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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Which guy do I go for? Do I wait for the one "out of my league" or go for the one that is keen on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Please help i'm at uni right and theres these two guys, both of whom are like so lovely only 1's totally out of my leauge and the other kinda had a crush on me a while back, anyhow i lost my virginity to the second guy and kinda ignored the fact i liked him all last year cause ... (136 words)

My ex contacted me after a year of silence and is now sending me odd texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex contacted me after a year of silence. I was stunned naturally but I stayed completeley aloof and agreed to meet him up for drinks this Friday. It was all his suggestion. Oddly, he began laying terms and conditions on me like "I'm not ready for a relationship and us ... (234 words)

I'm 15 and he's 18, I've have spent time with him in a group but want more, am I wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ok well im 15 and i recently started hanging out with this guy not alone but in group company i see him now almost every weekend and occasionly through the week i really like him the one problem is that he is 18. we chat on instant messaging and he seems to he like me but i ... (146 words)

Do I see the guy that is nice to me but I have no attraction to or the guy who isnt so nice but I am attracted to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey what would you rather.. a lovely lad/ girl who is so nice but ya arnt attracted to... or a lad/girl you Really like but not as nice..? iv gotten with this lad i really like but broke up with him because he wasnt trying, but now he asking me back out and i still like him and ... (116 words)

I moved to be with him in California, but now he's a Jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with a guy on and off for the past two years. I was a sophmore in highschool when he left to go to school in California and I lived in New Jersey. We talked for the next two years without going out and I visited him in Cali twice. DUring the time I was in HS and ... (211 words)

My gf's sister and 4 year old loud niece are moving in. I want to help out family but feel this may be too much!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf's sister and her 4yr old niece are moving in with us. We live in a small 2bd condo and space is tight. Never before did I think that I would have a problem helping out "family" in a time of need but I do have some serious concerns regarding this living situation. First ... (156 words)

We've talked about having no strings attached sex, but I chickened out. Now he wants to continue to see me without mention of sex, can there be more to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt know my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready for a relation... (326 words)

I've been with her for 9 months but the last 2 months I wanted to breakup. I cant break up with her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - i have been dating this girl for almost 9 months now. for about the past 2 months ive wanted to break up with her. the reason for this is i realized how controlling she was and manipulative. i havent broken up with her yet because shes told me before that if we break up she'll ... (147 words)

My girlfriend is obsessed with her ex, how can I get her to let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfreind and i have been together 5 months i love her very much and she says she loves me but the problem is we got together 5 days after she split with her ex of 4yrs. He was her 1st love and i understand he will always have a place in her heart. I have supported her ... (160 words)

My friend might be anorexic, how can I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi. I think my friend might be anorexic. How can I know? What do you have to eat to be anorexic? How much do you have to exersise? Please help, I'm not sure what to do. I need to know exactly what makes someone anorexic, so i can see how serious this problem actually is... (55 words)

My boyfriend asked for a break, will we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - A few days ago, my boyfriend suggested that we take a break. He said that at the moment, school and work are taking a toll on him and our relationship is stressing him because he doesn't feel he has the time he needs to put into it. He said he just needs some time to figure ... (126 words)

We played truth or dare, what did my wife get up to?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. A bunch of us (about 12-14 people) were playing Truth or Dare a week ago at our house. My wife and I are happily married for a few years, and this is not the first time we have had 'semi-wild' parties (read, not swinger parties, just 'fun' parties). Anyway, only s... (373 words)

I'm feeling lonely and friendless and it's hurting my marriage, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - In explaining myself prior to asking my question, I will probably seem pathetic one moment and arrogant the next, but I'm neither. I'm just being completely honest about my personality and tendancies to give you an idea of how different things are for me. All throughout... (455 words)

He broke up with me, but I said we should take a break instead, he will come back to me wont he?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (?) age 22-25 - So, I get a call today as I'm leaving work and my love is like, "Something is wrong..." and I'm like," OK, what?" and he tells me he wants to tell me to my face...so I suddenly think, SHIT...this is bad. So, I come home, change, and make my place look a little presentable. Then ... (355 words)

We only just got married, and already things are falling apart, help me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got married about 2 months ago and we are already having major marital problems. We can't seem to get along at all anymore. We have been seeing a counsellor for months (even before we got married) but it isn't helping at all. I don't feel as though my husband is using ... (256 words)

Boyfriend walked out on me and the kids, apparently its my negativity, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My live in boyfriend left me about 3 weeks ago. We have been together for four and a half years. He was out of work for about a month and we struggled with money. He said he left because I was being to hard on him about him being jobless. We were raising my 2 children together, ... (126 words)

