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writes:So, I am totally thrown for a loop! A friend of my husband just came by to pick up my husband. I was taking out the trash and he waved from the car, I waved back. I went in to let me husband know he was here and when I opened the door to take the bag out he had gotten out of the car and was on the porch. I said hi again and he said "God you look good" and motioned for me to give him a hug. I did and it was a pretty long embrace ended by me stepping back. Should I tell my husband about it or just let it go? I really felt he was attracted to me. What do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): let it go. maybe it was just a friendly gesture, but if he does do anything like that again, or goes further then that then definitely let your husband know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): You could tell him that you think his friend is a tad lonesome and looking for companionship as he gave you a big hug and complimented you on your looks.
I find it odd that you are working yourself up about it. He wasn't leering at you or harassing you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): A hug is a hug. Do you have any feelings for him though???
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (17 August 2009):
So he told you you looked good. Yes is attracted to you. If all it was is a hug and your not attracted to him I would say there is no reason at this point to tell your husband anything. Now if it goes further or he starts making advances than yes your husband should know about it.
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