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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I have been dating my boyfriend for four years. We have had a lot of trust issues in the past. The other day i hung out with an old guy friend of mine, i got really drunk. Apparently while intoxicated i spoke to my boyfriend on the phone and told him i was hanging out with my girlfriends. Later that night when i sobered up i spoke to my boyfriend and told who i was really hanging out with, one of my guy friend. My boyfriend flip out and accused me of lying, where in all honesty i didnt even remember talking to him. Anyways he broke up with me. I understood why he was upset and i left him message say i was sorry. Well two days later he text me and said he wanted to talk. I agreed to talk with him and went over to his home. when i got there he was acting very standoffish. I got so annoyed and we ended up fighting . In the argument he ended yelling out that the only reason why he wanted me to come over was because he had plans to have sex with someone else but he decided to call me!! We have been breaking up and making up for four years but i have had enough.... I told him it was over but he doesnt take me seriously... ill take any advice i can get!!!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (5 August 2008):
 Dysfunctional relationship alert ey. How exausting being on that rollercoaster for 4 yrs! Emily has said whats best to do. I agree. Stay very strong, life is a lot better out there, you'll see!
C xxxxxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 August 2008):
Right so you've told him it was over, he's just thinking it's part of the pattern and he'll call you next week.
All you do is just not answer his calls or texts. Or if you do then remain civil but tell him that no you can't meet him or anything because you are trying to get over him.
He'll figure out that you are serious when you act like you are and don't respond to his usual methods of getting you back.
Good Luck!! xx
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