I love him, but he hates my family, how can I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - so i love this guy i have been with for two years. We have been pretty serious, and I really love him, but things are just so hard. He said he hates my family, and i'm not sure how to take that, because family is very important to me, and he is really close with his family. ... (189 words)

Is my boyfriend a perv?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been 2gether over a year and we've never had sex. We're both experienced in this dept but he was in a relationship with a MUCH younger girl (she was barely 17, he was 28). I feel like because I am 30 and not a "young buck" anymore, that this is why we have ... (150 words)

We dated, then broke up, now he wants me back but can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Right, well... I was going out with this guy over the summer for about 2 months, and at first it was really good, we really liked each other, but then he got very distant and cold, hardly ever texted me and avoided me like I was a walking disease. This really messed me up in ... (307 words)

I like him he like's me, he's married, is this why he won't reply to my messages now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ok this is driving me mad, this guy i like is married so i dont really see him that often,anyway ive been told he likes me, but i sent a text message to him today its not much just asking if i could meet up with him, hes still not written anything back. Do you think that he ... (85 words)

We only had a brief fling, now my neighbour won't talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this normal behaviour from a 54 year old man? He(R) lives across the road from me. 6 years ago when I moved in we got to know each other and I fell for him quickly and hard. When we tried to make love, he was unable to sustain his erection. Although I cuddled and kissed him ... (383 words)

My mind is blanking out for no reason and I am not remembering what I do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I need medical advice what to do. I am 14 and in the past few weeks I have had a few episodes where I don't remember what I have just done. For example, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to write a small list, I sat down with a pen and paper and then the next thing I ... (151 words)

I'm in love with a 35 year old man I met at a party. I'm only 18.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy at a party and i just noticed him because he was so cute. while I was sitting, he came to meet me and gave me his number. We've started communicating and spent some time together but the thing is he's 35 and I am 18. I look more matured than my age and he looks ... (86 words)

Broken hearted now we have moved so far apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - What should I do? I lived in a place down the South of England and I had my first ever boyfriend which means so much to me, but my dad got a new job and so we've moved way up to the North and now he's about 4 hours away from me. I miss him so much and I cry about him every ... (106 words)

Am I doing the right thing???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help someone please, I have finished with my husband of 19 years and I really don't want him back its over for good.... My problem is that I have fallen head over heals with a man ten years younger than me, we meet on holiday and he is the best thing that has happened to me i... (254 words)

I'm tired of being quiet and shy. I feel like I am weak!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

- Im sick of being so quiet and shy around people - I hardly speak to people even my own friends and only seem happy and chatty when Im drunk. People like my boss, some friends, and ex-boyfriends seem to take advantage of me because I must come across as weak byut inside Im ... (86 words)

How can I help out my sick mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hello, My mum had a problem when giving birth to her second child,(my sister) her insides got all mangled and she has had severe bowl problems ever since, getting worse and worse, meaning she cant be too far away from a toilet. I hate seeing her getting so worried that she... (114 words)

He says he doesn't love me anymore and I am beyond heartbroken.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 23 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend since we were both 17 and in highschool together. We've always had this great, trusting and loving relationship with each other. So far, we've managed to survive all the odds against us: We spent a year away from each other ... (369 words)

I like this guy, but am I just a booty call to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How do I know if this guy is into me? I have been seeing/dating this guy since August. We have been intimate sexually with each other. For him to contact me, I have to text him. If I dont text him, he doesnt contact me nor call me. If I send him a chain letter from my p... (160 words)

He went to bars the last 2 Fridays and now is under house arrest, I am afraid this will be a common occurance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been dating this guy for 8mo.He went to the bar the last 2Fri without me because I was late getting to his house.He's on housearrest until 7p on a DUI.I asked him if this was going to be a everyfri occurrance. He said I don't know after I pushed him for an answer and he ... (87 words)

The small things are killing me and I'm worried what the big things would do to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - This seems like such an inconsequential thing to ask as compared to some other questions here but its been bothering me for a while. We haven't been together for a long time, only about 5-6 months, but I think she's the greatest thing in the world, and I think thats the ... (186 words)

I'm 17 in university and he's 14 in high school, should we be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, well i am angelina the problem is that i am 17 and he is 14 he is still at the high school and i am at the university so many people think that we are in love but our age difference is the problem and for other way i am best friend of his sister so she is 17 too ... (79 words)

