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I don't know what to say?

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7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok, my very close friend (who is a lad) has just found out that his grandad is dying. He has been crying most of the day because of how close he is to him. I really dont know what to say. I really care about him and want him to be happy, be ive never experienced a lo... (115 words

Which guy to choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone! My question is fairly normal and unimportant, but advice would certainly be appreciated!! I've been out a few times with a guy who comes into where I work all the tine, and last night he ended up kissing me after a night out. He's a really nice guy but he's 22 and ... (144 words

Two years and never had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now. and we have not had sex. Everytime I bring it up he says we will and nothing ever happens. I am 35 and he is 47.... (37 words

How do you know if a guy is cheating?

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7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - How do you know if a guy is cheating? i mean people say that if you think it then it must be real but what about if you were in a relationship before and were cheated on would that just make you a suspicious person?... (45 words

I don't know if I should tell her or just leave it alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi there... I just need advice on a matter that has been on my mind almost 24/7 for the past 3 years or so... I have feelings that are so strong towards an ex-teacher of mine(who is also female). After I left High school I stayed in contact with her, and I felt we became v... (221 words

I want to feel the explosion, the shaking inside just once.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - This may seem silly but I would really appreciate help with this one. I have, not unlike other women, never reached orgasm. I'm comfortable with my self and happy trying to please myself, I get very turned on but nothing else. Im in an amazing loving relationship with a... (133 words

I cheated and can't get over the guilt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I cheated on my husband and can't deal with the guilt.I want a divorce but he does'nt.What should I do?... (20 words

Am I being paranoid about not meeting his parents.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and I have still not met his parents, all though we do come from to different racial backgrounds, Im am white and he is asain. I love him so much and I really do want to meet his parents, and he still refuses to tell them. I do ... (106 words

Heartbroken in Iraq

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with this woman for just over a year, and have been engaged for almost a year. We have been friends for 10 years and she was my first real girlfriend. We dated way back when we were in 9th grade and were just friends until one day when i was home on leave... (302 words

How do I make this pain stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We started off good but he started drinking heavily and we seemed to just start fighting. We would break up and get back and so on. We got engaged 2 years ago and bought a house. Five months prior to our wedding (Feb 07) he calls me at ... (264 words

I'm scared of making the first move.

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7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi my husband walked out on me and our 2 daughters 5 mnths ago an we are getting divorced but his best mate an i r aware of a spark between us an we r both aware of it as we have spoke about the situation an he has made it clear that he really likes me but is afraid that i will ... (113 words

Does anyone have advice for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I recently met a girl on an internet forum. We grew close, and are now pretty much in an internet relationship. We instant message each other, are able to see each other on webcams, and call each other up regularly. We have sent each other letters and packages in the mail too. ... (258 words

I still have a sick feeling in my stomach

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age - My husband and I share our computer and he didn't log out of his email account. I looked (rightly or wrongly) and I found out that my husband has been viewing porn sites, not only viewing but emailing women as well. In one of the emails it looked as if he was arranging to meet ... (150 words

Is this cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i kissed a lad on the cheek to say thankyou and he kissed me on the cheek back is this cheating on my boyfriend?... (24 words

There's no room downstairs, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey guys! i have a problem and i know u've heard it all before but.. my vagina is far to tight for sex, no matter how relaxed i am, i've read other peoples answers to this problem (e.g. relax, take it slow etc) and i've tried it all, ive even tried a vibrator to prepare me, but ... (86 words

Best friend drama

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7 November 2007 (F age 26-29 - ok my so called best friend got my boyfriend to dump me and says chelsea i miss being friends and he teacher took the note and said go to the councler tomarrow what should i say ... (38 words

We were an item once, now just friends, its still o.k to tell her I love her though isnt it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - I am wondering if it is all right to tell a woman friend of mine in an e-mail that I love her and care about her? We had a relationship at one time, but subsequently we have come to a mutual understanding and are good friends. I would also tell her that I am not trying to ... (205 words

