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He gets a long more with my flatmate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i really like my flatmate at uni. he is funny and hot. we get along, but he gets along much more with my other female faltmate. he will always be in her room and arrange things with her, such as when to go out and wher and then talks about it with the rest of us. also, he ... (283 words

She feals I cheated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - My GF hack into my yahoo address and found out I belonged to many porn related groups. She feels I've cheated on her. How can I regain her trust? As it stands where splitsville.... (34 words

I have feeling for my aunt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - well i have feeling for my aunt i know its not lust i love her and i know its wrong but we both kind of flirt with each other and i was wondering if it would be wrong to seduce her oh also she is almost 30 years older than me but i love her so much... (57 words

She's walked out on me, said I was controlling, but I think she's just stressed , I want her back, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - hello, i have been with my wife for five years.she has had a lot of stress with work(not wanting to work with certain people), and personal issues as far as not having a sexual desire, and she came home the other day crying about how family members found out about her mother ... (238 words

I'm 16 and pregnant, how do I tell my boyfriend who is overseas now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - A little help here guys? Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!! BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i have no doubt about that! Im terrified ... (167 words

I want to leave but I just can't.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years but about a year ago i lied to him but i really didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend then i didnt so i stayed at a hotel with my girl friends then after a week he found out and broke up with me then after 2 month we`re ... (128 words

I don't know if I could deel with the crap again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i met a guy when he was 16 and i was 17. we went out. we broke up and 2yrs later we saw each other at a party. iwent to uni. and it got very messy... skip 3 yrs a long term boyf and a bit of hazardas spendin and i am bak. we see each other in a party, and the chap makes a ... (139 words

My gf's co-worker is very friendly to her, am I overreacting in being worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - My gf has co-worker (married) whom I've met. He is generous with his compliments (you look gorgeous, signs emails "XXX", your hair looks beautiful, you're boyfriend is lucky). And when talking to her, he touches her shoulder/arm often. He is an older guy and probably lik... (147 words

How do I get her open up, since the death of her dad? You can tell how much she wants to and needs to cry but puts on a happy face for me and our daughter.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hiya need some tips on what to do here. Well my wife recenly lost her dad, shes taking this extremely hard but refuses to show any emotion. I say refuse she holds it back, i don't know if she does cry when i've gone to work because hes having time off at the moment. But when i ... (330 words

Do friendship and love come together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi, when you fall in love with a freind, and he already loved you for so long, but now his love has gotten less.and you date for a little and he just says that he doesn't wanna ruin your freindship ! what can you do? i love him and he loves me (not as much as he used to). i ... (80 words

Can u marry your second cousin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - can you marry your second cousin?... (6 words

I've fallen for my flatmate, but he's more interested in the other girl, how can I make him interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am at uni. i really like my flatmate. he's funny and really hot. he lives in my flat. i get really nervous around him. however, i don't know if he likes me. basically, he teases and annoys me a lot. we have food fights and himm and my other male flatmatewill take my things to ... (327 words

I'm happily married, sex is not a problem, but there is a lack of affection, is this common?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Do some people just not have any need or desire to be affectionate in a relationship? Even in a marriage? My husband of 2 months loves me, he prooves it/ but he never shows it. He has never once given me a compliment, he has never once said he loves me without me asking him to ... (179 words

Why would he have other pictures of girls on his phone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Theres this boy ive been goin out with for a year now. And i love him loadz. But theres this other girl who used to be one of my girls and shes liked my boyfrend since yr 7 (im in year 10 now). Shes one of them girls who does alot of things then acts all innocent and it really ... (188 words

I've gone away to university, now my bf wants to split up, how can I keep him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi. Im completly new to this but I don't know who else to talk to. I'm 20 and just started uni about 6 weeks ago. I've been with my bf for nearly three years now and we've got a good relationship(we argue but not alot, we trust each other completley etc).We have discussed a ... (218 words

She wants to marry, but I think its over, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and engaged for 2,the 2 of us are 22. we have a house together and things were good for first 3 years. over the past year we have been fighting alot over just about everything and its killing me. i think our relationship has run ... (123 words

I like my brothers best friend,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i wonder if anyone can help me. i have know my brothers best friend for over 10years now he is nearly 18 and i am almost 16. i have always had this feeling that there was something between us as he would always make time 2 come and c me n talk 2 me, and always stick up 4 me ... (115 words

Male in love with male teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Im a bisexual and is madly in love with my male teacher. Im a male too. I am 15 and he is 28. I dunno if he is straight or gay but I love him. I just want to attract his attention, I feel very strong feelings; a burning desire to get him. I want him to like me. What should I ... (113 words