We're virgins and she wants to have sex, but I don't want to yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I'm in a bit of a predicament that I guess many males don't end up in. My girlfriend wants to have sex. We've known each other for over a year, so we're not just hooking up. However, we haven't done anything else involving sexual activity of any sort...She just wants to go ... (117 words)

Are women better than men in life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

- If this world is heading towards being more female, then what is the point for a guy to try to do anything in life. It doesn't help when your mum says us women are better than you lot at evrything. I've tried to prove her wrong but I've failed in every category. Is the abov... (59 words)

Quick orgasm - less pleasure for a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - If a man orgasms quickly does he enjoy it the same as if he lasted longer?... (16 words)

My husband lies.....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have only been married for 7 months. I have been with my husband for 6 years but these past few weeks have been hell. Here is my story. I saw a charge in our checking account for over 300.00 and I did not know where it came from. I called him he said he didn't know so I cal... (363 words)

Does a woman get a choice of whether she can have a Caesarean or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - if a person is pregnant do they ever get a choice of whether they have a caesarean section or not? my cousin is 6 months pregnant and shes scared of going through the birth. All answers would be appreciated, thank you... (43 words)

She says she loves me but can let an entire day without getting in contact with me? Am I hanging on too tight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months now continuously, we are in an odd predicament, by virtue of where we are, and who we work for in the world, we are not allowed to see each other, strictly professional. Well that did not happen, we connected instantly and have ... (291 words)

Surely it's ok to talk to other guys, if I'm not being flirty.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it ok to chat with other guys over the internet (like nexopia or myspace) when you have a boyfriend? If you aren't being flirty or anything and they are people you know from school or something? Do you have to tell your boyfriend what you are doing or is it no big deal? I ... (61 words)

I thought we were compatible and that he cared. Why did he stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know how to get over him and stop blaming myself, do you think a few months in Australia will help? I was dumped nearly two months ago now by my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm really finding it hard to cope and I am still crying my way through everyday. When I look back... (874 words)

How to get my ex back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex and I had something really special and we really cared for each other but we have now been done for 2 months. I still really love him and I know he still likes me. Ive reserched some on how to get an ex back sadly did some of the bad signs. Now though i've refreshe... (164 words)

Is she being fair to treat me like this? - says she hasn't been happy but doesn't want to talk about it.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, first a bit of background to this. I met my gf earlier this year. We hit it off straight away and fell in love quite quickly. We have just moved in together (about a month ago) and eveything has been going fantastically well. She stayed round her family's house on Friday ... (143 words)

My friends don't like him and I have now lost some of them as they think I have changed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I really like this lad, and he knows I'm a virgin and he said he thinks its good not just basing out relationship on sex and he really respects me, he said he wants to do it propa! the thing is i haven't told my mates because non of them like him. they said hes a prick and that... (142 words)

How can I support her best now her dad has died?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hey guys i need some advice on how to be more supportive and helpful to my gf during this tough time. Shes had a hard time this past year and now her dad has passed away. it wasn't expected and he wasn't ill. It has affected me as well because i've always seen her family as ... (156 words)

My girlfriend lives away and I have been having sex with my best mates girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have ... (344 words)

Do you think he will go back to his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was 19 i met my soul mate, he was 10 years older and had been married before with 2 children. we had a connection but after 6 months we broke up and he went back to his wife.(his wife had a affair which why they split), over the next 14 years i went in and out of bad ... (271 words)

I don't know how to get back the feelings of intimacy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have reconciled after being separated for 2 months and I have no desires to be with him intimately. When he kisses on me and/or hugs me, I feel more like cringing than kissing and/or hugging him back. When he wants to have sex, I can't wait for it to be over ... (177 words)

I feel so ashamed..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in my earlier 30S and am falling for my girl friend of 10 years daughter who is in early 20S dos this make me a sicko i feel ashamed of my behaviour. ... (34 words)

It seems to be a very one sided relationship and I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I need some advice on how to deal with my girl friend. I'm 22 and she is my first love. I'll try to paint a full picture for you by telling you a bit about her personality. A lot of the time she can be self centered, rude, spoiled, and egocentric, but when she's not any of... (748 words)

I want to parents to like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Theres this guy who i fell in love with over the summer. We dated for a short time, but we split up. Ever since i've been waiting to get back together, we've stayed mates and he's admitting to still liking me. The only problem is my parents wont let me see him cause i staye... (211 words)