I love him, don't want to cheat, but don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F - hi everyone thanks for reading this post. Basically I am engaged to a lovely man and I love him dearly - we met online 2 yrs ago and are getting married in 2009. We have a very happy relationship however we haven't had sex in the last year and I find this very hard to deal ... (139 words

I can't stop thinking about it, it's eating me up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been going with my boyfriend for ten months, its had major ups and major downs and sometimes i question why i`m with him, but i couldnt bare to leave him and see him with somebody else, recently i learned that his ex girlfriend was a virgin who he had sex with in their ... (131 words

I don't know why I feel this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - ok strange thing..... me and my wife have been together since we were 16 and i've always known she has never masurbated because i've asked her outright but honesty couldn't believe her at first but did eventually. Well she was away on this trip with school as shes a teacher and ... (314 words

My girlfriend looks like she doesn't like me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - My relationship is having a huge problem since a lot of time, and it is coming to a bad point. One day, when having sex with my GF, the condom broke. It was a hard time for her since she is very fearful person. Problem came when, after 2 times, it broke again. She is really ... (494 words

Married without parents permission

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - can a 16 year old who is pragnet by her 21 year old boyfriend get marry without parents permision... (19 words

How can I stop her from coming with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Right i got dis friend lets call her 'Katy' and she's being really clingy to my other mate, who i'm better friends with than Katy. Anyway she's like constantly with us all the time, sometimes it really bugs me - i don't consider her as a good friend. It's like she always has to ... (203 words

After my divorce I met a man who made me feel wanted, loved. I'm not in love, just scared of being alone. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age - I am 45 and just divorced my husband whom we've been married for 22 years. Then I met this man 18 years older than me. He made me feel wanted. We've been together for 6 months now. But now I realise I am not in love with him. He told me he has fallen in love with me. I ... (84 words

Difference between love and friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - i was recently going out with a young lady, and a couple of dates later she said she started to feel like we were friends, even though we were kissing and eventually had sexual intercourse a couple of dates later. did she just want sex? how can u differentiate between ... (57 words

I started to see my ex and father of my kids again but the attraction and romance have vanished. I'm too young to feel this way? Anyone can relate to my story?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi - I'm not sure I want to be with my partner. We'd been together 4 years before splitting up earlier this year. We don't live together but started seeing each other again about 2 months ago. I was the one that ended the relationship - things hadn't been right since arou... (193 words

He doesn't love me the way he should

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Help!! I am still in love with my exbotyfriend but I recently found out that he has been married for 1 year and also has a nwborn son. my heart truely belongs to him. I am in in a relationship with my two kids father but he doesn't love me the way a man should. Please help me ... (77 words

How do I break the ice talking with the boy I like? - without appearing as weird.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (? age 26-29 - I really like a boy, but I don't know how to approach him. Wouldn't he think I was weird if I just walked up to him and just started a convosation with him when I have never talked to him EVER? Any advice on how to break the ice? ... (49 words

I need to control my snack habit

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7 November 2007 (? age 26-29 - Most nights when I get home from school I have loads of snacks and it is worrying me because I don't want to get over weight. Like tonight, I have a packet of crisps, ice cream and a biscuit. I don't intend on having so many snacks but I can't help it! Any advice on how to ... (61 words

Why do they care so much to push the issue.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been going out and living with my boyfriend for three years and we recently got engaged. Our sex life is fantastic, and we do anything and everything sexually. We do some very filthy things and most of the time our sex is like a hardcore porn movie, which both of us ... (264 words

I can't find one that can cope with dunkin

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7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a Huge Problem!........................ Whenever i have a cup of tea i liek to enjoy a few biscuits but i cant find one that can cope with dunking!! Any suggestions?... (35 words

I need someone to listen and give me advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey I'm going through a really bad time at the moment, I've just finished High School and started at college (UK kind of college, not US) and I properly hate it, I'm missing loads of my lessons because I can't be bothered and whenever I think about it I want to burst out cry... (310 words

I broke up with my bf over the phone. He's been seeing someone younger, should I take him back if he asks me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I broke up this morning on the phone. This is the second time in a year that we have broken up. The first time we remaind friends and saw each other. I don't know what to do because he is the only one that makes me happy. He has been seeing someone that is ... (136 words