They might get divorced, what should I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (? age 30-35 - hi, well at the moment i'm having family problems that i can't talk to anyone about. My mum and Dad had a massive argument a while ago and now they just aren't talking to each other.It's really hard for me and my little sister because we feel alone and they just won't communic... (91 words

Is love a choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for about a year and a half, we have been living together for about 7 months. We both want to get married and be happily ever after. However, we've had like this "emotional distance" for about a week, I think mostly on my part. My question is, do ... (117 words

He's my future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for just over a year, we're strong in love, but he's a Sikh/indian and, well, im not. This is quite hard for us because he's ment to be getting arranged in the future when he's finished his education. He's 18 this November and im 15, ... (198 words

I'm 14 and he says he wants to give me a baby for Xmas... what does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - my b/f is 17 and im 14 and we have had sex a few times and now he said he wonts to give me a baby for christmas wat does he mean... (32 words

I cheated on him, should I try and work it out or cut my losses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i cheated on a guy i was in a 9 year relationship with. i relize it was because i was feeling extremely low about myself. part of this was his fault and he has yet to see this and to this day is still doing some of the same exact things he was then but i have picked myself up ... (109 words

Should I give him a nice surprise on his 18th birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I love your site and need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both seniors in high school. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend will soon turn 18. We are both virgins. We have talked about sex but have not done it. When we have it we... (957 words

Ideas to get flirty - not smutty, just a gentle tease? - We keep in contact by mail while he's travelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, I hope some of you people can give me some advise. I have recently started dating a guy and unfortunately he is travelling right now so we are keeping in touch bt mail. in order to keep the momentun up we are playing a game of ask any 10 questions each. So far it's a ... (113 words

How do I avoid ruining my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have a best mate, we were having a relashonship for like 10 months...but it wasn't straight foward. shes now my best friend, but she has a boyfriend. i'm still completly in love with her though, and im just waiting for her, but i havnt told her this. There is another girl ... (246 words

How do you chase away the feeling of emptyness/"alone in a crowd?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - There are times when I feel very down, insecure and worried. I feel like no one would notice if I disappeared. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I feel very alone, you know the saying 'alone in a crowd' it applies very well to me because thats what I feel. I feel ve... (147 words

What can I do to make my fiance ease up on his sometimes jealous ways? We've set the marriage date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - What can I do to make my fiance ease up on his sometimes jealous ways? I am a gay male and I'm 21 years old. My fiance is 33 years old. He's just proposed almost 2 months ago and our marriage date is scheduled for next July. I've never had a problem with him, and we'v... (266 words

Should I consider breast implants?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 17 years old and i have very very small breast. i think I'm a double AA or something. the thing is i'm not the skinniest person, so it look really weird when i am naked. i am thinking about getting breast implants. but honestly, i am paranoid. i can't even think of doing ... (122 words

Is this just friendliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Heyy, Righhtt soo i likee thisss boyy, ( alot ) ivee been with some other guy but i had to brake up with him beause i liked this boy. He does have the reputation to ''use'' girlss, and one of my mates says i shouldnt get involved with him and makes silly comments.. whichh a... (142 words

We broke up since he was moving to another country. How do I get past seeing him with another woman at parties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 7 years broke up about 4 months ago. we survived losing our son and also we had both cheated on the other during our relationship but we got past it. he was moving away but we got together and decided that since he was moving to another country for religious ... (194 words

We've decided to abort. We were close to engagement. Is her dumping me now likely to be a self defense/preservation reaction due to hormone changes and being scared?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - Help!! I recently found out my girlfriend was pregnant. It was a great shock to us both. We both have children from previous relationships. We talked about the options and both agreed a termination was the best option, although we both considered seriously keeping it. Ulti... (220 words

This isn't a little relationship, and life is too short. How can I save this romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is from the UK He is 12, I am 11 I am a dwarf, but he is regular size. I sent him some pics(appropriate, like me and my family) and he just saw how small I was. I'm afraid he's going to freak out, and dump me. Is there anyways to stop this? Or should I n... (105 words

My love for her burns away at my inner self. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm in this really tough problem of forbidden love. I'm a girl of 15, and I love this female married (with a child, too) Maths teacher at my school. She's hardly about 38. I know it's not a crush, because she's not taught me for nearly three years, I've not talked to her for 2 ... (325 words

Why do I still have a baby face?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok i am about a same hight as a adult but i still have a baby face why do i still have my baby face i want my adult face i am 14 ?... (34 words

