New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

60049 questions, 258471 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in November, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (92), 2 (95), 3 (71), 4 (123), 5 (85), 6 (100), 7 (81), 8 (101), 9 (81), 10 (78),
11 (71), 12 (102), 13 (90), 14 (93), 15 (104), 16 (83), 17 (61), 18 (75), 19 (103), 20 (97),
21 (89), 22 (65), 23 (70), 24 (69), 25 (80), 26 (83), 27 (91), 28 (103), 29 (83), 30 (93),

Archived questions from: 27 November, 2007 (see latest questions)

(More questions from November, 2007)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We've been together 6 years and he still won't commit to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why has my boyfriend of 6 years never committed to me and just enjoys visiting twice/three times a week? He's not soft, he has his own flat and life. I am really fed up with the set up even though I think I love him and want some happiness exitement in my life.... (54 words)

Will conservative man suck the life out of fun lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a very conservative man for 6 years. I use the term conservative as a euphemism for bordering on boring. My children (19,21,26) see us as completely incompatible in this regard. Although they think he is an honest and likable enough person, they are ... (814 words)

I'm infatuated... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

- Hey -- you guys may think this is lame but, I feel so helpless..and not sure what to do. I moved to this new school to carry on into sixth form, and everyone knew each other, so I was obviously a bit out casted at first. I took a performing art subject and I didn't know any... (357 words)

He likes filming us having sex, why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advise, I have been involved with a guy on and off for 4 yrs. over the last 2 yrs he has asked if he can video he and I having sex. I did it then but was extremely paranoid when he kept it and didnt delete. a few months after he filmed it he told me i DIDNT give him ... (202 words)

Am I depressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Over the last 4 years my life has been hell, my auntie, grandma, uncle and grandad (who was my best friend) all died, I've been with my boyfriend two years and a year ago he kissed another girl, it was only a peck but it hurt so much I still haven't gotten over it. I know I ... (117 words)

School Dance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 12 and going to my first school dance. I'm pretty good and never even hugged a guy before. I can't dance either. What do I do if someone asks me to dance? I want to, but can't!... (38 words)

How do I tell my mum about this girl I so want to meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have a few issues that needed sorting. I'm getting there thanks to everyone on here. Anyway I'm 22 and to be honest I'm a secretive person. I don't tell my family I talk to people on the net because I believe it would be frowned upon. I'm close to my mum but I have been ... (167 words)

Torn between two...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a problem that I have been married for 20 years and am in love with two woman. I got married at 19 and have 2 older children. I never thought that I would ever be a cheater. My wife is one that has never supported career choices, investments ect.... (230 words)

His wife knows about his affair with me, in fact me and his wife go on trips together... is this relationship healthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear cupid, I am a 23 year old woman that needs help. My boyfriend is 44 and I love him very much. The only problem is that he is married and has been for about 15 years. I know now that he plans not to leave his wife and his wife and I both know about each other, sometime... (99 words)

Dazed and Confused... wrapped in a web

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for the past four years. We have a daughter who's two. We were having problems and I drew close to my ex boyfriend who has been my ex for the past seven years. He has a girlfriend but we both drew away from our partners. My boyfriend, r... (154 words)

Can someone help me here with my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I am very happy with my boyfriend, but I have noticed differences in him lately like when we were first going out he couldn't wait to see me and he would spend every moment with me. After college he would come see me most of the week or text/call/msn me but lately if I try and ... (365 words)

My ex wants us to be friends with benefits, but we never had sex during our 7 year relationship, help me figure this out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

- This is the situation. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago after a 7 year relationship. I cheated on her and I know I was wrong for doing so. We had been together all that time without having sex and I felt the need for intamcy. Thats a long story. I left her alone ... (259 words)

I don't get turned on at all, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I don't get turned on at all...No matter what my boyfriends or myself do, nothing really seems to turn me on..Is this normal?... (23 words)

I don't know how to convince here I have changed and we can make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 20 and I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, the first year was awesome but the next few months weren't and it's all my fault. She is my best friend's ex girlfriend and she kinda left him for me but me and him are still friends but these last few months I ... (223 words)

