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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I have problems with immature post break up anntics.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi all. Here's my situation, the last two girls who I have dated have broke up with me because they have liked other guys I tell myself just to move on but there is just always part of me that wants to keep pursuing the girl. This often results in some immature actions on my ... (179 words)

Should I call or give him some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - kk i need help on this one!! i started seeing this guys during the summer, we slept together and he kept telling me how much he liked me and all... at first i didnt reply to his comments but after a while i started to get attached and told him that i liked him too. after i ... (99 words)

How long will it be until I find another girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I'm a little confused. I understand that it varies, but how often do guys, on average, get girlfriends? I've only ever had one, and I got her when I was 16. She split up with me a few months ago. I'm 19 now, and I can't say that I know that anybody is interested in me... (119 words)

What to do to get over him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i jus got outta a really bad break up and the bad thing is we both want each other back but i have a boyfriend and i dont wanna go back to the past i have tried crying to get over him i have tried to right a letter and i jus dont know wat to do to get over him and tell my heart ... (78 words)

Love triangle, please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - hi, last yr i really liked this girl i would take a bullet 4 her u could say i was obsessed with her. a yr later after she had rejected me twice i went out with her bestfriend then after a month of us going out in a truth or dare game the girl who i used to like addmited she ... (217 words)

How come some guys are passionate and some guys aren't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm the kinda girl who loves to be cuddled love to hold hands all the time love to be smothered and spoiled with kisses but my boyriend doesn't do any of that. so my question is how come some guys are pasionate and some guys aren't?... (46 words)

How can I get everything back to normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok well I have a problem... I have a best guy friend and he has a girlfriend, ever since he got this girl shes been a total jerk to me and is trying to ruin me and his relationship. I havent told him about this because im afraid that itll just end up in a fight. But its really ... (73 words)

Am I streight or bi.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - im not sure about my sexual orientation ; i love boys and everythign about them .. but then again ive noticed that i have an attraction to girls also ; every since i was about 12. ive never dated a girl ; and i couldnt see myself dating one ... so whats the deal ?... (64 words)

Why am I so scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i have a thing about pushing guys or actually every body away and my boyfriend is trying so hard to get close to me and every time he does i always do something to mess it up or make him feel bad i think he's falling hard for me and i cant stand it i cant stand people getting ... (127 words)

I don't want to be mean by just leaving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi I'm in a bit of a tricky situation...Here goes Well I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now. I've been thinking about my ex alot. We decided to meet up and go for a walk and chat. We really have strong feelings for each other. She tells me she loves me and I l... (138 words)

He'd cause problems if I finished it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have a child with him. my mum thinks we split up 3 years ago and would disown me if she new. i dont love him or want to be with him but i know he will cause serious problems for me if i finish it. what can i do. ... (59 words)

I feel guilty for not being fair to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm writing because I need advice, perspective. I met a guy over 1 year ago in Toronto. It was a friend of a friend and a roommate at the same time. Not long after he moved in (we were 3 living in a house), we hooked up for all the wrong reasons (him being sad over a... (418 words)

Someone we don't know is telling him things.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok my boyfreind and i have been going out for a month and a couple weeks and a person that nether of us know that well told him that i don't trust him and he belived her and we have been fighting and alot of stuff we both said was not true and i apoligized for everything i said ... (78 words)

I'm not horney any more, is it normal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i used to be horny all the time when i was with my last boyfriend. i then started finding him unattractive and never wanted to do anythin with him for a long time. its been months and months since i was last THAT horny. now im with my new boyfriend and i think he is so hot but ... (290 words)

How do I talk dirty to my hubby, any tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband wants me to talk dirty. I try sometimes but not often. I dont know how. anyone have any tips?... (23 words)

Is this guy just messing with my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi , please help! This guy is messing with my mind!! Ok here's the story! I met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we talked for a bit and then he asked me for my number! He texted me and we've been chatting on msn all week , it was going really well and he even said he... (375 words)