My bf can't get over my lie of 1 yr ago. I'm so depressed, how do I gain back his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years and about a year ago i lied to him and he cant forgive or even forget!! so things aren`t going so well we fight a lot and im so tired from all whats happening..i tried really hard to fix things up but its not working. now he cant tru... (102 words

My wife no longer loves me after what I thought were 15 happy yrs. Out of the blue. How can it better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello, i am lost. My wife has just told me she no longer loves me after what i thought were 15 happy years together. This is a bolt out of the blue for me. We have 3 children, I cannot fight her on this because it only drives her further away, i have had no real reason ... (217 words

What's going on in her mind? Very flirtatious...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I know this girl only for 3 dayz when she was down in india for a vacation.On the 4th day she comes over to my place and when we settled down,she was sitting very close to me and her legs were touching my legs....actually she was kind of rubbing her toe on one my of my le... (100 words

I like her 12 yr old brother, but can't understand their close relationship. She thinks she's a bad sister if she spends time during weekend with me, instead of him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend met via an internet dating website and after having corresponded for some time decided to meet up. We have now been going out for 3 months and although we only get to see each other over weekends (we live and work 60+miles away from each other)and during ... (438 words

Husband having midlife crisis?? I want affection from him but I've read men don't offer it during this time. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a 31 yr old female with a 37 yr old husband of 10 yrs, been together 15, have 2 boys, 4 and 7. Husband I think is going through midlife crisis. Last yr he decided to have an affair for 2 months in which i caught him in, he then moved out, said he didint love me anymore ... (408 words

Not sure about virginity.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Im 26 and im not quite sure if Im a virgin or not. Ive `put it in` (twice) but I didnt come. So Im not sure. It could just be unfinished business.. Its been 5 years since I last tried. So I might just class myself as a virgin anyway.... (50 words

I can't retract my foreskin. Is this a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi im 15 years old and i've only realised about a year ago that my foreskin doesnt roll over the head of my penis this is scaring me ....i dont want to go to the doctors about it because it would scare me and i would get really worried incase i had to have an operation done ... (62 words

We broke up. Is seeing me every morning at the gym preventing him from missing me? Do I reschedule?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Quick question for the men..My bf and I broke up after 3yrs, we just havn't been getting along latelty because of some problems, we broke up once before and he came back 3 weeks later saying he missed me and wanted to try again. This time he got really angry with me and left ... (154 words

I want my friends back, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and i have a sister who is one year older than me.we always had a nice relationship,like all siblings have.i also have a friend(girl)whom i met 10 years ago and she is 16 as well.we always were very close,she used to be my best friend.but things and people ... (476 words

My daughter's bf is disrespectful - and I don't know how to handle this. I've taken care of my grandchildren up to now.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age - My Daughters bf just shows no respect .. my daughter has been dating this guy for about 5 yrs they have 2 children together , My daughter and her children live with me . My one grandaughter is almost 3 and they other is abt 8 months the 8 mth has live with me all her 8 months... (566 words

I've slept with my female bestfriend, though I have a bf. I fell in love with her, so should I pursue her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Me and my bf been dating over a year and is going good for now. But there's a secret i want to tell him, i think I am in love with my bestfriend... but she's a girl. I knew her ever since 7th grade and she moved away after 8th grade. I havent seen her for t... (197 words

I slept with my my bf's brother 8 yrs ago. Sometimes we're happy, sometimes he suddenly brings up this issue. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with a guy who has been a friend of mine for so long. I really love him and his daughter so much. I have always gone to him for relationship advice and other issues. We have been living together and working on a relationship for the last seven months. ... (192 words

My ex bf called me after 6 months of our breakup, what does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi! i brokeup with my ex bf about 6months ago over the phone because i accused him of not being there for me when i lost a close relative.i felt bad for calling it off over the phone though.he called me for about 3 days but i didnt pickup his calls so he stopped calling.he ... (312 words

He likes me - I refuse a relation, now I like him - but we live away now and he's in a relation. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i want to tell my friend that i would like to be more than friends but am not sure if this is a good idea. we met a few years ago and i know for sure he had a crush on me for quite a while. i made it clear that i didn't feel the same and we became really good friends. over... (208 words

What is holding him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've been with my bf over 2 years. We have off/on discussed future plans, including buying a home and marriage. We've both been married before (his divorce is not yet final); we have kids similar ages. I knew sometime ago that I was committed to him for the long haul, and felt ... (210 words

