now. im 25 and he's 26. im going into my final year in college stusying animation, and recently have a great opportunity for a great career development. My ex is in ... (295 words)

Sex after dating just 2 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - its bad to have sex with your boyfriend if you have date him only for two weeks?... (17 words)

My boyfriend has turned all distant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years, hes been distancing himself a lot lately, but hes always been quite a distant person. I texed him to ask him what was going on and bluntly asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he replied 'im just not sure at the moment.. i ... (168 words)

My girlfriend masturbates but doesn't want to have sex very much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 19. We've been dating for 7 months and just moved in together 2 months ago. We have had periods where we have had a lot of sex, but here recently it is just about 1-3 times a week, usually on the lower side. The thing that really depresses me is that ... (134 words)

How do we approach our parents with the news I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. we just found out this morning that i am pregnant. it doesn't seem real yet, i feel like its all just a dream.. we're going to take another test tonight and make sure i actually am, but i guess the reason im ... (150 words)

Is she trying to set me up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm not sure if my friend is trying to set me up with this guy or not, lol, although she said she isnt, and i'm not sure how to respond to this email she sent to me today. She said " I will let you know about going to the cinema, i am seeing my boyfriend at the weekend ... (319 words)

So in love with my best friend...

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been best friends with this guy for over 3 years now. He has been there for me through my divorce and my boys just love him. I love him so much and just know that we would have a perfect relationship, however he says he feels the same but just doesnt see us dating ... (130 words)

Does it sound like she might be interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so a couple of weeks ago I met this girl. I have an account on one of these LGBT community sites and occaisonally I get random messages from lesbians or bi girls who mainly live in the same region coincidentally lol and we like talk once or twice but they're never my type and ... (471 words)

Need help with communication issues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a great guy who I met online since April. We live about an hour apart and he lives on base so it's difficult to see each other because of his job in the RAF. Since we have been together he has had to go on operations for a month and then his ... (287 words)

Does it sound like sex is all he was interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - At the beggining of the year i had my first proper relationship with a boy 5 years older than who had a kid from a previous relationship. We were together 2 months and he made me feel really special so i decided to sleep with him. I am moving to Canada with my family very soo... (241 words)

How can I tell them I've changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so during my freshmen year in high school, i have done several dumb mistakes that caused me to get a reputation of a "dick-sucker" or at least that's what i think. The reason why i think that is becuase i gave several guys blow jobs ( yeah i know) and had sex with this one ... (110 words)

My dream date... how can I tell him I want to act it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys please answer this..... Ok everone has a dream date including me. My dream date is walking on the beach with my boyfriend looking at the sunset, sitting on the sand hugging and talking to each other, maybe a kiss here and there, splashing in the ocean :) ok now getting ... (128 words)

I really like that he is finally talking to me like we use to about 7 months ago.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so like somebody that I really like is finally talking to me like we use to about 7 months ago. We were in class and he was teaching me how to do something on word documents. Anyways, he started like poking me and stuff. (were in high school lol hes in 12th and im in 10th) ... (252 words)

He fantasises about having sex with other women as I'm the only one he's slept with...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We have had a rocky relationship. In the beginning he kissed another girl that was wayyyy younger them him. We moved on after that and then a couple years later I found pictures of her on his computer...This really ... (239 words)

Why do these guys abuse???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do men abuse little girls? what makes a man abuse someone? i was sexually molested from the ages of 5-8 and then again from 12-16. why did these people abuse me in each case and why would this have happened during both time periods? i blame myself for what happened but ... (66 words)

Can I see a doctor without my parents knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and live in Canada (Alberta, if it makes a difference). Making the appointment and getting to the clinic isn't a problem; the only thing I'm not sure of is if my parents will receive some type of notification in the mail, like an insurance statement or an annual list of ... (55 words)

Help!!! Am I being selfish by keeping him in my life when maybe he would be better off without me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and me and my friend haven't really been great recently, I guess the most important thing to mention is he's also my ex-boyfriend. He lives more than an hour away and this is one of the reasons we broke up (about a year ago) but I insisted that we stay friends. And we ... (453 words)

