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writes:i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years and about a year ago i lied to him and he cant forgive or even forget!! so things aren`t going so well we fight a lot and im so tired from all whats happening..i tried really hard to fix things up but its not working.now he cant trust me anymore,so what can i do to gain his trust again?? please i really need your help im so depressed i even thought of hurting myself cuz i cant take it anymore..please try to help me i really need your adviceThank you
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reader, Star_07  + ♥, writes (12 November 2007):
 There are plenty of ways of earning his trust back. Is he willing to work things out? Its hard to tell you how to get him to trust you without really understanding what you lied about. As far as I can tell, you can earn his trust back IF HE is willing to forgive you. I say this because if you are doing all the "right" things and truly regret what you did, there has to be a point where he is willing to be okay with it. The point where he does NOT question your every move or bring up that "lie" in an argument and make you pay for it 10,000 times over.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 November 2007):
 What did you lie to him about? A little more information will get you better responses, honey.
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reader, futurequite  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 The question is what was it that you lied about, if its that deep than you might never regain his trust. My boyfriend is jest the same, he can`t trust me again and its really hard for me we fight all the time most of it. I know he`ll never forgive me so i live each day saying i`ll leave but i jest can`t. My advise to you is try talking to him and promise it well never happen again. good luck!!
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