Could I get pregnant by another man and claim it was my husband's child?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have a husband,and want a child from him.He also likes a child from me. But he can't give birth.Can i get pregnant from other and tell him that it is yours? Is there a method of checking who the parents of the child are?What can i do-please help.... (51 words

Afraid my friend is anorexic

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm really worried about a friend of mine, she is becoming obsessed with what she eats. She has started writing a 'food diary' with what she eats every day, I looked at it and it has things like 'half a bowl of soup', 'half a mars bar' etc. I'm really worried about her because ... (180 words

Am I jealous of my fiance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M - Can someone please help? My fiance broke up with me citing jealousy issues, she was 4 years older than me with a child of 14 years. He recently went to a private school as he has special needs. Since then, it seemed that my Fiance found a new freedom and started going out ... (477 words

Should I tell her I know the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - About 10 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year, under duress from my parents - so it wasn't my choice. I said i wanted to remain good friends, because prior to dating we were great friends. Within three weeks of our breakup he declares that he's starting to fall ... (445 words

Do I give him any hints that I'm crazy about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 16 years old. My two other male subjects in question are "Cinta" (20) and "Sayang" (21). They both are best friends, are extremely close, live together and have known each other a pretty long time. I only met the pair around three and a half months ago but it seems ... (763 words

Why don't I feel pregnant??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hI i'M 19 and 11 weeks pregnant with my fiance of 2 years and we've decided to keep it but my question is why don't I feel pregnant? I mean I'm not showing much and I havent had my first scan yet because we only decided to keep it recently and my doctor said I would get a le... (86 words

I've been sleeping with my husbands best friend! He doesn't know. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Ok Guys And Gals here's my problem.2 yrs ago i did a very stupid thing and slept with my husbands best friend 3 times(over the course of a year)My Husband and i were having a really bad time and his friend was a shoulder to cry on so to speak.He was affectionate very hard to ... (242 words

I like another woman! Please, please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - PLEASE take time to read this...and help me if you can... Basically, I'm a 20 year old girl and for about 3 years now I've been completly besotted by another woman... She's 32 and single, but I don't know what her sexual orientation is. I posted a comment before and was t... (417 words

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am in 11th and i really like a guy, he's in 12th and i think he like me too but i am not so sure.i mean he makes eye contact and sometimes smile.he is a good friend of one of my friends,so one day i was standing with her and he came and was talking to her about something but ... (104 words

My ex is trying to break us up. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hiya my names Joanne, I was with my boyfriend for about 10 months it was a close relationship, but then it came to an end and he finished me for going out with my friend joade cos he didnt like me going out, 2 months later he had got a new girlfriend and i got a n... (134 words

She has commitment issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi Guys and thank you for reading! I have been with this girl for 1 year and a half. After 1 year she dumped me because she thought she did not love me anymore. I called her again and again, but nothing, she would not answer my calls. I let her go, and called her again... (948 words

TEXT ME BACK!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - There's a guy I used to work with who I'm also sleeping with. The problem is that leading up to me staying at his place we'll be texting loads, but afterwards he doesnt text and wont reply to my messages. Then 2-3 weeks later he'll text and be like "sorry i didn't have credit", ... (110 words

What's the deal, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - This is the first time ive ever done this type of thing...im just lookin for responses..opinions. Basicly my ex and i were together for about 7 months, broke up, didnt talk for about 3 months then we started seeing eachother again which only lasted another 2 months. Basicly...i ... (790 words

19, after a stressful day, my attitude towards others has changed... Could this be a hormonal thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone, strange problem. A few days ago, I had a very stressful day at college. It seemed like everyone was trying to irritate me, and cause me some kind of stress. I find that stress causes me to dwell on me and my ex splitting up earlier this year. I suppose it is na... (202 words

No proper communication.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm 23 age and i have been unluck with men.My firt boyfriend cheated with my cousin. my second boyfriend and he is the one i'm with now i don't love him. I dated him just because i was lonery and the thought of getting older without a men, make people wonder about my status. ... (170 words

She pushes me away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - about 2 weeks ago, i went to spend 3 weeks by my girlfriend. it was perfect. she didn't say once she needed space... life was perfect. now that we seperate from each other, all she wants is her free space. why would she want space after spending 3 perfect weeks with me? ... (88 words

I would like to know where I stand with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6010 days ago

12 November 2007 (F - hi, i have been seeing a guy for ten months now and it is not really a serious relationship according to me. i am 30 and he is 37. we have both never been married before. i have no children but he has a baby who is 8 months, with his ex . i speak to this guy on the phone alm... (178 words

It hurts to see them with someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Haven't had a relationship with a girl for 15 years. Only been able to take 3 girls out for one night only in that time. I love female company and know a lot to talk to but have no idea how to get a partner or a girl as a friend. I have made a complete mess with girls... (98 words

What to do to get her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - i love one girl, i cant to get her i've waited her for two years what could i do?... (19 words

I feel odd when teachers help over my shoulder

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have this weird problem like uhh sometimes when im in school i will have teachers help me and you know when you know someone is behind you and like right over your shoulder...I kinda like that but whats odd is that 5 of my teacher are male and they are the ones that i need ... (102 words

She hasn't returned my calls.