Problem in talking with boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have got this strange problem. I am in a relationship for 1-1/2 years. The problem which my bf says I have is only that I dont talk my heart out to him or make conversations. When he tells me abt things which I have done wrong or I have fault with me, I tend to keep quiet ... (147 words)

My boyfriend and I get along great... so why am I falling for this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we get along great, I love him to bits. We've been through at lot together and we have such a great connection. This is a long distance relationship though and although it can be annoying I know it won't be like that ... (152 words)

I'm in my first year of a civil engineering course and am struggling badly...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

- I'm doing civil engineering, I'm in my first year and I am struggling. In 2 modules I am doing really badly and these 2 I have exams in January for them. I've gone to counselling (not for that but self esteem issues) and I'm watching everything get thrown out. I have been ... (118 words)

We're so close as friends and are scared to take it further in case it ruins what we already have...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I asked a couple of months ago should I tell my best friend that I'm in love with her. We sat down and talked about it and we both feel the same way but both feel that it could break our over close bond. Anyone any got any advice on what to do?... (56 words)

Do you think I may have caught an STD from him and how would this be and how would this be if we have been faithful to each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

- Hi I was wondering if you guys will help me? I have a spot inside the lips of my vagina and I am very worried. I have been with my fella for 6 weeks, and both of us are faithful to each other. I had sex with him last Sunday and we also take precautions. Do you think I may ... (86 words)

Before we broke up, he told me he heard voices to tell him to hurt our son, shut his hands in the car door etc. What can I do to protect my child? I am afraid to leave him alone with his dad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My baby father is telling people that im being spitful and jealous stoping him seeing our son. I have stoped him seeing our son a few times because he keeps putting GF before my child and not steping up being a dad and showing responablity and thinks he can talk to me like ... (529 words)

I was too clingy for my ex, and now HE keeps trying to talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I broke up with my long-term boyfriend recently due to his starting at university; neither of us wanted to split, and he said (although it's unlikely) that once everything's out of the way, he might like to try a relationship again in the future. We just couldn't take the long ... (407 words)

Should I be worried about this furry white coating on my tongue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a white furry coating on my tongue and i am pretty sure that this is affecting my kissing abilities!How do i get rid of it?!... (27 words)

How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend split about 5 months ago. It was all because she had been hurt badly twice previously in other relationships and as we were about to get serious she backed off. In the last month or so we have seen each other a few times and she wants us to take things ... (111 words)

How can I get more respect from someone in a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get more respect from someone in a casual relationship? It's casual because we live some distance apart and lead quite separate lives, but when we're together it's fun. I have feelings for him but I know he's a commitment-phobe. Or so I thought, until recently I ... (140 words)

I found photos of her naked ex in our room!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little while ago, and as typical of ... (341 words)

Was it just a kiss, just this once?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Last week he kissed a girl that works at the gas station by his house. He's told me before that he's cheated on all of his girlfriends from the past, but that he didn't think he could do it to me. How do I move forward with the ... (67 words)

Is it possible to orgasm simultaneously with your partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend of several years and I have not had sex yet. We are both virgins. I have read that orgasm are very nice. How can I give her one? Is it possible to give her more than one? Is it possible for both of us to have one at the same time? ... (53 words)

What advice do you have about giving and receiving Cunnilingus? When is a right time to give one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I are in love. We are virgins and have not had sex yet. I understand that Cunnilingus are very pleasarable for woman. What advice do you have about giving and receiving Cunnilingus? How will I know when it is a good time to give her one? ... (49 words)

Taking nude photos of her while making love. Is this a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I would like to takes some nude photos of my woman. Perhaps I would also like to take some while we are making love. What advice do you have about doing this? ... (32 words)

Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such? ... (34 words)

I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk online. I realised that we had so m... (136 words)

