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I'm afraid my friend my hurt himself because his dad died!

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Question - (20 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *etchemimi20 writes:

Long time, no needed help!

But I'm in a stilled situation here. Maybe I just need tips, reassurance in this to keep me going strong.

:: I posted on here a night with 3 guys I had, and how the on that seemed the most appropriate to me was pushing himself on me and I didnt know what to do about it. Well that was about 5 months ago and I've been seeing him about every wekend now. See with him, that attracts me so much, is how he see's things. We can just sit there and talk and he rally interests me. Ive never met anyone MY AGE who I can relate to because they're too immature, or stereotypical. This guy is on my level and I really feel opened to a whole new way with him. Now I haven't tooken our "Relationship" to any other heights then just FRIENDS. Although thre is definetley mor there and we both know it, we just don't say anything. And I'm completely fine with it. But he has been through ALOT in his short life and is still going through more. His uncle/Dad just died last week. Whenever we talked his Uncle would always be in the conversations as someone he looked up to.

Im afraid he is going to hurt himself. Or get himself in more trouble because his Uncle was murdered (drug wise) by someone he knows. So I'm on th vurge of insanity because he is the type of peron who doesn't speak much and when they do it's 100% honest on whatever they say- sort of like myself. He's been getting totally messed up every night. sometimes day at his job. He is really torn up over this and I don't know what action I should take.

Any suggestions on this anyone??

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A female reader, metchemimi20 United States +, writes (21 August 2010):

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metchemimi20 agony auntYea I would have BEEN talked to him about it, but he's not the social type and I'm afraid he will get real mad and not want to see me again. Thanks for the advice I'll try to work that into the plan I'm creating (:

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