Engaged... but I don't love her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, We're engaged for nearly a year now, I like her but I don't think that I love her. We're sexually attracted to each other but other than that we have nothing in common. I told her once that I am not sure where our relationship is heading, she started talking abo... (107 words)

Why would you want to remain friends with an ex if you dumped them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this question has a bunch of answers, but I figured I would ask and see what everyone says. Is it because they were one of your closest friends and you wouldn't want to lose them? Or is it because you want to keep your options open with them in the future? Or do you have ... (487 words)

Girlfriend didn't introduce me to her friends, should I be upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys i just wanna know your opinion about this see my girlfriend and i went to a wedding of her friend. it was all good and steady but when we were about to leave, and as we approached the couple, she chit chatted with her and of course i was just at her back and let... (245 words)

I just need some tips and advice to keep the guy I care about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question. I have this guy I have met back in january. His name is gary. he lives in beaumont tx. I really like him a lot. It's like we've been going through some things and I m doing the best i can. but all I get is nothing but negative feedback all the time. He's a ... (187 words)

Do stretch marks go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I have these weird strech marks on the top of my bread area my upper thiges just random places and it not that Im fat. I'm 5'8 and around 130 pounds but I look 120 what should I do? Will they go away?... (46 words)

Need Age difference advice please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 17 years old and will be 18 in four months. I've been friends with a guy for a while, and things seem to have changed recently. He is 26 years old and he is a really nice guy. He's one of my very good friends. The deal is that I'm attracted to him, and I believe that he ... (112 words)

His mother meddles in our relationship constantly but he's a mummie's boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is there hope?..... Help I'm 44 yrs old I date a man who still lives at home after 8 yrs of dating. He also lies about everything from his thinking he is a celebrity to why he still lives at home. He blames me for all that goes wrong in his life and we obviously don't even live ... (433 words)

Pregnancy and a rash?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is It normal to break out into a rash while pregnant?... (11 words)

My wife's femdom life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, i am househusband, ghar jamai to my wife. She is breadwinner in our family. Her parents have kept enough money for her. She doesn't allow me to do job. I am her male wife. Doing all her house work and leave as her slave. she has made me wear bangles. She has not allowed me ... (140 words)

How would you respond to a person that had a crush on you.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just wondering... how would you respond to someone who tells you that they have a crush on you if you wasnt attracted to them. What would you say? in the nicest way. thanks ... (37 words)

Why is my abusive Ex not abusive to the new girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - well i left my abusive bf(the father of my 5 year old twins)about a year ago and i am lonely and misserable i live at my moms cause i cant afford my own place.my ex has a live in girlfriend and his own apt and he appears to be happy and not abusive to her or her son.and my ... (152 words)

I love my husband but have a crush on a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Help, I love my husband but have a huge crush on one of my friends. I am tempted to cheat only because my husband cheated on me, but Im not going to act upon those feelings I dont wanna stoop that low; the problem is everytime I kiss my husband I am wishing it was my crush... (57 words)

He wants us to get a place together but I'm not so sure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 18 and iv been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years. we started seeing each other in high school and tbh he wasnt my type of guy. i dont no whether i have trust problems or whether its him :/ the thing is i worry a lot but he texts girls but he deletes the texts, also ... (181 words)

How do you know if a condom splits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel a bit embarrassed asking for advice but here goes, I have been seeing this girl for a few months and we both want to sleep together, she has had a lot of boyfriends where I have only slept with a girl once when I was drunk and cant really remember it that well. My ... (123 words)

His Ex Is All I Think About...And I Don't Even Know Her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether I'm looking for advice or just looking for a way to vent. This must be the fourth time I've written on here about the same subject, but it's wearing me thinner and thinner and I'm at my wit's end. My boyfriend and I have been together now for over a year ... (1418 words)

I love them both, just can't choose..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - In my senior year of high school, I met my boyfriend James. I moved to college and we stayed together, he has always been loving and supportive and in the almost 5 years we were together, we became best friends. We had speed bumps, even have both strayed but always recovered ... (620 words)

