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writes:Why don't I feel anything during sex? This past time was only my 2nd time. And I don't feel anything, afterwards the first time I felt a little sore. When he fingers me I do feel that. It's really bothering me that there is like no real pleasure llike you are always told there is. Why is this ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (23 August 2010):
Over..worried. is verified as being by the original poster of the question um idk?
I am pretty sure I didn't measure it ?
And well it;s big enough were he has troubles getting it in.
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male
reader, ooops  +, writes (22 August 2010):
Well, maybe his cock is not that huge?
Maybe you need a bigger one.
What size does he have?
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reader, BeSimplyTrue  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 Hmm, maybe he's not fully hard? Sometimes it's hard to feel when the guy isn't hard enough. Other than that, I dunno, sorry I can't help....
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (21 August 2010):
Over..worried. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not talking about not feeling pleasure, I am talking about not feeling him even go inside of me, even though I am really tight. And we do lots of fore play BELIEVE me..... I feel that .... but when he actually goes it I don't feel him go in me.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue +, writes (21 August 2010):
I'm guessing it's because when your guy fingers you, he's touching your clitoris. When you're having sex, his penis is inside you and he's not touching your clitoris. About 70% of women are only able to get so much pleasure that they climax from their clitorises being touched; that leaves 30% that climax from sexual intercourse (without the clitoris being touched). That said, you CAN have sex and touch your clitoris at the same time, or have your man do it.
Since it's only your second time having intercourse, I wouldn't worry about how it's been feeling so far. The first 3 times I had sex, it really didn't feel like much and just felt sore, like you described. Your body has to get used to it, and so does your mind for that matter. Give it a chance and be willing to explore and discover what feels good to you :-)
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (21 August 2010):
 I couldn't really tell you, you needs a womens perspective. But I know it's not like you see in porn
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