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writes:I'm 20 in November and my partner is 31 in January...Is this relationship weird at all. It doesn't bother me...but I'm thinking maybe it should? I don't know. I do genuinely like him a lot and it's early days yet so I haven't told many people about our relationship but I know some of my friends will be thinking "what the hell" don't get me wrong I'm not going to let what other people think influence what happens with my relationship, I'm just wondering what you guys think?Plus if he's 30 and I'm 19 could he just be with me purely to boost his ego you know so he can say to his mates "yeah I'm sleeping with a 19 year old" etc...What do you think?Thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 He could be. You haven't said much about his personality, though. Is he the type that takes you out and tries to show you off? If he's down to earth and a genuinely nice guy, I wouldn't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): You dont really say how long this relationship has been going on .. so its really hard to tell his intentions.
You say the age difference doesnt bother you, but ask if it should ... maybe it does bother you.
I think you need to worry less about his intentions and just take the relationship day by day for whatever it is.
If you enjoy his company, and he is treating you right ... Im not seeing a problem here.
BTW I am 39, my fiance is 25. And not once did I think of myself in a position to brag about my conquest. I fell in love with a wonderful man who treats me amazinly.
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