My husband loves his truck more than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well cupid I'm back again just need some honest answers. I was in a car accident about three months ago and my car was gone trashed went to car heaven lol and now I'm working on getting better I did break my heel and boy does that hurt plus it seems like it takes forever to... (199 words)

How does my friend ask her guy non accusingly if he is doing drugs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age - I have a friend that is involved with a man she suspects may be using drugs. What is making it so hard for her to actually tell is that they don't live together but told her there are other ways of telling inspite of that. Foe instance I told her that all his mysterious... (113 words)

How can I advise my daughter???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) age - My daughter is 19 ,and very confused. She is unable to be alone, and because of that ,she is putting up, with a boyfriend ,who is not treating her very nice. I think she is putting in much more than he does, and I dont know how loyal he is , because he has a lot of free time. ... (141 words)

How can I stop these thoughts and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Logically, I know that its best to have my ex out of my life- he's lied and cheated ever since we got together (six years!) and now I have broken contact for good. So, why do I keep thinking about him and how he continues with his life like I was never in it? He has a lot... (192 words)

Is she hitting up on me!? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - can you help? i live an average life in uni, but i have a best friend and she is really cool and sweet but a bit too friendly recently. she is just my bestest friend, shes had more boyfriends and break ups than days in a year, and when she does break up, she ends up hurting and ... (197 words)

I fell for my friend and need help to move on from all this...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was friends with another female for a while though i have distanced myself because i have fell for her and it is tearing me apart, i thought time and distance would make it better but i feel worse and more torn apart as the days go on, how do i move on?... (53 words)

How will I know, when I am ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a relationship with a guy. We have been courting for almost two months but we have an issue regarding the sexual aspect. I am 24 and a virgin and 'not ready' whilst he is experienced. He keeps saying he loves me and is willing to wait, which I am happy about, ... (160 words)

He can't seem to stay loyal to me, like I am for him! Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a ninteen year old girl, and dating a 38 year old man. I have been seeing him for more than three years now. When we started dating our relationship was not that serious, we didnt really care what the other did in the absence of the other. Now things have changed, we are ... (143 words)

How long does it take the average guy to cum?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my question is simple I was just wondering how long does it take the average guy to cum ..... like for a guy does it happened quicker during intercourse compared to oral ? ... (35 words)

He is blaming her for "not telling the truth"! What should I advise her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What should I advise to my daughter ( 20 years old 0? Her boyfrend (18 years old )is blaming her for not telling him the truth about past with others which happend before they started commited relationship. She is crying very ofter from the way he say things to hurt her now ... (110 words)

Moving in with my boyfriend could be a bad idea if his brother moves in too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current significant other for 3 years and we are planning to move in together. At first, it was very exciting searching for apartments and actually viewing them! We actually started saving money months ahead and made a list of all the items we need to buy. ... (366 words)

How do I know if I try to make new friends, they won't hurt and betray me like my old ones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my confidence is rock bottom since i found out one of my best mates tried it on with my fiance while i was around 5months pregnant! i cant trust anyone anymore and have lost all my friends! i was in college in 2009, i fell pregnant in april 2009 and ended up quitting college... (481 words)

I want my husband back, not this overweight unhealthy man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel very lost.. my husband has always been heavy.. he is 6 ft 2 and 478. i am 5 ft 9 and 135. sometimes i think i know too much being a nurse as i watch his weight go up and our marriage go down. yes i love him. i have changed our home eating to low carb. we have two ... (322 words)

My boyfriend finds it really easy to lie to my face! Should I be worried?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so basically, my boyfriend worries me. i don't know if he has mental health problems, as i wouldn't want to put a massive label on him, i'm not naive. he has no parents as he lost his mum due to drink 3 years ago, he's been dealing with an awful lot and i do try to help ... (346 words)

My cheating boyfriend says he loves me and wont do it ever again, but why is he still talking to the other woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a real messed up situation. Just found out my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me. I want to forgive him and want to believe him that he is doing everything in his power to be more committed to me, but the facts are not adding up. What do folks think. Here are the ... (397 words)