Do you think he loves me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for quite some time now at least 6 months i knew him as a friend from school before we went out with eachover,when school ended we built our realonship together things went really well in the past months,until when i went to college ... (279 words)

We plan on getting married, we love each other, but the sex is drying up, I am wondering if he really loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) age 26-29 - I have been with my BF for 2 years now, we bought a house in the summer so since 6 months. We love each other so much that I think we love each other so bad. It is so funny why we love each other so much when we have sex once a week and when we do it, we have to plan ... (164 words)

Stress, no sex life, what more can I do to sort this out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

21 November 2007 (M) - Hi guy's, I'm after a bit of advice really... Not sure where to start to start to be honest, ummmm, well basically I met this girl about 7 months ago and we started dating and going out and everything was happy days, but over the past 2 months I've had a really really st... (300 words)

I'm stuck for what to get my boyfriend for Christmas!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for only about a week now, but I like him a lot and he means a lot to me. I am 15 and he's 17. Christmas is about a month away and I don't know what to get him. Keep in mind that I'm not all that rich.. and I do like getting sentimental ... (120 words)

I can't stop crying as he doesn't want to go out with me any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Basically,, Me and my ex where together for just over a year, we're only 15 but we were in love. I don't care if people say we were too young becasue we weren't! We were talking about having sex, but we both took it very seriously and decided to wait! Then suddenly out of ... (124 words)

What else can I do to pluck up the courage to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Right so there's this girl where I work and basically I fancy the pants off her and have done for quite a while and I have been told by others that it looks like she fancies me too. I have really low self esteem and really want to ask her out but whenever I get the chance I... (81 words)

My wife left me and the kids, her sister stepped up to the plate to help, but I'm falling for her, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex walked out on me and our kids and her younger sister came to stay with us for a while just to help me look after my children because suddenly becoming a single Dad without any warning was totally mind blowing to me. We've settled down a bit and now my ex's sister is ... (249 words)

I just want to help, I can't stand seeing her like this anymore, I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have recently got a new girlfriend who I seriously like and think I may be in love with her. We have been going out for 3 months and I've never been happier but it's just her past, it breaks my heart. She always found it hard to fit in, she never had many close friends,... (391 words)

I've been living with my nan with my brother for 4 years now due to family problems but my brother wants to move back with my mother what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Back 4 years ago I had major issues with my mother and step father. These issues were to do with high level drugs. For 3 years I was the person who looked after my brother and cared for him. No one else knew about the problem so I had no help with this. After about 3 years of ... (247 words)

He had a foursome before he went out with me, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months and it's great and so is the sex. until one day he let it slip that he done a foursome before he went out with me.? Is this something to worry bout? Also he watches a lot of porn and has magazines does this mean he likes po... (62 words)

How can I stop being so stressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm so so stressed at the moment, I have so much stuff to deal with, this ranges from personal, to college work, to relationships! Everything is just too much at the moment, and I need some advice on how to deal with it all!!!! I feel like I'm under a huge amount of pressu... (76 words)

Should I fight for him, or should I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - About 2 year ago, a friend I've been mates with for about 3 years said he was in love with me. He has always been a player and I didn't want that. I didn't feel the same and told him it was strictly friendship. We were always close. We hug all the time and used to hang around ... (197 words)

Why is he keeping touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age - My ex and I broke up a little over a year ago. Our relationship didn't end on a great note so we didn't really talk nicely up until now. He is now contacting me through emails, it's only been a short time of talking but it has been every day. After the initial hi's the first ... (104 words)

I think my friends guy might be cheating on her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey this is a question that has been nagging out me for a long time now...its about my friend she has a boyfriend that lives 3 hours away form her she's only seen him twice IN HER WHOLE LIFE she thinks she's in love but this is just her first "real" relationship. i think he's ... (121 words)

