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I want to turn my "booty call" relationship into a friendship.

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Question - (5 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Any tips/advice, i have a booty call relationship with a guy which has been going on for a year come to think of it and im bored of this and looking for a proper relationship but not nessecerily with this guy.

been ignoring him for a bit but he still calls/txts saying he misses me which i reckon he says to other girls so im not phased. however i still would like to be friends with him (if poss) just need a way of putting it through to him

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

Stuff it, lets just say lots of love for everyone, we've got tons to go around. If it's just a sex thing babes, he won't be hurt and he will understand. Why shouldn't he want to be your friend, he's not in love and neither are you, but your comfortable enough to share your bodies, and there should be no problem with you stoping sex and remaining friends instead... Good luck to you, and take care of you always.

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2008):

pepper27 agony auntI did mean love from you as in you not him hunny ok..Dont take any notice of me im a tad nutty, I hope this all works out fine for you love XXXXXXXX

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

DiovanLestat has got it to a tee love just say hey mate this has been great but I need to move on now so lets drop the sex and be mates love u lots love u xxxxxxx Tisha has it on the ball to hunny, Just say it in a kind casual way and hopefully he will be sound with that TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

"Hey babe, it's been just great being with you. I had ton's of fun. But we've got to stop this sex thing, I need to move on. Love you lots. You've been a great friend, but I need to think about the future. I'm thinking of dating other men. Thanks, your the best. Bye, bye for now" (Easy)

"I want to get married and get pregnant in the next three months. Me and you are just sex, so I'll be moving on, unless you've got an engagement ring and can set me a firm date." (Hard)

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (6 August 2008):

Tisha-1 agony aunt"Hi, hey, thanks for the message. You know, I've enjoyed this relationship for what it is and I like you a lot. The thing is that I am now ready to move on and want to end the physical side of this. So thanks for the good times, I really hope we can be friends in the future. Bye for now!"

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