Married and need to feel the connection again

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some guidance, I've always considered myself a self sorter/independant/get on with it kind of girl but my current sitation has left me flumaxed! Im late 30s and been in a relationship with my husband for 15 years..married for 5 years...2 children of 10yr and 8 yrs....for ... (410 words)

How do I know if she's really into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently started spending time with this girl that I've know for a while. I had not seen her in about 8 months when she randomly asked me to hang out one night. Its been about a month and I've developed feelings for her but I am unsure of how she feels about me. We have b... (123 words)

Could I still have a chance of being pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i had unproteced sex 10 days ago and also 2 days ago. Yes he did ejaculate inside of me. I also understand i could be pregnant, but i started bleeding randomly today but i only came of my period around 18 days ago. Could i still have a chance of being pregnant ?? ... (53 words)

As a guy, would you assume this text meant the female fancies you or is just giving you a compliment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I sent a male friend of mine a text today to tell him I thought at 48 he still looked b@@@dy good and said I hope I haven't embarrassed you. I also told him to keep it to himself (as it was my way of telling him that I think he is gorgeous). He text back 'yeah I know (lo... (149 words)

How do I go about contacting this man I met through work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone. I would like some advice please. I recently undertook a temporary job for 8 weeks and met some lovely people, in particular a nice man! I did not see him everyday for the 8 weeks, as he only worked for 3 days and only came back from his holidays in my 6th week... (159 words)

I loaned a friend money, he promised to pay it back but still hasnt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend...well I use that loosely now...but at one point we had somewhat of an interest in one another but nothing really came of it when he realized I wasn't going to have sex with him. But we remained friends. While I was on vacation a couple of months ago, he t... (312 words)

Douching & sponge, what on earth?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects including what happens if I get... (286 words)

Can I win back her heart before it is too late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've posted before about my divorce from my partner of 20 years. It involved an affair on my part that is now over. However, I'm having severe problems that I am trying to work through and could use some advice. I know how the Aunts feel about cheating, so I am not looking ... (1168 words)

I'm in love with my old teacher, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, I'm 16 and I'm helplessly in love with my old sports teacher. yes, old, as in he was my primary school teacher, I'm in year ten now, and it's been around 3 years since I started loving him. He's about 10 years older than i am and he is totally single, and i obviously ... (443 words)

A good way to let my parents know I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - where to start well im 17 years old i go to college studying business and have been with my boyfriend nearly 6 months... anyway last week i found i am 3 and half months pregnant.. i have spoke about it to my boyfriend and his family and i have decided to keep my likee monkey ... (182 words)

Is he thinking about marriage or is he just all talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am just writing because I am somewhat confused by my boyfriend's behavior lately. Things seem to be going well for us - his family and friends love me and seem to think I'm a keeper, and I think he is too. We were at a mutual friend's wedding reception the other night and ... (271 words)

Is this bleeding just a symptom of the implant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am having this really long period at the moment, it has been going for 2 weeks and 3 days so far, and showing no signs of stopping. i did get a bit of a break where it went away last weekend(saturday and sunday), but not totally, i just had all that brown stuff you get ... (229 words)

Why can't I have my happiness...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Its weird that I give advice and Im a love sick lonley girl. Basicly I only pull guys if they're drunk so obviously they remember the next morning that Im not the best dish on the tabe.. They never call me back and i see my pretty mates pull easily and they call them like cra... (193 words)

My (same sex) best friend is hitting on me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - can you help? i live an average life in uni, but i have a best friend and she is really cool and sweet but a bit too friendly recently. she is just my bestest friend, shes had more boyfriends and break ups than days in a year, and when she does break up, she ends up hurting and ... (195 words)

Is it wrong to walk out and not come back if there is a huge argument when I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i have a few things i want advice for. Im 19 years old and currently going to uni but home for the summer. I feel like i am so restricted here. Basically my dad has been treating my like s**t ever since i got back for summer and he found out about my boyfriend. I get... (302 words)

I am in love with my brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my brother are in love with each other. He is not that related to me but from the same kindred. The problem is that we can't tell each other how we feel and its killing me inside and even if we should do, we can't date cos he is my brother. Please, I really need help ... (78 words)