My LD friend had always been unfailingly polite but became rude and uncaring when I mostly needed his support. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know where his head is at, and I was forced to leave even though I didn't want to. Here is the story: My LD friend and I grew much closer than friends over time. We've visited each other a few times, but the last time was the only time we seemed to clash a bit. ... (416 words)

Thought we were saving our marriage (after his having had an affair), until he became depressed and I found out he bought her a present. Uninterestedly? How can I believe he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - a few months ago my husband came home devastated because an affair that started late last year was ended in the spring of this year by the other women. he said that he was still in love with me, but had fallen in love with her, i admit our relationship wasn't perfect, i was ... (431 words)

I wanna go down on my boyfriend, but my mouth is too small!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, well the thing is: i wanna go down on my bf, i tried it once but my mouth is small, and his thing is big, and i wanna do it for him. any solution? :S... (38 words)

My husband has cheated twice! I forgave him the first time, now he says it will not happen again. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi cupid! this's my first time here. I dont know what to say and i still cant get rid of it. I'm married with military and move myself to live in Japan for 2 years before we move back to states. My husband is younger than me 7 years. We have 2 kids one 4 years old and the ... (238 words)

Should I be upset that on the first night of meeting my present girlfriend, she left with another dude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for one year. The other day she said she had something that she had been hiding from me. On the night that I met her, she had a casual sexual encounter with a mutual friend of ours. Now granted, we had just met (scheduled a date for a few days ... (98 words)

My mother asked to take my kids to see a Christmas time ballet. She bought the tickets before I could agree to this, now I have tensions with my wife too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Opionions needed. My Dad past away suddenly this past June. Since then my Mom seem to have boundary issues. She asked to take my Kids to see a local christmas time ballet. I requested that she not buy tickets yet until I check with my wife to see if anything has already be ... (139 words)

He prefers not seeing each other every day, only in weekends - and not calling either. Isn't a relationship having one life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (?) age 18-21 - Hi, I ve been with my bf for 2 years, im 20 hes 22. We love each other very much. I depend so much on him, i like callin him everyday, talkin to him, see him in college between classes if i can. I cant get enough from seein him. But he doesnt like that, he rathers if ... (197 words)

What can I say to my teacher, when he confronts me about my crush on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Sorry if this is long... Right, On monday i made an appointment with the school nurse to discuss my problem over a teacher. I just went into details of how this situation is affecting me emotionally and also having such an impact on my life, etc. It did help that i got it of... (614 words)

Raising our son at home and my bf is mad because 'he makes all the money'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hiya i have a ten month old son and i dont wont ot go to work yet, my boyfriend always tells me that he makes the money he pays for everything. i know that!! i have look for a job to do at home so i dont wont to miss out on my sons life, i have depression and i have given... (233 words)

Losing my virginity soon..and need some questions answered...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 and hoping to lose my virginity to my bf of 4 months whos 20, i know many people will think that this is to soon but i know he's the one. He makes me feel so loved and gives me butterflies everytime he calls and i've never felt this way about any guy before.I trust him ... (126 words)

He complains that I'm "too wet" when we make love!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just divorced my husband and met this man 18 years older than me. I am 45. This man is very good in bed. I've got turn on without minutes and gets very wet. He complains he couldnt feel anything when I am wet. He talks like its my fault that annoys me. I cant help it ... (79 words)

I like seeing him... but only at weekends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 47 just divorced. We've been married for 22 years. The last four year we only see each other at weekends. I was very unhappy and finally decided to end it. Then I met this man 18 years older than me. He's single without children. We get on well. We've been together ... (99 words)

Would dating this older guy, my uncle's buddy, be a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi.A couple of nights ago,i bumped into a man i've seen before, in a nightclub.I last saw him last year and when he saw me then he said he thought i was sexy !.That was the first time i saw him.I was out with my uncle,This man knows my uncle and some more family members.I'm not ... (283 words)

He loves me but he has feelings for someone else?? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my ex boyfriend and i were dating for 4 years and we broke up 6 months ago and we recently started seeing each other and he told me he still loves me but he has feelings for someone elese should i wait for him to come back to me ar let him go i still love him?... (57 words)