How come my boyfriend wont stick up for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - k well i cant get this outta my head and i really need your help. my boyfriend is always hanging out with his friend like 24/7 seriously and this one guy is always staying the night and i really dont even like him but when i try to call my boyfriend he answers and stuff he ... (141 words)

A boy called me a bimbo. What does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok this may sound like a silly question but recently in my english class a boy said i was a "bimbo" what did he mean by this was he calling me a slag.... (33 words)

My girlfriends past annoys me. How can I get over that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello there, Im think im going nuts over silly things , i fell in love this summer with an amazing girl shes 24 and Im 27. i was working as a scuba diving instructor and one of my brothers mates rang me and asked if he could bring his new girfriend down as they were just mee... (408 words)

How can I increase my libido?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have always had quite a low sex drive, my boyfriend, like most men, has quite a high sex drive. I'd like to have sex more, the thing is, I don't look forward to it but once I get into it I really enjoy it. My boyfriend is a very giving lover, he always makes sure I hav... (72 words)

Should I get a third Hep B vaccine if its overdue? If not what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

- Last july (2006) I was in a club and i thought someone had jabbed a needle into my arm. Anxious I went to the hospital and got a hep B vaccine. The doctor said it was unlikely to be a needle jab but I should still get the second vaccination a month later, which I did. I was ... (120 words)

He uses girls for sex. Is he doing the same with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - To start off, I recently had a break up with my boyfriend of 2 years. In my eyes, the relationship was amazing, couple fights here and there...but all round just amazing. We both love eachother and want to be together in the future. There was nothing wrong with the sex we had o... (317 words)

My boyfriend says I smell down there. What could be wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, so I'm a 16 year old girl and I've only been with one guy...and a few girls. My boyfriend hates the fact that down there isn't entirely pleasant smelling. It doesn't exactly smell fishy, but it smells, and I guess he notices it alot more than I do. I wash everyday and ... (145 words)

Is he making a fool out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey ppl. iv got a huge problem an yes its about a guy! iv been seeing a guy for about 5weeks and to him its just abit of fun but to me its alot more! so iv carried on meeting him and sleeping with him! i no i shudnt but i just cant help myself i no im deluded in thinking hel ... (208 words)

Will this long distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i met a guy trough internet. i never thought that we will connect this much. we are talking for hours every day. i am not sure, but i think that i have feeling for him, and he says that he is in love with me. what should i do? can this kind of relationship survive?... (56 words)

Is this discharge an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Gel-like clearish discharge from vagina, more so when I'm aroused. What is this? I'm a virgin, so I don't think it could be STD, but I'm still worried. Is there any other way to get STD?? I've only been with one guy, and he was a virgin too, but we didn't have sex, he jus... (108 words)

My guy seems to use me as a convenience to do his chores. What can I do about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently engaged to a wonderful man. We recently moved in together, and over the last couple months I have noticed something he does that drives me nuts. He is always asking me to do simple tasks for him - for instance, calling the cable company, or dropping the rent off ... (212 words)

I'm not sure if he likes me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everybody! I'm in a crisis here! There's this boy I like, and I'm not sure if he likes me. Like: at the Hallowe'en Dance,he'd walk up to me with his friend, then turn around (a couple of times). And in class he always stares at me and he runs up whenever I'm talking to m... (91 words)

He cheated on her with me. Should I get into something with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I joined a new company and I was instantly attracted to a colleague and he seemed to be attracted to me too. At first there was alot of flirty office banter between the two of us and we didn't necessarily hide it. We had a few staff get togethers which would end with us ... (249 words)

Is it wise to get with an ex that cheated just for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm between relationships and an old girlfriend calls me. This girl I split up in bad terms. She cheated on me behind my back and after I confronted her we broke up. But now she calls me back after a year has passed, she said she's not involved with anyone and wants us to get ... (83 words)

I love my girl very much but because of my low self asteem I cant resist attention from other girls..help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now after chasing her for the previous 2 years. She is my perfect partner, shes beautiful, smart, funny and we have an amazing relationship. My problem is that since we've been together Ive started attracting more attention from ... (91 words)

