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writes:How do you get over having your heart broken by someone who you know you will always love no matter what? She said she doesn't think she is in love with me any more. I have loved her for almost 6 years. I know I always will.To be blunt. it's sh*t. Reply to this Question
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 The guys who dwell on it might have been mistreated by their mum, so every time they get their heart broken they remember that...Or... well they might have been waiting a long time for this love (like a decade... like me...)... so you see... not everyone is a serial dater.
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reader, suzy1221  +, writes (5 August 2008):
Dear,
You will move on eventually. You will meet someone new and fall in love again. It will happen naturally and it will be wonderful.Trust me. She is going to be just a faded memory.
Love will always find you. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Dear,
You will move on eventually. Life is full of new events. You will meet someone new and fall in love again. It's going to be wonderful. Trust me and your love now it's going to be just a faded memory. Don't worry. New love will find you.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): You'll get over it. I've had guys who thought that same thing about me and they all eventually got over it, believe me. It takes time that's all. Just whatever you do, don't make the mistake of dwelling on it too much and putting your life on hold for anybody. Your very young and you should focus on what's REALLY important which is securing a good future for yourself, being educated, getting a good degree and a good job. I've seen people who get so affected by things like these that they neglect everything about their lives just because they lost their love. They have no friends, no ambitions, pretty much stuck in a rut all because they let their broken heart dictate their lives. DON'T make that mistake. Its stupid and its not worth it. Get out their and live. Its NOT the end of the world by a long shot. I've been broken hearted many times. I just got right back and kept going, and thank god I did, cause looking back, half the people who broke my heart weren't even worth me shedding one tear for. And you may always have feelings for her, just don't forget to love yourself FIRST.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (5 August 2008):
 I know its hard when you really love someone and the feelings are not reciprocated, its something a majority of us have all had a some point in our lives. I know it does not feel like it now but things will get easier for you, time really is the healer of all pain. Ok so you have loved and lost, and thats unfortunate, but the likellhood is that if you have loved once then you will most certainly love again. Put this down to experience, a chapter in your life and move on. Pick yourself up dust yourself down and get back out there, have fun with your pals, and i bet you will meet someone else when you very least expect it.
Good luck
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