She's amazing but I'm just not sure what to do in this situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I dated this girl when i was 15 and we broke up and i didnt see her again till this year we are now both 20 and we started dating agian, there is something about this girl that i cannot stop thinking about! she is amazing and i feel things with her i have never felt before. The ... (143 words)

Breakthrough Bleeding... What's Normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been taking birth control for a few months now. I'm going on a big vacation with my fiance in a few days so I went ahead and took the next pack of birth control pills so I'd 'skip' a period. Never done this before but I did all the research beforehand. Anyway, now I'm ... (111 words)

Tips needed on how to tell these guys, what I'm thinking here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - theres this boy in my life i have only met him recently, i really like him but i feel he is preasuring me to have sex with him but dont know how to tell him im not ready but theres this other boy i really want to be with i know he really like me to, but dont know how to tell ... (77 words)

Because I have liked this guy for 6 years, I have rejected all other guys! Help me get over this guy and move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I do not really know when to move on. There is this guy that i have know for 6 years now and still counting. I really like him so much. in fact, during graduation i told him that i love him but he said he cannot reciprocate my feeling. until now i still love him. i have ... (80 words)

He doesn't want her but wants me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy in 1995 on holiday we have been in contact ever since, he now says he isnt happy with her and want to be with me. what do i do?... (34 words)

I want my married gf..not my long term gf..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i'm dating someone for 3 years but have been seeing a married woman for 1 yr. i love them both but its the married woman i want to be with. she's now pregnant and even in spite of this i want to be with her. she wanted to leave her husband about 6 months ago, but since she ... (152 words)

Is my marriage dead with little hope of us falling in love again and starting new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 12 years and have four young children. Over the past few years my marriage has been under stress and was made somewhat better from counseling early this year. The counseling helped me deal with anger issues and resentment which mostly stemmed from little ... (512 words)

My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions attended swingers parties and through them hooked up and had sex with other couples. We have been married four years. She said she enjoyed... (275 words)

My husband posts dirty ads to get off... Will this pattern repeat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my 2nd husband a year ago and we have been married for 4 months now. 5 months into our relationship i found a recent an email on his laptop to a female colleague where he was prompting her for an answer if he would want sex with her again as they were intimate once upon a ... (294 words)

My daughter's father keeps spreading lies to his girlfriend about things I supposedly said about her. What comes around... goes around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone here belive in Karma (what goes around comes around). My daughter's father keeps telling and spreading lies to his girlfriend saying ive said things about her which is not ture and he says to me she says things about me. Do lies really catch up with you. Ive... (114 words)

How do 'open' relationships work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a woman and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly 7 years. We love each other and get on really well. The problem is lately I've been having some very straight feelings and getting curious about guys. Then I met this amazing guy who I really like and... (195 words)

We have been intimate for 4 yrs yet he is awful to me in public and denies we have a relation. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been sleepin with this boy for 4 years but hes awful to me infront of people and denies sleeping with me?... (23 words)

She's a very hurtful friend..should I sever all tie with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have had a really big arguement with a friend about 2 weeks ago. We haven't spoken since. I don't really know if I want to make it up with her, because this is not the first time we've had such big arguements. The last one we had was before a holiday and when we went back to ... (187 words)

Shall I carry on and have fun or stop before I get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - need help.. i have split up with my long term boy friend..never through i would get over him, he keeps texting me/calling me ect.. BUT i have been seeing this lad, he makes me feel so special, but he has a gf!! so i think he is using me... he is 16 years older then me and i ... (105 words)

She's got another guy and I missed my chance. Should I be friends with her, then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back. Now according to facebook... (109 words)

I know he has moved on, so why can't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Well all these feelings started last night when I went to a concert, and saw at least 20 people who resembled my ex boyfriend, once of which, my friend was getting close with. It sort of hit home that I'm not over him yet, and I really miss how it was. But now it feels like no... (161 words)

Do you think I should ask him who this other woman is?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

