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He doesn't spend his money on us, his family and he is violent! I need suggestions!

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Question - (16 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2009)
A female Pakistan age 41-50, *unnia writes:

Hello all

I have much married life problems in my life. My in laws are very kind to me but my husband create many problems. He is very kind to his friends, his relatives, and different people. But all time he has a problem with his own mother, me, his children, his brother. He has a lot of money but he don’t spend on me, his mother, even his children. His language is very bad, he is very violent if I refuse to do his work for any reason. I have 8 years married life. In this period he never make me my clothes, shoes and my very personal needs. And the same way he never spend a penny to his children. I don’t understand what I do. I am very worried and depressed all the time. Please help me to give a useful suggestion.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009):

If he's abusive, violent, and controlling, all i can say is separate from him!! You and your children really don't need to be around that sort of behaviour!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009):

I don't really know what to say to be honest, you know that what he's doing isn't right. You shouldn't put up with any person being violent towards you. If you can, leave this relationship and concentrate on yourself, don't put up with it. Good luck, I hope things go well for you xxxxx

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