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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I recently had a trust related issue with my bf of three years. I went camping with my family for the weekend and left him home. He told me that he stayed home and hung with some guy friends and whatnot. What he lied to me about was that he went to a party, met a girl, gave her his number, and talked to her behind my back for over a week.He lied outright about the whole thing until I asked the girl whose number I found. We worked through it and I'm getting over it, but now I feel insecure and like he's checking out other girls.I also have a history with anorexia/bulimia and I feel like I'm going to relapse due to this insecurity.Please help.
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reader, haley92 +, writes (16 August 2009):
ok i had a similar problem. u just need to get rid of yer man and find someone who loves u for who u r! u r just fine! if he makes you feel bad and makes u want to hurt yourself like that then he aint worth it! a man like that aint worth nothing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Everyone out there is an individual and I mean just that. If you ask psychologists, people can be programmed to be more concerned of their own behaviour and allow others to do whatever, or vice versa, watch others behaviours, scold them and do as they please. Some are in the middle. It seems that you watch your behaviour more and your relapse is because you are in a kind of a way doing some self-blaming here,or it's knocked your confidence and you are trying to make your life more stable. And it seems this guy is not responsible of his behaviour and you are too opposites. Maybe some things in him are advantaging your personality as he is different. His behaviour will not change and he will continue to hurt others.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (16 August 2009):
It seems to me that your one problem that is causing this insecurity is him. So you can remove the problem or you can stay with him and relapse. You are more important than him, he's a jerk, get rid of him!
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