- Hi, So I'm a paranoid wreck at the moment. My boyfriend was working in England for the last 3 weeks. I missed him very much and I think he felt the same. He arrived back on Sunday and everything is fine. The thing is, this morning when I was getting up for work I saw his work ... (209 words)

One of my boobs are bigger than the other. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boobs dont look the same. One looks bigger than the other. Is that normal? Will I ever grow out of that? please please please help me!!!! thank you... (35 words)

I want to be MORE than just his friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My best guy friend and I have known each other for over a year now, we're such close friends.We talk about everything. We always have soo much fun together.We've gotton drunk with each other acouple times, and have tried the whole "friends with benefits", didnt work out so ... (151 words)

Does my crush like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

27 November 2007 (?) age 16-17 - how do i tell if my crush likes me? i'm natuley blonde so i act dumb sometimes. when i first moved here i didn't notic him at first until this boy that picks on every day.he stars at me and finds thing to anoy me.every day he would say oh this boy likes me then the next da... (1098 words)

I've met a great guy, but I find myself drawn to my old boyfriend who is gay,what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a boyfiend who loves me. There is also an idiot boy that I fancied for ages. I had an almost obessive crush on him. He was handsome and ever so flirty and nice and nominated me "his favorite girl". We had a 'thing' about two years ago. We both do music an... (377 words)

Do you think she wants to take a break?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 4 or 5 years now. She is the sweetest girl and is family oriented and a genuinely good person. We went on trips across the country, hung out every day over summers -- basically did everything together. ... (478 words)

Wife has affair with old man????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is a beautiful 39 year old woman and and she is a secretary in a State Social Services Office and a 65 year old superior who came to her office started an affair that lasted for 3 months before I found out. It has been 2 years and only now have I found out it wasnt this ... (171 words)

I hooked up with this guy , he said call me, but I don't do that, why hasn't he called me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy at work.. I wasnt really interested at first. But then we went out a few times after work with other co-workers, and got along and it was apparent that we were attracted to eachother. The first night we hung out he gave me tickets to his show, and I went the next ... (555 words)

How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have this friend that's a guy he was my best friend for 3 year then we decided to go outbecause we were becoming more and more closer and more and more jealous of like when he goes on a date with a girl or when I go on a date wit a gu,you know. Well it jus didn't work between ... (341 words)

Making out... what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - OK so I'm kind of unfamiliar with all this stuff, I just turned 17 and I went over to this guys house who's had sex with plenty of women and anyways we had only hugged before and so somehow we end up on his bed intertwined and he's kissing my neck, ears blah blah and like ... (210 words)

Do you know any teasing techniques?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey I was just wondering if anyone knew of any teasing techniques that I can use on my boyfriend. He told me that I couldn't turn him on by teasing him so I'm trying to prove him wrong. So my queston is do you know any teasing techniques?... (48 words)

Hopelessly promiscuous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a huge problem in relationships. I don't know what to do. When I get in a relationship I automatically start thinking about other girls and who I would cheat on her with. I cant even fantasize about any of my g/f's it makes me sick I have to think of another girl. Am ... (105 words)

Is he interested? I'm so confused...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - So there is this teacher who I have a good relationship with, and I consider him a friend since I’ve known him for about three years, but I wonder if he thinks of me more than that. Like he asked me where my “attachment” (boyfriend) was when he didn't see me with my boyfriend ... (211 words)

What can I do to alleviate this guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have a girlfriend and I love her her very very very much. I have another friend who is kind of attractive, and she has had a crush on me for a while....I kissed her twice, but never really felt, or wanted it. I just couldn't stop it the first two times, and I always did then ... (146 words)

I like my flatmate...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey. I'm 18 and I like my flatmate. However, recently he found a note under my mattress saying that I liked him. This was really uncomfortable, but, basically, to clear things up as the situation was getting out of hand, i said that i did like him in the first two weeks we ... (276 words)

I lost my best friend after my controlling boyfriend wouldnt let me talk to him, how can I get him to be friends with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