Circumcision for women... is this all taboo?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a south african citizen, there are many cultures all over the world and some are considerd taboo.. especially here in the african continent to where im from, i live in johannesburg. most of you who have visited s.a would know it. There is this one culture which ... (154 words)

Could the test result be wrong???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had unprotected sex a month ago. I had it with my man and he never had it this year. The day we had sex was a Saturday night and I had morning after pills on Monday. Since the day I had morning after pills I've been having pregnancy symptoms. I had my period last month, ... (92 words)

How can I get past the pain so I can make love to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello! Am 25 and still virgin and every time my boyfriend try to finger me i almost shout because am afraid of the pain, i really want to make love with him...but am mentally block when thought of the pain it might caused me...i felt sorry for him and feel guilty too he does ... (70 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend about my interest in cross dressing?

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, Let me introduce myself, im a 15 year-old boy and from England. My problem is that I am very interested in crossdressing and I really don't know whether or not to tell my girlfriend about it! Last week I told my best-girlfriend (who is basically my sister) and she loves th... (85 words)

Could I be pregnant?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i had unprotected sex a week after my period and its been about 10 days and im worried i might be pregnant. i also had unprotected sex twice 8 days after the 1st time. i feel so stupid and im worried im pregnant. im 16 and im scared people will make fun of me. my boyfriend did ... (86 words)

Is it ok to have my boyfriend over at my parents house or is my mum right to be upset?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't actually have a problem, I just want to hear other opinions about a certain situation. My parents went away for the weekend and I invited my boyfriend over, so I wouldn't be alone. When my parents came back I spoke to my mom and I told her that I had friends (includi... (324 words)

Sexual issues with my girlfriend.....

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im having some sexual issues with my current girlfriend who i dated a while back. She is having issues thinking about doing sexual things with guys. If we start talking dirty or start getting involved she simply cuts off when things start advancing past making out, you ... (542 words)

I don't like the smell of my vagina!

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't like the smell of my vagina when my lover fingers me.He doesn't complain though: it doesn't seem to bother him at all,and he even goes down on me without hesitation.Anyhow,it has a strong smell of dry fish!Yes,i do clean up before we do stuff like that coz mostly we end ... (63 words)

Is it ok to have a long distance relationship?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone think it's good to have long distance relationships/Online ones? If you have any experience could you let me know if it's worth it.I met this guy and he's amazing ( it's been almost 2 years ) we get along, he knows mostly everything about me and he's opened up to me ... (132 words)

How do I break it to him gently that he is not boyfriend material to me?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well my problem is this guy I think likes me, he flirts with me often, and has been for the past umm 3 years, and he recently added me on Facebook. He asked me if I have a boyfriend, which I don't. My best friend (whose a guy)told me that he is trying to get me. Well my ... (119 words)

It has been a year and is it abnormal for me to still feel sad and hurt?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Just want to know if there are people who used to be in the same situation and how you managed to recover. My ex cheated on me and left me for the other girl. I did not know he cheated and has a new girlfriend and begged him back for 2 months. He told me that i was unable to ... (345 words)

I've never felt an attraction like this before but the problem is she's a lesbian!

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its kind of a weird situation , once i saw this girl in school , first time i saw her something inside me moved , my heart just started to beat weird i feel like pressure inside me i never felt before , i am attracted to her like i've never been to a girl, Oh my god its just ... (325 words)

I want to be there for him but I'm struggling because I don't even know what is going on with us!

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 5 years ago i started dating this guy who was a lot older than me, things were great but we were on and off for 2 and a half years because he couldn't tell me what he wanted. 3 years later we're back in contact and this time it felt as though he was taking me more seriously a... (232 words)

Is this possible?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible to have a misscarage when you first go to the doctor than go back and he says that you are pregnant?... (24 words)

Love hate relationship with my soon to be step-brother!