I feel my bf chooses his family over me and sometimes lies to see them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am from trinidad and live with my boyfriend. we both love one another very much. but his family doesn't like me at all. he always choses his family over me and even lies to see them. i know he should get time to see them but they are a bad influence on him and i am just ... (104 words

Period is heavy and lasts long - it's unusual for me. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay So I Started My Periods At 12, And They were Regular And Lasted For 5 Days. Im 15 now and the last few months my Periods have been Weird... Last month i didnt have one and this month iv i came on on the 12th October And im Still on now. Its Weird And I Dont Know Why..Ive ... (121 words

Been with my husband for 30 yrs, I kicked him out after discovering his affair. How do I cope with being alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age - I have been with my husband for 31 years, married 26 and found out last week that he is having an affair with a girl 21 years younger. The relationship is based on fantasy. They text over 1,200 times in one month and I found a note in his truck with a list 13 of her fantasys ... (120 words

Is it true most girls prefer taller men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi there I'm very worried about my height being a bloke, 18 and only bout 4ft 10 to 5ft tall n Im probably not going to worry. Is it really true that most girls prefer taller men and if so why would u reckon so? I personally find it harsh not just cos Im a short bloke. ... (134 words

How soon could I be tested by blood/urine to see if I'm pregnant?

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7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i would like to know how soon could i be tested by either blood or urine? to see if im pregnant? ... (21 words

Should I tell him I have a crush on him and then maybe it will pass? - I already have a bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for almost a year and been living together for 7 months. He's a wonderful person and I really love him and would never do anything to hurt him, but for the last 2 1/2 months I have been training at the gym with one of his best friends (he's a ... (156 words

My husband threatened my 11 year old with a knife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - been married to a controling man for 10 yrs and have 3 kids lately he has grabbed me by the face a couple of times when he says i have done wrong and just last week he threatened my 11 year old while he had a knife in his hand. i have no life and want out but scarred about how ... (65 words

My husband demands sex in a demeaning way because I earn more money. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for two years now, and I do love my husband. Least year, my husband realized just how much more money I make them him and at first, he was just resentful. It then leered its way into our sex life, and he only wanted to be intimate if he was demeaning me in ... (172 words

Is he interested or is his flirting behaviour just friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

7 November 2007 (F - I've known this guy since the start of term, and there was like this instant attraction between us. We were both really keen on getting to know each other, even though we were at a new college and there were loads of other people we didn't know. So there's always been this ... (241 words

I asked my husband's permission to kiss another woman. Should I continue my quest to be with a woman if this fails?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a married woman aged 31yrs, I have a 2yr old son, i have told my husband that there is a girl at my gym that I want to kiss so much, she is 22yrs and gay,she was hurt by a married woman before at the gym, I dont want to lose our friendship, but I cant get her out of my ... (116 words

How do I get over how my ex abused me emotionally? He made me feel guilty for not wanting sex before marriage, for ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

7 November 2007 (F - How do I get over what he did to me? I broke up with my fiance a month ago because he was very emotionally abusive. He hasn't been leaving me alone, and though I shouldn't have called him last night, I did because I'm sick of him harassing me on myspace. I yelled at him and got ... (331 words

Stop traveling for relationship, as my gf suggested - although I like my job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for over a year, but I travel weekly for work. My gf told me recently that she didn't like my traveling and couldn't do it (the relationship) anymore, she said she needed time. I love my job and am good at it. I fully intended on marrying this woman, ... (71 words

Should I move on or wait around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Basically me and my ex broke up and i've been pretty much wanting to get with him since, i no its like anyother teenage romance. I complain about it too much, im sorry :( Recently he's told me he's liked me, and its lit an old spark between us, i dont love him as much as i use... (214 words

I don't want to get married to anyone ever.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a wonderful relationship for little over a year now. He is all I ever wanted from I guy and I know he is the kind of guy that is difficult to come across. We have a lot of fun together, great communication and have been living together for about 8 months. ... (281 words

