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I'm 16 and pregnant, how do I tell my boyfriend who is overseas now?

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Question - (12 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A little help here guys?

Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!!

BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i have no doubt about that!

Im terrified and scared to tell him.

We talked about the risk after we accidentally got carried away he said he would be okay with it and we would decide what would be best for us and the baby.

But this baby was concieved in love and passion, so dont think that we would consider it a mistake.

I dont want to give my baby away, i want my boyfriend aswell. I think he would be alright with keeping it. But im still scared to tell him.

What should i do?

Any advice would be nice! Thanks

Lilly

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

First of all if your boyfriend really loves you and wants to be with you then he has to accept the baby too. since it took both of ya'll to make the baby he needs to be there for you and the baby.

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (13 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

Just tell your bf. If you had unprotected sex then he should be exoecting something like this. He needs to know and once he does then you can decide whay you are going to do. The longer you wait the harder it would be. Just tell him, it would be better for the both of you.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (13 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

Just tell your bf. If you had unprotected sex then he should be exoecting something like this. He needs to know and once he does then you can decide whay you are going to do. The longer you wait the harder it would be. Just tell him, it would be better for the both of you.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (13 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

the first people you need to tell are your parents.

You are so young, so you will undoubtedly need their support. As for your boyfriend, he is overseas and he has parents as well, you might have to accept the fact that his parents won't take this too well ( whatever his intentions ).

Just be prepared for the fallout, if you want to keep the baby it is your decison and nobody else's. It's your body!!

But you may have to face the fact that your boyfriend may not be as excited as you might think he would be and you will be bringing this baby up by yourself.

Hopefully you have supporting parents who can look after you after the birth, you will need them.

Good luck.

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