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and my mom is getting married in a while to a really nice man. And his son who Is the same age had a thing for me and I'm not sure if he still does and I mind if he still does. But when he told me he tried to start something but I stopped it before something ... (127 words)

Should I cut my losses or hope that things will get better in time?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend very deeply and dearly. We've been together for over a year and we lived together for about 6 months before I moved out as his teenage daughter and I could not get on. Now that we are living in separate cities I feel lost, confused and wonder whether i... (95 words)

How do I get over being so shy around girls and make my move?

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid.. I am a pretty goodlooking guy i am funny and easy to get along with. i just have one problem every time im with the girl that i like i cant man up and make a move. Even if it is the thing i want to do most. how can i get over my shyness and make my move. Also ho... (85 words)

I don't understand why my boyfriend suddenly wants to do his own thing, is this just the end of the honeymoon period?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to spend every possible minute of the day with my boyfriend of 18 months. We live together, but we both work part time and study. He works from 3pm until 9pm most nights and I work all weekend. I realise that I'm obsessed with him, and for a long time he reciprocated.... (220 words)

My girlfriend gets mad at me over really dumb things!

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, theres this girl i'm really in love with, and we've been together for 6 months or so... Problem 1/ Most of the time, everything is perfect, but my family decided to take a vacation in the states for 7 days, when i first told her about this everything seemed fin... (259 words)

How can I make sure that when I give him head for the first time it is not awkward?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend for a year really wants me to give him head, but I get really nervous when it comes to about that time. I haven't ever done it before and I haven't yet. I don't want to make it awkward. What should I do?... (45 words)

How can I help my online African lover come to Canada?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age - he is from africa, we met online for three years online he is very wonderful, so i went to him and we have fun and love, coming together have been problems, with my profession i can't move there, so how can help him come to canada.thank you... (47 words)

Was he just playing me the whole time?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i started seeing this guy who i met online who is 10 yrs younger then i am. So i kinda knew right of the bat that nothing serious would come of it. He started out texting me all throughout the day and questioned why i was not texting him all the time. So when i started texting ... (372 words)

How should I tell my gay friend that I'm not into him?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright well im only borrowing my lil sisters account for this one thing. there is a gay guy at my school. were friends and all but i think he really wants to be more because of the way his eyes get when he looks at me. i dont want to hurt him but i want him to know that im ... (70 words)

Should I involve deadbeat daddy in my child's life?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] my ex is a deadbeat daddy. we dated for 2 and a half years and the day i told him i was pregnant, he left me and said he didnt love me. he has never called, he blocked me on every internet thing and even changed his number. the few times we had spok... (291 words)

Will losing my virginity to my bf ruin our relationship?

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9 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and my boyfriend really wants to have sex. I really want to, but I'm afraid it will ruin our relationship or something like that. How do I know he is the right person to do it with? I feel like I have waited a long time and I do love him, but I don't want to ... (63 words)

Boyfriend has a co-worker friend who he's too close too for my comfort. Should I be worried?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with this girl he works with and here are the reasons why: -I have never heard of or met her -Her phone number was under some guys name whom my boyfriend plays xbox with, and he claims that the reason why he did that was because he knew ... (386 words)

Seeing a younger man but worried by the age difference

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I’m hoping for some sensible insight on this situation. I’m a 33 year old gay man, very quiet and academic most of the time, though I do sometimes enjoy the odd party. It was at a social get-together that I met another man, and we became friends - I assumed he wa... (281 words)

Guy who used to stare at me now seeing another girl. Am confused and need to understand why?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is probably a very asked question but i need to know what did it mean. i went to school with this guy for a year and all he did was stare at me but never talked to me. he was polite to say hi and that which was good but was there something more to it. i got dirty ... (161 words)

Girlfriend saw my better-endowed roommate naked, now I'm insecure. Should I be?

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months. I was until recently the only guy she had seen naked. Recently my roommate came out of the bathroom nude when we were walking into the room. I'm nervous she has been thinking about him/wanting him when we are together in ... (78 words)

Son is addicted to drugs; what can I do?

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9 August 2010 (F) age - How can I help my drug-addict son? He is addicted to cocaine, and I tried everything,but nothing worked. I'm confused, some people says stop doing anything ,because you ''slowing the process'' some says leave the door open,because when there is no one there ,they go even ... (143 words)

He has caught me out on my little white lies and now our relationship is going downhill!