Do I choose a new life and a new baby or my fiances stepson?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my fiance for a year and a half and he has a daughter aged 10 and a stepson aged 11 from his previous marriage. Both are difficult children behaviour wise and both bully my son and swear and call me names whilst at my house. I have told my boyfrien... (150 words

Am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, Lately my boyfriend of 3 yrs has been acting up he always yells at me and tells me that I stress him. In the 3 yrs he managed to impregnate 2 girls but I forgave him and we moved on but I can't handle his abusiveness. Am I overreacting?... (54 words

How can I find perfect relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - dear cupid, i fell in love to a man that got married, I really love him, what will I do, I know he will never be mine - but I'm really crazy about him, and why if the man fell in love with me deeply I will not like him any more? what do I do, I can't find perfect ... (64 words

How to get him out of my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - When i met my wife 23 years ago,she was dating a man who i knew and detested,she made it clear to me she had never slept with him,if she had i wouldn't have gone out with her.After a wonderful 23 years with her, i saw this man and asked her about him and you guessed it she did ... (125 words

I'm tired of being the other women.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - This guy and I were together for a long time, now he is dating another girl and he tells me that he still loves me, always hangs out with me and is always the first one to call or text me. He gets mad when I talk to other guys and still treats me like I'm still his girlfriend, ... (149 words

What to do if he never accepts responsibility.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - What should you do if you have a boyfriend who nevers accepts responsibility for his wrong doing or manipulates situations to make me feel i've done something wrong when i haven't. For example he was hiding his phone and i knew there was somthing wrong and when i questione... (192 words

Afraid to be hurt again. How do I deal with new girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm a 23 year old man. I was in a relationship a year ago but she betrayed me and now I am single.I'm now on the way to start a new relatioship with other girl.She is more beutiful, we have talked a lot and she seems much interestrd in me.I'm also much impressed by her.However, ... (127 words

Should I approach someone I know from a university website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi Have a slightly odd question... I'm at university, and once I signed up to the uni dating website kinda for a laugh with some mates, but then checked out the profiles and there was 1 girl i really the profile for. I then saw her around my department at uni yesterday a... (161 words

What is this lump I have in my groin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm a virgin, but i found a lump on my inner thigh which is sitting on the right side my vagina (the edge of the lip). Its not too hard but if i apply pressure to it, it does hurt a little bit. What is it ? Im really worried about it and i'm nervous/scared to got the doctors. ... (86 words

Seperated by college. He is doubtful of his love. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i've been in a relationship with my collegemate for 2yrs now..he's gone to london to further his studies..we made several arrangments n promises to stay together, etc. it's been 2months of long distance relationship, we've had a few minor adjustment problems but nothing we cant ... (82 words

Any tips on kissing, please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey Could anyone please give me tips on kissing I'm not such an experienced teenager so anything would help My boyfriend and I kiss often but I know I am not great at it... Too much tongue? or Should the guy take control? Anything thanks everyone... (50 words

She we move in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been dating for 4 months and we're absolutley in love, no doubt about it. We spend a lot of time together, I stay at his place 5-6 nights of the week. We both know we're gonna be with each other for a long time, and we have recently discussed moving in ... (110 words

I'm still like the other women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Feeling torn...meaning my heart. I have been in a long term relationship for 6 years. We had a child together. She is now 2. He is still legally married but has been separated for probably 5 1/2 years of our relationship. We recently moved from Texas to another state. ... (192 words

I'm not sure what to do. His ex and kids don't know about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am very jealous of my boyfriends kids and his ex. he was with her for nine years and they broke up in 1998. His kids or his ex do not know about me, and he tells me its none of her business. I don't have any kids and I think something else is going on. I have been with ... (123 words

I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my period was about not even a wh... (100 words

I'm burning myself just by loving him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello All My problem is very very completed. About me and my bf. We've been dating for nearly 2 years and planning to get married next year. Im 29 and he's 30 this year. Before we started this relationship I didnt know that he was getting married, but a week before his weddi... (482 words