Why does sex makes my wife sick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - So, my wife and I just got "back together" she cheated on me and i did on her. we split because i hit her. i got counceling and now we want to work things out. it's been a month and i convinced her to have sex. she says she wants to puke. and had hoped that time would ha... (132 words)

How do I tell if my supposedly hetersexual partner is really gay and prefers his best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship now for just over 3 years. I am 44 and my partner is 49. It has been suggested to me (and i've wondered) that he is gay. How would i know, being heterosexual and knowing nothing about gay men, if he really was gay trying to convince me, and the ... (176 words)

I have a feeling that my girlfriend may cheat on me... she's losing interest physically but wants to get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a feeling that my girlfriend may cheat on me. I have no problem with her looking at other men, I do however have a problem when she tries to get eye contact and has small talk with them. I dont know if it is me being strange but it makes me feel very worthless. I have ... (244 words)

Does he still want me, or is he only playing games with my mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im a 20year old women nd very confused! i split from my ex 3 months ago afta 2 nd half years together we also have a little son he been seeing someone else in that time he didnt want 2 know me or his son and now his girlfriend cheated on him he is saying he still loves me ... (186 words)

My fiance says this guy was just a friend, so why didn't she introduce him to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted yesterday

5 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have found out,that after years of being told Iam keeping secrets,that my fiance herself has had her own secrets. Basicaly,she has told lie after lie about who is on the other side of a phone number that keeps cropping up. She has finaly admitted it is a male friend she knew ... (144 words)

What is the meaning of life and the purpose of being a human?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Everybody should has its dream,me too.However,I donot know what to do exactly.Sometimes ,I just want to go abroad to live a different life;and sometimes ,I don't know what to do at all.The feeling is so terrible.Do not want to do anything,even sleep!The reason,I think,is I ... (138 words)

I'm happy in a new relationship so why does my ex boyfriend's rude behaviour still bother me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey all, Im writing cause previously i have asked for advice and your answers have really helped so here it goes, Me and my x broke up nearly 6 months ago we were together for 2 years. The break up was quite bad but in all honestly i cant quite remember why we broke up. ... (503 words)

The perfect christmas present is awfully expensive, will he feel bad about it if I buy it for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - guys pleaz answer this. would you fddel bad if your gf brought you something big for christmast? i want to get my guy a guitar. would that be okay? how would you feel if ur gf get you that? i am 16 and he is 20. he likes playing guitar alot. he actualy loves it. any advice ... (61 words)

My husband wont leave her. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He started communicating with his old girlfriend through email 7yrs after we got married. And it lasted for four years. They never got to see each other though because she was in another country. He said they never had closure so he just tried to close it. It was open in the ... (308 words)

How does one flirt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - I need help on flirting! My friends seem to be able to flirt with anyone but i just dont know how! Lads get so turned on by my friends,is there anything i can do to make them get turned on by me?... (43 words)

After 7 years, am I wasting my time?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I told my ex about four monthes ago that i still love him. we have one child together and split up seven years ago. We had a bad split ,both hurt and angry and he changed his mobile number so that i did not call him anymore. Since i told him (by email) four monthes ago that i ... (118 words)

I hinted that I like him (although I already have a bf), and he rejected me. How can I forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i fell in love with a guy called W..he is handsome..cute as well as caring..but i already have a boyfriend..i met W at my working place..to me it is a wonderful crush..we when out eating..shopping..walking as close as a pair of couple..but when i actually give him a bit of ... (69 words)

How can I make these stretch marks disappear?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 16 and i am a virgin but for the past year i have had stretch marks on my inner and outer thigh how can i make these go and why are they there.... (35 words)

How to delay your period? Starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, im on the pill (21 day pack) and am going on holiday soon. I heard you can stop your period for that month by starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true? and after that 2nd pack do you then leave it off for a week and get your period? please help. ... (57 words)

I met a married man 14 yrs ago. He is as good to me as always, but - still married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 55 female. I met a married man 14 years ago, he is now 44. I need out. I love him so much and he is as good to me as when we first met. I feel I am getting too old to make a new start and I don't think I can cope with not seeing him again. He is still married... (65 words)

I love my 27 year old teacher.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm in love with my teacher. He's 27, 13 years older than I, and please don't say anything like, "It's not love, just a crush, an infatuation, forget about him." I've already tried, but no matter how hard I try, I can't forget him. He's like a drug. An addiction that I... (248 words)

I'm worried that what we had will disappear

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 189 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. To cut to the chase, I was dating my girlfriend for almost a year. Since our first date, I could tell that we had something. I don't think we rushed in to it, yet we were talking about marriage and kids after a month. We clicked. She was nice and supportive and she ... (1031 words)

