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*urberry
writes:My married boyfriend seems to really love me and forsakes his family for me quite often.I feel guilty at times and when i tell him so he really gets angry at me.I know i can never have him 100% so i also keep abit of a distance from him but he doesnt like that.He wants me to give him my all yet when he goes back to his family i feel some sense of loss,some detachment until i see him again.Is he being fair by wanting me to surrender myself totally both physically and emotionally yet he has his other life? Reply to this Question
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 I agree. In this instance, don't bend a bit. Get yourself somebody that isn't obligated to somebody else and will give you the love and affection you deserve with no strings attached!
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 He is having his cake and eating it. Most married men dont want to actually leave their wives but enjoy the excitment of having the secret and no real attachment to their mistresses. You have to ask what you want from this relationship - are you expecting him to leave his family for you eventually or are you happy as you are? If you are not happy and he doesnt want to be with you full time you need to get out of this now and find someone to love you wholly. I'm not judging but I do think you need to find some answers x
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