Am I still in love or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I have a problem... or not... I am not even sure. I have a boyfriend that is very much in love with me... And it's not the words kind of love but the one in which he actually shows me that everyday... I'm happy but i just don't feel that sparkle I used to feel before... ... (122 words)

It feels like each day gets worse since our break up, will this ever stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so down and unhappy. My fiance left me 3 weeks ago because he said he didn't love me anymore and our home is on the market already. We were due to get married next year! Yes we argued quite alot before he left, but doesn't everyone. We had 5 great years together and now he ... (214 words)

I may be in love with a person I dated during the short time I was separated from my bf. Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 18 and have been with my b/f for 4 and a half years. I now think im in love with someone else who i dated before when me and my b/f broke up for about a month or 2! Im really confused but dont want to hurt anyone...Help!... (50 words)

He is 60 yrs of age, do you think this is too old to start a relationship with, as I do want children, etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, a much older man (27 years to be exact) has told me that he loves me and has since the very first time he met me (we know each other over a year). I know he currently has a partner and he has told me they are separating, he has also mention that he is looking for a job ... (134 words)

Since and after my pregnancy, my husband's sex drive has reduced to almost zero. On our wedding day "nothing" happened - he said we have the rest of our lives to have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a 14 month old son and got married 4 months ago. We had only been togehter 4 months when we decided to start a family, in those heady exciting days. Since I got pregnant, my husband's sex drive has reduced to almost nothing. At first I thought it was because I was ... (441 words)

I feel my husband always finds activities that do not include me! I'm bored and frustrated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband spent 7 years going out every night and secretly smoking pot,now that has all stopped he spends every available moment alone upstairs playing on the computer. it just seems that he finds ant thing to do that doesn't include me,i'm so bored and frustrated, what should ... (50 words)

Sibling rivalry? My sister does not seem to be happy for my wedding, and has always been competitive against me. I feel hurt by this, how to mend it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear All, I don't know if anyone can help advise me on sibling rivalry, but I have an upsetting relationship with my sister that I would like to mend... We have always been close (she is one year younger than I) - I am now a 34 year old woman who was single for a long ... (488 words)

He's loaded but he always counts value for money. He does not like to eat out, is always looking for bargain, will not help a friend when they're in need of money. Do I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 45 just divorced. My husband has got very ill temper. He used to take me to a meal or buy my gifts or holidays to apologize. It's not working anymore as I cant bear it anymore so I've divorced him. Then I met this man 18 years older than me. He seldom loses temper ... (168 words)

Is he attracted to me or is he just doing his job??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a member at my local gym and there is this really nice, kind, attractive instructor there. He has been helping me with my proggramme for about a year now.We laugh together and get on well. I know he has got a girlfriend.He hasn't told me but someone else has.He doesn't ... (237 words)

Anyone with any ideas to get us out of this rut??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

- I only get to see my boyfriend a few times a week. We have been going out 2 years and all we seem to do is watch tv and go to the pub. Most nights we only see each other a few hours and i need some ideas as i feel we are stuck in a rut. Anyone got any ideas please??... (62 words)

Am I a spice girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

- Hi My boyfriend often calls me spicey but when I ask what he means he says nothing. My question is what does it mean when you call a person spicey?... (33 words)

I feel so guilty for cheating on him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me. I married my boyfriend of 7 years 4 months ago and I love him to death. Four and a half years before we got married I went out with a friend and got really, really drunk. I woke up the next day to find I had gone home with a guy and may have slept together... (241 words)

I get loads of attention from other girls but I really want my ex back...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi All, Well what an absolute nightmare. I’ve just ended a 15 month relationship. Everything was great at first but for the last 6 months or so we’ve been having petty rows pretty regularly. We never make up following a row, although I always try to initiate the make up (life... (619 words)