- I really want my best friend back! We have been friends for about 2 years and for most of that time we were really close, best friends, until I started dating my now ex bf. My friend didnt like him, he thought he was bad for me, which I didnt realise at the time. Turned out he ... (554 words)

I was going out with a control freak, but then again was it my fault he was like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I knew things between my ex and I were changing the weekend he went away on vacation snowmobiling for 5 days with his friends. I didn't live with him at the time, and the night before his trip he yelled at me because I didn't have the oufit he was going to wear in the morning ... (307 words)

My jealousy might end my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My current boyfriend Michael and I have been dating for 3 months. Our relationship is amazing. I've known him since i was real little because we used to go to church together. But we never talked at all then. And then just one day i saw him and found him on myyearbook.com and ... (414 words)

I'm paranoid about the fact that her best friend is a guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm wondering if I have cause for concern here... I think I'm going to be starting a relationship with a girl soon (we hooked up, and we talk to each other daily, so things seem to be going pretty good) but I'm paranoid by the fact her best friend is a guy. Maybe I am just b... (179 words)

My wife and a friend flirted at a party, she says I'm overreacting, I don't think I am , whose right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have been married to my wife, Tracy for 18 years. I find my wife beautiful and I adore her, complimenting her whenever I can, although this is rarely reciprocated. Recently we met my wife’s cousin, her husband Trevor and some of our immediate family in a loc... (1101 words)

Are we illegal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - In 2007 Girl: Turned sixteen years old in late June. Guy: Turned twenty years old in middle October. That is 3 years and 3 months age difference... ...Been dating for a while now... Legal? P.S. From Washington State... (50 words)

Help! Is he going to be like this forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My partner has recently quit smoking and drinking. What once seemed a happy environment has turned stressful and the whole relationship has been replaced with negativity. Is this just a phase or is it going to be like this forever? ... (40 words)

We had a night of drunken sex, it was my first time, he's now avoiding me, did I do something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I had sex for the first time in my life. i'm freshman in college, he's 25. i was totally drunk and i kept telling him that i'm not going to have sex with him no matter what, but i guess i just didn't make it clear- didn't really push him away and ended up having sex. he ... (353 words)

Do I need therapy to get over my second love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Well what can I say? I've been frequenting this site every day since I discovered it after I split up with my ex. We split up 3 weeks ago but have only had no contact for a week. I'm quite chuffed I've managed to stop myself from getting in touch. Why am I STILL hung up on... (701 words)

A stupid treatable disease caused the breakup of my marriage. I am so bitter now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I caught a disease, UTI to be exact that caused a deterioration of my marriage with my wife. The symptoms I had were constant fatigue, headaches, and fevers every other night. My wife who happens to work in the medical field as an EMT ignored my symptoms. She called me lazy ... (211 words)

Mistakes? What to do...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i'm freshman in college, never ever had boyfriend in my life- and never had crush on anyone (well, i did have crushes that lasted for like a few weeks but nothing more than that) I was homeschooled throughout my life and i come from an asian country where things are... (476 words)

Could the age difference have something to do with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I'm 19 and I work with the guy I like. What do I do when he said that he won't have a relationship with a co-worker? And one of our friends say's that they're sure it's not that he doesn't like me. There is also an age differents he's 34, could this have anything to do with ... (60 words)

We did it every day, now my husband relieves himself to Internet porn, I'm getting nothing, please help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been married for over 15 years we ve had normal ups and downs over the years but nothing extreme. our sex life has been excellent usually every day sometimes more than once i had no complaints.i recently had to accept a job working the night shift th... (260 words)

I'm falling in love with a newly married man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm falling in love with a newly married man. We've recently become good friends and I see him all the time. Now he's invited me over to his place and I really want something to happen but I'm sure it never will. What do I do?... (46 words)

I cheated, but he didnt show any interest in me, should I get back with my boyfriend or wait for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

27 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, i was goin out with my boyfriend for 4 years, about 3 months before we broke up i met a guy i known from school out clubbin i always really liked him and very attracted to him so i brought him back to my place (after lots to drink) and i had sex with him.... after that i ... (207 words)