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writes:I am 8 months pregnant and found sexual text messages that my husband was sending to another woman. She had also sent him a picture of her in the shower. What should i do? I don't have enough money to leave him and there isn't anybody else i can stay with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): Hi
I really am sorry that you have experienced this, especially as you are pregnant. Have you confronted him? I would definitely give him the chance to explain. Don't know what good it will do, but as you are pregnant you need to be sure. Splitting up moving etc at this late time of pregnancy is very traumatic.
If it is a case of you want out, why should you go?
At the very least he should move out and let you have time to find your own place after the baby is a few months old.
He may be able to stay with the woman on the photo.....if the situation is as it appears. I would stay put, you do not want to be living out of a bag on a friends sofa with a new born. Seek legal advice if you have to, and get the support that is available. I wish you luck and hope all goes well for you and the baby, ithink it is despicable what he has done and unforgivable, you deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): do you not have any friends or family? you need to confront him and tell him your situation. you shouldnt be with this man. if all comes to all, stay living with him until you can find somewhere else to go...but as separated partners not lovers
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