What is he saying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

7 November 2007 (F - Why is he saying what he's saying? I broke up with my fiance a month ago, and told him to leave me alone, but just today he added me as a friend on myspace. I looked at his page, and it said he didn't have a girlfriend anymore and that he was free at last. I was pissed because ... (192 words

Any suggestions in calming my nerves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - When I go out on dates with guys, I usually am pretty fine. But sometimes during that date, my nerves get the best of me. I am always so excited to be spending time with people, and this includes friends too. I get so excited, I make myself nauseous without meaning to. I also ... (102 words

Her dream could affect her answer

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7 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - ummm i like this one girl and i always hang out with her after school and well everytime that i'm near her it kills me that i can't tell her how i feel because well i dont know how she would respond to it since her dream is to go to Japan one day and go to an art school there ... (98 words

Had a fling in NYC this weekend, do you think he will call me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok I know this is bad, but a cute waiter hit on me in NYC this weekend. He could not stop looking at me all through dinner, then when I asked for my check, he said he would pay for it if I stayed (a $200 tab). We went to another bar and ended up having sex at the end of the ... (205 words

I'm still friends with my ex, but my boyfriend is jealous, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am friends with my ex-fiance of 9 years and I am in a serious relationship now. But when it comes to talking or seein my ex, my boyfriend gets so furious and upset and it is costing our relationship! What should I do? ... (44 words

I just want to be single, but then I want a guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6013 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im a 15 year old girl and i have some major problems..well i am over my ex boyfriend, he left me about 2/3 months ago..and well i have a guy problem..im saying i cant stop thinking about guys and get them off my head, any guy will pop in my brain. I need this to stop. Yes i ... (107 words

I'm in a loving relationship, but I can't stop thinking abou my ex, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Please...im in need of relationship advice! I have an ex of which ive been split from since dec 2005/06. Im currently in another relationship with a guy whom i love dearly, but i just cant seem to get my ex out of my mind. For the past 2 year or so, he often pop's into my th... (236 words

Why can't I show him how much I care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - For some reason I have trouble showing my affection to my boyfriend. (Of 6 months) When I'm with him I feel awkward or unsure what to do about affection. But afterward I regret not having done something to show how I feel. When I'm alone I think of all the things I should ... (253 words

My mistress says she will leave her husband in 18months, but she still puts his interests above mine, does this mean she is not genuine in her desire to leave him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 November 2007 (M age - i am having an affair with a woman i met online. She is in a loveless relationship she has had for nearly 20 years. They also have 3 children who are nearly grown up. She tells me that once her youngest has graduated (about 18 months time) she will leave him to be with me. We... (167 words

My boyfriend goes on holidays that I cannot afford, yet he texts me about his wonderful time, is he being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok.My Bf went on holiday to Tenerife.he didnt invited me,but i didnt mind that at first.have very important exam session soon,and no much funds,so would ve been likely not to accepted if he would.The thing that annoys me is his sms from there. For.ex he would write me that he ... (269 words

Ant tips, I need a bf

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7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, im a 6th grader but im never single. this school year i havent had 1 single boyfriend!!! i cant stand it, my friends talk about kissing guys, i havent kissed a guy yet. i feel so left out, im not sure if any one likes me. I NEED A BF!!! Any tips or anything?... (55 words

She stares at me, does this mean she's interested?

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7 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi. So i've been going to a Physical Fitness Gym for sometime . I usually go with my friend to the gym and about 4 days ago he and I were both and the gym and he noticed a girl giving US a hard stare. Typically, just because its me and especially since I was with my f... (323 words

We were best friends, but neither of us could say how we really felt, now he's found someone else, what should I doo?

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7 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have Been hopelessly in love with my best friend for the past 3 years and im stuck. about 3 months ago i found out from a friend of his that he had felt the same about me and we were both afraid to tell eachother and he ended up dating ths girl and has been dating her for the ... (131 words

Dating different astrological signs.

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7 November 2007 (F - I was wondering if any scorpio men have dated a taurus women, or is still dating them and for how long...and all the troubles/conflicts that occured in their relationship. Just because, my relationship is scorpio/taurus, and its just like it says in the books i just won... (81 words

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