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it that once a man has been hurt he takes it out on the next woman? i love my boyfriend truly but i tell him little white lies. so he finally caught me in one now i feel like our relationship is going down hill. he says he lovs me but he is prepared for a breakup . i ... (111 words)

Am I a lesbian or is this just a teenage phase?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, where can i start?? I'm a year away from college, I'm excited but worried because i probably wont be seeing my very best friend 'a', ever... we are a group of 4 best friends, but me and 'a' stay together like sisters, and the others visa versa. im the type that, when i f... (301 words)

Her word against his

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel like im being manipulated by my girlfriend, how do you catch her out? one day out of the blue she told me my good mate said bad things to her parents about me, i confront my friend he said it didn't happen, i ask her father he did not know what i was talking about an... (170 words)

Virgin at 24

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to be 24 in a month, and I am still a virgin. I'm starting to worry that guys will be put off by it. My friends told me just not tell a guy that that I am, but I think he'll find out when he finds out I've only been in one brief relationship. When I tried online ... (269 words)

How can my boyfriend and I regain the spark in our relationship?

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have dated for 4 years. We had had an on and off type of relationship . I feel that I am not IN love with him anymore, I have felt this for a long time but have been reluctant to end things forever - as there are a lot of good qualities in him. However, We ... (122 words)

AIDS from Orla Sex?

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - can u get aids from blowjob... (6 words)

Love or Fantasy

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there guys I just got back off an amazing holiday where i met this american girl that i now cant get over. Basically at first we sort of talked a bit and i thought she was really pretty and found out she was easy and fun to talk to. We were in a flotilla of boats so w... (508 words)

Sex for the very first time

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am going to have sex for the first time tomorrow but am scared that his penis will not fit in me :S hellp please? what should i do ? ... (30 words)

He says he is nervous around me and I would like to change that.

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for a year and then we broke up. We've tried remaining friends, and it has been on and off. After 2 months of not talking, he called me b/c of some problems he ran into with his gf. We started talking and hanging again...which I liked b/c I have never gotte... (196 words)

I don't want to give him oral sex b/c actual sex happen rarely

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months and even at first he didnt want to have sex that much, maybe 1 or 2 times a week. He always asks for blow jobs and I dont really even want to because I know that will make him last even longer without sex! we only do it ... (153 words)

In love with someone 4x my age

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid ok well I just started working at a job and my boss is really nice. I have worked there for about a month or so and I am really starting to like him but the major problem is that I'm 13 and he's 51...is that weird? I don't like him in a way that I want to have a r... (92 words)

Ambivalence

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I'm quite confused and ambivalent right now regarding the relationship with my girlfriend, and I would like some advice. I met her back in 2006. Before that, she used to live in a different city but her parents asked her to move so she could finish college. She... (965 words)

Should I stay with my girlfriend????

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I was wondering if my girlfriend still deserves me after screwing up many times and this being the biggest time of all. She is currently in another state and the only friends she has over there party and drink. One night, she snuck out and went to a party with one of them ... (269 words)

Young love gone wrong

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex boyfriend dated for 18 months, but when summer came along i broke it off due to a fight we had. i didnt think it would be a "done of good" break up but, we are now on our third month apart and he does still call me. although, last week i was told that he had slept ... (142 words)

What turn-on's do guys like most

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Whats the biggest turn on for a woman to do in the bedroom guys? (Wear sexy undies, nothing at all, get on top, take control, play the innocent virgin, scream... - ha u get the idea) ... (38 words)

One mistake

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9 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am trapped by my own mistake.my best friend's boyfriend approached me to do sex.he is really handsome and i have heard my friend mourning through doors.i always fantasize them.when he approached i was thrilled to get that same exp. i first denied but he directly touched my ... (154 words)

Why is she so nervous around me.?

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9 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I like in school who is very nervous when we happen to be alone together. When I talk to her she smiles, she doesn't say much and her voice changes.It's a lot softer and more reserved than when she talks to other people. She laughs at any bad joke I make. When ... (230 words)