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12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been in a two month relationship with my girlfriend and I have never pushed her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Yesterday night, while we were making out, I asked her something, and she said that she wasn't ready (it wasn't sex), and I said that was fine- t... (153 words

Do I break up with her.

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She won't change her mind.

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12 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - i need help i have been with my parter for 20 years and she wants to leave as she says that she has no feelings for me. i have asked her why and she tell me that i have hert her to many time she will not let things that have happend in the past go move on. i love her so much ... (116 words

What to day or do.

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It's a matter of time before he does this again.

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12 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been a committed gay relationship for the last six years. We have been living toether for five years, and from time to time, his brother has live with us, you know on and off. Whenever his brother moves back in, I am instantlly the housemaid and cook. ... (604 words

Is there such a thing as overmasterbating.

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12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old male and i have a odd question...Is there such thing as over masterbating?I do it atleast once a day could this effect me in anyway? Thank you for your time and help... (40 words

Kiss a girl that's done oral sex.

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I'm obsessed with masterbation.

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Why some guys don't like to kiss girls.

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12 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Why some guys don`t like to kiss girls, what do you think?... (12 words

I don't know what to do about this.

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12 November 2007 (F age - Hi, I am a 44 year old woman that is just coming out. I met a gal online about 1 month ago and we are personally meeting for the first time this week. I am a bit nervous because this is all so new to me. I am very certain that I am gay, so that’s not the issue. I am just... (84 words

Am I ready for sex?

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People comment my size in the shower.

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12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I play football and sometimes after practice or games we take showers and every time someone points out how big my penis is. is there such thing as having to big of a penis... (34 words

I'm in love with my two friends, but they're in love with eachother.

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12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - i'm a 16 year old teen and recently I've began to question my own sexuality. I'm gay or at leats I think I do but I'm in love with a female friend and she loves me but not as much as I do. I'm also in love with a boy I've known since 8th grade but he's in love with my female ... (116 words

I have trouble controlling my actions.

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12 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - i nee serious help! theres something terribly wrong with me! whenever my girlfriend gets upset (it can be other people too), i cant seem to control what i say or do. she'll want to leave the room or get off the phone and i wont let her. its not that i have control issues, i let ... (103 words

So am I a lesbien

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12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - alrite... hmm i kno this seems to b a common Q but i'm relle wondering if i am a lesbian? well i think about girls 24/7 i mean in like a sexual way. n i tend to b attracted more to girls then guys. there is only one guy i care about (sexually n emotionially bsides ... (202 words

My french teacher is a beautiful person (inside and out)

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12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Please someone help me im so confsed and lost i lov emy rench teacher and im gonna cry, this isn't right i wasnt raised this way. Im a 9th grader my name is estc girl. You may have seen my other comments ive been online for an hour almost waiting 4 an answer. PLEASE, help me ... (151 words

Girl crushes on teachers.

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Sleep around or wait for the one.

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Conservative boyfriend, hang on to him fo life, please help

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I think I have a crush on his workmates.

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12 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend soo much and i would never do anythin to hurt him or ever cheat on him but i think i have a crush on his work mate. his work mate is a nice guy but has a gf himself and i know he's a sleeze coz iv seen him cheat on her and he's tried things with me before ... (100 words

Nausea from sexual encounters

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He's abused me, now I'm finally ready to leave him, should I have anything to fear?

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12 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am an unhappily married person,and have been for some time. I have been with my husband for 12 years, living together for six years and married for six. Over the course of our marriage he has cheated repeatedly, used my trust against me and subjected me to various types of ... (179 words

Does he really love me, or is he just saying it?

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12 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy. We haven't had much face to face time, and this has been going on for quite some time. He said that he wants to come visit me, but I said I wasn't sure anymore. He then tells me he loves me. Can he really mean it, or is he t... (72 words

Why are there double standards when it comes to men and women having sex?

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