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writes:Haven't had a relationship with a girl for 15 years.Only been able to take 3 girls out for one night only in that time. I love female company and know a lot to talk to but have no idea how to get a partner or a girl as a friend.I have made a complete mess with girls and now while i go out with my mates i do enjoy myself but hurts when i see the ones i wanted with someone else.I really don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (12 November 2007):
 you want to get girls as friends and a partner? study how other guys do, listen to what the girl says and react, answer her and agree with her, be interested. need more advice? email me. all the best, faith
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): There really isn't a single formula that applies to everybody in terms of getting girls. Everybody is different and unique and has their own game. Your best bet is to accentuate your best features and use them to your advantage. For instance, some guys like to play it mysterious cause it works for them. Maybe they have a mysterious face or look and they know that is what gets girls. So they act nonchalant and girls melt. Some guys have an unbelievably charming personality and can just talk and have girls melt. Some guys don't have to do anything because they maybe have really good looks and girls melt. The point is that you don't have to be good looking or super charming to get girls. You just have to find out what it is about you that you can accentuate and use to your advantage in order to seem intriguing to girls. Like me for instance, I got game. But it took a little practice. But my best asset is my personality. I am extremely charming and I know how to get to a guys soft spot. And certain things that I wear or how I look give me more confidence in order to have my best game. So dress and style your self in a way that makes you feel good and confident. That is what you need to do but with girls. I mean nobody taught me how to have game. That is something that if you want you should figure out on your own. That's the best way. So go out and practice. You are going to fail the first few times. But failure is good because it teaches you what not to do. And in the process of elimination you realise what it is you should be doing. And remember that what works for you doesn't work for everybody. We are all different. So accentuate yourself by your own standards and capabilities. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Age is 39
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