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Should I go to the police or settle it myself?

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Question - (23 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2008)
A male Canada age 41-50, *unna_you writes:

hello aunty again;I have still been sleeping with my neighbour..when her husband came,she ignored me and used to tease me in front of him..guess to so her husband could not find anything out..2 days ago her husband left for the airport,as he goes not regular business trips..so we had the opportunity and she and I were about to do it..just then her husband came back..he returned as his flight got canceled due to snow..I was nude on her bed and he saw us..the next thing I know something hit me and I was unconscious..few minutes later when I woke up,I was tied up naked..her husband got furious and whipped me with his belt and finally pushed his wife on to me and abused..I wanted to do something..but could not,as I was tied..he hit me a lot..now what do I do? should I go to police or settle it my-self..I feel maybe she tricked me into being beaten,coz she never asked him to stop beating me..

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A male reader, chris23010 United States +, writes (24 December 2008):

chris23010 agony auntIde have to agree with the other posters if I came home and found you with my wife Ide probably snap and done a bit more than beat you.....I would never touch a woman but she would be out of my life for sure and you be barelyu holding on to yours.

As for going to the police technically you could but depending on how longs it been you may have no case and if you came to me ide probably turn the other way to someone upset because the man whose wife I was having an affair with beat tyhe hell out of me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

If it was me in the husband's position I would've probably done something worse.

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (23 December 2008):

sappygirl agony auntWoW! I don't know to sympatize with you or be angry at you for sleeping with another man's woman. You should have gone to the police and filed a report right after the incident. I believe the evidence is gone and it will be hesaid/she said.

the worse part is this is your neighbor and somebody has to move because it will get quite ugly.

The best thing to do is learn from your mistakes. Taking revenge will not solve anything. i would go to police but if they don't accept the claim..and dismiss it. it's best to let the whole thing go. and from now on..never sleep w/married women

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

If you cannot keep your hands from somebody else wife, this can happen my friend. I would beat you harder and kick her out aswell.

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