I have my first counselling session to talk about my insecurities and low self esteem. Can anyone suggest any other forms of help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I recently asked a question about how I can overcome my trust issues with my current girlfriend, well we have spoken about it and we have decided for me to give her space while she is at university, but still stay committed, but the promise I have made to her, is to get ... (102 words)

I feel I'm never going to get over this girl if I keep being such good friends with her, as she insisted. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm in college and I fell in love with a girl on my floor. She's the most amazing person I've ever met. She has a boyfriend though and says that me and her will never happen but she wants us to be friends. I tried telling her that I couldn't be friends with her because I loved ... (249 words)

Can anyone suggest how to forgive and build the trust again. I think I still love him but there is so much anger and confusion in the way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help. I need to learn to forgive and to trust again. My boyfriend left me for his ex and came back 3 months later. He is so different now. Seems more dedicated, supportive and generally more stable and sure of us. BUT I have withdrawn so much. I don't trust him. I need ... (103 words)

What's the difference between a f*** buddy and a casual relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - whats the difference between a casual relationship and fuck buddies? Is there one?... (13 words)

I don't like going for a pee when I'm round my boyfriends house... anyone else have this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone else have this problem, I find it really embarrassing going to the toilet when I stay the night at my bf house. I cant bear the thought of him hearing me, so I make myself ill holding it.Pathetic I know, but I cant help it. I have always been like this and wondered ... (67 words)

If he isn't interested why did he come and buy me a beer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok if you have read my last post then is my later news. Tonite I went out again to the same place as I met him last week and he showed up and not long came up to me to get drinks at the bar and bought me a new beer.He said he has been busy working overtime and I knew yeah an ... (272 words)

I get confused around girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i never enjoy my self around girls; i just get confused; how can i change that?... (16 words)

How can I make my boyfriend give me an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ive been a sexually active teenagers since the age of 14 and now i am 17 ... and ive had sex plenty of times ; but ive never experienced an orgasm before ... and i want to know what can i do ; or tell my boyfriend to make that experience happen for me ?... (66 words)

Help me survive a 3yr seperation... or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - while I was in the military I started playing world of warcraft. I used it to keep my self entertained and to help me stay out of trouble. While playing the game I met a woman who I instantly clicked with, our discussions and playing time, became more and more important to ... (1280 words)

Infatuation with my Latin teacher is influencing my decision for subject change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I've got a question that is affecting my schoolwork. I have a crush on a previous Latin teacher, who is also a female. I have a GPA of 4.0 in Latin and it is one of my best classes, and I also enjoy it immensely. This teacher took me last year, and because of this crush I ... (440 words)

Am I really that old-fashioned? I'm so tight, sex is painful and I want to wait for the right guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 21, one partner away from being a virgin, and I have a small problem -- or rather, I have a problem with being small. Sex is painful. It was painful after the first time, and no, practicing with a well-lubed dildo hasn't helped. I am one of those incredibly tight... (157 words)

I'm in love with someone who just wants to be friends. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

21 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - At first I was reluctant to speak to her as her ex boyfriend and i were close friends. he cheated on her and she phoned me the night they split up to see if he had spken to me as she couldn't get hold of him. i saw her the next day and we started to hang out and talk to each ... (1139 words)

My husband shows zero affection towards me... Am I entitled to divorce him or should I stay for the kids?

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21 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not been happily married for about 10 years, but no one would ever know. Through the years, we have had UPS and DOWNS. I have been to marriage counceling ALONE several times to save our marriage. He will not go. My husband is not affectionate but never has been. He ... (294 words)

Should I give my ex this chance to clarify or continue ignoring him? I'm happily married and do not want to upset my husband or my parents.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys iam married n happy, the problem is my ex.he tried to contact me many times but couldnt, then started callin up my friends i told them to tell him that i have nth to do wth him, now iam home wth my parents and he started callin me here.i dont want to upset my parents ... (117 words)