Is she trying to hurt me because she hurts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 189 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the other person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to; Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a te... (200 words)

I don't want to break up, but see no other solution.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm 23, and I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months. I love her, but I don't know if I respect her. I didn't find out until a week into our relationship - 2 years before she met me she had a 1 night stand with 1 of my friends. She said that shes not like that, and was ... (227 words)

I kissed a girl when I was drunk, should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - on the w/e for the first time in about a year i went out with mates n got really drunk n well a girl had been flirting with me b4 i got drunk but told her i had a gf so i thought she wouldn't try anything anyway after a lot of drinks a lot of us were watching a movie wen she ... (269 words)

My boyfriend has a fetish, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there I'm 21 and so is my boyfriend of nearly 3 years, and a few days ago he sprung it on me that he has a fetish for rubber. He could see myshocked expession i think and quickly changed the subject, ive been thinking and i don't really have any vices like that. wha... (67 words)

Need help with ex gf!!!(another one)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright, I'm in quite a pickly right now. It's the same old I want my ex girlfriend back story. This one is complicated and long so I'll do my best to keep it in detail and as short as possible. So yeah, my ex-gf and I dated for 2 years and 3 months. We had a ton of good time... (704 words)

Could I persuade my dad to not invite my half brother and his wife to the holidays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my half brother really angers me. this evening when he came by to talk to my dad about his job, his attitude towards me was very unwelcoming when he step foot in my house. This evening i told my half brother, why he took his anger out on me? he said to me i didn't know that i ... (204 words)

We were together for 5 years, now she wants nothing to do with me, is it time to let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

- Hi, Okay ladies, i need help please! My ex and I are broken up for 5 mos. now. we had been together for the past 5 years...she has resisted all attempts to communicate, except when I called her 1 mo. ago... She is in school again, and taking classes..very busy for h... (156 words)

My boyfriend won't commit, someone please help me figure him out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. We have seperated 2 times in the past over dumb things but have always worked things out. last week he told me that he needed time to think about where his life was going. Well that was like something straight out of the blue. I ... (258 words)

I'm sick of being a virgin, is it really this hard to lose it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi! well I would just like to get advice on sex, am a 19 year old virgin and I just dont get how can it be this hard? Ive avoided doing it before cause I think its too complicated and maybe Ill feel sad afterwards or Ill regret it.. what do you think? ... (53 words)

Can my friendship survive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is firing my best friend's husband. Can my friendship with her survive?... (14 words)

I'm nearly 17, how long should I wait before I move out with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 16 years old and will be 17 in december and I am with a guy thats 18 and well my parents strongly don't agree with what im doing. I am white and he is black, but see that don't bother me...But it seems to bother my parents. What can i honestly do to get out of the ... (221 words)

How can I stop my girl from laying on the guilt trips!,

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello all, Well I've been with my girlfriend with seven months now and we have the kind of relationship that I'm sure would make an outside observer a bit ill...lots of cuddling, lots of "I love you"s and "I love you more"s -- in other words, very smooth sailing up to th... (267 words)

I don't know what to choose, how do I decide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have now been together for 6 months. We're both seniors at the same school. And we're both each other's first serious relationship. He just told me last night (he'd never told me before) he wanted us to be together even after high school. But he told me h... (348 words)

I'm attracted to older men, but I don't want to end up marrying one, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - in the past 3 years ive been having trobles with guys, im 18 and im attracted to men twice my own age and every time i try to date someone my own age im not attracted to them or we just dont conect and it never works out, i just dont know what to do i dont want to marry a 40 ... (121 words)

I was just wondering if I call my boyfriend too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I was just wondering if I call my boyfriend too much? I call him any time I need to talk. If he doesn't answer the phone I will wait about an hour and then call again until he answers the phone. If he doesn't answer the phone by the time I go to bed I just don't bother a... (167 words)

Her boyfriend has a foot fetish.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

5 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who has a question, Her boyfriend has a foot fetish. Basically he likes her to stand on toy cars and things like that in chunky heeled boots and high heels. She says he's a really nice bloke but she doesn't know what to do? As she says it's not harming any... (112 words)

I'm back with my boyfriend, but his ex keeps interferring, she always there, has she got a sixth sense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

5 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I broke up for ablout 3 days, it was basically a build up of various stresses and busy lifestyle and lack of communication, and also a lack of time for each other and said communication. We're not a couple who break up and get back together every 2 weeks, t... (315 words)