If he loves me, he will divorce his wife, but how long do I let our affair continue until I know he will never separate from her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a colleague, and fell in love. We were both married when it started. It has gone on for two years, and I am now JUST divorced. One problem: he moved out a year ago and has not started divorce proceedings. I know he adores me, he is ALWAYS with me and ... (222 words)

I'm rather shy, whereas he's outgoing. Do I have a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How can you tell if a guy is going to ask you out? Will I ever have a bf? I'm almost 16 and never had a bf because I'm quiet and shy. I like a senior, who I think likes me, but he's outgoing. Do I even have a chance? ... (53 words)

Would we look good together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I like a senior, but I'm not sure if he likes me. We danced together at Homecoming, a month ago, and he sometimes stares at me(his friends too).He even laughs at my jokes and 3 of my friends said we would look good together. What do you think?... (48 words)

I know I'm a rebound but I'm falling for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - umm this is complicated - i have been friends with a guy for about 4 years on and off ( hes 45, married with a daughter, iam 22) recently he got my no. of a mutual friend as he wanted to call me to catch up, he told my firend he always really liked me and he has left his wife ... (181 words)

He'd rather be washing his hair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband only wants sex once a week and then he acts like it is a job what's up with this?... (21 words)

I'm in love with my brothers friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Hey everyone, i got this problem...for a long time ive had this crush on my brothers friend n now im sure its love..im 18 now n i was in the 8th grade when i first realized i had feelings for him. When he comes over we talk and have fun. We hug a lot and look at eachothe... (232 words)

Do guys that have "one nite stands" like to cuddle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year when my boyfriend and I broke up I met this cutie.. he's 24, I'm 32. We had an amazing nite of sex, but I got back with my boyfriend and I haven't talked to him since. Now I'm single again and last weekend I was out with friends and I ran into him, we had sex once ... (127 words)

My lover is taking trips with her ex alone, is that right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a lesbian, I am dating a Bisexual woman of 9 months. She remains friends with an ex boyfrined from a relationship for a year. Now they are planning trips to Haiwai and Las vegas alone. She gets jeaulous if I hang out with friends. Do I have a right to be upset?... (56 words)

PLEASE HELP....Is it bad to date someone 20 years older than you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 17 and I've always been a girl who's parents were always so proud.. I'm a pretty good kid. I dont drink... smoke... cuss... I'm a virgin... I'm christian and have an amazing relationship with God. But recently I struck up a friendship with a man and he became like my be... (278 words)

How do I get over this jealousy I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey I'm a really jealous girlfriend and my boyfriend can't stand it because I hold the past against him.... he kissed a girl like 6 months ago right in front of me at this party and I have been jealous since... I hate other girls texting him I hate it when they flirt with ... (80 words)

Stuck in a rut!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been in arelationship with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half but lately we've stopped being as affectionate to each other. Though it's long distance (200 miles from each other), that isn't the problem, we've always been quite romantic with each other. I ... (145 words)

How come my boyfriend isn't jealous at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend says he loves me and he doesn't want anyone else to have me but him but when his friends try to get with me and flirts with me in front of him he doesn't do anything about it, even if it's a guy that he doesn't know. My last boyfriend would at least say something ... (109 words)

I cant stop cheating on my boyfriend, I love him why is this, help me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey i have been a pretty bad girl lately fo rsome reason....i have cheated on my boyfriend alot and i dont know why..he's the best i mean he's closest to perfect as you can get. but my ex's makes move on me all th etime and i let them and sometimes when they try to kiss me i ... (101 words)

My husband is cheating with a 20yr old, but I want to stay together for the kids, how can I deal with his cheating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband of almost 14 years is having an affair with a 20 year old for about a month now. He says he loves me but not in love with me, which is confusing to me since we still have sex. I want to work things out not only for us but for our children. Does anyone have any ... (74 words)

What can I get him for Christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

21 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear Cupid, Well, as we all know, Christmas is approaching fast. I need some ideas as to what to give my crush. Even though we're not actually dating, I just really want to do something special for him... because I really love him a lot. I don't know if it will help much, ... (129 words)